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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi fabbers. Have been trying to figure this out but need some guidance please.

Have been on fabs for quite a while and have always just met with single males, however my curiosity has got the better of me and I would like to meet a m/f couple.

I'm just unsure of the best way to go about this. Obviously as this is very new to me how do I go around finding the right couple with whom I would feel comfortable enough with?

With the single males I've always met for a social first, is this acceptable in a couple meeting a single female situation?

I have posted a social meet up as that's all I could think of doing.

Any advice from you experienced couples swingers will be hugely appreciated

D x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't meet single women but we always meet socially first with no exception. I think anyone would respect your wishes and would say that if they don't you shouldn't meet them. As a single woman wanting to meet couples you will have no shortage or offers.

Personally I think all singles of whatever gender should meet socially with couples first.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I agree, you would be better to meet socially first, but before that, have a conversation about what you're looking for and what they are looking for too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't see it as all that different to be honest.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Best to have a social with the couple. From there you can discuss what you are expecting from the meet and their expectations too. As a couple meeting a straight single fem is very different from meeting a bi fem. You will also get to see the couple dynamic and they can also work out whether you are for them as a couple or just a single fem who is really only after a man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male? "

This is where part of the curiosity comes in, never been with a woman so guess would have to be a bi-fem

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male?

This is where part of the curiosity comes in, never been with a woman so guess would have to be a bi-fem"

You'll definitely need a social to hash out boundaries and comfort level, then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.

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Yeah. Some couples seem to think that bi fems are disposable playthings. You deserve and should demand respect as an equal party (to anyone).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.

"

Have to get myself one of those then lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As you’re now a unicorn, I’d hire a secretary to cope with the influx of email. Once you’ve got through that lot and picked a few candidates I’d stick to whatever has worked for you in the past; people shouldn’t be demanding that you relax your safety measures.

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Nobody has... Yet.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hello, as you are straight are you planning to only play with the male?

This is where part of the curiosity comes in, never been with a woman so guess would have to be a bi-fem"

Ok, so as others have said, definitely a social, as this is new to you, that way you can all see if you may be compatible in your expectations. Good luck and have fun

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say a social as well!!!! Though as a single guy I have met couples and play has just been natural, though for repeat plays boundaries set

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