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What's with all the timewasters in the midlands at the moment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now"

They're all at Chameleons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you defining timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move?! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

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+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?

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By *entscotscplCouple
over a year ago

falkirk ish

tbh we do not think its just in your area

as we have learned its pointless ranting here we suggest put it under your belt

move on

as there are some real genuines out there

hang on in there dont let the majority destroy it for all us in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?"

All you can do is keep trying and have patience, tarnishing every person from the west mids with the same brush wont get you anywhere either.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?"

Sounds like you saved some time there by not meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha "

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not saying everyone in the mids is a timewaster, just that there seems to be a lot appearing all of a sudden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?"

Not a criticism, but have you looked at where u are going wrong? Or what you are doing? For instance, do these 2 scenarios have an element of "to good to be true"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying everyone in the mids is a timewaster, just that there seems to be a lot appearing all of a sudden."

Like someone else has said, you will get them no matter what area your in. Its something we all have a problem with from time to time. I dont know how you go about meets but maybe try taking more time getting to know them before arranging something????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're all over the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific.... "

Uh oh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Have met some genuine people on here, but seem to be on a run of fakes. Feel better for getting it off my chest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its a new year thing.. people deciding to be new and into things... and signing up.. then realising that they will meet a stranger for sex.

I got accused today of being a wind up merchant because I wouldnt meet someone..no doubt the fact we had exchanged three messages.. the fact when I got his face photo I didnt like him.. means I didnt waste anymore time.. but hey ho..

thats life

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific....

Uh oh "

Hmmmm not sure 'Uh ho' is quite the desired response....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go have a wank instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific....

Uh oh

Hmmmm not sure 'Uh ho' is quite the desired response.... "

I wanted to be different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No more moaning! Onwards and upwards!

Will the real fab swingers please stand up!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific....

Uh oh

Hmmmm not sure 'Uh ho' is quite the desired response....

I wanted to be different "

;) Mission accomplished.....lol damn being 36

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?"

how are they timewasters...if you allow them to waste your time then you need to look at your selection criteria...

as i said on another thread, the only useful definition is the one you can report people for...not turning up for an arranged meet with no explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific....

Uh oh

Hmmmm not sure 'Uh ho' is quite the desired response....

I wanted to be different

;) Mission accomplished.....lol damn being 36 "

If you look like Brad Pitt i might be willing to make an exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move?! lol

+1....If you dont like us go sod off somewhere else haha

Mmmmm, think I might have to move TO the midlands,Wolverhampton to be more specific....

Uh oh

Hmmmm not sure 'Uh ho' is quite the desired response....

I wanted to be different

;) Mission accomplished.....lol damn being 36

If you look like Brad Pitt i might be willing to make an exception "

Ummmm, more like arm pitt than brad pitt damn it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

im in the mids and am genuine!!!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?"

see this is why the word "timewaster is such an easy word the bander around... because in scenario 1, I would not have even start getting ready to meet anyone without an address to go to, or having a chat with someone first.....

do I consider that to be time wasted... not for me... i would have been on my computer and doing other things till i got that information...

scenario 2.... again i wouldn't have started getting ready till i at least confirmed it with someone..... again do i consider that to be time wasted..... not really, again i haven't left my house, people get cold feet, people have emergencies ect ect ect....

people are very quick to throw round the word "timewaster" and profess to want to "name and shame..." but that is very easy to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?

see this is why the word "timewaster is such an easy word the bander around... because in scenario 1, I would not have even start getting ready to meet anyone without an address to go to, or having a chat with someone first.....

do I consider that to be time wasted... not for me... i would have been on my computer and doing other things till i got that information...

scenario 2.... again i wouldn't have started getting ready till i at least confirmed it with someone..... again do i consider that to be time wasted..... not really, again i haven't left my house, people get cold feet, people have emergencies ect ect ect....

people are very quick to throw round the word "timewaster" and profess to want to "name and shame..." but that is very easy to do!"

+1 - Bang on!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"People who chat, say they want a meet (at say 7pm), but then cannot provide an address, or their phone is broken so you can't call them.

Or those that arrange a meet for a Sunday night, time to be decided. Then they don't reply to your message when you query what time.

Just a couple of examples. Makes you feel like naming and shaming, but where would that get us?"

Banned?

To be honest one example you gave are a bit dodgy for me.

If I was a single male I would be wary of someone arranging a meet with a time and not having had a conversation on cam or phone before hand.

I would say maybe use your gut instinct more, if it seems too good to be true, it normally is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now"

im doing ok

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now"

It's the time of year.... they all move south for the winter. Give it a couple of months and they'll be back up north.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im in the mids and am genuine!!!!!! "

me too fancy a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no mate its getting hard every area ,this site should be renamed the wank site coz thats all there is ,youd be better paying premium on other sites as timewasters and dick heads would not be alloed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most single guys on here are either ugly as sin ,or have no penis ,the truth is that this site is ,and always will bow down to timewasters and pigs as with the nicer sites they do get rid and can tell a timewaster within hours ,lets all go somewhere else and leave this site for all the cam wankers ,and maybe we can all get a deacent meet xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd like to thank the OP for keeping the "time wasters" busy so the rest of us can keep on partying.

The Midlands - both west & east - are buzzing.

Thanks, mate.. You're doing the rest of us a great service

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"most single guys on here are either ugly as sin ,or have no penis ,the truth is that this site is ,and always will bow down to timewasters and pigs as with the nicer sites they do get rid and can tell a timewaster within hours ,lets all go somewhere else and leave this site for all the cam wankers ,and maybe we can all get a deacent meet xxx"

or have no penis

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now

They're all at Chameleons. "

i went this afternoon very dull and 1 bloke just walked up to me no hello and said shall we find a private room. erm er no lol i didnt want his name or life history but i wated to be mildly attracted and wnat o play.

live and learn

next time a friday night yay

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By *rumalexMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

lol i love the no penis bit

i'm in the midlands i dont do the clubs and the socials, and i think i do ok so i wouldn't knock people in the midlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one last night he drove all the way from Boston to Peterborough was here all of 5 mins said he had left something in the car and did a runner I am not that scary lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now

It's the time of year.... they all move south for the winter. Give it a couple of months and they'll be back up north."

Up north? Are you off your conkers lass? Walsall is practically southern compared to me, so I'd be royally fucked if that theory held water...

Yet I've yet to encounter a single so-called "timewaster" in two years of gleeful tomfoolery!

Maybe they are all moving east and north instead...goody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most single guys on here are either ugly as sin ,or have no penis ,the truth is that this site is ,and always will bow down to timewasters and pigs as with the nicer sites they do get rid and can tell a timewaster within hours ,lets all go somewhere else and leave this site for all the cam wankers ,and maybe we can all get a deacent meet xxx"

Shut the door on way out please and let us that think it is a great site get on and enjoy it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"most single guys on here are either ugly as sin ,or have no penis ,the truth is that this site is ,and always will bow down to timewasters and pigs as with the nicer sites they do get rid and can tell a timewaster within hours ,lets all go somewhere else and leave this site for all the cam wankers ,and maybe we can all get a deacent meet xxx"

This is just a hunch, but you don't sound too happy tonight.

I wonder if the men with no penis are really women then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recommended this site a male friend that I had known for years, within the first two weeks he had a meet and has had more since.

Maybe it's how people approach others, maybe it's pot luck, who knows.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Firstly, you will noticably find the Midlands full of time wasters as I doubt you try to arrange meets in other counties so how would you know?

Secondly, I like a bit of banter with someone before I get to the 'When shall we meet' bit. Have you considered that you might be a bit pushy and that's why you get that reaction? People don't like to feel pressured and will meet when they are ready. All you will do by being pushy is put people off.

Ask once, if no response, move on. Saves your dignity too. If you adopt this you may find your self being less stressed, negative and bitter. Other off putting traits.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just consider the following

Anyone can set up a profile!

Anyone can write anything in it to suggest they in say the West Midlands!

Anyone can go into chat and write what they want either fictitiously or truthfully but how would you know?

Some people are genuine, some are nervous, some are keyboard/mouse jockeys coming in here for a quick thrill....

Some people are secretive some are not

Some people's plans may change some people's plans may not.

When you weigh all that up then you can understand that some people are genuine and some are not NO matter where they state they live on there Profile.

Mark and Jayne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder to find a genuine meet in the west midlands at the moment? Seriously getting fed up with it now

im doing ok "

There always has to be one who gloats!

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