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"A what ? My thoughts exactly. Lol" Google it lol It's a scale of hetro-homosexuality | |||
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"A what ? My thoughts exactly. Lol" It's safe to Google this one | |||
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"This is actually a perfect way to settle the “bi” question once and for all. Just post this on your profile. Fab could do worse than to incorporate this into the profile stats." | |||
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"Big fat 0" Bad luck mate better luck next time ah. | |||
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"I land around 2 or 3 generally, I'm fairly fluid with my sexuality so it can vary a fair amount but I centre around 2.5." Me too. | |||
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"Anywhere between a 3 and a 6 depending on how much men are pissing me off " | |||
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"This is actually a perfect way to settle the “bi” question once and for all. Just post this on your profile. Fab could do worse than to incorporate this into the profile stats." | |||
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"A what ?" The Kinsey Scale, picture this.. 0 is 100% straight, 6 is 100% gay and 1-5 measures how bi-sexual you are.. | |||
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"I’m also a 2. Not a bad idea to add this to people’s profiles - although of course very few people would be honest about it. Shame, because seeing how many people are in the middle and not a 0 or a 6 might encourage some of the reactionaries on here to wind their necks in. " At the end of the day, it’s still straight, bisexual and gay scale, with 1-5 being bi, so either/or will still work | |||
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"-2" So straight it hurts... Not just you but everyone around you? Sounds about right | |||
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"-2 So straight it hurts... Not just you but everyone around you? Sounds about right" Don't think I would cope with all the sex I'd be having if I was bi anyway. | |||
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"-2 So straight it hurts... Not just you but everyone around you? Sounds about right Don't think I would cope with all the sex I'd be having if I was bi anyway." No, it takes a strong constitution to cope with it. | |||
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"-2 So straight it hurts... Not just you but everyone around you? Sounds about right Don't think I would cope with all the sex I'd be having if I was bi anyway. No, it takes a strong constitution to cope with it." I've been a gay bar once with a bisexual friend who was a DJ at a Swingers club. I was told a load of women go. Trying to pull a lesbian is like getting blood from a stone haha. I was outside an a guy said to me "Aren't you Butch" I said "No, I'm just Straight" | |||
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"Personally I think fab could do a lot worse than to incorporate this into their profiles" ----------- Damn, wish I had thought of saying that. | |||
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"Personally I think fab could do a lot worse than to incorporate this into their profiles" Easy 0 = Straight 1-5 = Bi 6= Gay | |||
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"Personally I think fab could do a lot worse than to incorporate this into their profiles Easy 0 = Straight 1-5 = Bi 6= Gay " ----- My, how we laughed | |||
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"Interesting point but does who you have sex with define your sexuality? If someone has a same sex experience and enjoys it does it really make them gay/ bi? Personally I don't think who you fuck defines your sexuality, which I view as who you'd want to date/ fall in love with. If you're not unhappy having a little play with the same sex but wouldn't dream of having a relationship with them then in my mind you're probably hetro-flexible or straight. Does getting a hard on over something mean that's someone you're attracted to? Or do you just like doing "naughty" things and it's the illicitness of it that is the turn on as opposed to the person you're doing it with? I personally think if you wouldn't love/ date/ be mentally attracted to someone of the same sex then you're straight. YMMV! " No, this is wishful thinking. | |||
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" No, this is wishful thinking. Why? " Because evidence, rationality and reality are against you. | |||
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"Interesting point but does who you have sex with define your sexuality? If someone has a same sex experience and enjoys it does it really make them gay/ bi? Personally I don't think who you fuck defines your sexuality, which I view as who you'd want to date/ fall in love with. If you're not unhappy having a little play with the same sex but wouldn't dream of having a relationship with them then in my mind you're probably hetro-flexible or straight. Does getting a hard on over something mean that's someone you're attracted to? Or do you just like doing "naughty" things and it's the illicitness of it that is the turn on as opposed to the person you're doing it with? I personally think if you wouldn't love/ date/ be mentally attracted to someone of the same sex then you're straight. YMMV! " Hence why it’s called sexuality and not marryuality | |||
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"Interesting point but does who you have sex with define your sexuality? If someone has a same sex experience and enjoys it does it really make them gay/ bi? Personally I don't think who you fuck defines your sexuality, which I view as who you'd want to date/ fall in love with. If you're not unhappy having a little play with the same sex but wouldn't dream of having a relationship with them then in my mind you're probably hetro-flexible or straight. Does getting a hard on over something mean that's someone you're attracted to? Or do you just like doing "naughty" things and it's the illicitness of it that is the turn on as opposed to the person you're doing it with? I personally think if you wouldn't love/ date/ be mentally attracted to someone of the same sex then you're straight. YMMV! " ————- “The Kinsey scale ranges from 0, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively heterosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with their same sex, to 6, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively homosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with those of the opposite sex, and 1-5 for those who would identify themselves with varying levels of desire for sexual activity with either sex, including "incidental" or "occasional" desire for sexual activity with the same sex.[7]” It’s about sex, not relationships. | |||
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"Interesting point but does who you have sex with define your sexuality? If someone has a same sex experience and enjoys it does it really make them gay/ bi? Personally I don't think who you fuck defines your sexuality, which I view as who you'd want to date/ fall in love with. If you're not unhappy having a little play with the same sex but wouldn't dream of having a relationship with them then in my mind you're probably hetro-flexible or straight. Does getting a hard on over something mean that's someone you're attracted to? Or do you just like doing "naughty" things and it's the illicitness of it that is the turn on as opposed to the person you're doing it with? I personally think if you wouldn't love/ date/ be mentally attracted to someone of the same sex then you're straight. YMMV! " Completely agree with you. | |||
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" “The Kinsey scale ranges from 0, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively heterosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with their same sex, to 6, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively homosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with those of the opposite sex, and 1-5 for those who would identify themselves with varying levels of desire for sexual activity with either sex, including "incidental" or "occasional" desire for sexual activity with the same sex.[7]” It’s about sex, not relationships. " I suppose it just doesn't make sense to me according to the questions in the kinsey scale tests that if you've ever had sexual contact with someone of the same sex you're gay or bisexual, however if you've ever had sexual contact with someone of the opposite sex you cannot be gay. Many gay people have sex with opposite sex people in their younger years whilst they're still figuring it out. They realise that straight sex is not for them and they live their lives gay forever more. But because they've done that, according to the test they're bisexual. Which I don't think is the case. I'm sure the same can be said for straight people but I can't speak for them! Personally I believe in "you are what you feel", be that in terms of gender or sexuality. I am quite sure I'll be in the minority with that opinion though! | |||
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"This is actually a perfect way to settle the “bi” question once and for all. Just post this on your profile. Fab could do worse than to incorporate this into the profile stats." Totally agree. I'm a 5 by the way | |||
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" “The Kinsey scale ranges from 0, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively heterosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with their same sex, to 6, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively homosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with those of the opposite sex, and 1-5 for those who would identify themselves with varying levels of desire for sexual activity with either sex, including "incidental" or "occasional" desire for sexual activity with the same sex.[7]” It’s about sex, not relationships. I suppose it just doesn't make sense to me according to the questions in the kinsey scale tests that if you've ever had sexual contact with someone of the same sex you're gay or bisexual, however if you've ever had sexual contact with someone of the opposite sex you cannot be gay. Many gay people have sex with opposite sex people in their younger years whilst they're still figuring it out. They realise that straight sex is not for them and they live their lives gay forever more. But because they've done that, according to the test they're bisexual. Which I don't think is the case. I'm sure the same can be said for straight people but I can't speak for them! Personally I believe in "you are what you feel", be that in terms of gender or sexuality. I am quite sure I'll be in the minority with that opinion though! " I agree with you to be honest. Experimentation in your youth based on social norms should not detract from the fact that these experiences have helped confirm the fact you are gay, and should be considered as such. I get the fact that I am a 2, which makes sense... however the test doesn't give an accurate description of who you are now. In that it is flawed. | |||
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" “The Kinsey scale ranges from 0, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively heterosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with their same sex, to 6, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively homosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with those of the opposite sex, and 1-5 for those who would identify themselves with varying levels of desire for sexual activity with either sex, including "incidental" or "occasional" desire for sexual activity with the same sex.[7]” It’s about sex, not relationships. I suppose it just doesn't make sense to me according to the questions in the kinsey scale tests that if you've ever had sexual contact with someone of the same sex you're gay or bisexual, however if you've ever had sexual contact with someone of the opposite sex you cannot be gay. Many gay people have sex with opposite sex people in their younger years whilst they're still figuring it out. They realise that straight sex is not for them and they live their lives gay forever more. But because they've done that, according to the test they're bisexual. Which I don't think is the case. I'm sure the same can be said for straight people but I can't speak for them! Personally I believe in "you are what you feel", be that in terms of gender or sexuality. I am quite sure I'll be in the minority with that opinion though! " I totally agree with you. I've had sex with more men in my life but only had sex with a handful of women but I have completely fallen for a woman I was seeing heavier than I did with any man. I struggle to live with a man but I'm sure if she'd have left her husband I'd have happily lived with her. Sadly it didn't work out because she was just testing the waters. So because I developed such strong feelings for her, and I think I could again for a woman, I feel i am bi sexual. | |||
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"no idea i found an on line test i suspect i am BI but lets play." | |||
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"I scored 3 does that mean I’m a kinky " It means you’re good fun. | |||
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"Mr M is a 0 Mrs M is a 3, can take it or leave it." Perfect scores in a couple for me!! | |||
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"I guess, looking at the Kinsey Scale of 0-6 the Fab' sexual orientation scale could look like this. 0 - Straight 2 - Bi-Curious 3 - Bisexual 4&5 No Fab' Scale 6 - Gay V scored 3, and I score 0." Yeah but 2/3 are Fab straight | |||
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"I guess, looking at the Kinsey Scale of 0-6 the Fab' sexual orientation scale could look like this. 0 - Straight 2 - Bi-Curious 3 - Bisexual 4&5 No Fab' Scale 6 - Gay V scored 3, and I score 0. Yeah but 2/3 are Fab straight" I missed ‘1’ which would be Straight. 3 is bc. | |||
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"Test came out with 3 although I would say I'm 2. I think women are gorgeous beings and I have many desires with them, but I wouldn't be happy in a relationship with a woman. I love cock way too much and dildos wouldn't do it for me. Kitten" Interesting... Already knew what mine would be, but for the purpose of this thread took the test. Result: Zero | |||
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