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Too old as a single man?

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By *host63 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Looking at people profiles and age preferences Would I be right in thinking that as a 55year old male I am now too old to swing?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Then I'm definitely past the sell by date.

Do the same rules apply to women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope your never to old for swinging stop doubting yourself.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I hope not or I'm finished!

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

No not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all ... age is but a number

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No you aren't too old. However your options will narrow progressively with age. We have discovered this. The best and only solution is to accept it and cut your coat according to your cloth

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

found my options get less every year ut soldier on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only as old as the person your feeling lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it just means you have to pick the riper tastier fruit

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Confucius say...."in a club you're exactly as old as people think you look. Unless it's your birthday and you're wearing an age badge."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not too old at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope when I joined fab last year I had a fwb and he was 51 even though he did lie about his age on his profile. You look good for your age. However I'd look at your profile "18-99" - your 55 and you'd meet an 18 yr old? Nah not for me.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Looking at people profiles and age preferences Would I be right in thinking that as a 55year old male I am now too old to swing?"

Yeh, far too old grandad; bugger off and let us youngsters get on with it

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Nope

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Of course not .you are never too old to swing .look at me .I've got more get up and go in my little finger than lots of younger ones have in their whole bodies . live life to the full .you only get one shot at it ....enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not too old, just need to focus your search.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Looking at people profiles and age preferences Would I be right in thinking that as a 55year old male I am now too old to swing?"
. Not too old to swing just can be a bit harder with single ladies or couples wanting younger guys.You can accommodate which as a single guy I believe helps.Did you ever hear back from Le Boudoir ?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Just gaining experience

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Not too old at all.

To be fair your chances tend to become bit more limited as you get older (we should know LOL) but there is still lots of fun to be had.

We go to a club here in Spain and there is one regular guy who is very popular with the ladies.

He looks younger and can fuck like a machine but..... wait for it....... he's 72.

Last time he fucked Mrs H she was doing a John Wayne impersonation for an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all! I’m all for the older man

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Never too old. I've seen couples on here in their 70s! Just keep in mind everyone has their preferences though and be respectful of that like anyone else would be. Personal cut off of 50 - something about being old enough to a parent that turns me off then again, it's what others are looking for.

Best of luck!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are a few lovely really beautiful women i cannot message because im not old enough.

so go for it man and dont worry

good luck

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'm 54 in a couple of months and have no intention of giving this up yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes far too old give it up now

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By *ucyNWWoman
over a year ago

North West

No not old at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

+1 for clubs... I'm 55 and my fab profile has never got me anywhere... but I've recently had the most enjoyable/surreal night of my life, at a swinging club.

No silly questions about age or preferences - just talking to sexy people and joining in with the fun, when invited.

Put yourself out there OP and let people see the real you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering my OH likes older men, and the amount of offers she gets id say your definitely not over the hill when it comes to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prime xx

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Is this an advert? Or are you such a halfweight?

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

Never too early old, some of the best sex I've ever had was with older people

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not or I have had it

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Absolutely not..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're fit and still sexy in how you look or act then age means nothing. Older men can be so sexy (and 55 is not old!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at people profiles and age preferences Would I be right in thinking that as a 55year old male I am now too old to swing?"

Not too old for some but you will be for others if that a prob then you don't have to stop on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow some really good threds and some really rude ones never to old to play around to the young ones on here that dont like old peeps maybe you should move on lmho

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Nope..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know someone who's incredibly successful here and older than you, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the sexiest people on here are 50+.

The younger ones expect too much and often give so little. Older and more experienced is better.

Aren’t we???!!!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

You are not serious are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the sexiest people on here are 50+.

The younger ones expect too much and often give so little. Older and more experienced is better.

Aren’t we???!!!"

Totally agree

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"+1 for clubs... I'm 55 and my fab profile has never got me anywhere... but I've recently had the most enjoyable/surreal night of my life, at a swinging club.

No silly questions about age or preferences - just talking to sexy people and joining in with the fun, when invited.

Put yourself out there OP and let

people see the real you."

Good post.

One of the reasons we love clubs so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I've met a few older than you ladies on a regular basis and their age hasn't been a barrier it's about how you sell yourself in the end

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

Plenty of life left in me...now where did I leave my glasses?

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Plenty of life left in me...now where did I leave my glasses?"

They're on your head where you left them. I said THEY'RE ON YOUR HEAD WHERE YOU LEFT THEM!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bloke yes you are. You'll be lucky to find anyone interested on this site

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Age is only a gathering of numbers after your name. You are as old or as young as you feel.

But to answer your question....you are NEVER too old to swing.

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By *host63 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Then I'm definitely past the sell by date.

Do the same rules apply to women?"

No.i would say it applies more to.singls guys.

More of us on here than single.women

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By *host63 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Nope when I joined fab last year I had a fwb and he was 51 even though he did lie about his age on his profile. You look good for your age. However I'd look at your profile "18-99" - your 55 and you'd meet an 18 yr old? Nah not for me. "

Would you meet an 18yr old guy?

I am.sufe you wouldn't say no and.I doubt there are that many 1iyr old wome who would be into this scene anyway.

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I am the same age .. trouble is all the ladies over 45 want younger and the younger females the same age as themselves.

Even if it states 18 to 99 on profile it's usually just a mistake on profile.

It's just unfortunate and a fact of life on here that the majority want younger. The ladies have a huge advantage ratio wise and can take there pick

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By *host63 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"You are not serious are you?

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It's just out of interest. Was reconsidering the scene

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By *host63 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I am the same age .. trouble is all the ladies over 45 want younger and the younger females the same age as themselves.

Even if it states 18 to 99 on profile it's usually just a mistake on profile.

It's just unfortunate and a fact of life on here that the majority want younger. The ladies have a huge advantage ratio wise and can take there pick"

That's my train of thought

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's no way I'd meet an 18 year old, fwiw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this an advert? Or are you such a halfweight?"
keep your drug sayings to yourdelf and learn vocabulary

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Nope

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Harsh truth. Average blokes in their fifties are going to find it very hard on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does get harder to get meets as you get older. A lot of profiles seem to block messages from people over 55. Like to think I'm just as capeable as I was ten years ago.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm (IMHO) getting better with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at people profiles and age preferences Would I be right in thinking that as a 55year old male I am now too old to swing?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope when I joined fab last year I had a fwb and he was 51 even though he did lie about his age on his profile. You look good for your age. However I'd look at your profile "18-99" - your 55 and you'd meet an 18 yr old? Nah not for me.

Would you meet an 18yr old guy?

I am.sufe you wouldn't say no and.I doubt there are that many 1iyr old wome who would be into this scene anyway. "

No I wouldn't meet an 18yr old guy. My son is ,24 and the youngest I'd consider is ,27.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're not too old. just most people think you are....

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