FabSwingers.com forum: Can/Cannot Accommodate

By *rBlitter OP Man
over a year ago

Exeter

When I first joined this site, I thought this meant being able to have anyone visit their place.

After viewing some profiles I've come to think this may actually mean "accommodate overnight" which isn't necessarily the same as "we can have people come here for fun"

Anyone able to shed any light on what this actually means please or is this actually "open for discussion"?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"When I first joined this site, I thought this meant being able to have anyone visit their place.

After viewing some profiles I've come to think this may actually mean "accommodate overnight" which isn't necessarily the same as "we can have people come here for fun"

Anyone able to shed any light on what this actually means please or is this actually "open for discussion"?"

Generally it means that they can or Can't have people around at all.

Cal

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Can accommodate doesn't necessarily mean they can or will overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that some may see it as open to interpretation.

I think the initial intention, and what most see it as, is the ability to host a meet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I interpret it as "will (not) have people in my/our home for sex".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it means we can have fun at our place but don't bring your toothbrush or PJ's as you won't be spending the night lol, unless we're genuine friends! But some genuine singles may allow you to spend the night depending on the meet. Kinky

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Alot of people can't accommodate because they live in a very busy curtain twitching neighborhood. Once they have met a certain couple/single a few times and happily trust them not to come banging on their windows pissed up at 3am on a Tuesday night they might, I say might, invite them around to their house.

It's all about the trust my friend.

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By *J647Couple
over a year ago

Daventry

And some have other people living with them,can't really tell them to go out while you have a stranger in for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cannot accomodate as my nephew was going to be taken into care so i took responsibility and he now lives with me.

at his age it would be wrong for me to entertain strangers.

should anyone really have to explain themselves though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case cannot accommodate means exactly that. I share a house so can't bring anyone here at any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we were under the impression it meant they have a free house for some sexy fun? We generally don't stay over anyway

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By *lancmangecplCouple
over a year ago

farnborough

Can accommodate to us means being to have people round for fun. We like keeping this separate from normal lives so hotel meets are preferable plus it means a lie in!

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

To me it means they can or can't have people around to play/sex . Not to stay over night. Though that can happen. I always come home afterwards, so does hubby. We will never stay out all night unless together x mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not someone who can accomodate because I’m a single mum and don’t feel it’s morally right to bring strangers in my home and who may change from time to time. I don’t need the questions either.

Accomodate I think depends on the chemistry too. If you get on really well, then you may actually want to wake up with a nice hot throbbing cock pressing into you ready for more fun! Seriously though, accomodate can mean yep, we can have fun around mine and depending on the chemistry, we may wake up together too. But it’s down to boundaries and what each fabber (fucker??!!!) is fabulously comfortable with x

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

To me saying you can accommodate can mean you are prepared to offer a venue to use, whether that be a home or hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally it means having people at their home, not necessarily to stay overnight. Although there's also a stigma on the site attached to single males who can't accommodate: that they're cheating, which is obviously not always the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally it means having people at their home, not necessarily to stay overnight. Although there's also a stigma on the site attached to single males who can't accommodate: that they're cheating, which is obviously not always the case.

we have found that single guys say they can accommodate when you give them a day it turns out they cant then give out loads of excuses meaning the wife will be home on that day ect,

weve contacted loads of guys that have can accom on their profile but turns out only on certain days and times ?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We could accommodate at home but we won’t. We would never bring people to our family home for sex. However, we would happily accommodate at a hotel. We tend to disregard the can/can’t accommodate thing.

We’ve tried having someone stay overnight once and would never do that again, it didn’t feel right for me.

Lou x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I can’t accommodate at my home but I can accommodate in an hotel room. That may be for an hour, overnight or a long weekend.

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