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By *35 and C22 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x"

There's plenty out there.

As a couple it may be worth popping a few photos of the male half up if you're hoping to meet other couples. Otherwise the female half of anyone you're looking to meet won't know what's in store.

Just a thought. Good luck

A

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By *35 and C22 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"There's plenty out there.

As a couple it may be worth popping a few photos of the male half up if you're hoping to meet other couples. Otherwise the female half of anyone you're looking to meet won't know what's in store.

Just a thought. Good luck

A"

really good point, thank you!! best start taking some pictures x

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We've been here 5 + years got to say still think soft swap is right for us.

Been together from age 16 feel that that part of sex is special and solely for us. Actually find people who can't understand that, it is their issue not ours.

Everyone has a choice just make sure you make choices that you can live with.

Do what you want only after all everyone here is here for themselves.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I wouldn't have thought it's the soft swap that is the main problem, lots of couples are soft swap.

However, I agree with an earlier post, the lack pictures of the male will be an issue for many. Cock pics don't count in my book.

The fact that there is quite a large age difference between you, will reduce the number of potential matches too.

Mr is well in our age preference range but Mrs is the same age as our children, which we would be uncomfortable with. I expect there are several others who would think the same...and there is nothing you can do about that unless you lie about your ages.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do soft swap. In some ways there's nothing hornier than watching, or fucking alongside, another couple who are fucking as they would normally do in their bed.

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By *lancmangecplCouple
over a year ago

farnborough

We haven’t yet found the right time or people to play with and as new to this have agreed soft swap is probably a good place to start for us. Whether that changes or not I’m not sure

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're soft-play / exhibitionism more than swap. We've been visiting clubs for over 3 years and are perfectly happy with our level

We don't really bother trying to attract others on fab anymore as it can get tricky to put across exactly what we're OK with. And then, the people we do chat with have said 'sure we'll start with soft and go from there'.

At clubs we usually just do our own thing and then see who decides to take a space next to us. Then all it takes is a quick 'we don't swap but you're welcome to do xyz to us' and away we go

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x"

We are a soft swap couple, and we would be interested.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Really?

6 Veris in a few months?

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Just read your profile in detail and see wecare outside of your age range. Sorry for the wink.

There are couples like yourselves and us who soft swap, it just takes a little longer to find them.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


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Been together from age 16 feel that that part of sex is special and solely for us. Actually find people who can't understand that, it is their issue not ours.

Everyone has a choice just make sure you make choices that you can live with.

Do what you want only after all everyone here is here for themselves."

Exactly the same as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really?

6 Veris in a few months? "

What's wrong with that?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Really?

6 Veris in a few months? "

Yeap socials and clubs, hows that unusual, this is what happens when you go out side the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not into soft swapping but I’m sure there are plenty that are

I hope you find what your looking for xxx

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We’re open to Full Swap but only if the attraction is there and it feels right. However, we mainly do Soft Play and from our experience, we’ made it equal to Full Play with enough imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we’re finding that many couples aren’t interested in us because we’re not willing to full swap - is this normally the case? we’ve only been on the scene a few months so don’t 100% feel comfortable full swapping yet x"

You’ll find most couples are probably more comfortable with talking to and meeting you than they would be others, as they’re probably like you.

Best to go slowly when your all new to something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with soft swap if that’s what you have decided

You should have no trouble getting meets

That starts when you get older

Having said that people we have meet up in clubs don’t seem to have an age problem with us even the younger ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we’re looking for watch and be watched, soft swap, contact us if your interested x

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