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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. " Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Lack of imagination? | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Is it not her choice to reply not reply or even block if she is in the mood to. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ?" why do you assume they were offended? | |||
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"Swinging is not a participation sport..... Everyone doesn’t get a shag by signing up.... " Don't crush dreams  | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Perhaps she was having a bad day , we can be funny creatures at times  | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ?" Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. " My mindset is Say hi and send a pic If she likes pic maybe read profile Maybe reply It’s simple really | |||
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"Swinging is not a participation sport..... Everyone doesn’t get a shag by signing up.... Don't crush dreams "Click on the green arrow.... | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. My mindset is Say hi and send a pic If she likes pic maybe read profile Maybe reply It’s simple really " If that's your approach then that's absolutely fine, it's up to you how you run your profile. However if your approach isn't getting you what you want it's probably best to change it rather than moan about it. If you're not prepared to change it then I suggest you get used to having your messages deleted or ignored on the whole. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. My mindset is Say hi and send a pic If she likes pic maybe read profile Maybe reply It’s simple really " As above, we all get to run our profiles how we want. But we also have to accept that others will do the same. We all have our little ways of using the functions provided by the site and can't moan if the way we choose to act doesn't get responses we want from others. | |||
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"Swinging is not a participation sport..... Everyone doesn’t get a shag by signing up.... Don't crush dreams
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Tell me about it. I asked a lady yesterday if she had had a nice Xmas she replied yes then blocked me. I cannot work some folks out, anyway her lose not mine. | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " She probably guessed the next few messages comming and decided she's not intetested. When we receive a message from a man saying just "hi" or along those lines what follows next is usually "how's you? ", "what you up to? ", "wanna f**k? ". We don't block for that but don't waste our time replying to such messages either. Mrs | |||
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"She probably looked at your profile before she read the message if she did, decided she wasn't interested in engaging with you and decided blocking would stop you contacting her again. " Why would I message again ? Am I missing something | |||
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"Hey OP I didnt ignore your inbox.. sent you reply with an example of the abuse I received and have now being blocked from sending messages for ‘a few hours’ x makes me wonder how the messages I received weren’t blocked lol x" That’s odd Feel feel to reply when you get out of jail x | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Everytime I see your username I think it says terrorism. Probably nothing to do with it and moreso one of them psychological illusions, who knows. As you were. | |||
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"Maybe she looked at your public photos and didn’t like the only one you have, your knees in the bath Strange photo. "Everyone moans about cock pics So knees was the way forward It’s almost like I’m trying to display humour Shock horror | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. " perfectly said 
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them"You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters This had nothing | |||
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"She probably looked at your profile before she read the message if she did, decided she wasn't interested in engaging with you and decided blocking would stop you contacting her again. Why would I message again ? Am I missing something " Some blokes message again and again, blocking stops that. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
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This had nothing "Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you... | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you..."This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior.... He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg? | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?"I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away Thanks | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
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Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you..."Where did I say that ? | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " It's like fishing cast enough times you'll eventually get a nibble ....being a cheeky shite usually helps either that or a slap | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
Thanks "This is an open forum, and therefore everyone is free and entitled to comment as they see fit | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
Thanks "I just don't understand where your attitude has come from I really just think that you've given up and now you just think that being rude is going to get you some attention and it really isn't or only negative attention. Like I said previously it's up to you but if you don't want to put any effort in and then you're just rude to people you kinda reap what you sow. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
Thanks
This is an open forum, and therefore everyone is free and entitled to comment as they see fit"Surely it needs to be relevant? | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
Thanks
This is an open forum, and therefore everyone is free and entitled to comment as they see fit
Surely it needs to be relevant?"It was relevant. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
Thanks
I just don't understand where your attitude has come from I really just think that you've given up and now you just think that being rude is going to get you some attention and it really isn't or only negative attention. Like I said previously it's up to you but if you don't want to put any effort in and then you're just rude to people you kinda reap what you sow. "I’ll be rude to people who are disrespectful and comment on here with no interest in adding to the thread Only to belittle | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
Thanks
I just don't understand where your attitude has come from I really just think that you've given up and now you just think that being rude is going to get you some attention and it really isn't or only negative attention. Like I said previously it's up to you but if you don't want to put any effort in and then you're just rude to people you kinda reap what you sow.
I’ll be rude to people who are disrespectful and comment on here with no interest in adding to the thread
Only to belittle
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" Not much on her profile to go on You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters This had nothing Where did I say that ?" | |||
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"If you're rude you'll end up on the naughty step." Nooooooooooo | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. perfectly said
i have 100s of hellos and hi how are you messages everyweek i just delete and if i think the guys not for me or keeps repeating the hi hows you then blocked i look at message's from guys who make an effot and can engage in what they are looking for after all they message me not me them
You profile is full of information that can be drawn on for conversation starters
This had nothing
Failing to understand why you messaged them then, if it was that unappealing to you...
This is one of those threads that people are searching for answers about other people’s behavior....
He would have been better off asking , what came first the chicken or the egg?
I believe that, given you have nothing of value to add that you go away
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I just don't understand where your attitude has come from I really just think that you've given up and now you just think that being rude is going to get you some attention and it really isn't or only negative attention. Like I said previously it's up to you but if you don't want to put any effort in and then you're just rude to people you kinda reap what you sow.
I’ll be rude to people who are disrespectful and comment on here with no interest in adding to the thread
Only to belittle
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"... And you'll put off local people who read here. " Oh well | |||
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"If you're rude you'll end up on the naughty step. Nooooooooooo "Shrug. Most people who post here like to continue being able to do so. | |||
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"This is what happens It stops being about the thread and the bullies come out and just gang up on the op It never changes But the bullies will go ‘ ohhhh no we don’t ‘ " So because they have had the nerve to disagree with you and to say that maybe it wasn't the person you were messaging that had the problem we are now suddenly bullies. After that site that you were just completely lost your argument because that's what people say when they got nothing left they just then blame everybody else. | |||
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"This is what happens It stops being about the thread and the bullies come out and just gang up on the op It never changes But the bullies will go ‘ ohhhh no we don’t ‘ " You asked a question. Someone observed that asking a question about behaviour was fairly futile, which is true. At which point you were the only one who was rude. Claiming you're being bullied is asinine. | |||
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"This is what happens It stops being about the thread and the bullies come out and just gang up on the op It never changes But the bullies will go ‘ ohhhh no we don’t ‘ So because they have had the nerve to disagree with you and to say that maybe it wasn't the person you were messaging that had the problem we are now suddenly bullies. After that site that you were just completely lost your argument because that's what people say when they got nothing left they just then blame everybody else. " Test book forumite response Thank you Brilliant | |||
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"Op I’m starting to like you... Reading this thread has given me great joy..... Thank you" It’s hard to articulate what a pleasure it’s been | |||
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"Op I’m starting to like you... Reading this thread has given me great joy..... Thank you It’s hard to articulate what a pleasure it’s been " Here is the deal.... on Fab people ask crazy questions daily and there is no real logical answer.... I’m straight but gay/bi men keep messaging me I keep sending messages and no one responded... These are just a few examples..... Now unless we all become a mind readers or psychic’s... we will never know the answers... Also kudos to you for being over 40 and calling people bully’s.... I thought this term was reserved for my generation.... | |||
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"Op I’m starting to like you... Reading this thread has given me great joy..... Thank you It’s hard to articulate what a pleasure it’s been Here is the deal.... on Fab people ask crazy questions daily and there is no real logical answer.... I’m straight but gay/bi men keep messaging me I keep sending messages and no one responded... These are just a few examples..... Now unless we all become a mind readers or psychic’s... we will never know the answers... Also kudos to you for being over 40 and calling people bully’s.... I thought this term was reserved for my generation...." There’s no age limit on bullying bud | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ?" She didn’t have much on her profile, but enough for you to want sex with her. So good afternoon is going to nail it on have fingers buzzing the keyboard really. Says can’t be arsed to both parties | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? She didn’t have much on her profile, but enough for you to want sex with her. So good afternoon is going to nail it on have fingers buzzing the keyboard really. Says can’t be arsed to both parties " It’s merely an introduction Jeeeez What’s the big deal Say hi Say hi back Maybe it develops I really don’t get the issue If someone says ‘ good afternoon ‘ to you in the street Do you think ‘ ha, lazy prick can’t be arsed ‘ Or do you say it back ? | |||
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"What was next how many rounds of bread you had with your tea "No I was about to discuss floor tiles And the best methods of cress production Bread is second date material | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " it wasn’t a good afternoon for her, maybe...? Not you by the sounds of it. Try gangsta: “yo, hoe, strip for the bro” | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? She didn’t have much on her profile, but enough for you to want sex with her. So good afternoon is going to nail it on have fingers buzzing the keyboard really. Says can’t be arsed to both parties It’s merely an introduction Jeeeez What’s the big deal Say hi Say hi back Maybe it develops I really don’t get the issue If someone says ‘ good afternoon ‘ to you in the street Do you think ‘ ha, lazy prick can’t be arsed ‘ Or do you say it back ?" A real life situation where you have moments. Versus online when you have plenty of time to say something thoughtful. And if the numbers who message me here asking how I am or saying hi or whatever did so on the street, I'd not answer any of them and hire a bloody bodyguard! | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " its dull If u had 50 messages all saying mundane shit like hello hi good morning would you go thru them all 2ndly they prob looked at your profile realised your not what there looking for and to save repeated bombardment or potential conflict just blocked you maybe she blocks anyone she dont like the look of so u dont keep popping up on searches? | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Maybe she has a thing about knees | |||
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"I've been on here a while and say hi to people on here and hardly ever get a reply. I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but when someone accepts my friend request it should only be polite to reply or a simple yes or no goes a long way. Maybe I'm to old skool and some are just to in love with themselves to have manners but il keep faith in fab as there are genuine people out there. (Never judge a book by its cover) xxx one love xxx" If you received hundreds of messages a day, many of which showed no appreciation for what you were after, would you reply to them all? What about if a significant proportion of those replied to your polite refusal with begging, negotiation, abuse, or threats? | |||
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"I've been on here a while and say hi to people on here and hardly ever get a reply. I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but when someone accepts my friend request it should only be polite to reply or a simple yes or no goes a long way. Maybe I'm to old skool and some are just to in love with themselves to have manners but il keep faith in fab as there are genuine people out there. (Never judge a book by its cover) xxx one love xxx If you received hundreds of messages a day, many of which showed no appreciation for what you were after, would you reply to them all? What about if a significant proportion of those replied to your polite refusal with begging, negotiation, abuse, or threats? " I’d never beg Or threaten Or be abusive Is this your opportunity to tell us how hard it is getting 100s of messages ? Off you go then All ears here Must be awful for you | |||
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"I've been on here a while and say hi to people on here and hardly ever get a reply. I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but when someone accepts my friend request it should only be polite to reply or a simple yes or no goes a long way. Maybe I'm to old skool and some are just to in love with themselves to have manners but il keep faith in fab as there are genuine people out there. (Never judge a book by its cover) xxx one love xxx If you received hundreds of messages a day, many of which showed no appreciation for what you were after, would you reply to them all? What about if a significant proportion of those replied to your polite refusal with begging, negotiation, abuse, or threats? I’d never beg Or threaten Or be abusive Is this your opportunity to tell us how hard it is getting 100s of messages ? Off you go then All ears here Must be awful for you " I don't know who will, except that it happens. When most of the messages are content free, show no regard for my humanity, etc, it's actually a chore. But thanks for your concern. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. My mindset is Say hi and send a pic If she likes pic maybe read profile Maybe reply It’s simple really " That not their mind set Their mind set... Read simple pleasantries Panic, run round the room Look at profile Find negatives Overinflated ego Block | |||
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" It’s merely an introduction Jeeeez What’s the big deal Say hi Say hi back Maybe it develops I really don’t get the issue " But you're the one who appears to have the 'issue', she certainly doesn't! You messaged her, she didn't want contact with you so blocked you, involvement over from her perspective. You then start a thread lamenting your treatment. You may have had a point if she'd posted complaining about men sending inane messages in response to your thread! | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " Saved you wasting any more time.
If I was a man I would only send "hello" messages too. Why bother typing anything else when it will just get deleted. | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly Saved you wasting any more time.
If I was a man I would only send "hello" messages too. Why bother typing anything else when it will just get deleted."Finally | |||
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"How can the phrase ‘ good afternoon ‘ move a woman to block me It’s getting silly " So if she had replied “good afternoon” what would you have said then? Because whatever that is, say it in the first message. | |||
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"I was blocked for liking a pic Made me chuckle!" We were “threatened” that if we didn’t meet, a guy would removed his “like” from a pic of ours .... | |||
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"Oh for God's sake! My last response was totally tongue in cheek but for the love of God how hard is it to understand that some folk block those who don't appeal as an elimination process. It doesn't matter what message you sent, how articulate it was, whatever, you're not her type so she's blocked you, you cannot bump into each other in here again and thus her pool of choice is more suited to her. Simples!" Hitler did it better | |||
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"I was blocked for liking a pic Made me chuckle! We were “threatened” that if we didn’t meet, a guy would removed his “like” from a pic of ours ...." It's not worth losing a Fab. When are you meeting him? | |||
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"I was blocked for liking a pic Made me chuckle! We were “threatened” that if we didn’t meet, a guy would removed his “like” from a pic of ours ...." you must be joking. outrageous | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ?" If I was a woman it wouldn't offend me but it would bore me silly. Many times per day women get emails that say nothing but things like Hi how R U? U ok? Fancy a fuck? Etc Put some effort into your messages. | |||
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"She probably looked at your profile before she read the message if she did, decided she wasn't interested in engaging with you and decided blocking would stop you contacting her again. Why would I message again ? Am I missing something " A lot of men keep on messaging the same person over and over. A lot of men send abusive messages when being turned down. The woman you emailed doesn't know if you will carry on sending messages or start sending abusive messages. She didn't want to meet you and to save receiving more messages she blocked you. | |||
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"She probably looked at your profile before she read the message if she did, decided she wasn't interested in engaging with you and decided blocking would stop you contacting her again. Why would I message again ? Am I missing something A lot of men keep on messaging the same person over and over. A lot of men send abusive messages when being turned down. The woman you emailed doesn't know if you will carry on sending messages or start sending abusive messages. She didn't want to meet you and to save receiving more messages she blocked you. " Exactly this. Yesterday after not replying to a message the follow-up message from the guy was "I guess you're just an attention seeking bitch then". So it gets to a point where it's just easier to block if you're not interested I appreciate this can be frustrating for people on the receiving end of it but it's just how it is unfortunately. | |||
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"Does it offend you if it’s said to you ?" Wouldn’t offend, would bore and not excite. Men who bore and do not excite are not worth any effort when one has a variety to choose from | |||
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"She probably looked at your profile before she read the message if she did, decided she wasn't interested in engaging with you and decided blocking would stop you contacting her again. Why would I message again ? Am I missing something A lot of men keep on messaging the same person over and over. A lot of men send abusive messages when being turned down. The woman you emailed doesn't know if you will carry on sending messages or start sending abusive messages. She didn't want to meet you and to save receiving more messages she blocked you. Exactly this. Yesterday after not replying to a message the follow-up message from the guy was "I guess you're just an attention seeking bitch then". So it gets to a point where it's just easier to block if you're not interested I appreciate this can be frustrating for people on the receiving end of it but it's just how it is unfortunately. " My message history from some guys (usually over weeks, sometimes days or hours) Hi Hi Hi how are you? Fancy a fuck? Hi Hi Hi I haven't replied to any of them and I'm not going to. A block puts an end to it. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? She didn’t have much on her profile, but enough for you to want sex with her. So good afternoon is going to nail it on have fingers buzzing the keyboard really. Says can’t be arsed to both parties It’s merely an introduction Jeeeez What’s the big deal Say hi Say hi back Maybe it develops I really don’t get the issue If someone says ‘ good afternoon ‘ to you in the street Do you think ‘ ha, lazy prick can’t be arsed ‘ Or do you say it back ?" Totally different situation. | |||
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"I've been on here a while and say hi to people on here and hardly ever get a reply. I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but when someone accepts my friend request it should only be polite to reply or a simple yes or no goes a long way. Maybe I'm to old skool and some are just to in love with themselves to have manners but il keep faith in fab as there are genuine people out there. (Never judge a book by its cover) xxx one love xxx If you received hundreds of messages a day, many of which showed no appreciation for what you were after, would you reply to them all? What about if a significant proportion of those replied to your polite refusal with begging, negotiation, abuse, or threats? I’d never beg Or threaten Or be abusive Is this your opportunity to tell us how hard it is getting 100s of messages ? Off you go then All ears here Must be awful for you " Would you like to go through 30 - 100 messages daily when each one is a lazy one line email? | |||
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"Maybe she doesn't fancy you, want to meet, couldn't be arsed to type a reply as she was busy doing her hair and thought blocking was a clear message that guarantees she won't have to do the same again and will free up your time to pursue others that may respond in a positive manner. She's actually done you a favour. A" .. This.... | |||
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"I've been on here a while and say hi to people on here and hardly ever get a reply. I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but when someone accepts my friend request it should only be polite to reply or a simple yes or no goes a long way. Maybe I'm to old skool and some are just to in love with themselves to have manners but il keep faith in fab as there are genuine people out there. (Never judge a book by its cover) xxx one love xxx If you received hundreds of messages a day, many of which showed no appreciation for what you were after, would you reply to them all? What about if a significant proportion of those replied to your polite refusal with begging, negotiation, abuse, or threats? I’d never beg Or threaten Or be abusive Is this your opportunity to tell us how hard it is getting 100s of messages ? Off you go then All ears here Must be awful for you Would you like to go through 30 - 100 messages daily when each one is a lazy one line email? " I love the guys the day what the women do Just in case | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? She didn’t have much on her profile, but enough for you to want sex with her. So good afternoon is going to nail it on have fingers buzzing the keyboard really. Says can’t be arsed to both parties It’s merely an introduction Jeeeez What’s the big deal Say hi Say hi back Maybe it develops I really don’t get the issue If someone says ‘ good afternoon ‘ to you in the street Do you think ‘ ha, lazy prick can’t be arsed ‘ Or do you say it back ?" I think that there are a lot of people who seem to completely misunderstand how emailing or online messages work. They seem to view it as a non-verbal 'live' conversation rather than the electronic 'letter' that it should be. Your message might not be seen for days. You could end up trying to have a simple conversation that ordinarily might take a few minutes but ends up lasting a few weeks. Think of it more like a letter. Think about what you want to say to that person. You wouldn't sit down with a pen and paper and simply write 'good afternoon', pop it in an envelope and send it on it's way would you? That's what many are getting at. The recipient may be expecting more from a message than a simple greeting - after all, the act of messaging itself is a way of saying hello. Think more about telling that person a little bit about yourself, ask questions about them. Give them a reason to reply. | |||
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"Oh for God's sake! My last response was totally tongue in cheek but for the love of God how hard is it to understand that some folk block those who don't appeal as an elimination process. It doesn't matter what message you sent, how articulate it was, whatever, you're not her type so she's blocked you, you cannot bump into each other in here again and thus her pool of choice is more suited to her. Simples! Hitler did it better " Yeah but he slept on the job (6.6.44) At least some folk here are in the wide awake club and know what measures to take to keep the undesirables at bay. | |||
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"If that's all you said in the message that could have been enough especially if you've had no contact before. Long gone are the days of writing chapter and verse only to be ignored Not much on her profile to go on I reckon good afternoon is as a good a starting point as any Does it offend you if it’s said to you ? Of course it doesn't offend me it just doesn't interest me, it's not engaging and I get tens of messages saying exactly that everyday it gets boring. so I immediately delete and sometimes block. It sounds to me like you've given up putting any effort in so you're probably gonna get the same amount of effort in return. My mindset is Say hi and send a pic If she likes pic maybe read profile " There is your first error - most women will look at the profile before opening a message. If the profile is uninspiring, say has one obscure pic and nothing to inspire me in the text, I would simply hit delete. Some people choose to block to save further interaction. | |||
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