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Ladies; posting pics, posing and why?

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

I suppose the main reason for posting pics is to put yourself and or your partner in the "shop window" for potential meets. However, you must realise that by posting nude, semi-nude, provocative pics that there will be guys (and girls) who will be using your photos to get off over, wank bank material. My question is; does this bother you, do you find it a bit seamy but a necessary evil of getting meets, or do you quite enjoy the idea of guys and girls wanking to your pics and maybe you even encourage this action. Are there women here who only post with the voyeurs in mind and love THAT kind of attention.

Just wondering like....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We just post them because we can....we enjoy taking them too. We also know that others will use them "for their own benefit" and sometimes we get to see the results don't we OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love taking pics some people might like some might not I am what I am

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have an exhibitionist streak. If we were posting just so potential meets could see what we look like we'd only have a few photos.

I'm aware that possibly people are using our photos as wanking material but it's not something I think about or enjoy and it isn't the reason we do it.

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We just post them because we can....we enjoy taking them too. We also know that others will use them "for their own benefit" and sometimes we get to see the results don't we OP "

Yes indeed you do Ms F

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

What other people do is none of my business.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

With pornography freely available all over the internet, I'd be very surprised if someone was actually wanking over a picture of my boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shouldn't think anyone wanks over my pictures but if they do then good luck to them....although i dont need to hear about it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm advertising myself. My whole profile is.

I know people wank over me, that's their business. I don't want to know unless I want to fuck them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I shouldn't think anyone wanks over my pictures but if they do then good luck to them....although i dont need to hear about it"

I should say, I didn't think anyone did until people started telling me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ( Mrs) used to enjoy posting pics and it did turn me on plus the attention was great .. but I soon bored of it so don’t do it as often but I really don’t mind that people might get off on my pics , it’s flattering ..

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By *heekybarstewardMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"With pornography freely available all over the internet, I'd be very surprised if someone was actually wanking over a picture of my boobs. "

Don't be so sure lol

Honestly I didn't

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By *astycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Holly here, I love posting my pics and the thought that there are some men out wanking over my pics make it even better, just a shame I don't get to see (cum tributes) after all isn't that why we are all here to show off what we have and I love the attention

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"With pornography freely available all over the internet, I'd be very surprised if someone was actually wanking over a picture of my boobs.

Don't be so sure lol

Honestly I didn't "

Me neither.....

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Holly here, I love posting my pics and the thought that there are some men out wanking over my pics make it even better, just a shame I don't get to see (cum tributes) after all isn't that why we are all here to show off what we have and I love the attention "

Well thats what I thought, however there are some women here who really object very strongly, their prerogative, but it makes tributing a tricky business, therefore I like to know who is amenable before I go in "all guns blazing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sasha is an exhibitionist, she likes being looked at. We have had a few unrequested tributes sent but it doesn't bother either of us. We knew it was likely to happen when we joined up.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"With pornography freely available all over the internet, I'd be very surprised if someone was actually wanking over a picture of my boobs.

Don't be so sure lol

Honestly I didn't

Me neither..... "

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"With pornography freely available all over the internet, I'd be very surprised if someone was actually wanking over a picture of my boobs. "

Why would you think that? You have amazing boobs....

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I do it so that anyone who's thinking about meeting me knows what I look like. I couldn't care less if someone is using the to wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt anyone is wanking over my pics to be fair.. but if they are have fun and enjoy xo

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I do it so that anyone who's thinking about meeting me knows what I look like. I couldn't care less if someone is using the to wank. "

Well, I'm glad you do, you post some very hot pics, thanks.

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I doubt anyone is wanking over my pics to be fair.. but if they are have fun and enjoy xo"

You doubt people wank to your pics? Don't be silly, I'd say it was a foregone conclusion that they do.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt anyone is wanking over my pics to be fair.. but if they are have fun and enjoy xo

You doubt people wank to your pics? Don't be silly, I'd say it was a foregone conclusion that they do....."

I mean there are much better options on here to cum over..

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I doubt anyone is wanking over my pics to be fair.. but if they are have fun and enjoy xo

You doubt people wank to your pics? Don't be silly, I'd say it was a foregone conclusion that they do.....

I mean there are much better options on here to cum over..

"

You have a great body and you wear your lingerie with great sex appeal. Don't do yourself down, you're a proper stunner...

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I doubt anyone is wanking over my pics to be fair.. but if they are have fun and enjoy xo

You doubt people wank to your pics? Don't be silly, I'd say it was a foregone conclusion that they do.....

I mean there are much better options on here to cum over..

"

Bugger, I'm too old lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started taking photos to help with low self esteem & body confidence, a sort of therapy. Found I enjoyed dressing up, taking them & yes I like the compliments I sometimes get & have been told & shown the effects they can have, I'm flattered as other posters above have said, there's plenty of pornographic material out there to wank over. I take & post the photos for me so if others enjoy them it's a bonus

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Holly here, I love posting my pics and the thought that there are some men out wanking over my pics make it even better, just a shame I don't get to see (cum tributes) after all isn't that why we are all here to show off what we have and I love the attention

Well thats what I thought, however there are some women here who really object very strongly, their prerogative, but it makes tributing a tricky business, therefore I like to know who is amenable before I go in "all guns blazing""

I'm one who doesn't like tributes. I wouldn't mind being asked, as long as it was done politely, without being graphic, and if the person is prepared to hear no (or accept it in the absence of a reply).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I started taking photos to help with low self esteem & body confidence, a sort of therapy. Found I enjoyed dressing up, taking them & yes I like the compliments I sometimes get & have been told & shown the effects they can have, I'm flattered as other posters above have said, there's plenty of pornographic material out there to wank over. I take & post the photos for me so if others enjoy them it's a bonus "

This too. I find it empowering for myself, and it's interesting to see my body change.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

As a mature woman I love knowing that guys like to look at my pics and appreciate messages complimenting them, especially when it has a tribute pic attached.

Sxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started taking photos to help with low self esteem & body confidence, a sort of therapy. Found I enjoyed dressing up, taking them & yes I like the compliments I sometimes get & have been told & shown the effects they can have, I'm flattered as other posters above have said, there's plenty of pornographic material out there to wank over. I take & post the photos for me so if others enjoy them it's a bonus

This too. I find it empowering for myself, and it's interesting to see my body change. "

I lost 3 stone after ending my unhappy marriage two years ago, getting back to my pre pregnancy weight but after years of mental abuse couldn't see myself how others saw me, just what had been planted in my mind, taking photos has helped me in so many ways

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I started taking photos to help with low self esteem & body confidence, a sort of therapy. Found I enjoyed dressing up, taking them & yes I like the compliments I sometimes get & have been told & shown the effects they can have, I'm flattered as other posters above have said, there's plenty of pornographic material out there to wank over. I take & post the photos for me so if others enjoy them it's a bonus

This too. I find it empowering for myself, and it's interesting to see my body change.

I lost 3 stone after ending my unhappy marriage two years ago, getting back to my pre pregnancy weight but after years of mental abuse couldn't see myself how others saw me, just what had been planted in my mind, taking photos has helped me in so many ways "

My confidence has grown, and my gym work is paying off, in my case.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I had never taken a picture of myself until I joined this site. In fact I had only ever taken 3 selfies, face only, until I joined here

I am actually rather shy and at the beginning I hated taking pictures but slowly overtime it did help me overcome certain self confidence issues . It took me about 18mths to actually post a nipple picture

I now enjoy taking pictures for me . I don't think about what others think about them or do with them

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Obviously most put pics on their profiles so others can get an idea of how they look. But I do think I have a slight exhibitionist streak in me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually enjoy taking pics now, male half not so much so though hence most pics being just me! I like the idea people want to want over me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's the exhibitionist in me too .. Same as putting a show on in a group situation at a swinging club.. It doesn't worry me who gets off on them. I have some really naughty ones on my friends only pictures . We can't all like the same things either .. Variety is the spice of life

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

We love taking photos, it’s almost a form of foreplay for us

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