FabSwingers.com forum: Read but not deleted

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a good sign right?

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sometimes I read and keep cos I'm thinking about it...other times cos I tend to block delete and if just not got round to it yet

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"That's a good sign right? "

I look at it as a picture hunter. Read delete move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm keeping my fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a good sign right? "

It doesn't mean anything

If they haven't replied, they're likely not interested

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The only good sign is a positive reply.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't read anything in to it.

I'm terrible for reading a message and just leaving it if Mr N didn't chase after me deleting messages there would be loads just sitting there.

Your best bet is to assume it means no thanks, then if you do get a response its a lovely surprise

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

if this happens i normally give it a day or 2 then delete and block them, no point wasting there time messaging them again

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"That's a good sign right? "

Hope is a dangerous thing. Hope can drive a man insane!

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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago

Beautiful East Yorkshire

"if this happens i normally give it a day or 2 then delete and block them, no point wasting there time messaging them again

This totally!

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By *elle_Oh_BelleWoman
over a year ago

London

Its actually just too lazy or don’t even bother to delete...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a couple maybe they're waiting for the other half to read it. Mrs

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

I always reply.. unless they are rude or send.a stupid tedious copy and paste message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a couple maybe they're waiting for the other half to read it. Mrs"

Yup this.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"That's a good sign right? "

Prepare to be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a couple maybe they're waiting for the other half to read it. Mrs

Yup this.

Or debating who is going to take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a couple maybe they're waiting for the other half to read it. Mrs

Yup this.

Or debating who is going to take one for the team

Do people actually do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've been amazed by the message in their inbox and don't want to blow their chances by rushing their response.

They want to take some time to carefully craft a winning message. (This may take years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They've been amazed by the message in their inbox and don't want to blow their chances by rushing their response.

They want to take some time to carefully craft a winning message. (This may take years.

Still fingers crossed then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If it's a couple maybe they're waiting for the other half to read it. Mrs

Yup this.

Or debating who is going to take one for the team

Do people actually do this?

We were at a party once where a woman said she did.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I initially regard 'Been read' and not 'Deleted' as potentially hopeful - but it ain't necessarily so...

....some sit there for weeks - which invariably means they've fallen off the bottom of the recipient's inbox page...

....a reply expressing some interest is the only real indicator...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busy elsewhere is my view.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't delete mine unless I have unread messages off the end of the page.

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