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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things." Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely. | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely." actually i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely.actually i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do" If they wanted to say no to someone of course they could, but how often would an escort turn down someone... not if they are professional. Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. My point is they don't get to pick and choose, they get bookings which more often than not they will attend, especially if they are working for an agency. She wouldn't be kept on if she kept turning bookings down. A swinging girl has her pick and she can afford to be as picky as she likes, so after lots of random bookings it makes sense that an escort wants her pick of the crop of swingers to entertain her for a while. | |||
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" Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. " I've turned down getting into Escorts in my youth. The rear wheel drive on those things made them deadly in icy weather!! | |||
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" Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. I've turned down getting into Escorts in my youth. The rear wheel drive on those things made them deadly in icy weather!! " lmao, oooh the stories I have of boy racers in escorts in my youth. You missed out haha!! | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " Some guys get the thrill of paying for sex and when I was an escort I was providing a service and was about their needs rather than mine. When I swing its for me and what I need. | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things." no...chefs still enjoy food when not working 
she shouldnt mention her work on here though,its against site rules
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. no...chefs still enjoy food when not working
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " many reasons, escorting truly is nsa, lots of men would never dream of logging onto a swinging site,assuming it is for couples,fiends i know who escort tell me that some of the men even know they are swingers, they just assume a sex worker is the kind of totally open sexual person who can do that kind of thing. Then there are the men who get off on paying, i know a swinging couple where the male half also secretly visits escorts.The paying turns him on | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely.actually i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do If they wanted to say no to someone of course they could, but how often would an escort turn down someone... not if they are professional. Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. My point is they don't get to pick and choose, they get bookings which more often than not they will attend, especially if they are working for an agency. She wouldn't be kept on if she kept turning bookings down. A swinging girl has her pick and she can afford to be as picky as she likes, so after lots of random bookings it makes sense that an escort wants her pick of the crop of swingers to entertain her for a while." many escorts are self employed and so work as often or a little as they want,you are right about agencies, but that is no different to any temp. | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things." yeah they are but you can be both people who work in starbucks dont charge everyone for a coffee who comes round to their home  | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely.actually i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do If they wanted to say no to someone of course they could, but how often would an escort turn down someone... not if they are professional. Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. My point is they don't get to pick and choose, they get bookings which more often than not they will attend, especially if they are working for an agency. She wouldn't be kept on if she kept turning bookings down. A swinging girl has her pick and she can afford to be as picky as she likes, so after lots of random bookings it makes sense that an escort wants her pick of the crop of swingers to entertain her for a while." Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex? | |||
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" Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex?" That is about as naive as saying only desperate people swing. | |||
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"I agree Polo I'm sure people from all walks of life see escorts the good the bad and perhaps the ugly!I imagine an escort would have seen all types of men! "They see only the money  | |||
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" Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex?" Only the Buy-Sexual ones.  | |||
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"I often wondered about that if a woman with a very high sex drive would enjoy escorting? I don't think i would as i do like to choose who i play with and think it must be a very difficult thing to do if the woman is not feeling sexy /horny but still has to see clients, I know myself if i'm not in the right frame of mind i couldn't do it. And i agree they are different one is business the other for fun! "..you'd get a choice at when you wanted to work or not. Playing with someone you don't want to play with is a bridge you have to cross. ...just nice when you can do it for fun. | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely.actually i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do If they wanted to say no to someone of course they could, but how often would an escort turn down someone... not if they are professional. Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. My point is they don't get to pick and choose, they get bookings which more often than not they will attend, especially if they are working for an agency. She wouldn't be kept on if she kept turning bookings down. A swinging girl has her pick and she can afford to be as picky as she likes, so after lots of random bookings it makes sense that an escort wants her pick of the crop of swingers to entertain her for a while. Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex?" one could say the same of women on swinging sites, it wouldnt be true though | |||
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" i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do" Anyone can choose, but if your a escort and want to make money best not to be to picky | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " Terms. | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " The ability to return the blowjob as "not fit for purpose" under the Sale of Goods Act? | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? The ability to return the blowjob as "not fit for purpose" under the Sale of Goods Act? " Ponders a BS5750 shag... :O | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? The ability to return the blowjob as "not fit for purpose" under the Sale of Goods Act? Ponders a BS5750 shag... :O " Cant wait for the letter to Watchdog! Or the Which? Report | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? Terms. " because maybe the lady would meet you if you was paying but your not her type to meet you for free | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? The ability to return the blowjob as "not fit for purpose" under the Sale of Goods Act? " Must remember to keep the receipts | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " Because being a swinger doesn't mean a woman is going to sleep with every man she meets, obviously. | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things. Not really. An escort most often doesn't get to choose who she has sex with. A swinger does. So if she's a girl with a high sex drive then she'll not want to just be banging who she's paid to, she'll want to choose who she has sex with aswell surely.actually i think escort do choose who they do as well.i mayb wrong but i think they do If they wanted to say no to someone of course they could, but how often would an escort turn down someone... not if they are professional. Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. My point is they don't get to pick and choose, they get bookings which more often than not they will attend, especially if they are working for an agency. She wouldn't be kept on if she kept turning bookings down. A swinging girl has her pick and she can afford to be as picky as she likes, so after lots of random bookings it makes sense that an escort wants her pick of the crop of swingers to entertain her for a while. Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex?" I don't imagine that's true. Married men with neither the time or energy for an affair. Business men that want entertained while on a trip for work. Men that want to act out their fantasies their way. Loads of reasons why someone would hire an escort, not just because they are ugly. | |||
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" Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex?" not really a good friend of mine does it and has 3 regular guys.. in mid 20s.. very sexy.. but can not be bothered.. so easier to pay
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"Don't forget, escorts are allowed to be on the site as swingers....but advertising that they are escorts or charging isn't allowed. Always report a profile if in doubt." altho reporting a profile who you aint even talked to shudnt be done ? if you dont know any facts apart from that some one swings and escorts then surly they shudnt report them ? escorts have as much right to have fun as anyone else on here | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " Because they like paying for it? Because it creates a different atmosphere for them? | |||
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" Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. I've turned down getting into Escorts in my youth. The rear wheel drive on those things made them deadly in icy weather!! " I suspect Ari Vatanen would disagree with you... | |||
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 I asked her how she could afford it and she said she paid cash a year ago for it 
Then she said to me given I charge £150 ph! I need to do something with the money!. I wish I was getting £30 ph let alone £150 | |||
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"I have just come across something that has left me puzzled (I know it does not take much .. hehe) On a site (not Fab) I have seen a female profile that says she is a swinger and escort .. To me these are 2 opposite things." Well I have know a few escorts/working girls in my time and I have been singing with them as friends not as a client, just be cause they charge for sex doesnt mean that they dont enjoy sex on thier terms with a friend or meet! Sex/swinging can be for fun or for payment, depends how they see you or where you meet. In the end, if your not comfortable paying for sex, then dont! But it is a honest transaction betwean like minded people. | |||
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" Yes but what are the pickings like? Surely only the ugliest of men need to pay for sex? not really a good friend of mine does it and has 3 regular guys.. in mid 20s.. very sexy.. but can not be bothered.. so easier to pay
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cali x"not sure where u are getting that information from about escorts choosing. Just do a quick google of escorts and see what comes up. you'll probably find a lot more agency escorts than indies. Agency girls get given their clients and are expected to "service"them whether they like them or not. Then they have to give away a big chunk of their money to the agency. Indie girls... well they can say no if they want - they have no one to answer too, and they keep all the money! Well obviously not all as some goes to the tax man!
And what amazes me if how much money the agencies take... for instance a very well known chain of brothels in MK can take up to 50% of the girls takings... although i digress here...i am just trying to stop the profession being glamourised. | |||
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"To each their own, would i meet an escort for a no pay play? (i.e. swinging) I say bring the personality first......... " Thats a interesting point to be honest, i wonder if being an escort is one of them things people feel should be stated on their profile? Not everyine will want to meet a woman who has sex for money so should this be made clear so people can decide if they want to meet or not? Me personally i do not feel anyone should have to tell anyone anything on here, but i know some want to know the ins and outs of your arse hole before they will meet you lol | |||
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"i dont know anyone who works for a agency but i do know a few women who do esort work via advertising on escort sites " thats the same as me.. Although I do know a couple on a different swinging site that actually run an agency.. All the girls I know and from experience of working as a receptionist in a "massage" parlour I know that girls can and do turn men down. If you read a lot of profiles it states age ranges, colours, size exclusions etc... not much different from preferences on here...and in fact many of the people sending messages send photos.. so the girls can and do choose. On the big sites you can not leave feedback unless you actually book... To the lady saying where do I get my information from.. REAL life.. not google.. its normally the best way to find out about stuff.. as google swinging and you can get some pretty odd stuff...
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Doesnt make any difference to me if its for free or the lady is making cash from it.. I will happily pay for the right lady for my Master and skip the chit chat and foreplay. plus we just shop together for the right girl. Makes the ideal birthday treat.
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"we know a few swnigers who are also escorts on this site, as long as they dont advertise for finacial gain on this site they are breaking no site rules!. " what people do in there private life is THERE private life and nothing to do with anyone on this site! | |||
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"I am sure there are many that do both on here.. and why not..
Doesnt make any difference to me if its for free or the lady is making cash from it.. I will happily pay for the right lady for my Master and skip the chit chat and foreplay. plus we just shop together for the right girl. Makes the ideal birthday treat.
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has." Excuse me how dare you, but escorts are not whores and they do have standards If they enjoy sex and get pleasure from what they do then why not. Are porn stars whores too. If a lady wishes to become an escort that is one thing but if she is made to do it then that is a different matter s she is a victim, A pimp or drugs or sex trafficing. | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? The ability to return the blowjob as "not fit for purpose" under the Sale of Goods Act? Ponders a BS5750 shag... :O " oi! get on the pondering thread! | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has." What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you"  | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you" Women who get paid for services, be they dinner dates or sex are prostitutes. | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has." so if a woman meets you off here for free thats ok? If she makes money out of it shes a whore? | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you Women who get paid for services, be they dinner dates or sex are prostitutes." So if you met a woman in a hotel would you expect her to pay? If you went to her house would you want the petrol money back? everything costs in one way or another, even if you go halfs on a hotel meet your still paying out money to be able to get that shag so by your standards all women are whores | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. so if a woman meets you off here for free thats ok? If she makes money out of it shes a whore? "LOL, is the reading comprehension of this forum similar to a teenager forum? Let me state once again for those who haven't read properly. I typed SERVICES. This is a service provided to paying customers for an end product. In this case, Mr Blobby wants a handjob. "Handjobs are £10 love" - streetwalker A professional escort will sell her time for dinner dates at £100/hr or if she is selling her body, £200/hr. Who doesn't understand this past the age of 20 may very well need to go back to high school. People actually thought I meant FAB, AFF and POF? /palmface | |||
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So if i met a guy off here and he took me for a meal and i shagged him after ia that ok? | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you Women who get paid for services, be they dinner dates or sex are prostitutes." Errm isn't there such a thing as " male escorts'? | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you Women who get paid for services, be they dinner dates or sex are prostitutes. Errm isn't there such a thing as " male escorts'?" yeah but male escorts are studs and the envy of all his mates....women are just whores lol | |||
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"A professional escort will sell her time for dinner dates at £100/hr or if she is selling her body, £200/hr. /palmface" done a bit research like | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has." Wonders how you would define us swinging ladies then..... And btw your statement is complete rubbish... It's a job... Providing a service And in fact a job that used to be classed quite highly at points in history. Cali x | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. Wonders how you would define us swinging ladies then..... And btw your statement is complete rubbish... It's a job... Providing a service And in fact a job that used to be classed quite highly at points in history. Cali x " Have i told you about my minor obsession with courtesans,i have a mini library | |||
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"To be honest, Wiki call prostitutes/ escorts in the same category as Whores. There are lots of names for it, some of them that sound unsavoury....and although it might not be your own _iew....some people look at escorts/ prostitutes in a bad way....you can't change that. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution" i actually have no problem with the word whore, a good anglo saxon word imo, like fuck, and that c word that seems to cause offence... | |||
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" Plus how horrific would it be to be turned down by an escort? lol. I've turned down getting into Escorts in my youth. The rear wheel drive on those things made them deadly in icy weather!! lmao, oooh the stories I have of boy racers in escorts in my youth. You missed out haha!! " Yeah the Block yards down Hendon on Friday and Saturdays with a quick ride down to the Watersedge car park to break up the night lol. God I miss those days xxxx | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you Women who get paid for services, be they dinner dates or sex are prostitutes. Errm isn't there such a thing as " male escorts'? yeah but male escorts are studs and the envy of all his mates....women are just whores lol" LOL...How daft of me not to realise this!!! | |||
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Escorts are not a subspecies of human being, they are every day people, some do it being they enjoy their work, some do it because they had hit hard times and need the money, im my opinion they are not whores, sluts or slags they are just ladies, and in some cases men, getting on with life the best they can | |||
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"Everyone will have their own opinion on escorts but what annoys me is the way some judge escorts like its a life style, like charging for sex is all they do and because charging for sex is a bad thing that makes you a bad person or to be looked down your nose at Being a escort is a job, no more no less and when a escort is not working she is no better or worse than anyone else An escort could be anyone, someone who you work with who needs a little extra money, the mum you talk to on the play ground when you pick your kids up from school, your sister, you could mix with escorts every day and not even know, and like these ladies but if you knew what else they did your opinion on them would change....crazy
Escorts are not a subspecies of human being, they are every day people, some do it being they enjoy their work, some do it because they had hit hard times and need the money, im my opinion they are not whores, sluts or slags they are just ladies, and in some cases men, getting on with life the best they can"You could say that about anything though, people could be rapists, peados, burgulars and you would not know. It would only be a part of there life, so are you saying that we should judge them on the other things they do? I mean to them they are only making the best of their lives ? | |||
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"Everyone will have their own opinion on escorts but what annoys me is the way some judge escorts like its a life style, like charging for sex is all they do and because charging for sex is a bad thing that makes you a bad person or to be looked down your nose at Being a escort is a job, no more no less and when a escort is not working she is no better or worse than anyone else An escort could be anyone, someone who you work with who needs a little extra money, the mum you talk to on the play ground when you pick your kids up from school, your sister, you could mix with escorts every day and not even know, and like these ladies but if you knew what else they did your opinion on them would change....crazy
Escorts are not a subspecies of human being, they are every day people, some do it being they enjoy their work, some do it because they had hit hard times and need the money, im my opinion they are not whores, sluts or slags they are just ladies, and in some cases men, getting on with life the best they can
You could say that about anything though, people could be rapists, peados, burgulars and you would not know. It would only be a part of there life, so are you saying that we should judge them on the other things they do? I mean to them they are only making the best of their lives ?"your seriously compearing a escort to a rapist and pheadophile? Raping someone is not making the best of your life, its a deliberate attempt to harm someone, escorts hurt noone, what they do is between two consenting adult, two words that neither apply to a rapist or a pheadophile I actually find your comparison/exapmle offensive | |||
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"Everyone will have their own opinion on escorts but what annoys me is the way some judge escorts like its a life style, like charging for sex is all they do and because charging for sex is a bad thing that makes you a bad person or to be looked down your nose at Being a escort is a job, no more no less and when a escort is not working she is no better or worse than anyone else An escort could be anyone, someone who you work with who needs a little extra money, the mum you talk to on the play ground when you pick your kids up from school, your sister, you could mix with escorts every day and not even know, and like these ladies but if you knew what else they did your opinion on them would change....crazy
Escorts are not a subspecies of human being, they are every day people, some do it being they enjoy their work, some do it because they had hit hard times and need the money, im my opinion they are not whores, sluts or slags they are just ladies, and in some cases men, getting on with life the best they can
You could say that about anything though, people could be rapists, peados, burgulars and you would not know. It would only be a part of there life, so are you saying that we should judge them on the other things they do? I mean to them they are only making the best of their lives ?
your seriously compearing a escort to a rapist and pheadophile?
Raping someone is not making the best of your life, its a deliberate attempt to harm someone, escorts hurt noone, what they do is between two consenting adult, two words that neither apply to a rapist or a pheadophile
I actually find your comparison/exapmle offensive "You find my statement offensive fair enough.. But the point I am getting is that we need to look at someone as a whole, not only cut and paste the bits we would like. You said that people judge escorts for what they do, but they could be good people in other aspects of there life.. | |||
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"Everyone will have their own opinion on escorts but what annoys me is the way some judge escorts like its a life style, like charging for sex is all they do and because charging for sex is a bad thing that makes you a bad person or to be looked down your nose at Being a escort is a job, no more no less and when a escort is not working she is no better or worse than anyone else An escort could be anyone, someone who you work with who needs a little extra money, the mum you talk to on the play ground when you pick your kids up from school, your sister, you could mix with escorts every day and not even know, and like these ladies but if you knew what else they did your opinion on them would change....crazy
Escorts are not a subspecies of human being, they are every day people, some do it being they enjoy their work, some do it because they had hit hard times and need the money, im my opinion they are not whores, sluts or slags they are just ladies, and in some cases men, getting on with life the best they can
You could say that about anything though, people could be rapists, peados, burgulars and you would not know. It would only be a part of there life, so are you saying that we should judge them on the other things they do? I mean to them they are only making the best of their lives ?"Can a mod please remove this highy offensive post...to suggest a peodophile or rapist is making the best of hi or her life, and is no different from someone choosing a job is sickening. Atom i think you really ought to think about what you have said...escorting is a job ppl choose to do...to pay the bills,or for the extras...to compare a sex worker to a rapist or child abuser is a sign that you have no idea of the damage these crimes do. And i hope you will apologise to those who have been raped or molested for saying their attacker was only making the best of their life! | |||
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"Everyone will have their own opinion on escorts but what annoys me is the way some judge escorts like its a life style, like charging for sex is all they do and because charging for sex is a bad thing that makes you a bad person or to be looked down your nose at Being a escort is a job, no more no less and when a escort is not working she is no better or worse than anyone else An escort could be anyone, someone who you work with who needs a little extra money, the mum you talk to on the play ground when you pick your kids up from school, your sister, you could mix with escorts every day and not even know, and like these ladies but if you knew what else they did your opinion on them would change....crazy
Escorts are not a subspecies of human being, they are every day people, some do it being they enjoy their work, some do it because they had hit hard times and need the money, im my opinion they are not whores, sluts or slags they are just ladies, and in some cases men, getting on with life the best they can
You could say that about anything though, people could be rapists, peados, burgulars and you would not know. It would only be a part of there life, so are you saying that we should judge them on the other things they do? I mean to them they are only making the best of their lives ?
Can a mod please remove this highy offensive post...to suggest a peodophile or rapist is making the best of hi or her life, and is no different from someone choosing a job is sickening.
Atom i think you really ought to think about what you have said...escorting is a job ppl choose to do...to pay the bills,or for the extras...to compare a sex worker to a rapist or child abuser is a sign that you have no idea of the damage these crimes do.
And i hope you will apologise to those who have been raped or molested for saying their attacker was only making the best of their life!"I would like to clarfy my statement. I am not saying that I agree with any of the any of these types of people, I actually believe what these people do is completely wrong, it is completely against the law, society and life! The point I was making is that if someone is doing something in their life that someone else disgrees with or even is complete against then it does not matter what else they do in their life. People will still disagree with what they do. You statement said if people knew what sort of people escorted we would have a differnt _iew of them. | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has." . This makes me luff so a woman who gives it away for free is fine but if she's making a wage it's wrong ... Ain't u the charmer | |||
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"An escort is a whore with no standards except how much wad a guy has. What total and utter bollocks, but if that is your _iew of women, at least you have let it be known so we can avoid you" Lol yeah block button | |||
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"Intrapment is also wrong so a member asking info about a escort on a site ie how long u been doing it ect via email and then reporting them is wrong in my eyes " I disagree. Why should intrapment be wrong. Intrapment is a good detection system. Would you disagree in a Police officers prentending to be children in chat rooms, so to help in the detection and capture of peados. Or police pretending to be buyers of drugs to catch drug dealers? It is not a quetion of how they got caught, it is more the fact they did get caught !! If you break the law or break the rules then you should not complain about be caught or the penalty given. As the old saying goes "If you can not do the time do not do the crime" | |||
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"Changing the subject a bit. I was was having lunch with a friend who is an escort in Manchester. A man came over to me. ( when said friend was away). looked straight at me and said, god she a good fuck. Worth every penny) I couldn't believe someone who hired an escort would walk a cross a room and say that to some he didn't know . I did say back that i would not fuck my sister. Ian" Would have loved to have seen the crass twats face lol xx | |||
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"Intrapment is also wrong so a member asking info about a escort on a site ie how long u been doing it ect via email and then reporting them is wrong in my eyes I disagree. Why should intrapment be wrong. Intrapment is a good detection system. Would you disagree in a Police officers prentending to be children in chat rooms, so to help in the detection and capture of peados. Or police pretending to be buyers of drugs to catch drug dealers? It is not a quetion of how they got caught, it is more the fact they did get caught !! If you break the law or break the rules then you should not complain about be caught or the penalty given. As the old saying goes "If you can not do the time do not do the crime"" Yes but if you don't break a rule and the member lies and makes it to be something it isn't that's wrong simple as You can't ask something twist it and report what a borrow mind wishes to see that's wrong and even the police are not allowed to use intrapment anymore ... Well ok maybe a few Bent ones wud | |||
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"Intrapment is also wrong so a member asking info about a escort on a site ie how long u been doing it ect via email and then reporting them is wrong in my eyes I disagree. Why should intrapment be wrong. Intrapment is a good detection system. Would you disagree in a Police officers prentending to be children in chat rooms, so to help in the detection and capture of peados. Or police pretending to be buyers of drugs to catch drug dealers? It is not a quetion of how they got caught, it is more the fact they did get caught !! If you break the law or break the rules then you should not complain about be caught or the penalty given. As the old saying goes "If you can not do the time do not do the crime" Yes but if you don't break a rule and the member lies and makes it to be something it isn't that's wrong simple as You can't ask something twist it and report what a borrow mind wishes to see that's wrong and even the police are not allowed to use intrapment anymore ... Well ok maybe a few Bent ones wud " There are 2 different things here. Someone using entrapment methods to spot a law or rule breaker. Someone using entrapment to make someone break a law or a rule. It depends on if the person was already breaking rules or laws and the methods just allowed them to be seen. Or if the method used to force an innocent person to break the law/rules .. By the way entrapment is not illegal in this UK. Police in the UK use sting operations all the time.. | |||
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tho haha
Anyway I wud love to stay and chat but I have a meet in half a hour x | |||
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"Intrapment is a method the police will use on things like drugs but wud frown upon it being used on a escort as they wud have to break the law to use it to get proof without doubt tho haha
Anyway I wud love to stay and chat but I have a meet in half a hour x "Do not kid yourself, in the UK police have used and will still use entrapment as I way of catching escorts working illegally. It is a valid tool in UK policing. | |||
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"Intrapment is a method the police will use on things like drugs but wud frown upon it being used on a escort as they wud have to break the law to use it to get proof without doubt tho haha
Anyway I wud love to stay and chat but I have a meet in half a hour x
Do not kid yourself, in the UK police have used and will still use entrapment as I way of catching escorts working illegally. It is a valid tool in UK policing.
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"Intrapment is a method the police will use on things like drugs but wud frown upon it being used on a escort as they wud have to break the law to use it to get proof without doubt tho haha
Anyway I wud love to stay and chat but I have a meet in half a hour x
Do not kid yourself, in the UK police have used and will still use entrapment as I way of catching escorts working illegally. It is a valid tool in UK policing.
But escorting is not illegal"But escorts can work illegal, they can comment offenses as apart of their escorting. An escort standing on a street corner looking for business is illegal for example, and there are many more laws they can break,, | |||
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"Intrapment is a method the police will use on things like drugs but wud frown upon it being used on a escort as they wud have to break the law to use it to get proof without doubt tho haha
Anyway I wud love to stay and chat but I have a meet in half a hour x
Do not kid yourself, in the UK police have used and will still use entrapment as I way of catching escorts working illegally. It is a valid tool in UK policing.
But escorting is not illegal
But escorts can work illegal, they can comment offenses as apart of their escorting. An escort standing on a street corner looking for business is illegal for example, and there are many more laws they can break,,"An escort would not stand on a street corner that is a prositute. The act of prositution is not illegal kerb crawling is. | |||
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"Intrapment is also wrong so a member asking info about a escort on a site ie how long u been doing it ect via email and then reporting them is wrong in my eyes I disagree. Why should intrapment be wrong. Intrapment is a good detection system. Would you disagree in a Police officers prentending to be children in chat rooms, so to help in the detection and capture of peados. Or police pretending to be buyers of drugs to catch drug dealers? It is not a quetion of how they got caught, it is more the fact they did get caught !! If you break the law or break the rules then you should not complain about be caught or the penalty given. As the old saying goes "If you can not do the time do not do the crime" Yes but if you don't break a rule and the member lies and makes it to be something it isn't that's wrong simple as You can't ask something twist it and report what a borrow mind wishes to see that's wrong and even the police are not allowed to use intrapment anymore ... Well ok maybe a few Bent ones wud " Admin will only act on what evidence there is...they don't act if a person is reported for nothing. | |||
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"Intrapment is a method the police will use on things like drugs but wud frown upon it being used on a escort as they wud have to break the law to use it to get proof without doubt tho haha
Anyway I wud love to stay and chat but I have a meet in half a hour x
Do not kid yourself, in the UK police have used and will still use entrapment as I way of catching escorts working illegally. It is a valid tool in UK policing.
But escorting is not illegal
But escorts can work illegal, they can comment offenses as apart of their escorting. An escort standing on a street corner looking for business is illegal for example, and there are many more laws they can break,,"i think you need to inform yourself, as you clearly dont have a clue about this debate, as you have shown already...escorts do not work the streets,that is why they are escorts | |||
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"I have a monthly chat with our local police due to my job so I think your find I know what's legal lol Infact after the murders in Ipswich the police formed a team to go around to do checks on girls.. so the girls can share info on risky clients ect .. they help set up tax forms and so on and as long as the girls are legal to work there ok ie over 18 and are legal to work in the uk .. Police will not allow street girls but girls working for themselves they will allow they will also allow more than 1 lady to work from a house you can Infact have 3 if one is the maid ... The illegal part is living off emoral earnings ie a Pimp . To pay for sex or offer sex itself is not illegal if in a house . The police also will clamp down if they do drugs or buy stolen goods of shop lifters I have also known of cases where the police have fitted panic alarms in houses where escorts work in Ipswich " although we need a change in the law so girls can work together so they can look out for each other. http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2012/jan/06/prostitutes-criminalised?INTCMP=SRCH An excellent article on why the state should stop putting women at risk and benefiting from their earnings. | |||
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"Why would anyone pay you for sex if they knew you was giving it away for free ?? " Because as has already been pointed out not everyone will get the chance of a "free ride", people do have standards and some1 might not be their type so they will say no, but if a request is made via the other site then the chances are she isn't going to turn down the money. There is a big difference between doing it for fun and doing it for profit! | |||
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"Changing the subject a bit. I was was having lunch with a friend who is an escort in Manchester. A man came over to me. ( when said friend was away). looked straight at me and said, god she a good fuck. Worth every penny) I couldn't believe someone who hired an escort would walk a cross a room and say that to some he didn't know . I did say back that i would not fuck my sister. Ian Would have loved to have seen the crass twats face lol xx "Look for oh, shit what have i done. I told her what he said, she just went over to his table and asked him not to try and book her again. Am sure his friend was so impressed. Ian | |||
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"why is it no one slags the guys off who meet escorts?. "They're all thorough rapscallions! | |||
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"why is it no one slags the guys off who meet escorts?. "or male escorts | |||
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"paying turns him on" i have never heard of anything so perverted..should have his wallet..all bank cards confiscated | |||
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