FabSwingers.com forum: Men offering cash for meets.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it a select few men try and get meets by offering cash.

Do they assume the women on here are prostitutes? Also why do the Admins never remove these people when they are reported.

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Had a few of these

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had a few of these

Dunno why they don't just go to their local brothel or adult work if that's what they are after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of the men on here do not know the difference between swinging and Prostitution. They treat women like a piece of meat, do not care what they look like - need we go on?

Admin will never ban them if they are bringing in Revenue!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Had this happen to much. The worst are the ones who offer cash after being told no thanks to a normal (cashless) meet. Reported eaxh time and now they just sit, active, on my block list.

Then theres the "hotel meet now, £ and nose treats" status guys who are getting more and more common, again nothing stops them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men on Fab are obviously spawn of the devil

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had this happen to much. The worst are the ones who offer cash after being told no thanks to a normal (cashless) meet. Reported eaxh time and now they just sit, active, on my block list.

Then theres the "hotel meet now, £ and nose treats" status guys who are getting more and more common, again nothing stops them

That's what we had. A cash and nose treat offer for a one on one meet with the female of our couple. Would name and shame them but not allowed.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Report them I do admin have been dealing with them fairly promptly recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as there is an awful lot of females doing exactly the same...

You get chatting when a meet or pic swaps are mentioned they request money...

It goes both ways not just single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few of these

How much did you charge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same as there is an awful lot of females doing exactly the same...

You get chatting when a meet or pic swaps are mentioned they request money...

It goes both ways not just single males"

First we've heard of this but we have only been on site a short while and only had it off single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% of the men on here do not know the difference between swinging and Prostitution. They treat women like a piece of meat, do not care what they look like - need we go on?

Admin will never ban them if they are bringing in Revenue!"
take it that includes your man or do you mean single guys as men in couples would never do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as there is an awful lot of females doing exactly the same...

You get chatting when a meet or pic swaps are mentioned they request money...

It goes both ways not just single males"

Yeah have to say the "seeking paypig" "seeking sugar-daddy" profiles are rife. Then there's the old "skint, dunno what I'll do" statuses

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

This happens to me on a weekly basis.

Do they seriously think it will work?!

I find it very annoying as I'm not a prostitute.

I report every profile that offees me cash for sex, yet I don't get any feedback from admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it a select few men try and get meets by offering cash.

Do they assume the women on here are prostitutes? Also why do the Admins never remove these people when they are reported."

I'll pay you to chat about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few guys offer £200 to suck me off. I know i have a nice cock but that's desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75% of replies I get from mails sent to female profile ask for money for a meet, or offering to cam or send pictures once I have sent money via PayPal..

Maybe I'm sending to the wrong profiles, but it happens

It's not just male profiles that do it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the kind of calibre girls that they are used to. I worked night clubs most of my life and the pretty girls would usually fawn over the richer looking gents knowing that they will get them whatever they want.

Some left with them, some didn't. But sadly shows that it's not just the blokes who Stoke this way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lot of men trying to pay so I will let them suck my cock but then again I get a few women who say I have to pay to meet or pay to see pics of them so i can’t win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always getting asked to send money for there snapchat

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"Had a few of these

How much did you charge

I should clarify - I’ve had a few of these messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as there is an awful lot of females doing exactly the same...

You get chatting when a meet or pic swaps are mentioned they request money...

It goes both ways not just single males"

Absolutely agree.

Has been happening a lot lately. After a while, you can tell from the profile itself.

People getting verified by meeting within minutes or hours of joining the site with a generic verification kind of give it away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sados

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Why is it a select few men try and get meets by offering cash.

Do they assume the women on here are prostitutes? Also why do the Admins never remove these people when they are reported."

There's quite a few "working girls" on here, but totally agree with your sentiments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with so many women asking for money and gifts its sending the wrong message out ive sp0oke to some new guys who said they thought it was normal as meny women in there first few weeks on fab were saying its money/gifts or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never offered or payed a woman for sex surely their needs to be an attraction both ways

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"90% of the men on here do not know the difference between swinging and Prostitution. They treat women like a piece of meat, do not care what they look like - need we go on?

Admin will never ban them if they are bringing in Revenue!"

90% ??? So no stereotyping or prejudice here then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*spoken *many jeeze i aint pissed

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"This happens to me on a weekly basis.

Do they seriously think it will work?!

I find it very annoying as I'm not a prostitute.

I report every profile that offees me cash for sex, yet I don't get any feedback from admin"
no you don't get any personal feedback but they do delete those who ask for money for any kind of favour .it is not allowed on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% of the men on here do not know the difference between swinging and Prostitution. They treat women like a piece of meat, do not care what they look like - need we go on?

Admin will never ban them if they are bringing in Revenue!"

Maybe you got you figures wrong

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

As a submissive cuck wannabe i may offer to pay for a couple to have a date buy sexy underwear etc but my offer is never to pay for sex.

In fact its the opposite i get excited at the thought of a alpha couple beneifiting from me getting up and going to work, while they have fun together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a female in my area that chats then tries charging for a blow job in a car.

No thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Asking for or offering money is against site rules as is asking for or offering illegal substances.

Admin always deal with reports about these things and I'll post how next.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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