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By *estsuffolkcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Just wondered why couples say no single men you will be blocked yet put males in there looking to meet.

Why not just not accept messages from that sex?

Or do you think the female half’s secretly like getting dick pics?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is your profile pic OP ?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It’s easier for them to search than get inundated I’m guessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- They still want people to be able to message them from the forums if they get on?

- They do want to meet single guys but want to do the choosing themselves.

- Because they can.

And almost nobody enjoys unsolicited dick pics

C

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What is your profile pic OP ?"

It’s a pic of a naked couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so they can chose who they message rather than being bombarded from single guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile, they can run it as they see fit. How anyone goes about their business on here doesn't affect anyone else. They probably search themselves so they're not overrun with single guys messaging.

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By *estsuffolkcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's time wasting. They show up on searches but aren't meeting those people. It shouldn't be allowed.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost. "
exactly this there is no other reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here and on My couple profile I will block men sometimes

Here i just ignore most messages

The reason is because no matter what you put in profile regarding meets etc , men have a massive tendency not thread them. It's a massive annoyance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost. "

Certainly not an ego boost for me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is your profile pic OP ?

It’s a pic of a naked couple "

Thanks. On my phone it looks like a black square.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost. "

Well said!

Just adjust settings so single guys can’t message you! Job done!

Unfortunately there to many on here who say one thing but there profile suggests the opposite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost.

Well said!

Just adjust settings so single guys can’t message you! Job done!

Unfortunately there to many on here who say one thing but there profile suggests the opposite!"

So we shouldn't chat with our friends on here who are single guys? I don't get that logic

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost.

Well said!

Just adjust settings so single guys can’t message you! Job done!

Unfortunately there to many on here who say one thing but there profile suggests the opposite!

So we shouldn't chat with our friends on here who are single guys? I don't get that logic

C"

You can still message single guys you want to speak to, just message them first and they will be able to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, couples and women on here get a million messages from single men all the time no matter what they write. Dick pics, stupid "hi how r u?" style messages and high levels of abuse from all the idiotic blokes on here.

Read profiles, reply to the ones you genuinely think are a good match, and if they delete/don't read your message, move onto someone else.

If you read something in a profile that puts you off, as per your OP, then they aren't a good match. See above.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Just wondered why couples say no single men you will be blocked yet put males in there looking to meet.

Why not just not accept messages from that sex?

Or do you think the female half’s secretly like getting dick pics?

"

Because they want to meet men but want to do the searching themselves without getting cock pics all day.

How they run their profile is up to them though, just worry about yours OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost.

Well said!

Just adjust settings so single guys can’t message you! Job done!

Unfortunately there to many on here who say one thing but there profile suggests the opposite!

So we shouldn't chat with our friends on here who are single guys? I don't get that logic

C

You can still message single guys you want to speak to, just message them first and they will be able to respond."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost.

Well said!

Just adjust settings so single guys can’t message you! Job done!

Unfortunately there to many on here who say one thing but there profile suggests the opposite!"

So where do people have conflicting text on what they do?

Surely a profile says all they have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine says not meeting because life is difficult atm but doesn't mean I'm not chatting... it's not an ego boost at all more a statement so if an immanent meet is what they are looking for then it's obviously best not to messagee me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine says not meeting because life is difficult atm but doesn't mean I'm not chatting... it's not an ego boost at all more a statement so if an immanent meet is what they are looking for then it's obviously best not to messagee me "

Mine says not doing anything has have a baby

Yet they Think I can just spare a couple of hours because they are horny

It defies logic what planet the fuckers are on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience is it's not just men who don't read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it with people who say they don't smoke....But when you meet them, they do actually smoke...

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Egoo boost. They want men to mail them but then they can get all snooty asking why they didn't read their profile.

Same reason people say they're not meeting but still have men etc ticked on their 'looking for' list. Ego boost. "

I have that I'm not meeting in my profile, but I haven't blocked anyone from contacting me.

And I haven't done it for an ego boost, but because I am in the process of organising a number of running socials and I don't want to stop people from contacting me from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found it with people who say they don't smoke....But when you meet them, they do actually smoke... "

Exactly!

And profiles who don’t meet single guys but have loads of recent verifications from single guys from one on one meets and display them!

Doh! Thick as mince!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it worry you.

Best thing to do is just have nothing to do with self absorbed people.

It's supposed to be fun and shared enjoyment, not all about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it worry you.

Best thing to do is just have nothing to do with self absorbed people.

It's supposed to be fun and shared enjoyment, not all about them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet men but I still get lots of men messaging me to meet. There's been a few today in fact, including a MM couple.

I usually send them a playful message asking them to read my profile which either gets rid of them or they tell me to f**k off (or similar)

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I block single men but still talk to them at clubs. I know a lot of couple and single men that block single guys to stop the endless amounts that message them and control emails

It’s fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it worry you.

Best thing to do is just have nothing to do with self absorbed people.

It's supposed to be fun and shared enjoyment, not all about them

"

Spot on its meant to be fun its no good getting all riled up and bitter just see how things go even if never meet anyone at least can have a laugh on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s easier for them to search than get inundated I’m guessing. "

This is what we do, not looking for single guys but there are occasions when we fancy a MMF so we then message them. It’s easier that way round.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Concentrate on the folk who are interested in meeting your gender.

Those that complain they are messaged by those they're not looking to meet can choose to block them from doing so. Saves any drama. Or you'll have to accept folk of any and all genders will choose to message you.. just like in real life we all get junk mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Concentrate on the folk who are interested in meeting your gender.

Those that complain they are messaged by those they're not looking to meet can choose to block them from doing so. Saves any drama. Or you'll have to accept folk of any and all genders will choose to message you.. just like in real life we all get junk mail.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it worry you.

Best thing to do is just have nothing to do with self absorbed people.

It's supposed to be fun and shared enjoyment, not all about them

"

Thank you

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We do meet single men but only at clubs as clearly stated on our profile. We don’t block them from messaging us as the odd 1 out of 100 has actually read our profile and has something that tempts us.

Our issue is with the other 99% who don’t bother to read even the first line of our profile. Last week we recieved 9 messages from single guys - the total word count was 16 ‘words’ in total across all the messages, mostly in text speak!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"We do meet single men but only at clubs as clearly stated on our profile. We don’t block them from messaging us as the odd 1 out of 100 has actually read our profile and has something that tempts us.

Our issue is with the other 99% who don’t bother to read even the first line of our profile. Last week we recieved 9 messages from single guys - the total word count was 16 ‘words’ in total across all the messages, mostly in text speak!"

Ahh the might miss out on a good one rationale, use the tools or not, if you choose not to.. you'll have to accept just like in real life some junk mail.

All gendersp, I can say with certainty a lot of the ladies put zero effort into the messages they send me, I've said it before I treat fab as a two way street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do meet single men but only at clubs as clearly stated on our profile. We don’t block them from messaging us as the odd 1 out of 100 has actually read our profile and has something that tempts us.

Our issue is with the other 99% who don’t bother to read even the first line of our profile. Last week we recieved 9 messages from single guys - the total word count was 16 ‘words’ in total across all the messages, mostly in text speak!"

If you're not meeting men you don't have to block them.

If you have men on your 'looking for' list you show up on their searches. Because you are a couple looking for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do meet single men but only at clubs as clearly stated on our profile. We don’t block them from messaging us as the odd 1 out of 100 has actually read our profile and has something that tempts us.

Our issue is with the other 99% who don’t bother to read even the first line of our profile. Last week we recieved 9 messages from single guys - the total word count was 16 ‘words’ in total across all the messages, mostly in text speak!"

I’m not sure how 16 words divided by 9 men can be text speak.

I’ve just read your profile, similarly to many from the same angle, and to me as the guy in a couple it does come across as you’ll only put up with me because I come as part of a package with a female.

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By *estsuffolkcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Thank you all great reading xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cause if they blocked single males from messaging then they wouldn’t get much mail at all, we don’t get messages from women or couples, mainly males, which is fine cause we do invite one over occasionally when looking to have a 3some.

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