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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Out of ten what would u give me and what could I do to make myself more appealing physically if all the tens don’t start rolling in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one very unappealing photo, one-line profile, off-putting username and text-speak in your posting. Need I go on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah what’s up with the photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That light fitting is a health and safety disaster waiting to happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a builder,we were renovating

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Stick a fullstop after your one sentence profile as it looks unfinished.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Stick a fullstop after your one sentence profile as it looks unfinished."

*verify not veri.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I said physically in my description, nowt about the profile text but thank you either way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I am verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your other thread you are looking for an entertainment for your Mrs.. Having a single profile can be confusing for others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doesn’t change how I think about myself on here, can be pretty shitty for ones self esteem this place when your constantly being knocked back by people u wouldn’t dream of fucking in “real life” so many absolute horrors treating people like shit makes you wonder if there is actually something wrong! U probally get this far less frequently being a woman and clearly gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah what’s up with the photo? "

Nothing. You have a nice body- not a 10 for me, but I would give you an 8.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very kind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why such a negative response when asked for an advice.

Beauty is in the eye of a beer holder as some might say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t change how I think about myself on here, can be pretty shitty for ones self esteem this place when your constantly being knocked back by people u wouldn’t dream of fucking in “real life” so many absolute horrors treating people like shit makes you wonder if there is actually something wrong! U probally get this far less frequently being a woman and clearly gorgeous!"

You soon learn on here that men and women treat each other very differently. If an overweight women started a thread, seeking sympathy, she would have no end of men and women blowing smoke up her arse to make her feel better about herself.

I would leave this thread now, or you'll become even angrier and get told off.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I said physically in my description, nowt about the profile text but thank you either way "

Oh yeah apologies it's early.

6 1/2 nearly a 7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very kind x"

I'm not being kind. I have my opinion, based on your photo- other people will give a differing opinion, and you should accept that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn’t negative at all just expressing frustration and the reason for the post.... it does so physically in the post so don’t get so much why others brining up profilet ext etc x thanks for replying tho, very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I’m not angry x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"And I am verified "

If that's to me (use the reply+quote) I just meant change the last word to verify.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I am verified

If that's to me (use the reply+quote) I just meant change the last word to verify."

Thank you so u have a pic? X

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on your profile but your avatar pic shows me a half decent looking man so it’s a 7 from me.

Maybe just calm down a little with your comments as people are judged by their forum posts.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on your profile but your avatar pic shows me a half decent looking man so it’s a 7 from me.

Maybe just calm down a little with your comments as people are judged by their forum posts.

Good luck.

Lol thank you I judge people of their ability to read so my bad too x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Doesn’t change how I think about myself on here, can be pretty shitty for ones self esteem this place when your constantly being knocked back by people u wouldn’t dream of fucking in “real life” so many absolute horrors treating people like shit makes you wonder if there is actually something wrong! U probally get this far less frequently being a woman and clearly gorgeous!"

Oh my...

So now I'm thinking men have only fucked me on here because I've a hole and not because they think I'm vaguely appealing to them.

This is not a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion about someone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That light fitting is a health and safety disaster waiting to happen "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knocks..blocks and no replies all part of fab

How boring if every man and every woman the same

Enough said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn’t change how I think about myself on here, can be pretty shitty for ones self esteem this place when your constantly being knocked back by people u wouldn’t dream of fucking in “real life” so many absolute horrors treating people like shit makes you wonder if there is actually something wrong! U probally get this far less frequently being a woman and clearly gorgeous!

Oh my...

Wasn’t aimed at u obviously but u know there are some horrors.... can’t see as your profile is hidden so wouldn’t know

So now I'm thinking men have only fucked me on here because I've a hole and not because they think I'm vaguely appealing to them.

This is not a good day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn’t negative at all just expressing frustration and the reason for the post.... it does so physically in the post so don’t get so much why others brining up profilet ext etc x thanks for replying tho, very much appreciated "

Try a different approach. Sexy lighting, semi-naked pics. A different text on your profile. Experiment a bit.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion about someone on here. "

Agreed

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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion about someone on here. "

Absolutely!! I spend much more time reading about our compatibility than looking at their pics xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion about someone on here.

Absolutely!! I spend much more time reading about our compatibility than looking at their pics xx"

So based on pics

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Doesn’t change how I think about myself on here, can be pretty shitty for ones self esteem this place when your constantly being knocked back by people u wouldn’t dream of fucking in “real life” so many absolute horrors treating people like shit makes you wonder if there is actually something wrong! U probally get this far less frequently being a woman and clearly gorgeous!

Oh my...

Wasn’t aimed at u obviously but u know there are some horrors.... can’t see as your profile is hidden so wouldn’t know

So now I'm thinking men have only fucked me on here because I've a hole and not because they think I'm vaguely appealing to them.

This is not a good day."

But do you not see that lots of women may be put off by what you've just said. So you message woman that you don't find attractive then get uppity when even they say no to you.

It would be advantageous of you take Virginmarys advice.

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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion about someone on here.

Absolutely!! I spend much more time reading about our compatibility than looking at their pics xx

So based on pics "

I didn't even bother looking because you hadn't bothered to fill out the bio section. I care more about the attention people out into their profile than their pics. Just our preference x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion

So based on pics

I didn't even bother looking because you hadn't bothered to fill out the bio section. I care more about the attention people out into their profile

than their pics. Just our preference x

Thanks so based on the post which was a question of physicality you didn’t read, hense the reason I don’t fill out the profile..... 90% are generic and therefore unlikely to be read and what is read is unlikely to be a true account....most people are here just to jump and judge people. Some people are clearly just reading the follow up and not the original post

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion

So based on pics

I didn't even bother looking because you hadn't bothered to fill out the bio section. I care more about the attention people out into their profile

than their pics. Just our preference x

Thanks so based on the post which was a question of physicality you didn’t read, hense the reason I don’t fill out the profile..... 90% are generic and therefore unlikely to be read and what is read is unlikely to be a true account....most people are here just to jump and judge people. Some people are clearly just reading the follow up and not the original post

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You've posted in a forum, so please expect people to have an opinion. Personally, I never base my opinion in looks alone. If I'm going to fuck someone, I want to know we're compatible in areas beyond looks. It's clear you've taken umbridge to my comment and this demonstrates exactly why it's important to establish a connection NOT based on looks.

Apologies that you didn't get the answer you we're looking for from me. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either."

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same "
in fact this place isn’t based on profiles it’s based on verifications.... get three or four and everyone wants to meet u regardless of profile... they are all generic with the same things written in a slightly different way.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same "

The good male profiles stand out because they aren't the same though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same

The good male profiles stand out because they aren't the same though."

So basically I should go to a club, the guys on your veri list are from clubs.... allthisr profiles generic and very little about “ who they are”

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm gonna leave this thread, too, as my job here is done I wish you good luck, OP.

P.S. Pictures, profile, header and status go all hand in hand for me to make an opinion

So based on pics

I didn't even bother looking because you hadn't bothered to fill out the bio section. I care more about the attention people out into their profile

than their pics. Just our preference x

Thanks so based on the post which was a question of physicality you didn’t read, hense the reason I don’t fill out the profile..... 90% are generic and therefore unlikely to be read and what is read is unlikely to be a true account....most people are here just to jump and judge people. Some people are clearly just reading the follow up and not the original post

"

But do you not realise the men that put effort into their profile are going to be far more successful than those that don't. Then you won't feel the need to start thread's like this,which in all honesty could make you feel a whole lot worse.

Be different than other men on here,we women need something to connect to other than just a photo. We need to get a feel for you,how your mind works,what makes YOU tick. Give it a go you may be pleasantly surprised.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same

The good male profiles stand out because they aren't the same though.

So basically I should go to a club, the guys on your veri list are from clubs.... allthisr profiles generic and very little about “ who they are” "

For me it's about the whole person, not what they look like, which is why clubs work for me because you get to meet a person and not pixels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same

The good male profiles stand out because they aren't the same though.

So basically I should go to a club, the guys on your veri list are from clubs.... allthisr profiles generic and very little about “ who they are”

For me it's about the whole person, not what they look like, which is why clubs work for me because you get to meet a person and not pixels."

Makes sense so “if” I had a decent personality my body wouldn’t put u off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same in fact this place isn’t based on profiles it’s based on verifications.... get three or four and everyone wants to meet u regardless of profile... they are all generic with the same things written in a slightly different way. "

I've happily met men without verifications, it's the whole person not their photos, profile text or there verifications. Yes photos need to be appealing but there needs to be a nice person to go with them.

For me personally your photos are a 4

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"It's an online profile so people won't just judge by your pictures and I'm sure the people who have verified you will be delighted by your comments in this thread. In terms of looks everyone will have a different view and by looks alone you wouldn't appeal to me but looks are only part of the jigsaw as I wouldn't be interested in anyone in real life by looks alone either.

Each to 5ier own, I just asked based on pics that’s all. I’d say u went and met someone, not everyone is walking around with a profile over their heads.... most initiation of conversations from “strangers” are based on firstly looks.... after that u have a convo and get thier “profile” there is people who are not massivly attractive in the conventional sense but once u get to know them maybe they are.... if you look at Male profile with text they are 90% the same

The good male profiles stand out because they aren't the same though.

So basically I should go to a club, the guys on your veri list are from clubs.... allthisr profiles generic and very little about “ who they are”

For me it's about the whole person, not what they look like, which is why clubs work for me because you get to meet a person and not pixels.

Makes sense so “if” I had a decent personality my body wouldn’t put u off "

Personality, intelligence, relaxed nature, fun....all of these things are more important than looks so no your looks wouldn't put me off but you asked about looks alone hence my original answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos with clothes on can help because style goes along way, detailed description of the type of person you are and what you like is a must.

This Maybe controversial but your verifications are absolutely key. brief ones with people you wouldn't 'date' let's say are a massive turn off ....look at some successful mens profiles and take from them what you need to create a good profile for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on my phone so I have to go 4 photos down before I got to see you....action shots aren’t my thing.

You’re a decent looking guy in relatively good shape but you seem to lack the empathy/easy going nature/humility that makes a decent looking guy a gorgeous/sexy guy.

What were you expecting from a post asking for people to rate you? People are trying to explain why they can’t rate you solely on your looks as they want to see what you are like as a person too.

Unfortunately you arguing with people who are actually trying to help you understand why they can’t give you a score, says more about you.

As you’ve mentioned you’ve not asked for profile advice but the successful guys on here, don’t always have great looks, they have personalities, they come across as interesting, intriguing, they don’t see women as an object, they look to connect. They understand that they have to try and stand out to even the odds on here.

Decent photos, profile, messages and coming across as a regular easy going guy go a long way on here.

Scores? 7 for pic alone, 4/5 based on everything else.

Good luck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to rate you like you asked.... but as you have come across quite argumentative when others have tried to help or advise you,then think I'll give it a miss.

If your not willing to accept or listen to what you have asked for then don't create these type of threads

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