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"I'm hoping to find this. "Yes - its really sexy scenario. Years ago, I dated a hotwife - did the usual things, cinema, dinner , shows - she stayed over my place, i stayed over at her place and shared her with hubby...great days! | |||
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"I was wondering if any hotwife couples have boyfriends who go out on "dates" and 1x1s with the wife - dinner, cinema, sex before going back to hubby...(as well as the usual MFM fun). I find it dry erotic to go on a date with married lady knowing her husband approves/enjoys" Yes, but only one very special guy. | |||
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"I was wondering if any hotwife couples have boyfriends who go out on "dates" and 1x1s with the wife - dinner, cinema, sex before going back to hubby...(as well as the usual MFM fun). I find it dry erotic to go on a date with married lady knowing her husband approves/enjoys Yes, but only one very special guy." He is also very lucky guy... | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken." I agree - its fantastic situation to be in - but often as you said, its just logistics and timing. With one couple i played with - years ago, they lived just outside of london, so it was easy to meet and have fun. With other couples, the distance has made this very hard. Like you, its much harder than it seems... | |||
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"We both do this as we’re in an open relationship." Wow - thats lovely! A lot to juggle... | |||
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"I was wondering if any hotwife couples have boyfriends who go out on "dates" and 1x1s with the wife - dinner, cinema, sex before going back to hubby...(as well as the usual MFM fun). I find it dry erotic to go on a date with married lady knowing her husband approves/enjoys" This is something I have specifically been looking for for a good while now! Find the whole relationship with a couple very erotic! | |||
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"I was wondering if any hotwife couples have boyfriends who go out on "dates" and 1x1s with the wife - dinner, cinema, sex before going back to hubby...(as well as the usual MFM fun). I find it dry erotic to go on a date with married lady knowing her husband approves/enjoys" I have done this a few times but only twice has it materialised into a proper ‘relationship’, I think it’s better like this as u can really get to know a couple and push some boundaries. Unfortunately these scenarios appear to be rare but I wish u luck mate | |||
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"The only problem with this scenario is that real life gets in the way.... For a single guy in this type of relationship it’s hard during the holidays and when you have events you have to bring a date to... like a wedding or work function... It’s very hard to date in the vanilla world and also have a exclusive relationship with a hotwife...." I agree - it seems easy on paper, but in rel life, logistics can be a nightmare. But when it works, it can be fantastic - with me it was in my early 30s with a older couple. Both of them as I are/were "free spirits". And I wasnt interested in vanilla dating. There wasnt an expectation that we would meet up every week. She and I were too busy, But every month/couple of months we would meet up. As you said, logistics /flexibility had to work | |||
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"So how does this kind of work? A married/taken female has a 2nd relationship on the side with another guy, who she dates, goes on nights out, cinema, meals, breaks and has the ususal open sex within a "relationship" So where does the line stop with this? I think imo if your meeting now and then and mixing up your meets thats different, but having a long term thing with 1 particular guy, isnt that abit more serious? As in having casual regular sex with a guy, opening meeting for a meal and sex ect. Doesnt their then become some kind of sexual/physical attachment? Im not having a go, im just generally asking as it sounds very hot,but i think as a realisitic view it woukd destroy alot of relationships?" Well, in vanilla life, there are its of people who have FWB or fuck busy relationships - where they may go on a date and have sex with someone without it being a full on relationship These relationships are the same, except one of the parties is a hotwife who has husband who encourages here to have sex with other men and to casually date other men.. | |||
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"So how does this kind of work? A married/taken female has a 2nd relationship on the side with another guy, who she dates, goes on nights out, cinema, meals, breaks and has the ususal open sex within a "relationship" So where does the line stop with this? I think imo if your meeting now and then and mixing up your meets thats different, but having a long term thing with 1 particular guy, isnt that abit more serious? As in having casual regular sex with a guy, opening meeting for a meal and sex ect. Doesnt their then become some kind of sexual/physical attachment? Im not having a go, im just generally asking as it sounds very hot,but i think as a realisitic view it woukd destroy alot of relationships? Well, in vanilla life, there are its of people who have FWB or fuck busy relationships - where they may go on a date and have sex with someone without it being a full on relationship These relationships are the same, except one of the parties is a hotwife who has husband who encourages here to have sex with other men and to casually date other men.." Oh ok, i thought from what i read (my bad) that she is to be in a relationship along side her relationship with her husband/partner. Which i cant see how that works because that would surely interfere terribly with a normal long term relationship? Surely to be in this kind of situation you'd have to or will have some mutual feelings ? Having regular meets social and sex, as a typical daily thing being partially attached to this guy. (Not saying you meet every day but being part of a couple you'd speak/arrange ect pn some sort of daily or regular basis) would this not interfere with a relationship? Again just asking as i find it interesting im not having a go at anyone. | |||
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"So how does this kind of work? A married/taken female has a 2nd relationship on the side with another guy, who she dates, goes on nights out, cinema, meals, breaks and has the ususal open sex within a "relationship" So where does the line stop with this? I think imo if your meeting now and then and mixing up your meets thats different, but having a long term thing with 1 particular guy, isnt that abit more serious? As in having casual regular sex with a guy, opening meeting for a meal and sex ect. Doesnt their then become some kind of sexual/physical attachment? Im not having a go, im just generally asking as it sounds very hot,but i think as a realisitic view it woukd destroy alot of relationships? Well, in vanilla life, there are its of people who have FWB or fuck busy relationships - where they may go on a date and have sex with someone without it being a full on relationship These relationships are the same, except one of the parties is a hotwife who has husband who encourages here to have sex with other men and to casually date other men.. Oh ok, i thought from what i read (my bad) that she is to be in a relationship along side her relationship with her husband/partner. Which i cant see how that works because that would surely interfere terribly with a normal long term relationship? Surely to be in this kind of situation you'd have to or will have some mutual feelings ? Having regular meets social and sex, as a typical daily thing being partially attached to this guy. (Not saying you meet every day but being part of a couple you'd speak/arrange ect pn some sort of daily or regular basis) would this not interfere with a relationship? Again just asking as i find it interesting im not having a go at anyone." Lots of vaniila people have retailer casual sex with fuck buddies who they meet regularly - without emotional attachment - its the same sort of thing with a twist | |||
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"Have been lucky to enjoy exactly this "her bf" relationship with a fantastic couple that I'd consider as great friends...even now after I moved with my job (still keep untouched and meet when can). We were bf & gf with hubby being very compliant and getting his turn on out of it too... Dates, nights either she staying at mine or hubby in spare room if I went to there's (unless we wanted to let him watch /join in)..., weekends away and she's joined me at weddings / work do s as my partner.... Just be great to find another couple who are local to share again....." Wow - that interesting - the lady joining you at weddings/work dos as your partner - thats quite some role play! | |||
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"Have been lucky to enjoy exactly this "her bf" relationship with a fantastic couple that I'd consider as great friends...even now after I moved with my job (still keep untouched and meet when can). We were bf & gf with hubby being very compliant and getting his turn on out of it too... Dates, nights either she staying at mine or hubby in spare room if I went to there's (unless we wanted to let him watch /join in)..., weekends away and she's joined me at weddings / work do s as my partner.... Just be great to find another couple who are local to share again..... Wow - that interesting - the lady joining you at weddings/work dos as your partner - thats quite some role play!" Better than going alone and not fibbing as she's my date (just don't mention her hubby's at home with full knowledge and blessing). | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken." Exactly this. It's the problem we have found,we are upfront from the start saying we are not looking for one offs they all say that they are looking for same thing. Then usually vanish once goal achieved. Mrs has met a few great guy's she sees regularly but non who we would class as a boyfriend or FB. It's our aim to have someone who she can stay over with occasionally. | |||
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"Have been lucky to enjoy exactly this "her bf" relationship with a fantastic couple that I'd consider as great friends...even now after I moved with my job (still keep untouched and meet when can). We were bf & gf with hubby being very compliant and getting his turn on out of it too... Dates, nights either she staying at mine or hubby in spare room if I went to there's (unless we wanted to let him watch /join in)..., weekends away and she's joined me at weddings / work do s as my partner.... Just be great to find another couple who are local to share again..... Wow - that interesting - the lady joining you at weddings/work dos as your partner - thats quite some role play! Better than going alone and not fibbing as she's my date (just don't mention her hubby's at home with full knowledge and blessing). God - thats a real turn on. I remember when I met the hotwife I was dating - it was a real turn on. - going to dinner/drinks/dancing - knowing she was married and everyone assuming she was my wife. " | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken. Exactly this. It's the problem we have found,we are upfront from the start saying we are not looking for one offs they all say that they are looking for same thing. Then usually vanish once goal achieved. Mrs has met a few great guy's she sees regularly but non who we would class as a boyfriend or FB. It's our aim to have someone who she can stay over with occasionally." Agree with you. One would think it would be straightforward but as you said the practicalities get in the way. You would think in big town in London, there would be couples into this but think like with most things in fab life - its a minority pursuit. There is one couple I knw who are keen to have this kind of friendship but the distance means it can only be weekend meets - and then they have children, family obligations that soak u their weekend time which cuts down on meets And then as you said, lots of single guys arent single or get distracted... | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken. Exactly this. It's the problem we have found,we are upfront from the start saying we are not looking for one offs they all say that they are looking for same thing. Then usually vanish once goal achieved. Mrs has met a few great guy's she sees regularly but non who we would class as a boyfriend or FB. It's our aim to have someone who she can stay over with occasionally. Agree with you. One would think it would be straightforward but as you said the practicalities get in the way. You would think in big town in London, there would be couples into this but think like with most things in fab life - its a minority pursuit. There is one couple I knw who are keen to have this kind of friendship but the distance means it can only be weekend meets - and then they have children, family obligations that soak u their weekend time which cuts down on meets And then as you said, lots of single guys arent single or get distracted..." Biggest issue we seem to find are the "thrill is in the chase" brigade who promise the earth then once they have got what they want the messages dry up. | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken. Exactly this. It's the problem we have found,we are upfront from the start saying we are not looking for one offs they all say that they are looking for same thing. Then usually vanish once goal achieved. Mrs has met a few great guy's she sees regularly but non who we would class as a boyfriend or FB. It's our aim to have someone who she can stay over with occasionally. Agree with you. One would think it would be straightforward but as you said the practicalities get in the way. You would think in big town in London, there would be couples into this but think like with most things in fab life - its a minority pursuit. There is one couple I knw who are keen to have this kind of friendship but the distance means it can only be weekend meets - and then they have children, family obligations that soak u their weekend time which cuts down on meets And then as you said, lots of single guys arent single or get distracted... Biggest issue we seem to find are the "thrill is in the chase" brigade who promise the earth then once they have got what they want the messages dry up." The more you all get on the trust builds and becomes implicit, she and I could explore the hot wife / cuck scenarios with all 3 of us knowing the immense turn on and satisfaction our relationship gave all... | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken. Exactly this. It's the problem we have found,we are upfront from the start saying we are not looking for one offs they all say that they are looking for same thing. Then usually vanish once goal achieved. Mrs has met a few great guy's she sees regularly but non who we would class as a boyfriend or FB. It's our aim to have someone who she can stay over with occasionally. Agree with you. One would think it would be straightforward but as you said the practicalities get in the way. You would think in big town in London, there would be couples into this but think like with most things in fab life - its a minority pursuit. There is one couple I knw who are keen to have this kind of friendship but the distance means it can only be weekend meets - and then they have children, family obligations that soak u their weekend time which cuts down on meets And then as you said, lots of single guys arent single or get distracted... Biggest issue we seem to find are the "thrill is in the chase" brigade who promise the earth then once they have got what they want the messages dry up." Yes I can definitely see how that happens I realise that for teh couple for whole I was the lady’s boyfriend - the situation was pretty ideal. I was in my 30s, they were in their 50s and their kids had left home - so they had time. Further they were pretty experienced at the whole swinging hotwife thing, so were clear what they wanted. The whole thing also evolved. At first we had MFM fun and then me and wife playing with hubby watched - to eventually me meeting 1x1 and then going on dates. The lady worked part time so had plenty of time and was looking for boyfriends outside her marriage. And the first few months were them checking me out as potential boyfriend material!! | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken. Exactly this. It's the problem we have found,we are upfront from the start saying we are not looking for one offs they all say that they are looking for same thing. Then usually vanish once goal achieved. Mrs has met a few great guy's she sees regularly but non who we would class as a boyfriend or FB. It's our aim to have someone who she can stay over with occasionally. Agree with you. One would think it would be straightforward but as you said the practicalities get in the way. You would think in big town in London, there would be couples into this but think like with most things in fab life - its a minority pursuit. There is one couple I knw who are keen to have this kind of friendship but the distance means it can only be weekend meets - and then they have children, family obligations that soak u their weekend time which cuts down on meets And then as you said, lots of single guys arent single or get distracted... Biggest issue we seem to find are the "thrill is in the chase" brigade who promise the earth then once they have got what they want the messages dry up." Yes I can definitely see that happening...for lots of men getting laid is all there is to it. Its weird but you think those guys would just go out and try to pull single women. Its a lot easier than swinging/meeting a hotwife | |||
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"It’s the dream scenario. Had it once and have been searching for an attached Hotwife for something like this again ever since. " I agree - its acheivable but can seem like a dream How did you find your previous attached hotwife? | |||
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"It’s the dream scenario. Had it once and have been searching for an attached Hotwife for something like this again ever since. I agree - its acheivable but can seem like a dream How did you find your previous attached hotwife?" Her company had a work xmas party in the same place as mine. In the taxi on the way back to mine she explained her situation ie married and encouraged to play away with select men. It was a massive turn on for me. Turned into a 5 month thing. | |||
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"It’s the dream scenario. Had it once and have been searching for an attached Hotwife for something like this again ever since. I agree - its acheivable but can seem like a dream How did you find your previous attached hotwife? Her company had a work xmas party in the same place as mine. In the taxi on the way back to mine she explained her situation ie married and encouraged to play away with select men. It was a massive turn on for me. Turned into a 5 month thing. " That’s great story Mine - was I met the lady on a vanilla dating site - on our first date, she told me she was married and he hubby liked to share her...like you, was huge turn on .. | |||
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"I have my hubby as my hot BF and that's enough man in my life. Can't put up with another one lol " Lucky guy! | |||
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"As posted before, met hot wife at work and after spending considerable (all work) time together the conversation turned to all and sundry...she knew I was single and then told me Bout things her and hubby had wanted to explore with thier sex lives after 20 odd years of marriage...., jokingly offered myself and few weeks later when working together again.....they called my bluff.... Relationship on regular basis for a number of years until I went different direction with my career and progression...still catch up in person every once in a while..." Thats great story...perfect scenario....!! | |||
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"The search goes on but not easy to find that kind of relationship " I hear you - you would have thought in big city like manchester it woulld be straightforward - but i can tell you from being in london - it isnt.. | |||
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"Hard to find a relationship beyond swinging; you need to be very open. We are both happy when the other has a relationship. It's more fun x" Wow - glad to hear that both of you have FWB on the side..lovely.. | |||
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"This would be our ultimate goal to have this relationship. However not as easy as you would think to achieve.This is mainly due to the amount off single guys who are not single or just guys who cannot commit.Sad as it seems sometimes all the good guys are taken." ...or outside your age range.  | |||
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"Have been lucky to enjoy exactly this "her bf" relationship with a fantastic couple that I'd consider as great friends...even now after I moved with my job (still keep untouched and meet when can). We were bf & gf with hubby being very compliant and getting his turn on out of it too... Dates, nights either she staying at mine or hubby in spare room if I went to there's (unless we wanted to let him watch /join in)..., weekends away and she's joined me at weddings / work do s as my partner.... Just be great to find another couple who are local to share again..... Wow - that interesting - the lady joining you at weddings/work dos as your partner - thats quite some role play! Better than going alone and not fibbing as she's my date (just don't mention her hubby's at home with full knowledge and blessing). " This may be my new fantasy Mrs P Anyone need a wedding date? | |||
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Years ago, I dated a hotwife - did the usual things, cinema, dinner , shows - she stayed over my place, i stayed over at her place and shared her with hubby...great days!
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"I have a beautiful regular meet but travel and logistics means we really just meet for sex and do a lot of chilling in the hotel room together in between - chatting and chilling together before I go back to my husband. However next year we hope to be able to arrange some dates where all three of us go out together and arrange some sleepovers here and there. Fingers crossed... : "Wow - thats fantastic...love the scenario where all three of you go out together... | |||
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"not all women are the same i have a full relationship with my hubs and want a sexual relationship with a fuck buddies i dont want all the emotional stuff and i deffo wont be exclusive to one fuckbuddy thats when all the problems start with yucky clingy guys" you make very good points, i didnt have emotional relationship with the hotwife (more friendship), just a drinks/dinner followed by sex kinda thing. And she certainly wasn’t exclusive, she had 2 other fuckbuddies....! | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! " You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience? | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience?" Yeah I’ve had a few shockers, but most of them were from off here so best not to go into too much detail. It’s just a reflection of society u know? There are some funky characters, I’m sure that’s true of both couples and bulls. It’s hard to find people on here I’ve found, I would recommend going to speciality club nights to meet people | |||
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"Dont you find single men just act like theyre so interested in the role play buy after getting what they want they bugger off? " I think some do, but then these people are not really into the lifestyle, there are some genuinely serious people out there, but you have to wade through the pretenders | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience? Yeah I’ve had a few shockers, but most of them were from off here so best not to go into too much detail. It’s just a reflection of society u know? There are some funky characters, I’m sure that’s true of both couples and bulls. It’s hard to find people on here I’ve found, I would recommend going to speciality club nights to meet people " Speciality club nights - never really thought of those - any you suggest.. | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience? Yeah I’ve had a few shockers, but most of them were from off here so best not to go into too much detail. It’s just a reflection of society u know? There are some funky characters, I’m sure that’s true of both couples and bulls. It’s hard to find people on here I’ve found, I would recommend going to speciality club nights to meet people Speciality club nights - never really thought of those - any you suggest.." Sure, I go to bmfc nights, there a weekly parties held all over the country. I went to a night called a cuck and bull story at hellfire, then there’s the hotwife club at liberty elite, I believe there’s something similar at a club called townhouse which is near Liverpool I believe. All of these nights or clubs have profiles on here I think if u were considering going, im sure there are others that I’m yet to find too, enjoy! | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience? Yeah I’ve had a few shockers, but most of them were from off here so best not to go into too much detail. It’s just a reflection of society u know? There are some funky characters, I’m sure that’s true of both couples and bulls. It’s hard to find people on here I’ve found, I would recommend going to speciality club nights to meet people Speciality club nights - never really thought of those - any you suggest.. Sure, I go to bmfc nights, there a weekly parties held all over the country. I went to a night called a cuck and bull story at hellfire, then there’s the hotwife club at liberty elite, I believe there’s something similar at a club called townhouse which is near Liverpool I believe. All of these nights or clubs have profiles on here I think if u were considering going, im sure there are others that I’m yet to find too, enjoy! " Thanks for thoughts - what was the cuck/bull at hellfire like? Fun people? | |||
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"We have done simple sex meets alone (took pictures and videos) but wouldn't do the dates thing that's just abit weird and risks feelings " It does sound very risky, emotions and feelings and like someone has mentioned the whole boundaries issue will most definitely get pushed to one side and there lies the problem, but saying that there are plenty of people on fab that make it work... it’s a very tailored situation... I’m on the fence xx | |||
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"Mrs H has had 2x relationships ie a boyfriend and they would meet for dinner and cinima etc as well as staying out in hotels overnight and even short holiday breaks together. I think it's hot a hell and would love to find suitable gent for my Hotwife." Wow - that sounds fantastic | |||
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"everything i do is sexual so a fuck buddy would be sexual a bull would be sexual a lover would be sexual same gos for a boyfriend it would only ever be sexual as soon as anyone crosses my line and it becomes more than sexual then i become stone cold and shut it down ...i will not risk my relationship with my hubs at all with anyone this include our cuckold play but then we've been swinging 20 years now and hotwife many of those cuckold the last couple years ..i love my life i love my man and we've been lucky enought to be strong enought to do this and have over the years watched (couples) many many fail or fall apart ..emotions and swinging dont mix let alone emotions and cuckolding...its sexual and nothing else for us " Its interesting reading what you are saying - i guess you have seen both sides of the coin - in that some couples - swinging messes up things and i guess the 1x1 aspect of a hotwife going off with a guy for drinks/date/sex definitely has more potential for things to go wrong. For me, it only happened once and then a long time ago. Which shows how infrequent it is | |||
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"The lines are often blurred when it comes to cuckold/hotwife adventures. We spent years looking for a regular guy for Becky. It's not as easy as you would think, for all the reasons mentioned above. In France where historically a third person in a marriage is considered the norm, it's still difficult to find a guy who understands the dynamics of it all. But we've been getting close this year and hopefully 2019 will kick things on a bit more... "Love that line “ In France, where a third person in a marriage is considered the norm” | |||
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"This is a subject I find very interesting from both sides of the fence. When I was younger I was a dreadful womaniser. But it was only as I matured that I realised it was the thrill of the chase I loved. I realised that my desire to seduce women was far greater than my need for emotional dependency. This is where I found that if I met someone I liked, but knew my ardour would wain as I got to know them better them seeing other men somehow drew me closer, I suppose it meant the thrill of the chase was always there, as they were not exclusive or 100% emotionally dependent on me. I have tried this from both sides, as a lover to a few couples. We all got on well and for me the fact that the wives would never consider leaving the husband for me, was nirvana. I also had in my last relationship a partner who was very needy in terms of wanting attention. So again it worked for me as her liaisons made her feel desired, from both the chap she had selected and me because again the thrill of the chase, reclaiming her from the lover meant she had both of us desiring her. However the massive problem was as others have stated previously the amount of lies and deceit from the blokes she met was unbelievable. Some were honest, stated they were married, visiting our area once or twice a month on business etc. Some had faces only their mother could love but believed seemingly that because they mentioned the word ‘Bull’ on their profile that she would just fall over with her legs in the air. But by far the amount of men promising the earth, one date and sex a few weeks later then just vanished, fab profile gone number deleted was a surprise. Then the ones who stayed around for longer (one who was clearly married but lied constantly) who tried to woe her away from me, why when he was married, I have no idea really put the dampeners on things. Then you had the serial shaggers as I called them who just wanted to get in her knickers then on to the next..... I could go on lol However regardless of this my next partner will hopefully embrace the freedom I would like to give her and enjoy the attention of me, and other men or women! " You make some really interesting points that really chimed with me. When I was dating the hotwife, for me it was perfect as given she was married , and hence she wasn’t going to be clingy or wanting 100% of my time - not only did she have husband she had other boyfriends as well! And from their point of view, they knew I wasn’t going to upset their home life but allow them to enjoy their hotwife kink What was really interesting when you talk about your previous partners having sex with other men and the effect it had on you. Reminds me of chat with husband of hotwife couple I played with. He said that in addition to the sex and watching his wife with other men - to kept their relationship more alive - his wife realised that other men desired her and wanted to fuck her - which boosted her ego. Likewise, for him, it meant he had to “raise his game” and not be a slob. Like you, the reclaim sex they had do kept their own private sex lives fresh - they never fell into a rut Like you, I would love to find a partner whom i could share! | |||
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"my wife was seeing a guy for quite some time, they’d go out for drinks and meals then back to his for sex before coming home to me, was quite a turn on for me." Again - a really horny situation. Wow! | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. " Shame you aren’t interested in younger guy as i would love this | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. " I think - as you said, because its a bit more than just one off sex, the criteria are bit more stringent. Everyone has to get on with everyone else - include the husband with the boyfriend...logistics/distance is more often the absolute killer... | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience? Yeah I’ve had a few shockers, but most of them were from off here so best not to go into too much detail. It’s just a reflection of society u know? There are some funky characters, I’m sure that’s true of both couples and bulls. It’s hard to find people on here I’ve found, I would recommend going to speciality club nights to meet people Speciality club nights - never really thought of those - any you suggest.. Sure, I go to bmfc nights, there a weekly parties held all over the country. I went to a night called a cuck and bull story at hellfire, then there’s the hotwife club at liberty elite, I believe there’s something similar at a club called townhouse which is near Liverpool I believe. All of these nights or clubs have profiles on here I think if u were considering going, im sure there are others that I’m yet to find too, enjoy! Thanks for thoughts - what was the cuck/bull at hellfire like? Fun people? " Hellfire as a club is really nice, but on that occasion (I’ve only been the once) it was really quiet. I was looking forward to it but left disappointed as there were no more than a dozen people there and only one genuine couple. It’s a great idea for a night tho and I could have been unlucky and caught it on a quiet night, even the best clubs have quiet nights. Hwc was supposed to have been really busy, it’s relatively new but from the statuses and pics I saw it looked a good night and one that I’m hoping to try, I think they are on their 3rd or 4th night now. Bmfc is always busy and their night at arousals is the most consistent night I’ve attended, I hope this helps. When you meet people at a club, you know they exist and are genuine, and likewise they of you, it’s a much better starting off point than on here I find. | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. " my mrs met this guy for a social first then second time was for sex, after that she started just meeting for sex till he suggested going for a meal first, she ran the idea past me and i said she should enjoy the adventure as mush as she wanted, after that they were meeting a few times a month, she usually when straight to his after work and then get home just after midnight fully satisfied. Sometimes she would send me small videos of him fucking her, that got me so turned on, so by time she would get home, i was so horned up she’s be having a round with me before being able to go to sleep, sadly she lost contact with this particular guy but she does mention him occasionally, think he left the site. | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. " We’re sure all the hard work will be worth it, keep plugging | |||
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"I was wondering if any hotwife couples have boyfriends who go out on "dates" and 1x1s with the wife - dinner, cinema, sex before going back to hubby...(as well as the usual MFM fun). I find it dry erotic to go on a date with married lady knowing her husband approves/enjoys" Certainly adds another dynamic to Hotwife/cuckold relationships | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. my mrs met this guy for a social first then second time was for sex, after that she started just meeting for sex till he suggested going for a meal first, she ran the idea past me and i said she should enjoy the adventure as mush as she wanted, after that they were meeting a few times a month, she usually when straight to his after work and then get home just after midnight fully satisfied. Sometimes she would send me small videos of him fucking her, that got me so turned on, so by time she would get home, i was so horned up she’s be having a round with me before being able to go to sleep, sadly she lost contact with this particular guy but she does mention him occasionally, think he left the site." God - this is such a erotic set up. I know as a single who has been with a hotwife 1x1 knowing that later she will be fucked by her hubby adds to the excitement... | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. We’re sure all the hard work will be worth it, keep plugging "Clearing matching couples with potential boyfriends is universally hard to achieve... | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. " Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent..." We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan... | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan... "that's exactly the situation that I am in with respect to this couple - the distance isnt huge but added to other of life's time constraints means less fun | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan...
that's exactly the situation that I am in with respect to this couple - the distance isnt huge but added to other of life's time constraints means less fun"Life gets in the way of living... | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan... "Its always good to have a cunning plan - what is it exactly? | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan...
that's exactly the situation that I am in with respect to this couple - the distance isnt huge but added to other of life's time constraints means less fun
Life gets in the way of living..."Only if you let it...... | |||
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"You should also be wary of unhappy couples doing it for the wrong reasons too, trust me, it’s not just the guys that get clingy! You are right - I never thought of thhat. Sounds like you have experience? Yeah I’ve had a few shockers, but most of them were from off here so best not to go into too much detail. It’s just a reflection of society u know? There are some funky characters, I’m sure that’s true of both couples and bulls. It’s hard to find people on here I’ve found, I would recommend going to speciality club nights to meet people Speciality club nights - never really thought of those - any you suggest.. Sure, I go to bmfc nights, there a weekly parties held all over the country. I went to a night called a cuck and bull story at hellfire, then there’s the hotwife club at liberty elite, I believe there’s something similar at a club called townhouse which is near Liverpool I believe. All of these nights or clubs have profiles on here I think if u were considering going, im sure there are others that I’m yet to find too, enjoy! Thanks for thoughts - what was the cuck/bull at hellfire like? Fun people? Hellfire as a club is really nice, but on that occasion (I’ve only been the once) it was really quiet. I was looking forward to it but left disappointed as there were no more than a dozen people there and only one genuine couple. It’s a great idea for a night tho and I could have been unlucky and caught it on a quiet night, even the best clubs have quiet nights. Hwc was supposed to have been really busy, it’s relatively new but from the statuses and pics I saw it looked a good night and one that I’m hoping to try, I think they are on their 3rd or 4th night now. Bmfc is always busy and their night at arousals is the most consistent night I’ve attended, I hope this helps. When you meet people at a club, you know they exist and are genuine, and likewise they of you, it’s a much better starting off point than on here I find." Thanks for this - my 2019 resolution is to try mor clubs - went to Liberty elite - first time I went to a club in decade. And really enjoyed it... | |||
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"Was that for hotwife club? " No - went to mature mischief.... Which i really enjoyed!! Problem is that it is midweek... | |||
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"Was that for hotwife club? No - went to mature mischief.... Which i really enjoyed!! Problem is that it is midweek..." Well if u try hwc let me know how it is, I’m gonna try to get to the next one | |||
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"Was that for hotwife club? No - went to mature mischief.... Which i really enjoyed!! Problem is that it is midweek... Well if u try hwc let me know how it is, I’m gonna try to get to the next one " I did try last time - but was too late to book as spaces had gone | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan...
Its always good to have a cunning plan - what is it exactly?
"I do shift work, so work some weekends. We didn't go away this year, so used my left over holiday to book off a few extra weekends, now we should be able to get out more often... | |||
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"my wife was seeing a guy for quite some time, they’d go out for drinks and meals then back to his for sex before coming home to me, was quite a turn on for me." Wow ... that is what dreams are made of ... | |||
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"We have found the right guy, distance is the problem. Distance has turned out to be the problem for me with one couple who I get on with. They are far enough away and have committments that everything has o be planned well in advance - which makes it infrequent... We are in Essex and he is in London, not a million miles away but when you work weekends, have children and throw mother nature into the mix. It makes meeting up difficult but we have a plan...
Its always good to have a cunning plan - what is it exactly?
I do shift work, so work some weekends.
We didn't go away this year, so used my left over holiday to book off a few extra weekends, now we should be able to get out more often..."Ah - weekends for the boyfriend! | |||
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"This is is exactly what we are looking for. Not looking for quantity but rather one guy or maybe two for her to have quality times with . regardless if me the husband is present or not. Preferably not being present hence the boyfriend experience. Unfortunately we have as yet after 18 months been unable to find this scenario hopefully long term on this site. We have not given up yet and hope that 2019 will bring this. We know that some of you who read this thread will groan and say. I wrote but was rejected ! Or never got a reply. Sorry to Say that My wife has very high standards and why not ! To those who didn't get a reply its simple you did not read the profile. We are still searching for that illusive boyfriend for my wife. Not someone who lives too far away or cannot accommodate. Come on guys is it really that hard. We have not given up hope yet. " For years my wife & I have been trying to find her a guy to have a regular relationship with - unfortunately most guys on Fab are not actually what they state in their profiles! However eventually we have found her a single guy who has his own place. She regularly spends time with him - watching films, meals & of course a very sexual & loving relationship. So far she has not spent the night with him but this something we are hoping will happen soon - along with unprotected fun. Their relationship is a huge turn on to me & has also made our marriage stronger. I get to see videos & pictures of then both playing - I love the fact that he turns her on more than me! Looking forward to this carrying on for a very long time | |||
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"Mrs H has had 2x relationships ie a boyfriend and they would meet for dinner and cinima etc as well as staying out in hotels overnight and even short holiday breaks together. I think it's hot a hell and would love to find suitable gent for my Hotwife." Italy was fun | |||
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"The only problem with this scenario is that real life gets in the way.... For a single guy in this type of relationship it’s hard during the holidays and when you have events you have to bring a date to... like a wedding or work function... It’s very hard to date in the vanilla world and also have a exclusive relationship with a hotwife...." Its a very valid point. The only way to do it is not really to vanilla date - perahps just more casually dating/tinder sex and i dont think the relationship with the hotwife has to be exclusive at all on both sides - I would normally expect a hotwife not only to have a husband /boyfriend but also casually fucking other guys as well... | |||
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