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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Then don't. I wouldn't like it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they contact you or it says on their profile to contact them I wouldn't...

It wouldn't be a nice experiance and most likely embarrassing. If you want to talk to them then fine but I wouldn't distinctly say you recognise them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x"

Oh don’t worry I haven’t the balls to say anything. Just feels kinda weird knowing, meeting at work won’t be the same lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unless they contact you or it says on their profile to contact them I wouldn't...

It wouldn't be a nice experiance and most likely embarrassing. If you want to talk to them then fine but I wouldn't distinctly say you recognise them. "

Thanks for the advice, I did pondered messaging them on here but don’t know just feels a little weird.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x

Oh don’t worry I haven’t the balls to say anything. Just feels kinda weird knowing, meeting at work won’t be the same lol."
happened to us lots. It's great knowing ppl aren't boring about sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd still message them if you think it may be what you're after though.

Only seen one person on here ive recognised, messaged a few times but turned out into very different things...

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I'd still message them if you think it may be what you're after though.

Only seen one person on here ive recognised, messaged a few times but turned out into very different things... "
that's my worst nightmare x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x

Oh don’t worry I haven’t the balls to say anything. Just feels kinda weird knowing, meeting at work won’t be the same lol.happened to us lots. It's great knowing ppl aren't boring about sex x"

Stuck in a stuffy office it is nice to know there are other like minded etc etc x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd still message them if you think it may be what you're after though.

Only seen one person on here ive recognised, messaged a few times but turned out into very different things... "

Now there’s a story there lol.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x

Oh don’t worry I haven’t the balls to say anything. Just feels kinda weird knowing, meeting at work won’t be the same lol.happened to us lots. It's great knowing ppl aren't boring about sex x

Stuck in a stuffy office it is nice to know there are other like minded etc etc x"
but with caution. Unless u meet there match x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x

Oh don’t worry I haven’t the balls to say anything. Just feels kinda weird knowing, meeting at work won’t be the same lol.happened to us lots. It's great knowing ppl aren't boring about sex x

Stuck in a stuffy office it is nice to know there are other like minded etc etc xbut with caution. Unless u meet there match x"

Will do and thanks x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP in my first few weeks on fab I spotted someone I know on the forums - my twin sister and her husband!

I panicked a bit and removed all my photos and blocked them.

A bit of a waste of time really because a few weeks later we bumped into each other at a club

It's really not a big deal finding people you know on here. What we all choose to do in our private lives is up to us. Just be discrete and keep the knowledge to yourself and (if they have seen you) they will probably do the same. Anyone who "outs" a swinger is outing themselves too and most people do prefer to keep this side of their lives private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was scrolling through pics on a couples profile that fabbed one of my pics & went into a shocked laughing fit on the bus when I saw the woman that sits behind me in work sucking a cock.

I have now seen more of that woman than I ever wanted to see, couldn't not scroll haha I blocked the profile after that.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Had a couple of people I've met at GBs come up to me and say hi, one in a supermarket, one at a bar. Didn't matter to me, nbut it could have been embarassing for some people however they did both know I wasn't part of a couple. Had it in a bar in the Village one night when the guy in a couple said you're Heddo aren't you? we chatted for a minute then I realised his lady had undone my pants when she stsrted to wank me off by the bar. I did not object, it was the village.

Regsarding seeing people on here no it has not happened but if I found them attractive I would mail them and be open and honest about who I was. It would then be up to them to decide if they wanted to take it any further. I certainly would not approach them away from the board unless it was a swingers club or in the Village.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Don't say anything and keep thi gs as they are... and not a "new lead"

Not worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP in my first few weeks on fab I spotted someone I know on the forums - my twin sister and her husband!

I panicked a bit and removed all my photos and blocked them.

A bit of a waste of time really because a few weeks later we bumped into each other at a club

It's really not a big deal finding people you know on here. What we all choose to do in our private lives is up to us. Just be discrete and keep the knowledge to yourself and (if they have seen you) they will probably do the same. Anyone who "outs" a swinger is outing themselves too and most people do prefer to keep this side of their lives private."

OMG! I was going to say what are the odds! But I guess being twins you’d have similar interests lol.

I prefer to keep my face of my profile until I know their legit etc, so guess it should be the same for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was scrolling through pics on a couples profile that fabbed one of my pics & went into a shocked laughing fit on the bus when I saw the woman that sits behind me in work sucking a cock.

I have now seen more of that woman than I ever wanted to see, couldn't not scroll haha I blocked the profile after that."

lol....once seen never forgotten eh!

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them. "

I spotted my boss from the Saturday job I had as a teenager. She was still hot, had a great meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

I spotted my boss from the Saturday job I had as a teenager. She was still hot, had a great meet "

The stuff dreams are made of there mate.

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

I spotted my boss from the Saturday job I had as a teenager. She was still hot, had a great meet

The stuff dreams are made of there mate."

Indeed it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was scrolling through pics on a couples profile that fabbed one of my pics & went into a shocked laughing fit on the bus when I saw the woman that sits behind me in work sucking a cock.

I have now seen more of that woman than I ever wanted to see, couldn't not scroll haha I blocked the profile after that.

lol....once seen never forgotten eh! "

Traumatised

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP in my first few weeks on fab I spotted someone I know on the forums - my twin sister and her husband!

I panicked a bit and removed all my photos and blocked them.

A bit of a waste of time really because a few weeks later we bumped into each other at a club

It's really not a big deal finding people you know on here. What we all choose to do in our private lives is up to us. Just be discrete and keep the knowledge to yourself and (if they have seen you) they will probably do the same. Anyone who "outs" a swinger is outing themselves too and most people do prefer to keep this side of their lives private."

WOWZERS babe

Bet after the initial shock though it's no drama eh ?

And what you've said is so true

1 more thing think of the famous Blondie song and it's not hanging on the telephone jay xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them. "

Yes, recognised a few from work and outside work and fab. We don't message them but don't feel awkward bumping into them either. We don't advertise our lifestyle nor mention we know about theirs. Just keep it civil.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen people but would never ever say anything to them or others

People deserve 100 percent to keep their privacy

Anyone who tells others should not be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised someone from school when he messaged me. his pics are open, mine are not. I declined and told him I've known him years and left it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently discovered that a couple that live at the bottom of the road are on here,they've looked at my profile & I think they must realise it's me. I've resisted the temptation to message them as looking at their verifications they're well out of my league.

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By *orroHoodMan
over a year ago

London

I've recognised a lady several of times at my local tesco. Each time our eyes lock then we casually look away

Not sure if should I approach her next time, or just keep it moving

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This hasn't happened to me, but I'd block and try to forget.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I bumped into a ex at club with my partner she was in on her own, had no idea she was into clubs lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Saw a lady at Club SX in Blackpool a couple of months ago and kept thinking'she looks familiar.' I realised later that I've seen working in a local Spar shop in the past and sometimes drinking in a local pub I use. She's not usually just wearing a black basque, stockings, suspenders and heels although she does look good in them. I wouldn't say anything to her in the pub but I'm tempted to say hello if I see her at SX in future, do people think this would be okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently noticed a fair few people I recognize through work but happens a lot I don't approach it if they don't. Jacob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a work colleague’s lawn party once and ran into a very poplar latex kinkster from another website....

It’s very intriguing having a casual conversation with a stranger, that you have seen naked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay discreet but try to say 'oh it's fab' as much as I can and watch their reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents neighbors are on here. The husband took one of my non rude photos. He spotted it and said hi on here. We’ve chatted about playing but not actually done anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off fab for over 5 years, a good 4 years ago I watched a couple I know on cam, mostly her. Seen her again a night or 2 later, was a real turn on, We had met through friends of friends and had each other on FB. Tried to view their profile a few days later and found I was blocked. That weekend I got a message from her on FB to say she would love to meet me but her man had categorically forbid it. We chatted for a bit and that was it, all clean really, I respected his wishes as did she. She did day if anything changed, she'd be messaging me again instantly

It's never happened and I haven't seen them on here since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a good northern saying...

See all, hear all, say nowt

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Someone I know from work is on here. I've blocked her to save any embarrassment.

Also seen the husband of a couple we know, he's on here as a single man. I've blocked him too.

I'd never say anything to them and if they've recognised me then I'd expect the same level of respect from them.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Seen a very close neighbour on here, she's as hot as hell and we've messaged each other once but couldn't possibly say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cousin was on here with her hubby I blocked her but we both know we seen our pics of each other before hand we never speak about it but the smile gives it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we recognise someone on here we don't say a word. We are all in the same boat really (best way to put it). The question I would ask is if someone said to me "hey did you know such and such is on a sex site" would be " hmmmm I'm guessing your on there to know this information. We believe if you (and they) are a geniune couple or single man or women etc. Then it would even cross your mind to say anything. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a good northern saying...

See all, hear all, say nowt "

I love this.

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

My friends eldest son tried adding us on here. He then tried adding me on Facebook !

Blocked on fab but ignore fb request.

Another friend (male) messaged us. I recognised him straight away so immediately blocked him. He’s married with a baby on the way.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised by a couple of ladies ....we met and played....very horny x

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

This has happened to us a few times and we know there wives and long term gf, we have still met them and brings a smile to my face when I see them together and knowing they will be back for more when she isn't around or putting out lol

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"This has happened to us a few times and we know there wives and long term gf, we have still met them and brings a smile to my face when I see them together and knowing they will be back for more when she isn't around or putting out lol "

Like your style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen a very close neighbour on here, she's as hot as hell and we've messaged each other once but couldn't possibly say anything.

Only live once op

Twice if your sean Connery

If your both single then go for it is my good advice

Think of the fuel costs or taxis for starters lol

Can you accomadate?yes you know I can jobs a good un

"

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

One of my best mates is on here with his fb,

We fabbed his photo then spotted who was in the pic

He has chatted about fab a few times out in the pub but I just keep quiet

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By *nsure2018Couple
over a year ago

BASINGSTOKE

We had it with another couple were we had been chatting for a while we guess with the male part of a couple and then sent face pictures only to find out we knew each other but in the end the female from the other couple felt she didnt want to meet up ... it's a shame as we said we had no issue as we all knew what we were here for ..

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Recognised a mate from footy here first time I joined only from the tattoos he had next time in shower all I could think was that he had a bigger cock than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My friends eldest son tried adding us on here. He then tried adding me on Facebook !

Blocked on fab but ignore fb request.

Another friend (male) messaged us. I recognised him straight away so immediately blocked him. He’s married with a baby on the way.

Miss "

You can’t blame your sons friend for trying, I assume he knew it was you?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x"

i would love it!

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

we see someone on here and we did contact him as we felt it only fair, after all did not want his wife finding out ,, not on here anymore though,, not sure if he was found out, but at end of the day everyone on here is in the same boat, so what the fuck , let others do as they please and look after yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we see someone on here and we did contact him as we felt it only fair, after all did not want his wife finding out ,, not on here anymore though,, not sure if he was found out, but at end of the day everyone on here is in the same boat, so what the fuck , let others do as they please and look after yourself"

Couldn't agree more Mr+mrs m

One life live kin live it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged someone near me a while ago and she said she knew me and that she wouldn't feel right meeting me, which is totally understandable. It still plays on my mind today who it might have been.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them. "

Block and say nothing... it’s not worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw someone on as a couple that I used to work with then he started working where I did and as much as I wanted to say something I didn't. He knew I was and never said anything so I left it at that and we got on great in work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen my mates dad coming out of a club with a woman as I was walking in, no words just a nod of the head and never a word meantioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My barmaid wasn't impressed when i messaged her for a Guinness she took herself off fab lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw someone on as a couple that I used to work with then he started working where I did and as much as I wanted to say something I didn't. He knew I was and never said anything so I left it at that and we got on great in work."

It’s that awkward moment when you reliase you’ve seen each other naked lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My barmaid wasn't impressed when i messaged her for a Guinness she took herself off fab lol"

Sorry that is funny, even if she didn’t find it funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I messaged someone near me a while ago and she said she knew me and that she wouldn't feel right meeting me, which is totally understandable. It still plays on my mind today who it might have been."

That would drive me nuts not knowing.

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By *alaciousCurvesWoman
over a year ago

Gainsborough

My husband spotted his cousin on here once! She was using the same profile picture as she used on facebook

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My husband spotted his cousin on here once! She was using the same profile picture as she used on facebook "

Ops lol x

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

I take the view that we are all here for the same or similar reasons. I don't mind if someone who knows me messages me. It's always good to meet others into this lifestyle. Plus better the devil you know.....

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west


"My friends eldest son tried adding us on here. He then tried adding me on Facebook !

Blocked on fab but ignore fb request.

Another friend (male) messaged us. I recognised him straight away so immediately blocked him. He’s married with a baby on the way.

Miss

Yes he must have known it was me, hence why he immediately tried to add me on Fb x

You can’t blame your sons friend for trying, I assume he knew it was you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged someone near me a while ago and she said she knew me and that she wouldn't feel right meeting me, which is totally understandable. It still plays on my mind today who it might have been.

That would drive me nuts not knowing."

Just got to be your kids sexy English teacher pal

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I couldn't care less if people recognise me or I recognise them.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"Then don't. I wouldn't like it x

Oh don’t worry I haven’t the balls to say anything. Just feels kinda weird knowing, meeting at work won’t be the same lol."

I've known someone on here that I've worked with for yrs but only found out few years ago that she was a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check to see who my near by are if I recognise them I simply block them it avoids that ‘awkwardness’ xx

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By *rMrs Horny300Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them. "

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !!"

Oh gosh !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My friends eldest son tried adding us on here. He then tried adding me on Facebook !

Blocked on fab but ignore fb request.

Another friend (male) messaged us. I recognised him straight away so immediately blocked him. He’s married with a baby on the way.

Miss

Yes he must have known it was me, hence why he immediately tried to add me on Fb x

You can’t blame your sons friend for trying, I assume he knew it was you?"

It has to be up there for all time fantasy’s for young lads, take it as compliment although a little weird lol

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By *eightonpa1Man
over a year ago

Market Weighton

I've not come across anyone I know yet, I hope if a Friend or friends see my profile they would be open to me & PM me you never know if it may turn out to be a very nice time after chatting.

The Golden rule on any site like this is you PM them on the site & never openly go up to them in public. I wouldn't want my Bi or swinging life to be the talk of the town & I am sure 99% of others are the same. We want our sex life to be kept within the swinging life & not public.

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham

I recognised a couple in our village and I think they spotted my profile, as they deleted their profile .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I wouldn't mind being recognised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !!

Oh gosh !!"

I take it he let you pack your shopping into bags instead of making you shove it hurriedly into the basket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jve come across mutliple people i recognise.. generally if they message me with face pics not knowing who I am I will tell them or at least say I know them in real life and discuss privacy etc.

But unless they message me I won't try and do anything or say anything as it's not necessary

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

I have, someone I knows parents. But good on em, I ain't saying anything...just given certain details personal to them, it does give me a bit of giggle when they pop up now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have public face pics they like being approached when they're out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple we spoke to had hidden faces and been recognised by their sofa... I’d be mortified x

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It depends how I know them, I’ve recognised a friend on here & also a friend of my sons. I feel there’s no need to let either of them know I saw them on here and I would never tell anyone

However if I saw somebody that I’d like to play with then I may approach them with reassurances but if they’re not interested then that’s the end of it with full discression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen a few people I recognised one couple messaged me I explained the situation and said discretion is key they understood and blocked me but I did message someone I recognised from our couples profile cos I thought she was worth messaging and it worked out for the better me and my wife went for drinks to chat and help them with fab and ended up in a sweaty mess on the sofa we still meet them every now and again either for drinks or play.

But I have seen an old childhood friend that would be mortified if she knew I recognised her and to be honest I would be if she recognised me tattoos can give a lot away especially if you have them showing on Facebook pics too

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I take the view that we are all here for the same or similar reasons. I don't mind if someone who knows me messages me. It's always good to meet others into this lifestyle. Plus better the devil you know..... "

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I couldn't care less if people recognise me or I recognise them."

Same here

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By *ompeygirlWoman
over a year ago

portsmouth

My ex husband just found me...lol x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"My ex husband just found me...lol x"

I just view it that if they've seen me they are into swinging too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been an interesting thread to read. I have not recognised anyone I know nor bumped into them at events.

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

A guy at my wifes work recognized her on here, tild me he always wabted to fuck her and now he knows shes on here its made it worse!!

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By *ilthy builderMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Had a woman at my nephews school ask if i was on here and that she had been wanting to fuck me, still see her now and then even though she isnt on here any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and accept their choice of being on here, and respect their need to be discreet.

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham

The trouble is ours is quite a small village and they are well known in their community roles in the village. I think that's why they left the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been an interesting thread to read. I have not recognised anyone I know nor bumped into them at events."

Thanks, I’ve been intrigued how people handle it. It does seem 50/50 for them feeback. But think I’ll not say anything unless asked first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice, I did pondered messaging them on here but don’t know just feels a little weird."

If it feels weird, it probably is.... At least to you.

It's difficult to put the genie back in the bottle

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

South

Yes recognised a neighbour on here.

Was a quick block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep three times!!!!

Just smile and be discrete. They are in the club for the same reason.

Smile, keep calm and play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !!"
You should say that’s fab thank you! as code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this thread couldn't have been more apt if I made it up

Just had a message saying you fitted my Windows didn't know you were a naughty boy you could have fucked me whilst hubby was at work pmsl

If she doesn't reveal who she/they are I'll have to play the hunt the wallpaper in the bedroom game cause she is sexy as fuck and she's just been put at the top of my to do list and only 3 miles away

Fuck it's annoyed me

Better get all my old window contracts out and play that other famous game guess who

This is 110 fabsters

Only made up bit is my to do list

Haven't got one

Never will

Just a play on words

Wish me luck on my customer quest and if she's watching I'm doing a special new year on all my products it's

buy the first window for double the cost of the normal price and get the second one absolutely free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !! You should say that’s fab thank you! as code "

Fab you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !! You should say that’s fab thank you! as code

Fab you very much "
absolutely FABULOUS

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We’ve seen a few profiles of people we know but haven’t had a need or want to mention the fact, we’d rather let people be. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised people and people have recognised me. Had a few do the whole "have a fab day" thing.

Honestly, not a fan. If you become friends with people from here, sure, otherwise keep the two worlds separate.

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By *AFBODMan
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

My next door neighbor is on here and we have chatted a few times and I have seen her in the chat rooms on camera..

But she doesn't know who I am..

It just shows that you can never tell what a person is actually like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once spotted a guy I used to know at school. Horrible, nasty fucker who was a real bully. He used to take the piss out of individuals just so that others would laugh and think he was funny. He was one of those guys who would insult and laugh at others expenses. And to top it off he always used to bully a lad who was gay (not openly gay at the time but all the signs where there).

Anyway, so I saw this horrid individuals profile on here and found that on his profile it says he was bisexual. He's still as nasty as ever so I've heard. I decided to message him and clearly wrote a message which went a little something like:

"Ah John Smith (not his real name) not seen you for many years. I trust you're well matey. I always fancied you at school but the big man you always tried to portray always put me off. Nice to know you're being true to yourself and doing what makes you happy dude. Just a bit confused that your profile says you're single when you're actually married, strange that".

I got a reply asking who I was and he pleaded not to tell anyone. I thought he would block me but he messaged back a day later asking me to keep it on the down low. Now, I wouldn't tell anyone at all but I feel that for the twat he used to be and still is he deserved that and needed to sweat a bit. His poor wife is non the wiser. His big man persona was a front and he's a big fat coward and fake.

Cue all the backlash comments...I'm waiting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve seen a few profiles of people we know but haven’t had a need or want to mention the fact, we’d rather let people be. M"

This exactly

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By *awtyGirl38Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Winder if anyone has seen any family members!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winder if anyone has seen any family members!! Xx"

Not since last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !! You should say that’s fab thank you! as code

Fab you very much absolutely FABULOUS "

Fabs for the memories

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Winder if anyone has seen any family members!! Xx"

Read some of the earlier posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen the bosses daughter on here. Amazing tits. On here with her husband so didn’t message, but certainly saw her in a different light lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Wow this thread couldn't have been more apt if I made it up

Just had a message saying you fitted my Windows didn't know you were a naughty boy you could have fucked me whilst hubby was at work pmsl

If she doesn't reveal who she/they are I'll have to play the hunt the wallpaper in the bedroom game cause she is sexy as fuck and she's just been put at the top of my to do list and only 3 miles away

Fuck it's annoyed me

Better get all my old window contracts out and play that other famous game guess who

This is 110 fabsters

Only made up bit is my to do list

Haven't got one

Never will

Just a play on words

Wish me luck on my customer quest and if she's watching I'm doing a special new year on all my products it's

buy the first window for double the cost of the normal price and get the second one absolutely free "

Why not just contact her on here and ask, I would, it is a site for people who want to meet and have fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow this thread couldn't have been more apt if I made it up

Just had a message saying you fitted my Windows didn't know you were a naughty boy you could have fucked me whilst hubby was at work pmsl

If she doesn't reveal who she/they are I'll have to play the hunt the wallpaper in the bedroom game cause she is sexy as fuck and she's just been put at the top of my to do list and only 3 miles away

Fuck it's annoyed me

Better get all my old window contracts out and play that other famous game guess who

This is 110 fabsters

Only made up bit is my to do list

Haven't got one

Never will

Just a play on words

Wish me luck on my customer quest and if she's watching I'm doing a special new year on all my products it's

buy the first window for double the cost of the normal price and get the second one absolutely free

Why not just contact her on here and ask, I would, it is a site for people who want to meet and have fun?"

Read last bit of message Mr h

If she's/they are reading this they know I don't do bogof on my Windows

Always full rrp with this one and the quality of the service I give, which she knows is of the highest standard explains why

But yes in layman's terms get in touch gorgeous girl your place my place hotel bloody clock tower if you like an audience like me (giggling now j x

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

No not on here but how do you they are who you think they are for sure? I regularly get mistaken for other people when I'm in clubs, I find it quite irritating especially when they refuse to accept I'm not the person they think I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised as few people on here i know my advice is if they mention it that's ok

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn


"Has anyone recognise someone their friends/neighbours with on here? I’ve stumbled across a couple of profiles (hidden their eyes in pics etc) and I know I work with them and far to nervous to say anything to them.

Oh yes . The man who works in Aldi !!"

Ngl He prob saw your face pic on your singles Sid and your lady wife’s on the couple profile tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only recognised one person at that was out shopping. He looked at me and I looked at him and then left the cafe. Said to hubby I’ve met him!

I felt rather uneasy and as we were in a shopping village with hubbys kids.

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By *LawMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Someone recognised me the other day and sent a message saying i look familiar and mentioned the area where i live. Her profile had no pics or discription. So no idea who she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow this thread couldn't have been more apt if I made it up

Just had a message saying you fitted my Windows didn't know you were a naughty boy you could have fucked me whilst hubby was at work pmsl

If she doesn't reveal who she/they are I'll have to play the hunt the wallpaper in the bedroom game cause she is sexy as fuck and she's just been put at the top of my to do list and only 3 miles away

Fuck it's annoyed me

Better get all my old window contracts out and play that other famous game guess who

This is 110 fabsters

Only made up bit is my to do list

Haven't got one

Never will

Just a play on words

Wish me luck on my customer quest and if she's watching I'm doing a special new year on all my products it's

buy the first window for double the cost of the normal price and get the second one absolutely free

Why not just contact her on here and ask, I would, it is a site for people who want to meet and have fun?"

She started doing my head and teasing saying she prefers pussy to cock atm and just wouldn't reveal herself after chatting for a while so I hit the block button

Got enough naughty and wonderful fab friends without her pissing me off tbh

*also still can't match the wallpaper

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Only recognised one person at that was out shopping. He looked at me and I looked at him and then left the cafe. Said to hubby I’ve met him!

I felt rather uneasy and as we were in a shopping village with hubbys kids. "

Our worst fear and why we tend to travel for meets. No locals or anyone within 40 miles for us.

**Yes, we've recognised people, would never,ever bring it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Sister and her husband.

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I've seen a few people I've recognised on here, friends, work colleague and even a family member..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a small town and have quite a large family so it’s a bit disconcerting that I might speak to someone I know. Had this recently. Not that I’m ashamed but I’d prefer to keep my private life private.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think it’s quite funny but I do often wonder when I’m on the tube who has actually seen me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say hi

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't quite get some peoples worries about people they know. We all know what we're here for, it will usually say on our profiles what we want. If it's your next door neighbours and you meet up for fun, they are very unlikely to go round every house in the street saying guess who we shagged last night?

Okay ignore someone if they are a blood relative or someone who is looking to cheat on a pregnant partner. There will be other scenarios, (maybe work), but generally people will have good reasons for wanting to play. However it's generally just for the fun of fucking one way or another to put it crudely. You meet some one ina club, a party or GB, to heel with it, you all know what you want. I've met with people who I've become friends with, been to their homes or vice versa, been out socially.

At the end of April I'm going on holiday with several people I now consider friends. I'm happy with it, I presume they are too.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve spoken to someone from work’s head office, never met him but when he told me his name and kind of what he did for a living it twigged. His name is very obscure. I told him I kind of knew him and didn’t want to go further. He was happy with that.

I have a couple of friends on here, one we compare messages at times, we often find we have the same messages.

I bumped into my brother once in a sex shop a few hours away from home. It was really embarrassing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient "

Nice when you don't have to walk or drive too far for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient

Nice when you don't have to walk or drive too far for fun"

I would sneak around to his wearing very little in broad daylight..our neighbour across the road came out to call her cat in. I got in to his just in time. Being so close defintely added something extra. He would message me when he was getting to the traffic lights from work and I would listen out for his car coming down the street. I would be out cleaning the car and he would send me a message about my arse lol. I would recommend it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient

Nice when you don't have to walk or drive too far for fun

I would sneak around to his wearing very little in broad daylight..our neighbour across the road came out to call her cat in. I got in to his just in time. Being so close defintely added something extra. He would message me when he was getting to the traffic lights from work and I would listen out for his car coming down the street. I would be out cleaning the car and he would send me a message about my arse lol. I would recommend it! "

I want neighbors like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient

Nice when you don't have to walk or drive too far for fun

I would sneak around to his wearing very little in broad daylight..our neighbour across the road came out to call her cat in. I got in to his just in time. Being so close defintely added something extra. He would message me when he was getting to the traffic lights from work and I would listen out for his car coming down the street. I would be out cleaning the car and he would send me a message about my arse lol. I would recommend it!

I want neighbors like you "

Move Yourself and those god-like legs of yours to Wales lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient

Nice when you don't have to walk or drive too far for fun

I would sneak around to his wearing very little in broad daylight..our neighbour across the road came out to call her cat in. I got in to his just in time. Being so close defintely added something extra. He would message me when he was getting to the traffic lights from work and I would listen out for his car coming down the street. I would be out cleaning the car and he would send me a message about my arse lol. I would recommend it!

I want neighbors like you

Move Yourself and those god-like legs of yours to Wales lol xxx"

Next to Peter and June ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my neighbour on here, we were fwb for all of last year. Great experience and very convinient

Nice when you don't have to walk or drive too far for fun

I would sneak around to his wearing very little in broad daylight..our neighbour across the road came out to call her cat in. I got in to his just in time. Being so close defintely added something extra. He would message me when he was getting to the traffic lights from work and I would listen out for his car coming down the street. I would be out cleaning the car and he would send me a message about my arse lol. I would recommend it!

I want neighbors like you

Move Yourself and those god-like legs of yours to Wales lol xxx

Next to Peter and June ?"

I will get you a key cut tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen the bosses daughter on here. Amazing tits. On here with her husband so didn’t message, but certainly saw her in a different light lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live in a village, see a few, haha.

When I first joined as a single lady, was chatting to a guy and gave my address, he said he knew it and he’d be a couple of minutes- was staying at his mums in the next street, haha. Used to be very convenient xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think I would want someone to say discreetly hello. I mean there has to be one or two in here to have seen me on the tube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a couple on here last year .I was at their Wedding 3 years ago. We have been mates since 1986 . I also met them at one of the organised socials last year .. We have discussed playing together as his wife is very attractive and we have always flirted with each other since he met her . One year has gone by and I think we've just dropped the subject of us playing together as we don't want to spoil our friendship.

Yet we still discuss our swinging exploits when we catch up.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Ive had a few people message me and say they seen me in work I'd rather they didn't tell me that. Cause now I will be looking at everyone wondering if there on here.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw someone i know on here and decided in the end to speak to her about it. Purely because she had the same pics on here, as on her Facebook page, which I thought was asking for trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when I find people I know, makes me feel normal to be fair which is what I am. I love knowing others are getting the same enjoyment out of life that I am. Were all human and all have desires

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw someone i know on here and decided in the end to speak to her about it. Purely because she had the same pics on here, as on her Facebook page, which I thought was asking for trouble. "

How did it turn out? Always curious to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive had a few people message me and say they seen me in work I'd rather they didn't tell me that. Cause now I will be looking at everyone wondering if there on here.. Lol "

Didn’t it make you feel good? Maybe it’s a man thing, but there’s something sexy about it. to have someone say I saw you naked pics (hopefully they like)!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I love it when I find people I know, makes me feel normal to be fair which is what I am. I love knowing others are getting the same enjoyment out of life that I am. Were all human and all have desires "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has yet to happen actually for us

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

Hubby knows/recognise a couple locally,not sure if they know who he is,but we would never tell anyone. We all here for a similar thing and what goes on behind closed doors stays that way as far as we are concerned. We often wonder does anyone recognise us though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep been recognised at a hen party life drawing class where I was the model, don't know what part of the body they recognised lmao. Would love to know their fab profile so I could perve back lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yep been recognised at a hen party life drawing class where I was the model, don't know what part of the body they recognised lmao. Would love to know their fab profile so I could perve back lol"

Don't quote know how they told you they recognised you without letting you know what their profile was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw someone i know on here and decided in the end to speak to her about it. Purely because she had the same pics on here, as on her Facebook page, which I thought was asking for trouble.

How did it turn out? Always curious to know."

She got embarrassed, said she doesn't really come on here anyway, and took her photos down. She may or may not have created another account, but if she did, she's not using her Facebook pics, so all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be exciting as long as they are respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a friend of ours on here.. funny thing is he has messaged us that he knows us and said he knows us well but we can't figure out who he is at all! Bit unnerving but it will come out in the end no doubt lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres a friend of ours on here.. funny thing is he has messaged us that he knows us and said he knows us well but we can't figure out who he is at all! Bit unnerving but it will come out in the end no doubt lol"

Love it, does you head in thinking about it and also turns you on, well me it does lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it had to happen, I’ve been on before yes with my ex and now playing with my new sub. It’s a thing that happens, don’t see it as a bad thing, we are all here to have fun!

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Met a couple about 8 years back, then a week later she served me on a till in the shop, we both pretended we didnt know each other, also met a guy one night who came to my house, he told me his daughter lived across the road .

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