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"Out of curiosity, why do some folks hide their friends lists? What is to be gained by doing so? xxxx Ju & Rich " Because you can We don't have ours on show, mainly as we like to keep everything private. | |||
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"Oh we see. So there are people who will meet meet and shag us purely because we know mr/mrs athe than because they fancy us lol Is that a disadvantage? mmmm xxx" You are laughing on your post, but I don't think you are far wrong. It also works the other way and puts some people off meeting people because of who is on their friends lists ,going by some posts I have seen on here before now. That isn't our reasons though. | |||
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"Out of curiosity, why do some folks hide their friends lists? What is to be gained by doing so? xxxx Ju & Rich Because you can We don't have ours on show, mainly as we like to keep everything private." Exactly, who my friends are, who I meet, My pics and everything else with regards swinging is my business and nobody elses. I don't feel the urge to broadcast it. | |||
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"Notches are not quite our thing either lol that's why we make friends Having said that we are swingers so are always drawn towards the new experience.... and shagging strangers (or new found friends even) is so much fun But seriously Notts, this banter is fun but of late there are is a fashion for hiding friends lists where we never really noticed many before. Are we missing something here? What would we gain by following suit? Because folks generally don't do things for no reason xxx Ju & Rich" Probably because the option is now there | |||
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"Oh we see. So there are people who will meet meet and shag us purely because we know mr/mrs athe than because they fancy us lol Is that a disadvantage? mmmm xxx You are laughing on your post, but I don't think you are far wrong. It also works the other way and puts some people off meeting people because of who is on their friends lists ,going by some posts I have seen on here before now. That isn't our reasons though." Absolutely spot on... We look, see a great big list and don't even bother... even if good looking. All it says to us is they are easy.. combine that with multiple sites.. speaks volumes eh.. Nothing wrong with that.. were greatful they do show it.. helps us look elsewhere. Ok.. arguement could then be well you could be hiding more.. When we have a possible meet and they show genuine interest we'll show them.. Happily! | |||
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"So it seems the answer to our OP then is purely 'because you can' " yes lol Some people are more private than others, there isn't anything wrong with having your friends list on show but neither is having it private either | |||
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"Notches are not quite our thing either lol that's why we make friends Having said that we are swingers so are always drawn towards the new experience.... and shagging strangers (or new found friends even) is so much fun But seriously Notts, this banter is fun but of late there are is a fashion for hiding friends lists where we never really noticed many before. Are we missing something here? What would we gain by following suit? Because folks generally don't do things for no reason xxx Ju & Rich" But then thats your choice to show who... Nothing wrong with that, your way of meeting is your way, nothing wrong with that... Our way is different.. thats all! Not hiding anything.. Just choosing not to show, two very very different things.. | |||
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"So it seems the answer to our OP then is purely 'because you can' " I can't for the life of me think why it bothers you lol.... I can't?? I'm not remotely interested in my neighbours friends... I don't care who's sleeping with who in the village either so why on here lol??? | |||
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"Hi sorry notts - we crossed in the post there so to speak What you say is plausable so let's say we propose a little experiment We'll remove our friend list from public view and see if we get more genuine contacts in lets say 2 months than we do with the list shown Apart from we are half way through the previous experiment seeing if we get more genuine contacts/meets with pics of Rich in our public profile for 1 month lol.. so it will have to wait a couple weeks So many things to try so little time xxxx ju & rich " Guys... With all due respect.. I think if we set our minds to it we'd safely be able to fill pages with lists of meets and friends lol.. We get enough requests now.. Its just preferences.. Nothing more lol! | |||
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"No worries notts xx we are all different in our own little ways than heavens We just wondered what we were missing as couldn't really see the point xxxxx ju & rich" You missing little... Clearly pmsl... | |||
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"Hi sorry notts - we crossed in the post there so to speak What you say is plausable so let's say we propose a little experiment We'll remove our friend list from public view and see if we get more genuine contacts in lets say 2 months than we do with the list shown Apart from we are half way through the previous experiment seeing if we get more genuine contacts/meets with pics of Rich in our public profile for 1 month lol.. so it will have to wait a couple weeks So many things to try so little time xxxx ju & rich Guys... With all due respect.. I think if we set our minds to it we'd safely be able to fill pages with lists of meets and friends lol.. We get enough requests now.. Its just preferences.. Nothing more lol!" pages???? well hellllo stuuuud...lmao | |||
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" pages???? well hellllo stuuuud...lmao " I didn't say how many lol... We get shit loads of people who wanna nosy the pics everyday... No one is going to tell me when they have a list miles long they are all friends ff's... even saying a simple hello every few days would leave no time for anything real.. Lists mean nothing.... Our friends know who they are.. believe me lol.. | |||
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" pages???? well hellllo stuuuud...lmao I didn't say how many lol... We get shit loads of people who wanna nosy the pics everyday... No one is going to tell me when they have a list miles long they are all friends ff's... even saying a simple hello every few days would leave no time for anything real.. Lists mean nothing.... Our friends know who they are.. believe me lol.. " well said that man. | |||
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"We have 1 person on our friends list and it us,and I can't even be bothered to keep in touch with me pmsl " lmao. disappearing friends are the worst...should be able to staple them to the one spot. | |||
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"We have 1 person on our friends list and it us,and I can't even be bothered to keep in touch with me pmsl " Thats a blatent Lie... I resent that. I beg daily....... | |||
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" pages???? well hellllo stuuuud...lmao I didn't say how many lol... We get shit loads of people who wanna nosy the pics everyday... No one is going to tell me when they have a list miles long they are all friends ff's... even saying a simple hello every few days would leave no time for anything real.. Lists mean nothing.... Our friends know who they are.. believe me lol.. well said that man." I thank you... | |||
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"We have 1 person on our friends list and it us,and I can't even be bothered to keep in touch with me pmsl Thats a blatent Lie... I resent that. I beg daily....... " I know but I like it | |||
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"We have 1 person on our friends list and it us,and I can't even be bothered to keep in touch with me pmsl lmao. disappearing friends are the worst...should be able to staple them to the one spot." Yes a staple gun would come in very handy sometimes | |||
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"Strange thing is since the party everyone we made friends with now hides their list xx " no comment.... ....grins | |||
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"Strange thing is since the party everyone we made friends with now hides their list xx " PMSL ours was always hidden but im happy to tell everyone on here that you're on it | |||
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"Strange thing is since the party everyone we made friends with now hides their list xx PMSL ours was always hidden but im happy to tell everyone on here that you're on it " I'm not....... pmsl Its a closely gaurded secret | |||
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"wouldn't worry Craig, we couldn't even get an invite to the party lol xxxx ju & rich" Invite???? Its been on the Forums for ages... Why not just ask like everyone else lol... Hardly a fookin secret was it lol??? Blimey........... No ones that special lol. | |||
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" Invite???? Its been on the Forums for ages... Why not just ask like everyone else lol... Hardly a fookin secret was it lol??? " lol no. Craig knows to what we referred xx | |||
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"Out of curiosity, why do some folks hide their friends lists? What is to be gained by doing so? xxxx Ju & Rich " Its a case of privacy. Some people dont like everyone to know who they've fucked/thinking of fucking. Also some trawl through friends lists messaging people as a "way in" by association. To some people that can come over as a bit stalky so to avoid any of this we hide out friends and verifications. | |||
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" Invite???? Its been on the Forums for ages... Why not just ask like everyone else lol... Hardly a fookin secret was it lol??? lol no. Craig knows to what we referred xx " Nowt to do with me | |||
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"Possible reasons: 1 - there are some people who do contact people on your friends list after speaking to you for 5 minutes using "I know so and so too and they can vouch for me" as an opening line... then you're friends start thinking you've been pointing twats in their direction 2 - if yiu have too many on your list people think you are bragging 3 - if you don't keep many on it people think you are fake 4 - you may not actually keep your friends on your friends list and just use it to perve photos of some people you like perving 5 - why would anyone NEED to know who is on it? Be a nosey fucker and look yeah - but not NEED to know 6 - it's all bollox anyway! 7 - You have swingmates on it.. " Your so right...... | |||
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" After chatting to Craig about it, I've come to the conclusion that you wanted a personal invite. " Oh dear.. one comment half in jest, one wrong conclusion... and the rest is for the most part just nonsense. We thought this chapter of silly aggression was over. Please don't push it. xx ju & rich | |||
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"We've also been known to do the same with the verifications of particularly attractive couples or ones a lot younger than ourselves, to try and get a better idea of whether they would really want to meet an ordinary pair like us lol xxxxx Ju & Rich" I have to admit I have done this recently. The reason I looked is if the guy I am thinking of contacting has met a woman who is roughly the same size as me then I may be what he is looking for. If however he does not say he is only looking for slim then I look at his verifications and if all the women he has met or who have verified him are slim then I would not contact him, saves wasting my time and his time. Shona x x x | |||
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"I'm sure that a lot of people select from the couples that are posted because they like the look of them. Then because they fit the criteria you are searching for, it follows that people on their friends list are quite possibly similar. So it saves a lot of time going thru the main 'Browse' pages if you can go thru somebody's friends list!! Does that make sense?" On our friends list though we have a mix of people we chat on the forums with.. people we have planned to meet but havn't some we have met and not played with and some we have and have played with... Means little lol.. just means we added em to a list lol.. | |||
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"well i got friends on my profile showing but they aint friends i have shagged, just friends, dont put shagging ones on show at all lol" This seems like the sensible approach to me, although keeping back verifications appears, unscientifically, to put off some who'd prefer not to "break in the newbie", in my experience, even though that assumes that this is the only site in action. | |||
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" @ Notts. Yes very good comment, which is why we only really browse others verifications for the reasons we said" We hide those as well lol... | |||
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"tbh we used to show but there are some strange people about and for for lots of different reasons try to upset and hurt people. so we hide our friends list so that if we at some point upset any of the more twisted people about they cannot try to get at us via our friends " luv the tit | |||
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"tbh we used to show but there are some strange people about and for for lots of different reasons try to upset and hurt people. so we hide our friends list so that if we at some point upset any of the more twisted people about they cannot try to get at us via our friends luv the tit " is that kats tit or me lol lol | |||
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"not lost they are still watching. they are doing fine. afterall you dont lose friends " Not unless you are very forgetful lol n then ya always find em in ya other handbag | |||
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"are yous lot all friends, cos most of yous speak on here often, just wondering if yous are on each others friends lists ? or just in forum?" Hun I can honestly say most of the people I chat to on the forums are not in my friends list - with the exception of I think 3 profiles all are people I have met or intend to meet. The other 3 are people who I chat to regularly either here or on msn or via txt and phone. I can only answer for myself tho and I have no idea if everyone is on everyone elses list. But you can always jump in (like I did) and people will talk to you and you will soon be chatting to people on the forums who you would normally never see in real life. Thats the beauty of this site I chat to people who dont like bigger women or who dont meet smokers nowt wrong with it we just reply to things that catch out attention and have a laugh. Shona x x x | |||
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