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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok my Partner and I are going to our first club today ! . Can anyone give us any tips or advice ? It would be really appreciated thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and enjoy it. Don't do anything you don't want to do. Walking through the door will be the hardest part, once in you'll be fine.

Having the 'butterflies' in your stomach is nautral.

Sean x

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aw thankyou we are going to adam and eaves ! We have discussed what we want etc ! Its more the not knowing of what to do when we arrive ! x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Smile and be friendly. But don't feel you have to play just because people are talking to you. First time is always the most nerve-wracking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually, tell them its your first time visit. They will give you a guided tour then relax at a place where people gather for a drink/sit an talk.

Then just, in your own time have a wander on your own and see what's happening...just take it from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thankyou ! The next really stupid question what am I best wearing ??

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"Ok my Partner and I are going to our first club today ! . Can anyone give us any tips or advice ? It would be really appreciated thanks!! "

Go with an open mind, don't drink, if you haven't discussed how far you wish to take it today it's a good idea too but have a safe word if you BOTH want to take it further and don't be dissapointed if you dont play.

It's as much about the social side at a club. And like swinging in general don't feel pressured to play.

Hope this advice gives you some ideas.

Don't forget it's supposed to be fun! lol

Are you going to a wet or dry club?

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

If memory serves me correctly, I think quite a few people wear towels at Adam and Eves, this is without checking, and the connection is very slow here, go with a sexy evening dress/underwear, then you have a couple of options.

Socialise and chat to people, try not to sit in a dark corner somewhere, unless that's what you want to do.

If Adam and Eve's is your first choice, just be aware, however the experience is for you, there are 80 other clubs out there in the UK, and we wouldn't say A and A's is very typical of what is out there, in our opinion its pretty low down the list of the clubs you could goto for a first visit, so be aware that there are bigger, cleaner, busier and more interesting venues than that one.

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