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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am i doing something wrong here? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate it’s tough going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i doing something wrong here? Lol "

Have you tried water Mellon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i doing something wrong here? Lol

Have you tried water Mellon? "

Or a warm pie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its difficult on here mate.

3 weeks and the women havent fallen over themselves to break down your door.

Incredible, i know. Just dont understand it myself either.

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

it toke me a long time to get going but once i got going its all good.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Why do people think it's about luck?

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By *unkyFiremanMan
over a year ago

Town

3 weeks in and no meets, I would complain to admin...outrageous

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

One of the more repetitive green arrow experiences.

I have some other adjectives I could also use, but that would be more opinion, less fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been doing shockingly since I came back on here too.

What annoys me is how people want lengthy first messages.

When you dont know anything about them apart from maybe photos if they have any sensible ones, it is unreasonable to expect a long first message.

I send a face and body picture and say hello (also titling it whatever they have requested in the profile).

Because that is how conversations are supposed to start and they can decide if they are interested or not.

Anything else is just fake or cheesy.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"When you dont know anything about them apart from maybe photos if they have any sensible ones, it is unreasonable to expect a long first message.

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I messaged one woman recently saying that while I would normally try and pick up some cues from the profile text, hers was so short that I could only say "hello".

She replied that she didn't need to make an effort as she was female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its true but leaves us somewhat stranded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the more repetitive green arrow experiences.

I have some other adjectives I could also use, but that would be more opinion, less fact."

I did the green arrow too.

Watermelon cropped up several times too.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Watermelon cropped up several times too. "

At least some good came out of it - you can now spell it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this stuff about the green arrow? Keep hearing it mentioned?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have been doing shockingly since I came back on here too.

What annoys me is how people want lengthy first messages.

When you dont know anything about them apart from maybe photos if they have any sensible ones, it is unreasonable to expect a long first message.

I send a face and body picture and say hello (also titling it whatever they have requested in the profile).

Because that is how conversations are supposed to start and they can decide if they are interested or not.

Anything else is just fake or cheesy."

I made an effort on my profile so people can see if they like how I present myself. I view it more as an advert, and you go off that. I don't respond to messages like what you're describing at all, no matter what I think of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this stuff about the green arrow? Keep hearing it mentioned?"

If you look at each post on a thread, there is a green arrow next to the posters name.

Click on it and all will become clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watermelon cropped up several times too.

At least some good came out of it - you can now spell it! "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nothing to do with luck OP. Effort in = results out. You are one of many thousands of single and not so single male profiles on here. Make sure yours stands out.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South


"When you dont know anything about them apart from maybe photos if they have any sensible ones, it is unreasonable to expect a long first message.

I messaged one woman recently saying that while I would normally try and pick up some cues from the profile text, hers was so short that I could only say "hello".

She replied that she didn't need to make an effort as she was female.

"

That’s the sad thing about this site. Some people feel they don’t have to make any effort just because they get flooded with mail, even without no public/private pics on their profile.

Just keep persevering and you’ll get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i doing something wrong here? Lol "

Smile in your pictures swinging is supposed to fun, your promoting the idea of have a meet up with you is going to be a great time

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


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Just keep persevering and you’ll get there. "

Awwww, thanks.

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