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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I suddenly find myself becoming increasingly intrigued with ruined orgasms, I would be interested to know other peoples thoughts on them? Cheers

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

What's one of them? Do I need to Google it?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard of the practice of ruining orgasms

Mine or sometimes ruined by it happening too quickly. No time to savour the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big fan. I do enjoy tease and denial on the whole so good!

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

Nope new one on me

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it. "

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?"

Or is it when the girl or guys wife or hubby comes home early

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Am not sure I would use the word fun to describe them but in the overall scheme of things they can be part of a interesting dynamic.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?"

Not about lasting. For instance she might give him a hand job and just as he is about to come remove her hand but by that stage it is too late and he still comes but with no touch

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?

Not about lasting. For instance she might give him a hand job and just as he is about to come remove her hand but by that stage it is too late and he still comes but with no touch "

How does that ruin the orgasm ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That would do it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried it but can't seem to get the timing right, or it's my subconscious not wanting me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried it but can't seem to get the timing right, or it's my subconscious not wanting me to."

If you keep edging him it'll happen, although sometimes it can take a bit of experimenting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried it but can't seem to get the timing right, or it's my subconscious not wanting me to.

If you keep edging him it'll happen, although sometimes it can take a bit of experimenting "

I think I just can't be as mean as I'd like to be

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?

Not about lasting. For instance she might give him a hand job and just as he is about to come remove her hand but by that stage it is too late and he still comes but with no touch

How does that ruin the orgasm ?"

Next time you have a wank and can feel yourself about to cum, take your hand away and see!

There can also be verbal humiliation with it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take great joy in ruining orgasms. Especially after prolonged teasing and edging. They make things incredibly entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Argh nothing worse than a ruined orgasm, when its your own anyway

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By *illupMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Locked in a chastity cage but made to cum by teasing the cage with a vibe - intense

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?

Not about lasting. For instance she might give him a hand job and just as he is about to come remove her hand but by that stage it is too late and he still comes but with no touch

How does that ruin the orgasm ?

Next time you have a wank and can feel yourself about to cum, take your hand away and see!

There can also be verbal humiliation with it too "

My ex tried the verbal humiliation and that's when enough was enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last ruined orgasm was at aged 14, my mum walked in with a cup of tea while I was mid wank.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"Locked in a chastity cage but made to cum by teasing the cage with a vibe - intense "

Experimenting with that recently as well as ruined orgasm / prostate milking. Not having too much success as yet with the last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take great joy in ruining orgasms. Especially after prolonged teasing and edging. They make things incredibly entertaining. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Locked in a chastity cage but made to cum by teasing the cage with a vibe - intense

Experimenting with that recently as well as ruined orgasm / prostate milking. Not having too much success as yet with the last."

Keep it up, not had the pleasure of the latter but keen to try - you’re a lucky hubby

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

No such thing as a ruined orgasm. Orgasm is the point of ecstasy, you either cum with a big smiley intense smile, or you don't, which means it's not an orgasm.

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

It happened to me a couple of times but never on purpose. It’s awful!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"

Experimenting with that recently as well as ruined orgasm / prostate milking. Not having too much success as yet with the last."

Had plenty of ruined orgasms but never the milking. Would love to try though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really want to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really want to try it"

Order a pizza then get yourself all worked up just before the delivery guy arrives, et voila! Ruined!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There have been some entertaining responses, some have made it more intriguing, some have made me chuckle, and one or two I think misunderstand the wording of a ruined orgasm, it seems it is about removing the stimulation at that vital point where the man has gone just beyond the point of no return, it doesn't stop the orgasm or take the feeling of ecstasy away, rather it leaves the cock to it's own devices which can become quite lively on some of the vids I have seen. Some women seem to take great pleasure in watching this happen, and I must admit to finding myself getting horny at the thought of having the experience. Thanks to all who read and responded. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, a cup of tea would put me off too!!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"It's when a guy is made to cum, but just as he does you stop touching his cock or do something to disturb it.

Surely that's just a delaying tactic so the guy can last ?

Not about lasting. For instance she might give him a hand job and just as he is about to come remove her hand but by that stage it is too late and he still comes but with no touch "

A cock shooting a big load with no hands is well horny to see ;-p

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"There have been some entertaining responses, some have made it more intriguing, some have made me chuckle, and one or two I think misunderstand the wording of a ruined orgasm, it seems it is about removing the stimulation at that vital point where the man has gone just beyond the point of no return, it doesn't stop the orgasm or take the feeling of ecstasy away, rather it leaves the cock to it's own devices which can become quite lively on some of the vids I have seen. Some women seem to take great pleasure in watching this happen, and I must admit to finding myself getting horny at the thought of having the experience. Thanks to all who read and responded. Xx

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I edged another guy once for a few hours until he shouted “for fuck’s sake get this load out of me” I flicked my tongue across his helmet and his cock bobbed up and down a few times and several big ropes of cum shot out - horny to see. Any other guys able to cum no hands?

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"No such thing as a ruined orgasm. Orgasm is the point of ecstasy, you either cum with a big smiley intense smile, or you don't, which means it's not an orgasm. "

It’s an ejaculation without any intense pleasurable feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently discovered Velvet Veronica on P0rn Hub and I really enjoy watching her edge her pet and ruin his orgasm.

Something I'd love to learn to do and try out on a willing victim!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never heard of retrograde ejaculations until recently. That's some weird shit and pretty ruined I'd say..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm suddenly gutted I don't live in Scotland!! x

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