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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you enjoy sensual kissing and touching as part of your play with others? For us it is an essential part of any playtime. We’re just not into “sexercise”!!

A lot of people will not kiss with anyone other than their partners. Do you feel the same way? If you do, why?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I would feel weird not kissing someone I met for sex. Unless it was part of a role play scenario then I'm OK with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say kissing is a big part of sex, so sex without kissing would just feel a bit weird to me

C

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By *ig cutMan
over a year ago

Eastlondon

No I love kissing more passion the better iam a very touchy person to I allways try get a good snog on a meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners passionately or sensually on the mouth. The reason is we don't want to.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Went on a meet from my single profile and kissing was a big no no. Ended it straight away.

Still can’t understand why you’d not want it. Just love it - nothing like a really good snog to get the juices flowing!!

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By *ave explorerMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I love kissing and sensual foreplay... I think it sets the tone of the meet and heightens the sexual chemistry between people. But each to their own, i say .

oh who wants a snog ?? ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing ,touching , stroking in other words being very tactile plays a very important part when playing otherwise it’s purely mechanical..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love kissing except if someone has been smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important to me but I respect those who don't, everyone is entitled to that choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be part of it for me. I couldn’t imagine it without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely of paramount importance to me...with the right person it’s just out of this world. The last meet I had we finally feel asleep entwined kissing...gives me goosebumps just thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet with people who don't kiss.

We love it and it's all part of the build up. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is so sensual. Love a good passionate snog

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely of paramount importance to me...with the right person it’s just out of this world. The last meet I had we finally feel asleep entwined kissing...gives me goosebumps just thinking about it "
excellent. Go you!!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Absolutely of paramount importance to me...with the right person it’s just out of this world. The last meet I had we finally feel asleep entwined kissing...gives me goosebumps just thinking about it "

Bliss!

Now how did you wake up?

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk

We been on the scene over 9 years. We have met one no kissing couple. Never again. It was not for us. If a

Couple are stunning but state they don’t kiss. It’s a no from us.

Never ever. No thanks

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

It is a bit of a must for me.. I've had different meets where people won't kiss and I'd say they're not as passionate or make you want to rip each others clothes off as it would be if kissing was there.

It's an important part of the build up for me, don't get me wrong I like the domination side of sex but i also like being touched and teased and brought to that point.

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow


"I would feel weird not kissing someone I met for sex. Unless it was part of a role play scenario then I'm OK with it "

Weird is about right. It is essential. Mmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely of paramount importance to me...with the right person it’s just out of this world. The last meet I had we finally feel asleep entwined kissing...gives me goosebumps just thinking about it

Bliss!

Now how did you wake up?"

A delicate touch down the length of my side if I remember rightly...about 20 minutes later

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By *ice n easyCouple
over a year ago

norfolk

Funnily enough we had this discussion last night (as newbies discussing our boundaries). I said I (male) wasn’t sure about kissing other fems, only her. and she said the same with her and other guys....... but she said she would definitely need to snog the other woman (and obviously I like that idea lol). Each to there own I suppose and we won’t really know till we try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t kiss , it’s not for me and not part of my cuckold role play.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t kiss , it’s not for me and not part of my cuckold role play.....

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What about when out of role play mode?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love it.

Kissing and touching is so essential part of the play wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing ,touching , stroking in other words being very tactile plays a very important part when playing otherwise it’s purely mechanical.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it has to be a yes ...it’s a fundamental part of love making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t kiss , it’s not for me and not part of my cuckold role play.....

What about when out of role play mode?"

Yes , that’s essential for sensual sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t kiss , it’s not for me and not part of my cuckold role play.....

What about when out of role play mode?

Yes , that’s essential for sensual sex..."

What happened if you met someone who needed sensual as part of a cuckhold relationship? Or unheard of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately, so enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely love to kiss, couldn’t meet anyone that did but do respect it’s not for them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet someone who didn’t kiss. No way

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

We also love to kiss.

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By *ax55Man
over a year ago

Hertford

Definitely kissing is hot

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is vital.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t kiss , it’s not for me and not part of my cuckold role play.....

What about when out of role play mode?

Yes , that’s essential for sensual sex...

What happened if you met someone who needed sensual as part of a cuckhold relationship? Or unheard of?"

Hmm that’s a tough one.... remember when I’m cuckolding I’m just a prop for a couples fantasy ... so I have two jobs to do .... please the wife and humiliate the cuck....

So my concern is that both the cuck and the wife are happy.... so if asked to sensually please the wife to make the cuck happy...

Being a team player that I am.... I would kiss and make love to the wife , like I was going to prison the next day.....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Do you enjoy sensual kissing and touching as part of your play with others? For us it is an essential part of any playtime. We’re just not into “sexercise”!!

A lot of people will not kiss with anyone other than their partners. Do you feel the same way? If you do, why?"

Yeah I enjoy it

Don't understand how some couples will let me cum in the lady's mouth but not kiss her but hey ho.

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

Don’t think I’ve ever had sex without kissing. It’s a must for me, starts to build up the excitement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you enjoy sensual kissing and touching as part of your play with others? For us it is an essential part of any playtime. We’re just not into “sexercise”!!

A lot of people will not kiss with anyone other than their partners. Do you feel the same way? If you do, why?

Yeah I enjoy it

Don't understand how some couples will let me cum in the lady's mouth but not kiss her but hey ho "

How about kissing after you’ve cum in her mouth??? Why the hell not !!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Do you enjoy sensual kissing and touching as part of your play with others? For us it is an essential part of any playtime. We’re just not into “sexercise”!!

A lot of people will not kiss with anyone other than their partners. Do you feel the same way? If you do, why?

Yeah I enjoy it

Don't understand how some couples will let me cum in the lady's mouth but not kiss her but hey ho

How about kissing after you’ve cum in her mouth??? Why the hell not !!"

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I don't think I could without kissing it's so sensual and a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you enjoy sensual kissing and touching as part of your play with others? For us it is an essential part of any playtime. We’re just not into “sexercise”!!

A lot of people will not kiss with anyone other than their partners. Do you feel the same way? If you do, why?

Yeah I enjoy it

Don't understand how some couples will let me cum in the lady's mouth but not kiss her but hey ho

How about kissing after you’ve cum in her mouth??? Why the hell not !!"

Until I joined these forums I’ve never ever met a man who would want to do that. Seems it quite the norm here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t kiss , it’s not for me and not part of my cuckold role play.....

What about when out of role play mode?

Yes , that’s essential for sensual sex...

What happened if you met someone who needed sensual as part of a cuckhold relationship? Or unheard of?

Hmm that’s a tough one.... remember when I’m cuckolding I’m just a prop for a couples fantasy ... so I have two jobs to do .... please the wife and humiliate the cuck....

So my concern is that both the cuck and the wife are happy.... so if asked to sensually please the wife to make the cuck happy...

Being a team player that I am.... I would kiss and make love to the wife , like I was going to prison the next day....."

Interesting indeed

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no kissing then there's no point....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's kind of personal, I don't kiss anyone but my other half, it's the line for me.

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By *ave explorerMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though? "

what like a loose filling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing adds to the senses and the erotica which I would assume to be the natural sex play...

But just to throw a 'spanner in the works'.. How is cock sucking and kissing others fit in with the MFM scenario whether the 'group' is straight or bi orientated...? Just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if the guy wants it too!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm can only be interested if we've had a lush kiss, there's no chemistry for me without a kiss

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though?

what like a loose filling? "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else"

Just wow

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though? "

Probably but that's not why we don't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm can only be interested if we've had a lush kiss, there's no chemistry for me without a kiss"

What is the point if kissing is banned

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"Kissing is so sensual. Love a good passionate snog "

Yes you do #ratiswatching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah!!

If they don't like kissing then no meet. That is a...

#dealbreaker

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else

Just wow "

I've never ever kissed on a fab meet... Ever,

That's all separate... Each to their own... That's my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else

Just wow

I've never ever kissed on a fab meet... Ever,

That's all separate... Each to their own... That's my choice"

No one would dispute your choice in that area, how you view the women you’ve met on here is a whole other issue entirely. Absolutely grotesque

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big turn on for me, good kiss and then good sex

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though?

Probably but that's not why we don't kiss."

You can catch norovirus by holding hands so best not do that either

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though?

Probably but that's not why we don't kiss.

You can catch norovirus by holding hands so best not do that either"

I don't hold hands with the men we meet from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will only meet with those who will kiss from the start, who doesn’t want to kiss a hot girl when they first see her xxand it’s very horny watching your wife being kissed by someone else xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm can only be interested if we've had a lush kiss, there's no chemistry for me without a kiss

What is the point if kissing is banned "

For me if kissing is not allowed I'm not interested.

That's ok there's lots of people with different preferences,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a risk of catching something from deep kissing strangers though?

what like a loose filling? "

That a no then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with you....YES x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would feel weird not kissing someone I met for sex. Unless it was part of a role play scenario then I'm OK with it "

This x

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By *aughtyman45Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Kissing is a must for me.

Sex starts with a kiss and ends with one !!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Nope....never kiss(on lips) with any meet. Don't get all the negative shit that gets said on threads like this....what happened to each to their own? If kissing is a "must" then meet people who think the same, if like me it's a no-no then i meet the same...it's no biggie.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nope....never kiss(on lips) with any meet. Don't get all the negative shit that gets said on threads like this....what happened to each to their own? If kissing is a "must" then meet people who think the same, if like me it's a no-no then i meet the same...it's no biggie. "

That's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old fashion :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an odd one for me right now. I don't like the thought of B kissing other people sensually on the lips. All other body parts doesn't phase me but the lips kinda makes me wanna vom. That's because I associate it with how I feel when we're kissing.

I need to remind myself that I don't feel the same kissing other people, it's horny rather than emotional, so why would it be any different for him.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else"

Well aren’t you just a delight

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Kissing heavenly with the right lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing massive part of fore play for me. X

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Wow. How encouraging to hear this!

Judging by the responses, it would seem most people enjoy kissing as part of play. We do as it’s soooooo horny.

However, we respect those who don’t, but they are not for us xxxx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The first few times we met I was sure I didn’t want to see my wife kissing anyone else , and she felt the same way . It wasn’t long before we both felt there was something missing , and yes , it was the kissing . It was just so clinical without . When we were meeting we made it clear on our profile we wouldn’t meet anyone who didn’t kiss on meets .

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I generally prefer WITH sensual kissing in a one on one scenario or if I'm the M in a FFM. If i'm the single guy playing with a couple, I'll hold back unless she invites me to.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

An absolute must for me, were is the fun without the passion, make encounters so much more memorable I love someone who enjoys being intimate and sensual

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"An absolute must for me, were is the fun without the passion, make encounters so much more memorable I love someone who enjoys being intimate and sensual "

I will always respect people’s boundaries though.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else"

Really ?????????? Oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such an important aspect to any meet. If you are not sensual whilst having sex then what is the point?

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By *annieWoman
over a year ago

hinckley

Kissing I find is the most sensual part about being with someone. For me it gets my hormones racing especially if that person knows how to kiss properly.

One of the best kisses is the one in the exchange of a look before it even reaches the lips.

The surprise kiss in public when they just plant one straight in the lips knowing it will get you aroused

Kissing is great I love kissing.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Kissing is a big part of meet for me get you really in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it at the right time and if I really fancy the person.Mostly its just about getting fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else

Just wow "

That's what I thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else

Well aren’t you just a delight "

They will be queuing up for miles around!!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Love kissing...until they start trying to ram their tongue down my throat ... yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing and an integral part of fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing makes it so much more passionate and intense.

Had one meet without kissing and it felt like something missing big time. X

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I would feel weird not kissing someone I met for sex. Unless it was part of a role play scenario then I'm OK with it "

This!

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Yes definitely!!!! I love kissing and if the person who's kissing me is a great kisser I can get really turned on with just doing that....a cheeky squeeze of the nipples and bang I can cum toooooo.....my body sometimes betrays my brain.....xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never got all tingly reading anything on the forums...until reading this thread this morning. I just need a make out session big time! A first base only meet I’m thinking may be in order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss, passionate play is the best

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"No.... That seprate to ladies I like.

A bit of stuff off here is there for one reason... To be used and thrown away

Just another knotch on the post, nothing else

Well aren’t you just a delight

They will be queuing up for miles around!! "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual kissing and a gentle nip on the lip ... so horny

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By *i Bi EroticaCouple
over a year ago

Alfreton

Yes we love kissing on our meets x

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

It's an art. Surprising how many people aren't very good at it! It's very important for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off with a soft kiss the passion soon lights and intense kissing while playing inbetween the moans is out of this world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is one of the best bits! I couldn't go any further without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won’t kiss others who we meet. Kissing for us is sensual and meaningful. This is something we want to keep between ourselves.

When we meet others, it’s for sex and only sex. Yes we will both choose males/females who we find attractive but we still won’t kiss them.

We understand a lot of couples dont accept that and that it puts us at a disadvantage but hey ho. Our personal feelings come first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing sparks the powder keg!!! Ignite and enjoy the flames of passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, kissing is an essential part of things. Touching is a lot of fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing starts the slow build up, add in some slow wandering hands as well

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Kissing is the sensual side. Vital and important to the build up.

No kissing = no meet. Sorry

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing is the sensual side. Vital and important to the build up.

No kissing = no meet. Sorry "

Don't be sorry, it's your preference. We don't want to kiss our meets but we never apologise for lack of compatibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is the sensual side. Vital and important to the build up.

No kissing = no meet. Sorry "

Absolutely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you enjoy sensual kissing and touching as part of your play with others? For us it is an essential part of any playtime. We’re just not into “sexercise”!!

A lot of people will not kiss with anyone other than their partners. Do you feel the same way? If you do, why?"

I’d say it is almost essential - Sensuality is all part of the sexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest turn on , its a must

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Love it, couldn't do without it's all part of the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF. "

Can we meet xxx

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth OYO Hotel

Absolutely a MUST! I need to meet more women as I find women enjoy it, but guys don't. They usually don't even want to touch, just a cold mechanical fuck and that's it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yeah!!

If they don't like kissing then no meet. That is a...

#dealbreaker"

Following on from previous post:

Kissing is more important to me then sex because without it there will be no penetration.

Yeah I said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree!

Think it would actually be physically impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't want to kiss someone, I certainly don't want to have sex with them.

Horses for courses though..

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

It’s a no brainer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx"

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

We have had a few fmfm only one where kissing between mf was not allowed we both thought it off putting would rather all or nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing definitely an important part of the whole experience for us.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Someone told me they think of their girlfriend whilst they are kissing other women.

She thinks he's into her...actually he is imagining his girlfriend.

It's a way to get you through it I guess.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Absolutely love it! Don't really do meets with out it now we enjoy it so much. Nothing gets us hornier than sexy kissing.

Great way to start things off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live kissing, it’s so underrated ! Nothing more sensual and arousing than kissing, before during and long slow ones after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the lady wants to be kissed likes she's never been kissed before and looking into your eyes ,erotic,

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Proper kisses get you right in the mood. Before,during and after. That has to be the only way right?

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By *obert RichardsMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Enjoy kissing but hygeine is important xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips "

I was thinking this! I’m all for kissing and think it’s essential but what happens in a mmf? who kisses who first? I know a lot of straight guys have issues with kissing a woman after another blokes cocks been in her mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is definitely for us. One of our early meets with another couple and the girls started kissing. The other lady pulled away and said to my wife that you don't use your tongue when you kiss another woman.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips "

MFM, yeah I don't do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that"

Exactly my issue with doing one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love kissing, it's my favourite thing!

I don't want to meet someone if there's no kissing & I won't meet again if there was no kissing.

It really is 'in his kiss'.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that

Exactly my issue with doing one "

Yeah, big line in the sand there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that

Exactly my issue with doing one

Yeah, big line in the sand there."

Hmmm maybe two Bi men would be the way to go...but I want to be selfish and have the attention on me

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Kissing is definitely for us. One of our early meets with another couple and the girls started kissing. The other lady pulled away and said to my wife that you don't use your tongue when you kiss another woman."

Wtf !

What planet was she from ?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that

Exactly my issue with doing one

Yeah, big line in the sand there.

Hmmm maybe two Bi men would be the way to go...but I want to be selfish and have the attention on me "

You will have to compromise then, or go rinse out your mouth.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that

Exactly my issue with doing one

Yeah, big line in the sand there."

We had loads of group meets , up to ten guys and two or three women , and often just my wife with four or five guys . It never failed to amaze me how many guys were up for snogging her when she had been noshing some other guys cock . What was more surprising was how many would go for the snowball after another guy had given her a mouthful of cum . And these were guys who said they are 100% straight . Some wanted to kiss her after they had shot their load in her mouth and share it ! It did nothing for me at all , and I wasn’t into any of that . My head had to be in a different place to be aroused for the group stuff , I much preferred more intimate and erotic scenarios .

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that

Exactly my issue with doing one

Yeah, big line in the sand there.

We had loads of group meets , up to ten guys and two or three women , and often just my wife with four or five guys . It never failed to amaze me how many guys were up for snogging her when she had been noshing some other guys cock . What was more surprising was how many would go for the snowball after another guy had given her a mouthful of cum . And these were guys who said they are 100% straight . Some wanted to kiss her after they had shot their load in her mouth and share it ! It did nothing for me at all , and I wasn’t into any of that . My head had to be in a different place to be aroused for the group stuff , I much preferred more intimate and erotic scenarios ."

Not really surprising on here haha.

I'm like a horse with blinkers on in group stuff. I would lose my hard on otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensual kissing and touching is a major turn on for me, I won’t meet without kissing, it’s very personal but a must must must for an amazing MMF.

Can we meet xxx

That’s another one of my issues with going for an MMF....if either of the guys had issues with being kissed if my mouth had been elsewhere prior to their lips

MFM, yeah I don't do that

Exactly my issue with doing one

Yeah, big line in the sand there.

We had loads of group meets , up to ten guys and two or three women , and often just my wife with four or five guys . It never failed to amaze me how many guys were up for snogging her when she had been noshing some other guys cock . What was more surprising was how many would go for the snowball after another guy had given her a mouthful of cum . And these were guys who said they are 100% straight . Some wanted to kiss her after they had shot their load in her mouth and share it ! It did nothing for me at all , and I wasn’t into any of that . My head had to be in a different place to be aroused for the group stuff , I much preferred more intimate and erotic scenarios ."

Hmm it’s a tricky one isn’t it, I want it to be really sensual and intimate but worry both won’t be into it. Even if they say they would be you just would never know until it’s too late

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Kissing is a big part of it for myself

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Love to kiss.

I'm quite good at it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never got all tingly reading anything on the forums...until reading this thread this morning. I just need a make out session big time! A first base only meet I’m thinking may be in order "

Shame we’re not closer ... pretty sure a make out would be doable!! xx Lolol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for a really great thread. The majority seem to be in favour of kissing, the more sensual the better.

But it’s also “each to their own” - cos we’re all consenting grownups after all, aren’t we?

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = No passion = No point in my view.... I should really put that back on my profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you all for a really great thread. The majority seem to be in favour of kissing, the more sensual the better.

But it’s also “each to their own” - cos we’re all consenting grownups after all, aren’t we?

xxx"

Exactly.

We know we're in the minority and some people won't want to meet us but thats ok by us. I'm not being rude when I say we wouldn't want to meet them, its simply that we aren't compatible.

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

Kissing is a must for me. Had a meet once and was only told on arrival that there was to be no kissing, the meet didn’t go well and I couldn’t wait to get out of there.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I’ve never got all tingly reading anything on the forums...until reading this thread this morning. I just need a make out session big time! A first base only meet I’m thinking may be in order "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing, essential part of a meet, mmmm makes me so horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love to kiss.

I'm quite good at it..."
That sounds like a boast that needs to be put to the test. !!!!

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Would never meet any couple if kissing not on the menu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing except if someone has been smoking"
yes and also Id she’s got a mouthful of man juice still present

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing, teasing sensual touching is something we want when meeting other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us in a meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good kissing is a must for us to ! gold fish need not apply

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By *HX6969Man
over a year ago

St Albans

All kind of kissing is essencial part of any love making...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must when making love , or having sex . it’s like “peas and carrots “ they just go together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must when making love , or having sex . it’s like “peas and carrots “ they just go together "

Honest question.....

Do you make love to people you meet swinging?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Honest question.....

Do you make love to people you meet swinging?"

No. I have sex with them.

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By *aughtynice23Couple
over a year ago

South West

Sensual kissing is an essential part of 1 to 1 intimate play for us. Unless in a group session at a club or party, then it's just wild sex !

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Sensual kissing is an essential part of 1 to 1 intimate play for us. Unless in a group session at a club or party, then it's just wild sex !"

Oh yes

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Good kissing is a must for us to ! gold fish need not apply "

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honest question.....

Do you make love to people you meet swinging?

No. I have sex with them."

I agree, BUT you can still pretend your making love without the love elements. It can make for a much better meet. Imop x

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Up until I was in the situation, I always thought kissing was just for mr, but recently I have had a fair few kisses with others. I realise now that kissing for me is essential in getting turned on & intimate with people. If i’m horny and you’re near, you will get snogged, lol.

Mr is still the best kisser I know though 3

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

Yes kissing is a must for arousal!

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By *ultHeroMan
over a year ago

Reading

Its not the same without kissing, but then as a single guy, thats easy for me to say, im not watching my other half doing it

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Love it!

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By *alsicasMan
over a year ago

wigan

I love to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the best kind of kisses

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love to kiss, it’s my biggest turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing it's a pure turn on as long as they don't kiss like a goldfish hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and sensual touching, I'm quite partial to a cuddle after as well

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