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Thought about stopping swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have spoke few times about stopping, but like I’ve thought the enjoyment we both get of it all, but also I do sometimes think that do I really want other men having sex with my Mrs, then I think about how could I and Mrs forget all the things we’ve done so realistic is there anyway of stopping we both enjoy it but honestly I know in the back of our minds and your minds we all think it’s not nice seeing you both who’s actually in love fucking others ???

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Why not try a break for a while? It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of things and some space away from that might help make your minds up

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By *un pair 2Couple
over a year ago

poole

We've been meaning to stop for the last 10 years lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From your last couple of threads I'd say that you're slightly troubled by swinging. Time for a bit of a break. Hide your profile, log out and concentrate on each other for a bit. We'll still be here when you get back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile and take time out? Works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’ll be out over Xmas having fun then see how it goes I know the mr said we both talked about having a break but as it’s Christmas I know he wants pussy and I want more cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea ive been thinking the same recently but to stop i have to bloody start first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea ive been thinking the same recently but to stop i have to bloody start first! "
you seem to be doing ok mate! I’d happily see you tease my mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea ive been thinking the same recently but to stop i have to bloody start first! you seem to be doing ok mate! I’d happily see you tease my mrs "

Hey thanks m8!

And after perving her pics, i would love to!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We have spoke few times about stopping, but like I’ve thought the enjoyment we both get of it all, but also I do sometimes think that do I really want other men having sex with my Mrs, then I think about how could I and Mrs forget all the things we’ve done so realistic is there anyway of stopping we both enjoy it but honestly I know in the back of our minds and your minds we all think it’s not nice seeing you both who’s actually in love fucking others ???"

When the time is right , you’ll know and you’ll stop . It was never a long term plan for us , yet we ended up being prolific swingers for seven years . I would guess we had well over a thousand meets in that time , clubs , dogging , parties , one to ones you name it we did it .

Then back in May we just had an epiphany , sat there at an organized social , and said that’s it , we are done . We thought it may just an a break for a few weeks or months , but seven months later and we haven’t missed it at all . So enjoy it while you are loving it . Don’t fret over whether it’s right or wrong , life’s too short for that crap . And when the times right you’ll know , and that’s when it’s right to stop .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think taking a break will work for you guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a break for 2 years the last time.

Does you good to stop, check yourself and do things you want when you want

Can come back to this anytime

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

There should be no start or stop... just do it if/when you feel like it and don't when you're not feeling it.

It's not like there's minimum shagging hours that need to be achieved.

Cal

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

as we are not into swinging 24/7 365days we find we dont need to worry about when to stop, i suppose at our age there will come a time when we do or indeed when no one wants us, in the mean time we will continue to meet "when we feel like it"

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"We’ll be out over Xmas having fun then see how it goes I know the mr said we both talked about having a break but as it’s Christmas I know he wants pussy and I want more cock "

This post makes me think it’s the male typing and that this thread is some kind of look at me/fantasy post.

Anyone that feels the way you have spoke about in the opening post wouldn’t then put this.

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