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By *lirty and fun male OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Why do people be friends, chat, talk about meeting then when you try and sort one out they block you!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Did they mention meeting before or after they saw your pics?

Just asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people be friends, chat, talk about meeting then when you try and sort one out they block you! "

could be loads of reasons, too pushy, too offensive, got cold feet, seen your pic... how the heck would we know!! xx

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By *uicyJoWoman
over a year ago

northampton

As in all walks of life, there are a load of people on here who quite simply are jerks! There are also some lovely poeple as well but I am constantly suprised by how some indeviduals treat others.

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By *lirty and fun male OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

They had seen pics etc and things were going great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They had seen pics etc and things were going great!"

were they verified? were they first timers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did they mention meeting before or after they saw your pics?

Just asking. "

That's mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Sometimes its best not to dwell on the reasons as if they've blocked you you'll never know anyway

Some people change their minds for all manner of reasons,some of them will tell you why they've changed their minds and others won't

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By *lirty and fun male OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

They weren't verified but said they had been swinging a few years!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Did they mention meeting before or after they saw your pics?

Just asking.

That's mean! "

*whistles*

Funnily enough I've had that happen to me. My private pics are a bit, erm, rude, and I suspect it puts off a few people.

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By *lirty and fun male OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Must have been my picture content, although the lady seamt interested or so I was told!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did they mention meeting before or after they saw your pics?

Just asking.

That's mean!

*whistles*

Funnily enough I've had that happen to me. My private pics are a bit, erm, rude, and I suspect it puts off a few people."

Since when does rude put people off!! They need a clip round the earhole

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs


"Must have been my picture content, although the lady seamt interested or so I was told!"
Don't always assume that you are always talking to who they have said they were. Its quite common on here for the male to pretend it's the female. With experience you willget to recognise this if it happens to you. Take it easy go slow don't be drawn in till u sure, it's a bit like those Japanese pictures that are all dots stare at the centtre and after a while a 3G pic appears. As we say in our profile. Verifications are the currency of truth on here, if someone tells u they been swinging for years and can't or won't verify themselves they are most likely fantasises wanking off over the laptop . Put it down to experience and find others that are gem and verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey ive been blocked by a friend on here its not very nice and iam gutted , the worse of it all is she will stay friends txting when she feels like it but am not aloud to see her talk to her on fab thats not a friend ship , , so am thinking of comeing off fab for a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey ive been blocked by a friend on here its not very nice and iam gutted , the worse of it all is she will stay friends txting when she feels like it but am not aloud to see her talk to her on fab thats not a friend ship , , so am thinking of comeing off fab for a break "

Why should you come off of here because of that. If I was you I wouldnt reply to her text messages either as I think thats not a friend at all but thats just me.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Did they mention meeting before or after they saw your pics?

Just asking.

That's mean!

*whistles*

Funnily enough I've had that happen to me. My private pics are a bit, erm, rude, and I suspect it puts off a few people."

REALLY!

Please invite me as a friend, you can block me later, after I had a good look at your pics, I don't mind; but your fab and I'd really like to see your rude pics.

Please.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People block for all sorts of reasons - I was recently blocked by a couple, who shall remain anonymous, after being the ONLY fellow dogger to stop and try to help them get their car out of a ditch at a well known dogging venue. Embarrassment perhaps?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Sometimes its best not to dwell on the reasons as if they've blocked you you'll never know anyway

Some people change their minds for all manner of reasons,some of them will tell you why they've changed their minds and others won't "

this ^^^^

i know it grates but u wont ever know, so just consider it a win, u were not compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must have been my picture content, although the lady seamt interested or so I was told!Don't always assume that you are always talking to who they have said they were. Its quite common on here for the male to pretend it's the female. With experience you willget to recognise this if it happens to you. Take it easy go slow don't be drawn in till u sure, it's a bit like those Japanese pictures that are all dots stare at the centtre and after a while a 3G pic appears. As we say in our profile. Verifications are the currency of truth on here, if someone tells u they been swinging for years and can't or won't verify themselves they are most likely fantasises wanking off over the laptop . Put it down to experience and find others that are gem and verified"

That.

There are an awful lot of couples who aren't really couples. Why men do it, I have no idea. Probably to harvest pics?

My favourite 'couple' excuses are:

1. I don't have a webcam.

2. My webcam is broken (yes, of course...)

3. I don't know how to upload pictures.

4. I don't know how to get verified. Or... can you verify me as a couple please...

Sometimes I think people just get nervous. At other times, they are just dicks.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

knowing why wont change the outcome... just forget it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As in all walks of life, there are a load of people on here who quite simply are jerks! There are also some lovely poeple as well but I am constantly suprised by how some indeviduals treat others."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of reasons and you'll probably never find out. It could be you've been chatting to one half of the couple and the other half has said no, could be pic collectors, they changed their minds, you inadvertently said something to put them off etc.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Sometimes its best not to dwell on the reasons as if they've blocked you you'll never know anyway

Some people change their minds for all manner of reasons,some of them will tell you why they've changed their minds and others won't "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

afew times ive spoke to a guy for awhile and things are going fine ,then something comes up in conversation or they say something which i find off putting or tasteless. if that happens i dont see point continuing things as dont wish to meet them . ive also done the same if person keeps going on about adding them to friends list or to meet, after telling them that will happen if and when im comfortable to do so. theyve not listened so just end further conversation .

as folks have said numerous reasons why people may block you ,why waste you time worrying about it ! use that time posatively talking to others and all the best !

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


" afew times ive spoke to a guy for awhile and things are going fine ,then something comes up in conversation or they say something which i find off putting or tasteless. if that happens i dont see point continuing things as dont wish to meet them ."

Isn't it awful when that happens? My heart sinks because I thought there was a connection and then one comment spoils it completely.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

indeed hun !!! not something i relish .but better during a simple conversation then during a meet xx onwards and upwards as they say ! x

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