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How do women view a guy my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey! Properly going to get told things a long the lines off “young guys are immature” but beside that. How many mature women prefer younger guys? Just I’m fairly young and prefer older women. Let me know

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

People are all different but its best to look at individual profiles for minimum age. Most are put of by an immature attitude though its not attractive no matter what age someone is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young for me but it wouldn’t stop me chatting to you. Kitty xx

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I could ask the same question from the opposite end of the scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger than my son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had any bother on a site like this when I first started dipping my toe in at 23. In fact I’d say I had more luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a younger guy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I take people as I find them, but in general terms I'd say guys under 30, particularly 25, do tend to be ruder and more entitled in their messages than those in their 30s and 40s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

through the square window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My limit is usually 28. I find that younger guys can be more respectful but whether I would meet, would depend on if they looked young.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Age is just a number...

Some people are old at 18 and some are young at 90. Time is a concept that humans created.

Yoko Ono

For me it's more about the person.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Younger guys aren’t for me, but neither are much older guys either. Just lack of a shared zeitgeist maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are all different but its best to look at individual profiles for minimum age. Most are put of by an immature attitude though its not attractive no matter what age someone is. "

Yeah I get that but I feel sometimes I’m instantly dismissed because off my age

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"People are all different but its best to look at individual profiles for minimum age. Most are put of by an immature attitude though its not attractive no matter what age someone is.

Yeah I get that but I feel sometimes I’m instantly dismissed because off my age "

Why do you assume it's your age as opposed to anything else people can, or can't see on your profile?

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the reply’s, I’m guessing as the song goes “ My mind is old but my body is young” I’ll keep trying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"through the square window"

Good age related Playschool reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey! Properly going to get told things a long the lines off “young guys are immature” but beside that. How many mature women prefer younger guys? Just I’m fairly young and prefer older women. Let me know "

I view you as young and not my type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are all different but its best to look at individual profiles for minimum age. Most are put of by an immature attitude though its not attractive no matter what age someone is.

Yeah I get that but I feel sometimes I’m instantly dismissed because off my age

Why do you assume it's your age as opposed to anything else people can, or can't see on your profile?

Yeah I get your point, my profile is not a work of art I agree however I’ve been on here before with a much more detailed account. Maybe it’s just me!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the reply’s, I’m guessing as the song goes “ My mind is old but my body is young” I’ll keep trying!"

Thought you were going to quote the lyrics to R Kelly for a second. “My mind’s telling me no... but my body, my body’s telling me yes”

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Control what you can, don't worry about what you can't.

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I take people as I find them, but in general terms I'd say guys under 30, particularly 25, do tend to be ruder and more entitled in their messages than those in their 30s and 40s. "

Amen!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We prefer older than us in general, and I think it’s probably because we relate better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for the reply’s, I’m guessing as the song goes “ My mind is old but my body is young” I’ll keep trying!

Thought you were going to quote the lyrics to R Kelly for a second. “My mind’s telling me no... but my body, my body’s telling me yes”"

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same being 22! Think the age can come across as a turn off because of the generally thirsty young guys! I feel that if you can just be yourself and be able to have a good chat with a woman, instead of getting overexcited and being cringe then alls good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same being 22! Think the age can come across as a turn off because of the generally thirsty young guys! I feel that if you can just be yourself and be able to have a good chat with a woman, instead of getting overexcited and being cringe then alls good"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone wants to chat feel free to message me! Thanks

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden


"I could ask the same question from the opposite end of the scale."

Haha yep know that feeling too. And next year Im dropping out of the 45 age bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most women will view your age with their eye's that's what i done otherwise i wouldn't have known you are 24

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could ask the same question from the opposite end of the scale.

Haha yep know that feeling too. And next year Im dropping out of the 45 age bracket "

Still sexy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your age would not bother me OP, it is about how a young guy behaves that makes me decide.

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden


"I could ask the same question from the opposite end of the scale.

Haha yep know that feeling too. And next year Im dropping out of the 45 age bracket

Still sexy "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't speak for how all women view men of your age and I'm not interested in men much under 40 myself.

I can say that from my viewpoint and these are massive generalisations to which there will be many

exceptions, up until a certain age men seem to think that women need guidance from them, especially older women. Their attitude is that we can't possibly know what they do and they have a patronising attitude towards us. They also give the impression that older women should be grateful for their attention purely based on their age. Once a man reaches his thirties there's a certain arrogance and aggression added to this which I find deeply unnattractive.

Now in the outside world I'm happy to spend time finding out who the more mature guys in the younger age ranges are but in fab I don't have that luxury so make my choices based on generalisations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't speak for how all women view men of your age and I'm not interested in men much under 40 myself.

I can say that from my viewpoint and these are massive generalisations to which there will be many

exceptions, up until a certain age men seem to think that women need guidance from them, especially older women. Their attitude is that we can't possibly know what they do and they have a patronising attitude towards us. They also give the impression that older women should be grateful for their attention purely based on their age. Once a man reaches his thirties there's a certain arrogance and aggression added to this which I find deeply unnattractive.

Now in the outside world I'm happy to spend time finding out who the more mature guys in the younger age ranges are but in fab I don't have that luxury so make my choices based on generalisations."

Brilliantly put!! And agree totally

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By *ce-cream floatCouple
over a year ago

Northumberland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone with stepkids in their 20s I have no interest in younger guys. Being around that age group as a 'parent' just means it's not attractive to me.

Plus I like the social element and enjoy the friendship that for me works better with guys my own age.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I can't speak for how all women view men of your age and I'm not interested in men much under 40 myself.

I can say that from my viewpoint and these are massive generalisations to which there will be many

exceptions, up until a certain age men seem to think that women need guidance from them, especially older women. Their attitude is that we can't possibly know what they do and they have a patronising attitude towards us. They also give the impression that older women should be grateful for their attention purely based on their age. Once a man reaches his thirties there's a certain arrogance and aggression added to this which I find deeply unnattractive.

Now in the outside world I'm happy to spend time finding out who the more mature guys in the younger age ranges are but in fab I don't have that luxury so make my choices based on generalisations."

Yes, this. I'm not your teacher, I'm not a pity fuck. I'm my own person.

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