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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

So just been reading profiles the last few days and why is it that when people state....

No Asians or blacks they then follow this up with the words we or I are not racist it’s just our preference !!!

However when I see profiles purely stating BBC’s only or no white men

That’s it, nothing about preference and we are not been racist then???

Is it that it seems acceptable to say one but not the other without causing offence ???

Be interested to know peoples experiences from this

In why view it shouldnt matter who or what you like , put it and that’s that and people should respect that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of advice, dont even open the lid on this, its not worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it doesn't say on a knife packaging don't swallow, but it does on the other one, do you still swallow the first one?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So just been reading profiles the last few days and why is it that when people state....

No Asians or blacks they then follow this up with the words we or I are not racist it’s just our preference !!!

However when I see profiles purely stating BBC’s only or no white men

That’s it, nothing about preference and we are not been racist then???

Is it that it seems acceptable to say one but not the other without causing offence ???

Be interested to know peoples experiences from this

In why view it shouldnt matter who or what you like , put it and that’s that and people should respect that "

You need to bear in mind the ethnicity of the people expressing the preference, 90% of the time they're Caucasian, reflecting the racial distribution of the membership.

So a white person saying they don't want to meet other white people would rarely be considered racist, therefore the disclaimer is unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has to justify to others, why they do or don't want something from this site!

Not sure why they feel as though they have to!

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I'd say refusing to serve somebody in a shop for instance because of their race or skin colour is racist; not having sex with them is personal choice and requires no justification!

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex


"I'd say refusing to serve somebody in a shop for instance because of their race or skin colour is racist; not having sex with them is personal choice and requires no justification!"

This

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

But if they are horny as fuck and really make you hard should colour or sexualities matter only my personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn't fancy you for whatever reason, then tough really. Move on. Don't moan about it. Use your energy to talk with those who do fancy you.

I'm sure even you do not fancy every single person out there, including men. Does that make you homophobic?? No you just do not fancy guys. Simple!

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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If someone doesn't fancy you for whatever reason, then tough really. Move on. Don't moan about it. Use your energy to talk with those who do fancy you.

I'm sure even you do not fancy every single person out there, including men. Does that make you homophobic?? No you just do not fancy guys. Simple! "

Just to clear this up , this is nothing to do with me or about me ,it’s just an observation that some people need to justify themselves whilst others don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone doesn't fancy you for whatever reason, then tough really. Move on. Don't moan about it. Use your energy to talk with those who do fancy you.

I'm sure even you do not fancy every single person out there, including men. Does that make you homophobic?? No you just do not fancy guys. Simple!

Just to clear this up , this is nothing to do with me or about me ,it’s just an observation that some people need to justify themselves whilst others don’t

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Then there wasn't any need for you to try and shame others then for their personal preferences. Yet here you are.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

I have a male friend that only likes white girls but is out with League of Nations every day weekend and is not race related, I love women any shape colours or height, tall would be lovely one day , why do a lot of women want tall men and men want short ? Who cares if you can't love the one your with love everything

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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If someone doesn't fancy you for whatever reason, then tough really. Move on. Don't moan about it. Use your energy to talk with those who do fancy you.

I'm sure even you do not fancy every single person out there, including men. Does that make you homophobic?? No you just do not fancy guys. Simple!

Just to clear this up , this is nothing to do with me or about me ,it’s just an observation that some people need to justify themselves whilst others don’t

Then there wasn't any need for you to try and shame others then for their personal preferences. Yet here you are."

I’m not trying to shame anyone , quite the opposite, it seems that people get abuse for putting their preference , so to stop the abuse they feel the need to have to explain , which I think is wrong they shouldn’t have to

As already been said preference is preference

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By *corcherMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

It's probably down to the grief people get when they say "no thanks". "yeah you would say that your racist".

Who does that? Accept it & move on

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's probably down to the grief people get when they say "no thanks". "yeah you would say that your racist".

Who does that? Accept it & move on"

The same people who respond to rejection negatively for whatever reason they're given, whether that's because they're the wrong age, height, location or don't like having pointed out that they have a crap profile..it isn't specific to race.

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