FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swap to full swap???

By *d4jane OP Couple
over a year ago

HOVE

We are a happily married couple. We have been on this site for nearly a year (and other sites for a while) and have enjoyed every minute of it!!!

Our question is has anyone played soft swap for a period of time and then full swapped and then regretted it????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't answer that as full swapped from the start... Have never seen the point in soft swap, far too frustrating! We have also found it's the soft swap couples that have all the rules... Full tends to be anything goes, everyone knows where they stand! Then again, each to their own

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

we have on occasion soft swapped, its very erotic..

does make a nice change now and then..

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

full swapped from start sep room too have tried the soft aswell but didnt really do it for us just go with what feels comfortable with yous and you wont go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been full swap from the outset, however we always start a meet with soft swap but prefer to call it foreplay.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

we used to be soft for years but done all now just make sure its what you both want,and if do go all the way and dont find its for you have no redrets move on,,,theres a cant little film called the big swap about a group of freinds who do this and how it affects all in different ways its cany

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started off having sex only with each other but in public play rooms in clubs, then soft swapped for a long while. There came a timw when my OH was turned on by the thought of sharing me fully with another guy and I wanted to try that too.

If we meet couples we don't care whether its full swap or soft swap only. We are not bothered about having full sex with others. We don't get frustrated because we have sex with each other on every meet we have.

Swinging for us has always been about the naughtiness of having others around and involved and doing things that two people just can't manage, something different to our own sex life together. We don't necessarily feel that penetrative sex is all important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone the other way lol xx

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

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soft swap has never been our thing as if you are only making love to your partner then why do you need an audience (yes, we respect others do get a kick out of that)

we love each other dearly, but for us the swinging experience is about enjoying others to the full

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

It's a personal, partnery thing, different for each other. It's about boudaries that you are both comfortable with. Big thing is respecting and not pushing the agreed limits that you agreed x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

we like both, sometimes if we dont click with someone in a club we just have a great time fucking each other, it is very erotic being watched...dont get the idea one is more twue than the other.

Boundaries move, just be happy with what you are both doing, 10 years ago we would never have played seperatley, now we do...because we are both happy with it.

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