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Sex is more of a mental thing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about all the dry holes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two tits.. one pussy! Me cock inside wet pussy, me hands on tits.. hubba hubba hubba hubba

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about all the dry holes?"

Dry holes need cock too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking. "

As a dedicated saver of (my own) energy, I can assure you tossing off is the easy option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about all the dry holes?

Dry holes need cock too. "
#allholesmatter

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Some of the people I've slept with in my time have certainly turned out to be mental.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the people I've slept with in my time have certainly turned out to be mental.

A"

That is what the hot/crazy scale is for.

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

For me, it's always the woman's pleasure cums first! When I have done a good job of that her giving back is ten fold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men seeking a strong, all body orgasm like the female orgasm should bend over, hold their ankles, relax and breathe deeply. In my experience pegging gives amazing orgasms.

You ready for the challenge OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the people I've slept with in my time have certainly turned out to be mental.

A

That is what the hot/crazy scale is for."

I don’t know about this? Does that mean I’m likely to be at the crazy end? Is this a well known thing?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


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for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss."
This is an advanced move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with the OP for me the best sex is with someone I have made a real connection with

You can get the imagination going with a well worded message and build up the tension beforehand with a bit of light play before you even get in the bedroom and a nice seductive massage always warms things up before you get down to the naughty stuff also if you have gotten into each other’s mind you know exactly what you both like which makes for some explosive sex

But the other point that a man can enjoy almost anything well yes but it doesn’t really compare

That’s my two cents worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is interesting how few men on here appreciate the importance of getting into someone's head, not just their underwear!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is interesting how few men on here appreciate the importance of getting into someone's head, not just their underwear!!"

They appreciate they have to, a lot are not adept at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking. "

True dat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two tits.. one pussy! Me cock inside wet pussy, me hands on tits.. hubba hubba hubba hubba "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss."

A lot of men on here espouse this theory but when it comes down to it not so many practice it!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking. "

Yes and No

Because you will fuck almost any hole does not mean it is not mental. An erection is involuntary especially if you are healthy. It is just a matter of how aware are you doing the deed. Most men on fab will fuck at least 85% off women on fab given the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the people I've slept with in my time have certainly turned out to be mental.

A

That is what the hot/crazy scale is for.

I don’t know about this? Does that mean I’m likely to be at the crazy end? Is this a well known thing?"

Yup, well known thing ... never put your dick in crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is certainly only in my mind......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking.

Yes and No

Because you will fuck almost any hole does not mean it is not mental. An erection is involuntary especially if you are healthy. It is just a matter of how aware are you doing the deed. Most men on fab will fuck at least 85% off women on fab given the opportunity. "

Yay! That's a lot on my 'to do' list then. Should keep me busy through next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to consider That an orgasm is not the same thing as ejaculation, although the two most often occur together.

An orgasm is the climax of sexual arousal, or the release of built-up sexual tension that's felt throughout the body and this is more about mental stimulation. Ejaculation, on the other hand, involves the release of fluid that has collected during sexual activity and as such the physical activity.

The two often happen at the same time, but in some cases, a man can orgasm without ejaculating and ejaculate without orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss. This is an advanced move. "

I wasn't actually being that cunning

It's a genuine point, that women actually get much more physical pleasure from sex...and they get the emotional side too, so double whammy for them! As opposed to double penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking.

Yes and No

Because you will fuck almost any hole does not mean it is not mental. An erection is involuntary especially if you are healthy. It is just a matter of how aware are you doing the deed. Most men on fab will fuck at least 85% off women on fab given the opportunity.

Yay! That's a lot on my 'to do' list then. Should keep me busy through next year. "

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I love to read the ladies face reactions and noises to what I am doing that’s the real turn on for me. Knowing your getting the right spots for her to enjoy it as much as I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking. "

Hahaha. This is why I carry I drill around all day, obviously.

I agree op, there’s something much more than just pounding it out. Seducing someone’s mind is much more sexy than just fucking a wet hole.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"

for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss. This is an advanced move.

I wasn't actually being that cunning

It's a genuine point, that women actually get much more physical pleasure from sex...and they get the emotional side too, so double whammy for them! As opposed to double penetration "

No, I mean to be able to do this to a woman is an advanced move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss. This is an advanced move.

I wasn't actually being that cunning

It's a genuine point, that women actually get much more physical pleasure from sex...and they get the emotional side too, so double whammy for them! As opposed to double penetration "

I think that also depends on the type of play/sex a woman likes. Rather than feeling an emotional attachment, I'm busy popping to to Superdrug for some Radox bath salts

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"

for men!

Didn't expect that did you?

Reasoning: the female orgasm (and range of sensation generally) is so much wider and more varied and longer.

Certainly for me I have come to the view that although the physical side is lovely (and sometimes very excellent), the real pleasure for me is in the giving of pleasure...and in the satisfaction of seduction and "taking" a woman.

Discuss. This is an advanced move.

I wasn't actually being that cunning

It's a genuine point, that women actually get much more physical pleasure from sex...and they get the emotional side too, so double whammy for them! As opposed to double penetration

I think that also depends on the type of play/sex a woman likes. Rather than feeling an emotional attachment, I'm busy popping to to Superdrug for some Radox bath salts "
Yeah run me a nice bath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think men seeking a strong, all body orgasm like the female orgasm should bend over, hold their ankles, relax and breathe deeply. In my experience pegging gives amazing orgasms.

You ready for the challenge OP? "

We can vouch for this

Such an intense orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think men seeking a strong, all body orgasm like the female orgasm should bend over, hold their ankles, relax and breathe deeply. In my experience pegging gives amazing orgasms.

You ready for the challenge OP?

We can vouch for this

Such an intense orgasm"

Don't encourage her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a mental thing for me! It's a good job I've got a good memory (or actually perhaps it's not)

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I think for most men it's just physical. They'd fuck a wet hole if it saved them the energy of wanking.

Yes and No

Because you will fuck almost any hole does not mean it is not mental. An erection is involuntary especially if you are healthy. It is just a matter of how aware are you doing the deed. Most men on fab will fuck at least 85% off women on fab given the opportunity.

Yay! That's a lot on my 'to do' list then. Should keep me busy through next year. "

We can start the following year with a blast.

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