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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Go on cam?

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on cam? "

Yes. I once wanted to know if it is possible to get verified through cam.

So went on every room and ask, well beg for someone to verify me... Took me few hours but finally someone did it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on cam?

Yes. I once wanted to know if it is possible to get verified through cam.

So went on every room and ask, well beg for someone to verify me... Took me few hours but finally someone did it. "

I have displayed her verification rolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it all takes time.

relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

There are plenty that do. But not with that tone. It's your problem not theirs, so why should they care. Use one of the many other ways of getting veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

Great question! Perhaps they need their hand holding in all aspects of their 'adult' life. Would you really want to meet someone like that?

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

You could just use your charm, wit and sophistication to get over such hurdles

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

You have a verification, you just haven't published it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!!

You have a verification, you just haven't published it."

From another single male. Probably not his target audience and many women may be slightly suspicious that it was done as a favour.

Or he's 'fab straight'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

Perhaps because they're not here to perform a service for you...?

I honestly don't think it's your lack of verifications that's the problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "
don't try to meet the women who insist on it it's simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cam veri's mean nothing ill only meet those with play meet veri's only cams and socials mean nothing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I want to know if people are respectful and can behave themselves before I'm willing to meet one on one. Unfortunately for you, veris tell me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a local social.

Meet real people.

Get a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go to a club... pay your fee and the club owners will verify you as a real person...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Go on cam?

Yes. I once wanted to know if it is possible to get verified through cam.

So went on every room and ask, well beg for someone to verify me... Took me few hours but finally someone did it.

I have displayed her verification rolf "

that is brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in 20 years of swinging the socials we have been to has resulted in not one meet with a single guys as socials seems to attract the shy or desperete men ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in 20 years of swinging the socials we have been to has resulted in not one meet with a single guys as socials seems to attract the shy or desperete men .."

Are you talking about group socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with veri's it can be difficult. You still need to attract the woman or do you suppose women meet with someone purely on the grounds that they are verified.

In any case not all of us women insist on veri's. They do not interest me in the slightest. Other peoples opinions do not count when it comes to meeting someone for sex. Also once you have one veri it is easy to fake the rest and create an entire online fake life for yourself. Hence I do not get involved with the whole thing in the first place.

It must be your lucky day as some guy has just verified you anyway. However you are not likely to get very far with women unless you improve your photo and actually write yourself a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris. I’ve met a few people for a social with no veris. I’ve never had a problem. I always chat for a while anyway and speak on the phone before I meet anyone. I probably do do things a bit different I know that but everyone’s a newbie at some stage! Clubs don’t interest me one bit and it may be the same for other people so it must be difficult for newbies on here.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

Try a different approach?

It might work.

Odd thet expression if you walk down the same path you come to the same place.

Just don’t understand it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

I'd worry more about the poor choice of picture you have opted for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

You are verified although by a guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris. "

Because they can. Because they don't want to take more of a risk with an unknown entity. Because they want a bit of reassurance that they are actually here to meet rather than just dreaming. I can think of many reasons why people block those with no veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris.

Because they can. Because they don't want to take more of a risk with an unknown entity. Because they want a bit of reassurance that they are actually here to meet rather than just dreaming. I can think of many reasons why people block those with no veris. "

Well like I said I’ve never had an issue. Prefer meeting people with fewer or no veris anyway personally. Depends what people are looking for I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris.

Because they can. Because they don't want to take more of a risk with an unknown entity. Because they want a bit of reassurance that they are actually here to meet rather than just dreaming. I can think of many reasons why people block those with no veris.

Well like I said I’ve never had an issue. Prefer meeting people with fewer or no veris anyway personally. Depends what people are looking for I guess "

Oh that's great you've never had an issue. You said you didn't understand the other viewpoint. Just helping out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A veri from one person means absolutely nothing to the next person, I mean he turned up when he said he would, this is a good Un don't mess him around and next person says he turned up late ugly barsteward sorry wouldn't meet again , oh he turned up that's the veri ha

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

Give me £50, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do you one for £45...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

So 12 hours ago you complain about no verifications then 11 hours ago you have a male verification. That doesn't sound fake at all does it.

Talk us through how you met this guy then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!!

So 12 hours ago you complain about no verifications then 11 hours ago you have a male verification. That doesn't sound fake at all does it.

Talk us through how you met this guy then?

"
it was a cold winters evening in the woods he dropped his scarf bent over to pick it up but the other guy was on it in a flash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on cam?

Yes. I once wanted to know if it is possible to get verified through cam.

So went on every room and ask, well beg for someone to verify me... Took me few hours but finally someone did it.

I have displayed her verification rolf "

That’s hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does take time I’m afraid bud patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm somewhat confused by your question OP, as you are meet verified - so it clearly isn't a lack of verification that is preventing you getting a meet with a woman.

Possibly the problem may be that you are claiming in your profile to be straight and yet your one and only verification is with a man (which SHOULDN'T present a problem as socials still count as meeting someone in person etc) and perhaps most women looking at your profile may be reading more into that and wondering what else you might not be being totally honest about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm somewhat confused by your question OP, as you are meet verified - so it clearly isn't a lack of verification that is preventing you getting a meet with a woman.

Possibly the problem may be that you are claiming in your profile to be straight and yet your one and only verification is with a man (which SHOULDN'T present a problem as socials still count as meeting someone in person etc) and perhaps most women looking at your profile may be reading more into that and wondering what else you might not be being totally honest about."

Yes but he met that person within an hour of posting his complaint, thats quick work for a cam veri let alone a meet veri.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!! "

Your message comes across as being aggressive which the ladies will pick up on and do you no favours at all.

Especially as your profile name includes the word "charmer"

Get yourself along to a club or a social, lower your expectations and be patient,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam verification means nothing to me

So many people been on over 12 months, profile says they can accommodate and birth verifications

If I was a couple / lady I wouldn't meet anyone without verifications either

We have have to start somewhere and best place for you is a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had people meet verify me whom I've never met, I've never displayed them

Just men wishful thinking or hoping oh now ive got the veri maybe I will meet them.

Just because he's got a male meet veri doesn't mean it's a welcomed true veri

I wouldn't post a fake unwelcomed verification on my profile. Can't expect anyone else to either.

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By *nothergoMan
over a year ago

newquay

Unfortunately for you u have a cock so this site is not a good site for you as this site is all about women the sooner you see that the better you will get on on this site.

Women who write this will meet men without if they like the look of them there is a girl who lives near me who says this but her last meet was none verified Pmsl.

It does make me laugh women say we want equal standards well this site says not and the swinging scene says not look at prices in clubs £10 for a lady £70 for a man not equal standards there.

To be fare to women on here the men are far to desperate so not the women’s fault and good luck to them.

Just a shame women don’t see this if you really want equal rights x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"How am i supposed to get a veri if you wont meet me!!

Your message comes across as being aggressive which the ladies will pick up on and do you no favours at all.

Especially as your profile name includes the word "charmer"

Get yourself along to a club or a social, lower your expectations and be patient, "

Given the safety aspect, the aggressive "it's not fair" I hear here (and a lot) doesn't make me want to change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris.

Because they can. Because they don't want to take more of a risk with an unknown entity. Because they want a bit of reassurance that they are actually here to meet rather than just dreaming. I can think of many reasons why people block those with no veris. "

Exactly this. Here's an example agreed to meet a guy for coffee few weeks, he was unverified but had been mannerly in his messages etc.

So he walks into coffee shop I stood up shook his hand "hi I'm ....." . He looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me", turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of Costa.

That's why I am never meeting an unverified guy again. At end of day he seen my face pic, I had made it pretty clear and can see from my pics I'm not a skinny girl. It was a coffee and chat and I was treated like a piece of dirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is somewhat lacking information, your picture is blurred and you have a verification which is not even displayed.

Maybe look at your entire profile as a whole and also how you are approaching people. Is what you write to someone standing out from the crowd or are you a copy and paste type.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris.

Because they can. Because they don't want to take more of a risk with an unknown entity. Because they want a bit of reassurance that they are actually here to meet rather than just dreaming. I can think of many reasons why people block those with no veris.

Exactly this. Here's an example agreed to meet a guy for coffee few weeks, he was unverified but had been mannerly in his messages etc.

So he walks into coffee shop I stood up shook his hand "hi I'm ....." . He looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me", turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of Costa.

That's why I am never meeting an unverified guy again. At end of day he seen my face pic, I had made it pretty clear and can see from my pics I'm not a skinny girl. It was a coffee and chat and I was treated like a piece of dirt.

"

Even if he were the one doing you a favour, rather than the other way around (first veri), how hard is it to have a nice chat with a stranger and tell them later?

Some people should go back to remedial "how to people" classes.

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham


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Exactly this. Here's an example agreed to meet a guy for coffee few weeks, he was unverified but had been mannerly in his messages etc.

So he walks into coffee shop I stood up shook his hand "hi I'm ....." . He looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me", turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of Costa.

That's why I am never meeting an unverified guy again. At end of day he seen my face pic, I had made it pretty clear and can see from my pics I'm not a skinny girl. It was a coffee and chat and I was treated like a piece of dirt.

"

That's shocking.

Works both ways though. Many men never meet because of their looks, physical shape, profile writing skills and yet would be good fun.

Look at the guys you knocked back and maybe one will turn out to be a good polite meet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

Exactly this. Here's an example agreed to meet a guy for coffee few weeks, he was unverified but had been mannerly in his messages etc.

So he walks into coffee shop I stood up shook his hand "hi I'm ....." . He looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me", turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of Costa.

That's why I am never meeting an unverified guy again. At end of day he seen my face pic, I had made it pretty clear and can see from my pics I'm not a skinny girl. It was a coffee and chat and I was treated like a piece of dirt.

That's shocking.

Works both ways though. Many men never meet because of their looks, physical shape, profile writing skills and yet would be good fun.

Look at the guys you knocked back and maybe one will turn out to be a good polite meet."

No, really it isn't the same. Taking at most minutes to write a message isn't the same as taking considerably more time out of your day to meet a stranger.

I'm sure many guys I reject would be a good meet. But I can't meet everyone, and my body is not a democracy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who has been here a few times, each time with a different profile.

I have never found it difficult to get meets.

Even after meeting, socially or otherwise, there is no guarantee of a verification.

If you behave online the same way you would if you were meeting a stranger in a bar of cafe, you will go far.

A lack of verifications doesn't prevent you from meeting.

If you approach everyone you talk to with respect and manners, you'll do okay.

Think with your brain not your cock, when composing that first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Exactly this. Here's an example agreed to meet a guy for coffee few weeks, he was unverified but had been mannerly in his messages etc.

So he walks into coffee shop I stood up shook his hand "hi I'm ....." . He looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me", turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of Costa.

That's why I am never meeting an unverified guy again. At end of day he seen my face pic, I had made it pretty clear and can see from my pics I'm not a skinny girl. It was a coffee and chat and I was treated like a piece of dirt.

That's shocking.

Works both ways though. Many men never meet because of their looks, physical shape, profile writing skills and yet would be good fun.

Look at the guys you knocked back and maybe one will turn out to be a good polite meet."

Knocked back? Any guy that has asked me to meet for a coffee and chat I did, I agreed to meet this guy for coffee nothing more. Do you still think his behavior was ok? He was a rude prick you judged me on my size. I went out of my way to meet him for coffee to give him a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never understood why people block people with no veris.

Because they can. Because they don't want to take more of a risk with an unknown entity. Because they want a bit of reassurance that they are actually here to meet rather than just dreaming. I can think of many reasons why people block those with no veris.

Exactly this. Here's an example agreed to meet a guy for coffee few weeks, he was unverified but had been mannerly in his messages etc.

So he walks into coffee shop I stood up shook his hand "hi I'm ....." . He looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me", turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of Costa.

That's why I am never meeting an unverified guy again. At end of day he seen my face pic, I had made it pretty clear and can see from my pics I'm not a skinny girl. It was a coffee and chat and I was treated like a piece of dirt.

"

How would a verification have made any difference? It wouldn't.

The fact he was a bleeping bleep has nothing to do with being unverified.

It's his issue, hope you're ok. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately for you u have a cock so this site is not a good site for you as this site is all about women the sooner you see that the better you will get on on this site.

Women who write this will meet men without if they like the look of them there is a girl who lives near me who says this but her last meet was none verified Pmsl.

It does make me laugh women say we want equal standards well this site says not and the swinging scene says not look at prices in clubs £10 for a lady £70 for a man not equal standards there.

To be fare to women on here the men are far to desperate so not the women’s fault and good luck to them.

Just a shame women don’t see this if you really want equal rights x"

Can you name the clubs that charge men 70 but women 10. Interested to know as men keep making this argument about outrageous charges and a lack of equality but the only clubs I know and they are some of the biggest in the country charge men about 30 while women 0-5 and sometimes only 10 for men depending on the night and event type.

The clubs are over run with single men but very few single ladies hence the club reduce the fee to tempt us. If women outnumbered men 20 to 1 in a club I can assure you it would be the women who pay and the men going free.

Its about supply and demand.....look to your own sex for the root cause of any inequality in the club scene.

A hotel room is likely to cost 60 quid I think, not sure as I don't do hotels, so how is meeting a women at a club anymore expensive than going to a hotel.....even when you split the hotel bill.

The expensive clubs are probably sex clubs and not swingers clubs and the club does have the prostitutes, sorry hostesses, wages to pay for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP just needs a meet , he says - well join the que lol - sex dating game of fabs is long haul, and all I would say is that once you click with someone, wrap them up and cherish any opportunity - it works for me (I think)

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