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By *BW90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

"
Nope.... but to each there own....maybe it's your welcoming profile message that attracts them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, meeting a woman trumps all, on a swinger site, never mind the profile preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a hot chick!

There are two fundamental things that discourage racism in the world.

Eating and fucking. Seriously!

While you might be a racist and eat Chinese food or like the idea of fucking a Chinese girl, you can't be a 'committed racist' if you understand what I mean. There's different levels of racism. Food and sex break down boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

"

We have experienced similar, obviously not along the lines of race.

Some don't read profiles, which is why we turned our profile into complete random nonsense lol.

And then again some are just hypocritical. Must say in our experiences the black folk we have met along the way have been far more polite and courteous than the white folk.

You ought to wind them up next time yu get a message off one and say sorry you don't do white folk lol, that'll rattle 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

We have experienced similar, obviously not along the lines of race.

Some don't read profiles, which is why we turned our profile into complete random nonsense lol.

And then again some are just hypocritical. Must say in our experiences the black folk we have met along the way have been far more polite and courteous than the white folk.

You ought to wind them up next time yu get a message off one and say sorry you don't do white folk lol, that'll rattle 'em."

I think it might not be as straight forward as simple racism come to think of it. It is also cultural, some of the escorts say that they don't see Caribbean or Nigerian men because of bad experiences. There are certainly cultures which don't hold women in high esteem outside the West, so we mustn't discount that as a factor. That some areas of the world are more male chauvinistic than others.

So; it's true that it's discrimination based on generalization, certainly, but it might not actually be racism, since a lot of the working girls say they aren't racist.

At the same time, it's almost certainly true that some are racist and that's the simple explanation right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in your profile pictures you are quite light skinned perhaps they got confused. i skimmed through your profile and didn't see you mention your skin colour.

I am mixed race but very pale skinned ( in the 60's i would have been called passable) and we have had messages from people who do not meet with blacks/asians or just non whites. i just politely inform them that i am mixed race and that i am sorry but i dont meet their criteria on their profile same with age etc (often with the response of that only applied to males not female)

that being said, you are a gorgeous woman and would probably make people change their minds about the preferences .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in your profile pictures you are quite light skinned perhaps they got confused. i skimmed through your profile and didn't see you mention your skin colour.

"

its in the profile title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

"

its because your female

i get mail all the time from people who state they wont meet smokers are after women aged 18 to 30 etc

The top and bottom of it is they fill out their profiles but if they think theres a chance of getting a shag they will waver anything they have written down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in your profile pictures you are quite light skinned perhaps they got confused. i skimmed through your profile and didn't see you mention your skin colour.

its in the profile title "

skimmed the profile.. not the profile title.. those titles can change all the time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in your profile pictures you are quite light skinned perhaps they got confused. i skimmed through your profile and didn't see you mention your skin colour.

its in the profile title

skimmed the profile.. not the profile title.. those titles can change all the time.. "

So its therefore null and void?

That probably answers the op..A lot of people skim profiles rather than read them. I suspect some don't even do that but just look at pix. Add to that a copy n paste message and bobs you're uncle, you've got mail from someone who's not suited to you and hasn't read your profile.

some of these act surprised when you politely decline!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in your profile pictures you are quite light skinned perhaps they got confused. i skimmed through your profile and didn't see you mention your skin colour.

its in the profile title

skimmed the profile.. not the profile title.. those titles can change all the time..

So its therefore null and void?

That probably answers the op..A lot of people skim profiles rather than read them. I suspect some don't even do that but just look at pix. Add to that a copy n paste message and bobs you're uncle, you've got mail from someone who's not suited to you and hasn't read your profile.

some of these act surprised when you politely decline!"

No, its not null and void, but it might not have been there when the messages where sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

its because your female

i get mail all the time from people who state they wont meet smokers are after women aged 18 to 30 etc

The top and bottom of it is they fill out their profiles but if they think theres a chance of getting a shag they will waver anything they have written down"

Spot On

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile photo doesn't make you look like you're black, although your photo in your gallery is very clear. Perhaps some people don't even look at all the pictures, never mind the profile?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

its because your female

i get mail all the time from people who state they wont meet smokers are after women aged 18 to 30 etc

The top and bottom of it is they fill out their profiles but if they think theres a chance of getting a shag they will waver anything they have written down

Spot On"

+1

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Have had the same... Had a couple email me and when I checked their profile, it said they didn't meet non- whites!

When I mentioned it, I was told it was to discourage Asian men from contacting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be confused...welcome to the world of Fab.

You're a young woman with an impressive chest...for some you've exceeded their expectation there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but its par for the course; I smoke yet I get people contacting me that won't meet smokers. Think half the problem is that they see the pictures and not the letters that make up words that make up a profile.

Take it as a compliment, perhaps they think you are an extremely hot chick

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

"

With all due respect......

You have a vagina.

It doesn't matter what you put on your profile or what others put on their's....

If you've got flaps and a pulse...... a large percentage of the men on here lose their marbles and will contact you regardless

If they say

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

With all due respect......

You have a vagina.

It doesn't matter what you put on your profile or what others put on their's....

If you've got flaps and a pulse...... a large percentage of the men on here lose their marbles and will contact you regardless

If they say"

Touché.. Unfortunately its the nature of internet dating / swinging sites. People can be particular about what they want and be adamant that they wont deviate from their preferences, but give them something to tantalise their taste buds, they will be quick to change their minds.

in your case, you are hot looking and they just fancy a bit of your pie regardless of your skin colour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look white in ur pic. my first thought was mixed race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've also encountered this although i initiated the first contact by messaging someone along the lines of 'shame your not into non whites as you look gorgeous' or words to that affect, recieved a reply saying 'yeah but your alright and not asian' ummm my dad's from mauritius so hellooo...!lol up humans are such fickle creatures! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said above-it's because you're female!! I've encountered this too. Been messaged by people with an upper age limit of 30 something on their profile and when I've pointed out that I (Ms) is ahem a bit older than that, I've been told it doesn't matter!! Ms

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i have encountered this.... oi.. no laughing at the back!!!

i just declined them and pointed out what they said in the profile, they said they put in it so they could decide who to contact as opposed to being "bombarded"...

i told them that it just put me off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

Nope.... but to each there own....maybe it's your welcoming profile message that attracts them..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received messages from lots who won't meet smokers. Then again I am a considerate and light smoker who can refrain, and they probably put that in to discourage the yellow teethed, leathery skinned brigade!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ppl just don't read profiles...whether it is non whites or smokers or in our case that I'm straight and we don't play as a cpl...we are still messaged daily for a 4sum bi cpls meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ppl just don't read profiles...whether it is non whites or smokers or in our case that I'm straight and we don't play as a cpl...we are still messaged daily for a 4sum bi cpls meet!

"

Is the Mr allowed to meet married women?

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By *irtyAdi73Man
over a year ago

Sale

yeh a cpl contacted me asking wot i was into

wot i liked

how big was i

but wen i had a look at there pf its said in caps no blacks

wen i pointed this out they started callin me shadow

each to there own

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"i have encountered this.... oi.. no laughing at the back!!!

i just declined them and pointed out what they said in the profile, they said they put in it so they could decide who to contact as opposed to being "bombarded"...

i told them that it just put me off...."

omg are you black then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not in race sense, but amases me how say don't like larger ladies and then contact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not in race sense, but amases me how say don't like larger ladies and then contact me "

I get Dom men seeking submissive sluts, their words not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not in race sense, but amases me how say don't like larger ladies and then contact me

I get Dom men seeking submissive sluts, their words not mine. "

crazy folks clearly haven't read your profile

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"not in race sense, but amases me how say don't like larger ladies and then contact me "

I get that too. 'Not into fatties' or 'people who dont look after themselves' or 'may squash when they go on top' is another favourite Ive read (and nicked for my pro)

Some people are just fickle! Or desperate in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've recently noticed something strange with a few users that have mailed me..

So, while skimming though messages, I sometimes glance at their profile before replying. Heres what i've experienced with a few members. While I’m reading their profile, I notice that they've mentioned they don't meet black swingers. Fair enough...personal preference and all that.

Heres what I don't understand. I am a black female, clearly!

I'm confused am I missing the point?? Lol

Why would someone that has stated they don't meet black swingers initiate contact with me in the first place?

Has anyone else experienced this??

"

I get that too, or guys who don't like bigger girls, yet bombard me with messages? Not going to happen.

I don't actually meet non-whites myself, but I tend to let the trend of my verifications do the talking, than state it blatently, been called a "sell out bitch" a few times too..

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By *BW90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"you look white in ur pic. my first thought was mixed race "

Really!?

I assure you all, I am 100% black.. Just abit lighter than most. But theres nothing I can do about that, so oh well

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they make exceptions to their preferences for the extremely hot profiles they find?

thats what i cling on to when i think about meets with older ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all colours n ters nothing wrong bieng black but gota say tey av massive cocks iv only tryed it the once n lobed it . Cant wait to meet a black cuple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved it not lobed it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont go for colour i go for looks and personality

if i get on with them yay

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'd love to meet an afro lady :P yummy

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