FabSwingers.com forum: What made you start swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What was the reason you started swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine was because id been in a very long relationship and our sex was just the same same nothing new as we had done everything.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Expand our social life so new hobby seemed perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What was the reason you started swinging?

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quickest way to get from one Tree to another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun, anticipation, butterflies, daring, new adventures

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

To fulfill certain fantasy’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like some men and I like some women. One doesn't remove the desire for the other

Also I love the thrill of sex on first date with a new person if there's a connection

Guess I'm a bit of a hedonist really.

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

a sexy couple and a lot of wine in my teens

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"What was the reason you started swinging?

I got here by accident ~7 years ago as an escape from a bad marriage (redirected to a swinger site after chatting with someone online for a while).

Met my new partner on the scene after we separated, and still here.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Maybe turn the question round. Why wouldn't someone swing?!

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Reason! Exploring our bi sides.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Years ago by accident, now it’s loving watching my very highly sexed partner being used, and enjoying her bisexual side

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

The wife and i discussed her desire for a male lover before we got together. A few years into our marriage we felt ready to explore that and i realised that I desired to have sex with other women and to explore kink.

Ergo we began swinging and ended up polyamorous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a desire to have far more sex. It works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was originally part of a couple, and it was to expand our horizons. And to do things you need an extra pair of hands for.

The people I met were awesome, so I stayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expand our social life so new hobby seemed perfect"

The same here

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

My dad pushed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was a doorman at a swingers club in manchester many years ago never got home on time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend got me into it, i love it, its alot of fun and a great way of gaining new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fantasy about seeing hubby and another man together ..a private porn show if you will. He wanted to see me with another lady...that’s how it started for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The need for lots of sex, without the need for a boyfriend

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

My hubby pushed me

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Thought why shouldn't I try a swinger club and what are greedy girls ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was at school I used to read 'top shelf' magazines and liked the letters from those who introduced others into their marriage. Then onto Forum magazine and discovered more in the way of kink. From those I sent off to contact magazines and within a few months had my first meet with a couple. Enjoyed it greatly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We needed a plumber, quickest way to get one to come out was to invite one for a social at the house

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We went in holiday to Tenerife to celebrate being together for a year . We got engaged , and got jiggly one night on the beach . We noticed a few people watching and liked it , so started swinging .

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

To add a bit of excitement in a other wise dull life

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By *oss25Man
over a year ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

A good safe place to explore my bi side, bdsm and a good forum for my erotica

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm incapable of relationships ... happily so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gary a man i met when dogging told me about it so i joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A d*unken evening with hubby and his best mate. Then I realised what I had been missing and he realised he liked to watch.

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Reason! Exploring our bi sides. "

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By *queegeeMan
over a year ago

northampton

As an escape from a failed relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both fancied a bit of variety; Gaston got to try bi mmf; we love being friendly, kinky and naughty.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Not so much as swinging in a sense, introduced by a couple and and had the fantastic pleasure of being the one to help them explore the relms of cuckolding / hotwifing scenarios.

Seeking another regular couple / hotwife who looking for intense and trusting times with zero threat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex want to try new things with new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause I'm way too horny all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Running a hotwifes group someplace else where I used to like to show off my naughty wife and she loved the attention(think lamplovers but ruder

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Got chatting to some of the UK members and natural progression into swinging and swapping

Unfortunately due to other things that happen in life not with said naughty wife no more so flying solo at present but tbh I don't like it

I absolutely love it

Jayx

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

Totally by accident....We had a very boozy day out with our Neighbours, it all got very suggestive as the day went on. A few truths came out as alcohol tends to do. When we got home, the wine continued to flow and we all ended up shagging...

Of course we had to face them the following day

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Finding ourselves at Hedonism in Jamaica 20+ years ago and seeing everyone have a fun time so we joined in, went back every year, then one year we met a couple there from the UK that introduced us to Xtasia

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By *laytimetwoCouple
over a year ago

Staines

Fed up with dating sites, heard about this site, tried it, met a few dick heads, then met my current partner, who is the best man I’ve met, we both love the lifestyle so we carried on, never looked back, strongest relationship I’ve ever had, we have met some wonderful people who are now very good friends. X

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The reason people swing is the united known the fantasy the excitement the thrill being something one that nobody knows and without cheating on your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a relationship. This site lets me do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excitement of doing something completely liberated! Love this life x

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Exactly you have the power to meet who and when you want

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The only thing that spoils this site becuse it's free you get the dickheads pretending to be a couple and really it's just sum sad twat do the chat arrange a phone call to confirm they are who they are then you get user has left the site or the classic blocked that's what spoils swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife went off sex a few years ago,jokeing I said perhaps I should look else where, much to my surprise she said yes that's ok,so here I am.

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

We haven't yet!!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It was the next step to take from our bedroom fantasies and having spent a good many years raising a family and concentrating on careers we have discovered a whole new circle of friends and life through swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Excitement of doing something completely liberated! Love this life x "

Totally agree x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A previous partner wanted to explore her bi side so that's how it started. 30 years later I'm still swinging and with Flik by my side, underneath me, on top of me......

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

The promise of all the cake I could eat. It was all lies of course no ones offered me any cakes since I been here

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

A bit of a fantasy, a conversation with a man in a bar in the wee hours after a night out and then my curiosity got the better of me

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"The promise of all the cake I could eat. It was all lies of course no ones offered me any cakes since I been here

Got some Chocolate cake here if you want us to send you a slice and later in the month there will be lots of Christmas Cake on offer

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"The promise of all the cake I could eat. It was all lies of course no ones offered me any cakes since I been here

Got some Chocolate cake here if you want us to send you a slice and later in the month there will be lots of Christmas Cake on offer

Mmmm I love chocolate, I do I do I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aspergers means I’m not really able to cope with long term relationships and also my ex was something of a narcissist -

But I still need contact and intimacy in bursts so here I am

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"The promise of all the cake I could eat. It was all lies of course no ones offered me any cakes since I been here

I heard that there was cake. Only Miss Red has given me cake. Amazing cake though

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Meet someone through work how is a member on here and they told me to have a look. Best thing I've done for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex boss told me about fab over 6 years ago. Glad he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman I was meeting, I had never heard about it.

She said it's a good way to learn about yourself

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"The promise of all the cake I could eat. It was all lies of course no ones offered me any cakes since I been here

I heard that there was cake. Only Miss Red has given me cake. Amazing cake though

I've never had the pleasure of Miss Red's cakes but I think I had some of her biscuits once, they were lovely as was she.

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By *nsure2018Couple
over a year ago

BASINGSTOKE

My wife wanted to have a girl on girl experience and was happy for me to be involved ..... sadly we are still waiting to find that woman but we still live in hope ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wanted to try 2 men, got more then I bargained for when hubby agreed and we have now had mmf a lot more then 5 times and even tried mmmf all good fun xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We were very young, and very much in love (still are), and very sexual.

Telling each other what was good, became telling each other what we fantasized about, which made us even hornier.

This went on for years, until we decided we had better see if the reality was as good as the fantasy.

It was better!

10 years alter we are still at it!

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