FabSwingers.com forum: Phoney "straight" guys again!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A new couple on here, who are friends of ours, told us about their increasing disappointment with the site. What they can't understand is why a single guy will say he's straight but also say he want's to meet TV's and/or has met TV's and bi guys and had oral/anal sex with them. It's no good just saying "Block single guys", as this is the group they wish to meet.

On the search facility ppl can search for bi guys but not block them, why not?

What they can't understand, or us for that matter, is why do some guys think they're straight just because the guy they fuck wears a dress and then go on to contact ppl who say on their profile that they're not interested in bi guys?

Are they really so self delusional or just disrespectful of ppls wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't read

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortunately that seems a problem on here, either laziness or dyslexia appears to be very common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try fucking off labels and search criteria in favour of talking to people.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re what you call wild animals, just untick that on the search box and they should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because on Fab people think that if two men have sex they can still be considered straight....

Now if you don’t agree with this you are the biggest homophobic person in the world...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe try fucking off labels and search criteria in favour of talking to people.

Just a thought. "

Because labels are there to inform, that's their purpose.

Besides, why should the onus be on them to waste their time talking to ppl they have no wish to meet or who are trying to dupe them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because on Fab people think that if two men have sex they can still be considered straight....

Now if you don’t agree with this you are the biggest homophobic person in the world..."

Looks like I’m a raging homophobe then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because on Fab people think that if two men have sex they can still be considered straight....

Now if you don’t agree with this you are the biggest homophobic person in the world...

Looks like I’m a raging homophobe then"

God speed little padawan, you will learn the ways of the forum soon enough...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because on Fab people think that if two men have sex they can still be considered straight....

Now if you don’t agree with this you are the biggest homophobic person in the world..."

Yeah, it would appear so, that seems the unwritten rule lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because on Fab people think that if two men have sex they can still be considered straight....

Now if you don’t agree with this you are the biggest homophobic person in the world...

Looks like I’m a raging homophobe then

God speed little padawan, you will learn the ways of the forum soon enough..."

Multi tasking whilst playing gta 5... impressed I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try fucking off labels and search criteria in favour of talking to people.

Just a thought.

Because labels are there to inform, that's their purpose.

Besides, why should the onus be on them to waste their time talking to ppl they have no wish to meet or who are trying to dupe them ? "

The point I was hoping to make was that straight/bi etc are very subjective terms and also variable with context.

Your definition of straight/bi might differ greatly from someone else's, so the only sure solution is to discuss it with individuals and potential partners, imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try fucking off labels and search criteria in favour of talking to people.

Just a thought.

Because labels are there to inform, that's their purpose.

Besides, why should the onus be on them to waste their time talking to ppl they have no wish to meet or who are trying to dupe them ?

The point I was hoping to make was that straight/bi etc are very subjective terms and also variable with context.

Your definition of straight/bi might differ greatly from someone else's, so the only sure solution is to discuss it with individuals and potential partners, imo.

That makes no sense, bi sexual means you like both sexes, be it male or female... the options already there for trans So there no other option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try fucking off labels and search criteria in favour of talking to people.

Just a thought.

Because labels are there to inform, that's their purpose.

Besides, why should the onus be on them to waste their time talking to ppl they have no wish to meet or who are trying to dupe them ?

The point I was hoping to make was that straight/bi etc are very subjective terms and also variable with context.

Your definition of straight/bi might differ greatly from someone else's, so the only sure solution is to discuss it with individuals and potential partners, imo.

That makes no sense, bi sexual means you like both sexes, be it male or female... the options already there for trans So there no other option "

Save your breath...... if you have a penis but in your mind you’re a woman. That makes you a woman and any man that has sex with you is straight...

On Fab this makes sense to people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can assume someone’s even got a gender anymore so we are all fucked.

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