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Are big guys a turn off (not cock)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type"

Personal experience is a no from me - I was approached for a spontaneous meet and I am large or curvy depending on how you want to call it. I have public body picture so people can see what they are getting.

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By *aughty-MittsCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Not for me no. I don’t have a particular type I go for with body shape. It just all depends if I click with The person and if there is an attraction there. But there are some big guys I have fancied a lot and also some slim guys I have liked so all depends on the person really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *Mids guyMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

It's never caused me a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. All about the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you love what you got, someone else will love it to!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Wouldn’t exactly call you large but maybe it’s more that your married than your body shape that puts people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".a lot of women on here are only after one type"

Yes Very true , and these same women are usually not that type themselves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to be dating I like nice teeth, beards, a sexy smile and cheeky sense of humour and I love a bigger bodied man.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Wouldn’t exactly call you large but maybe it’s more that your married than your body shape that puts people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man is chunky it'd be a bit odd if I didn't like curvy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not married lol.

It must just be my area that maybe has the preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say at least 75% profiles contain the words either "tall" "athletic" or "in shape". A lot of women outright state no large men.

So yes i'd say for most women short and round is a turn off. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birds dont want athletic and a,darts player rolls up to her oche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you love what you got, someone else will love it to! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big as in weight lifters yes

Big as in fat then no

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

Not a problem with me I've meet a few crazy beers but if there's no connection and can not be bothered to even say hello then it's a big no

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want

Big guys like myself aren’t everyone’s thing, just as big women aren’t everybody’s. I’ve always been a big guy but never had a problem meeting women. If you’re a decent guy with a good personality and most importantly make them laugh then it shouldn’t stop you. The downside of Fab is that a lot of it is based on looks to start with and that there are so many men compared to women on here that there is a huge choice. You just need to ask some women how many messages they get from guys.

Threesomes can be even harder as one side may not want a bigger guy joining in.

Always be polite (not saying you’re not) and take any rejection in good humour.

Winter is where we come into our own as we’re great to snuggle up with after a great session.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We are very particular.. sorry

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want


"We are very particular.. sorry"

No need to be sorry, you’re entitled to like who you want.

Happy fabbing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being slim doesn't guarantee you getting fucked either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big as in weight lifters yes

Big as in fat then no "

This.

In a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also say height (or lack of) is more of a hinderance than being chunky is

When you're chunky AND short, your chances of a meet here are lowered considerably

And, if that isn't enough, you'll be shit at Twister too

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

'Her' doesn't mind chunky guys at all. In fact, she quite like that extra weight on a guy.

But the post about height is more accurate. She doesn't want to meet anyone who she towers over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".a lot of women on here are only after one type

Yes Very true , and these same women are usually not that type themselves..."

It's called personal preference.... If a big guy likes a bbw that is their choice but it does not mean the bbw has to like him back in the name of equality.

You make it sound like the bbw should be grateful for any attention she receives!

I have not asked for men with an average, slim or athletic body to like me, that is up to them, so I am not hypocritical.

I would only be hypocritical if I expected these men to find me attractive while simultaneously not finding bigger men attractive myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that we have our preferences I just think it’s a shame how some people on here have to be as rough as they are. Just be polite.

I personally appreciate all body types but in my eyes it’s more of a connection thing for me. You may have the perfect bum or perfect boobs etc but if there isn’t a connection then what’s the point.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It depends. I like chunky guys but there is a difference between chunky and overweight!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

You never put a six inch nail in with a toffee hammer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".a lot of women on here are only after one type

Yes Very true , and these same women are usually not that type themselves...

It's called personal preference.... If a big guy likes a bbw that is their choice but it does not mean the bbw has to like him back in the name of equality.

You make it sound like the bbw should be grateful for any attention she receives!

I have not asked for men with an average, slim or athletic body to like me, that is up to them, so I am not hypocritical.

I would only be hypocritical if I expected these men to find me attractive while simultaneously not finding bigger men attractive myself. "

Exactly! I'm blonde & short but I don't fancy short blonde men, doesn't make me a hypocrite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. I like chunky guys but there is a difference between chunky and overweight!!"

I like chunky chips but don't like chunky birds especially if they have bingo wings and are bubbly ...Nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call yourself 'rugby build' and say you have big thighs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call yourself 'rugby build' and say you have big thighs "

Plenty do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type"
i would say yes to a point because u got to be very intelligent which i am not..which why i kidding around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are big guys a turn off? Not big cock I mean rounder guys.a lot of women on here are only after one type"

I only fancy very large built men.

I can appreciate a great body or handsome face, but to be aroused by a guy he would have to a great deal of chunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No..sorry.i don't find it attractive, not into massive muscles either,or super skinny. Just normal would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some yes for others no.

My is a big teddy bear and has alot of women who like playing with him

But slot of folks don't like it. I. The end everyone has their preferences

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