FabSwingers.com forum: What do you find most attractive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol "

Here to laugh at all the guys saying personality and intelligence, of course it is and Of course that's why you're on a sex site with pictures and every single guys message is about the pictures, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice face, initially, then a good personality tops it off... A nice bum and thighs is always a plus too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a lady - slim figure pert breasts and love a pixie hair cut. Think tinkerbell!

In a gent - strong shoulders and a sexy bott !!

Mmmmmm now my mind is wandering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs. I like boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a woman I like a Nice face,great curves and loves a lot of banter.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I love rugged good looks, dark hair and a toned torso I want to run my hands over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chunky, hairy, bearded caveman with thick thighs...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Initially a nice face and a nice smile.

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By *ackD9Man
over a year ago

shropshire

A pretty face, nice smile and gorgeous eyes. And an amazing bum, they have to have a bum I want to pop my tongue in

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Big shoulders, a nice smile and that twinkle in the eyes which says so much.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nice toes

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Good face and broad shoulders

muscly legs too

V x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Every time one of these threads gets started I keep waiting for a woman to describe me as their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the first thing is the body. Ride calls me shallow Hal but I say if im having a bit of what I fancy then why shouldn’t it be what I fancy

~ Bonnie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice peachy bum.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

Attitude, it's not about looks for me

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By *oob lover 99Man
over a year ago

chester

Boobs, a filthy mouth and lots and lots of satin

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Older, grumpy occasionally men. Ideally with a sarcastic wit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a guy I like a nice smooth toned chest, tall is better, then the eyes, have to be able to get lost in them, that’s before I look at personality ect, yup, shallow and happy to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older, grumpy occasionally men. Ideally with a sarcastic wit.

Doesn't sound like me at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

Hence all the single guys complaining that they never get anywhere

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

"Older, grumpy occasionally men. Ideally with a sarcastic wit.

At last someone who appreciates my qualities.....

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Someone who genuinely doesn't take them self to seriously and I can see their humanity. There are certain people you just get a feel for and that is hot. If they are a bigger lady that is a bonus but the above is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

laughter. relaxes me completely.

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

Men - over 6ft, tall me have me weak at the knees. Also dark hair

Women - curvy

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I have a thing for hair on women .. no idea why

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like a nice face first and foremost. Then a strapping physique, someone that towers over me who has big shoulders and strong arms

Makes me feel all girlie as well as weak at the knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big shoulders, a nice smile and that twinkle in the eyes which says so much."

Wow!! That’s me!? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big butt's and I can't deny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, it's the eyes for me, I like expressive eyes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Personality, being engaging, a certain charisma I can't quite describe.

After that, a curvy arse on a woman, pert on a man. Breasts for women, muscles on men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her hair is the first thing I look at nice clean styled shiny brunette or red hair then the mouth the lips and the teeth if they don’t excite me then the body won’t oh and not forgetting the eyes dark brown or green are my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

Hence all the single guys complaining that they never get anywhere

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, not ashamed to admit that. You can have all the personality in the world but if I don't find you attractive then it's not going to happen.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Eyes, Boobs, Bum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

I never message about pictures because I'm interested in connection.

Thanks for the generalisation though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile with mouth and eyes.

There is a smile on fab that I think is nearly perfect. Not a full-on teeth showing smile, more an accomplished, intelligent, come-hither smile with the corner of their lips ever-so raised and their eyes burning with desire. I tried to tell them this though I think I messed it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks first, not ashamed to admit that. You can have all the personality in the world but if I don't find you attractive then it's not going to happen.

Vice versa for me.

You can have the hottest body ever and looks to die for, but if your mind and soul don't touch me then it's all empty shell.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Can't help it, but I am drawn to the legs first. Truth is, it's a combination of things. When meeting in real life it will be a mix of what they look like and how they are personality wise. Place like fab then it becomes a little more 2 dimensional as looks are the primary thing to go on. And I do like to admire and enjoy the human form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks first, not ashamed to admit that. You can have all the personality in the world but if I don't find you attractive then it's not going to happen.

Same here, partly because I’m here being very vein and don’t mind admitting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muscles on men

Sexy eyes

Ability to make me laugh

Ability to make me want them

Mrs P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol "
I like beautiful smiles, sexy eyes, curvy hips, long legs sexy bums, big boobs and amazing personalities

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By *ralanticsMan
over a year ago

Irthlingborough

A lovely genuine smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Muscles on men

Sexy eyes

Ability to make me laugh

Ability to make me want them

Mrs P"
look into my eyes, did I tell you I'm a hypnotist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 12/12/18 06:29:27]"
you desired sex in the past? And you experiment on mens mind oh yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big manly hands, for gripping and poking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big manly hands, for gripping and poking! "
the coal fire, I have a poker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big manly hands, for gripping and poking! the coal fire, I have a poker "

Haha sniggers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big manly hands, for gripping and poking! the coal fire, I have a poker

Haha sniggers! "
you look very festive in blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big manly hands, for gripping and poking! the coal fire, I have a poker

Haha sniggers! you look very festive in blue "

Ill have to do a festive pic sometime today. Got a bit of time to myself!

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Eyes smile

Legs bum

And all the other bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big manly hands, for gripping and poking! the coal fire, I have a poker

Haha sniggers! you look very festive in blue

Ill have to do a festive pic sometime today. Got a bit of time to myself! "
oh can I help I'm very inventive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and you're colour blind it's green lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and you're colour blind it's green lol"
green really aqua at best ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

I never message about pictures because I'm interested in connection.

Thanks for the generalisation though."

God you offended people are tiresome. I said all the man who do, not all men do, are you suggesting there aren't loads claiming that on this thread alone. Congratulation on your white Knight status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

I never message about pictures because I'm interested in connection.

Thanks for the generalisation though.

God you offended people are tiresome. I said all the man who do, not all men do, are you suggesting there aren't loads claiming that on this thread alone. Congratulation on your white Knight status. "

If you read what you typed, you said every single guys message is about the pictures.

If I was white knighting I'd be defending someone. I wasn't. I was pointing out your error. No need to thank me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chunky, hairy, bearded caveman with thick thighs...

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tall fit toned,well hung,,stupid and rich

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Definitely the eyes, so truthful x storm x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

A personality and a good sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes then personality then passion need passion in me woman

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Handsome, broad shoulders and a lovely peachy bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, sense of humour and a mighty fine bum

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

A good sense of humour along with nice bottom

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

I’m always drawn to nice teeth with sexy eyes coming a close second. Sally is drawn towards boobs and bums

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

If I’m in shallow mode in a club then yes I agree it’s all about what you look like and if we fancy each other. But my 1 on 1 expectations are different. I don’t meet for sex. I meet guys I like and maybe sex happens. So yes, personality, connection, humour as well as physical attraction do matter.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not fussy I just want a fit intelligent toned good looking sexy guy! Well its best not to be too fussy on here.

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

When they turn up naked, and bring beers and pizza.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Intelligent, confident, handsome, compassionate and an animal in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent personality, not a female thays stuck up her own arse because she's had a few messages from 23 stone blokes saying she's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice peachy bum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

I never message about pictures because I'm interested in connection.

Thanks for the generalisation though.

God you offended people are tiresome. I said all the man who do, not all men do, are you suggesting there aren't loads claiming that on this thread alone. Congratulation on your white Knight status.

If you read what you typed, you said every single guys message is about the pictures.

If I was white knighting I'd be defending someone. I wasn't. I was pointing out your error. No need to thank me."

In our experience it is, about 10-15 a day. Now prove that wrong on those, statistics? How many messages a day do you get from single men not about pictures to disprove the extrapolation.

No need to thank me for explaining how statistics and sampling works. Poor boy. Never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just wondering what people find attractive in their desired sex. For me I think it has to be eyes. Even though a good pair of boobs wouldn’t hurt anything lol

I never message about pictures because I'm interested in connection.

Thanks for the generalisation though.

God you offended people are tiresome. I said all the man who do, not all men do, are you suggesting there aren't loads claiming that on this thread alone. Congratulation on your white Knight status.

If you read what you typed, you said every single guys message is about the pictures.

If I was white knighting I'd be defending someone. I wasn't. I was pointing out your error. No need to thank me.

In our experience it is, about 10-15 a day. Now prove that wrong on those, statistis? How many messages a day do you get from single men not about pictures to disprove the extrapolation.

No need to thank me for explaining how statistics and sampling works. Poor boy. Never mind. "

Well if you have nothing worth talking about on your profile so people have to resort to commenting on your pictures, then statistically you prove your own argument.

Not having a couples profile, I have no statistics to compare against. The messages I send as a single man do not revolve around pictures. The messages I get from single men also haven't mentioned my pictures.

However that is my experience of fab.

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

At the risk of sounding like the scarecrow from Wizard of Oz......

I want a brain....

Someone who thinks about what they are doing NOT just a wham bam thank you Ma'am.You

Someone who thinks what would 'she's like rather than "what can I get ?"

Someone who has thought about the risks and dangers NOT someone who thinks they can hogtie and bareback on a first date.

Someone who doesn't need telling to read profile.

Someone who doesn't need telling that being clean and polite is a given.

If I only had a brain! (Steve Martin, lol) I could get off on that.

xslutx

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Effective communication

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sense of humour, naughty twinkle, confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face particularly eyes and smile, boobs and shapeliness catch my attention. Then quick wit, interesting conversation and depth keep me interested.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"conversation and depth keep me interested."

Do you use a depth gauge for testing that?

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Sense of humour, naughty twinkle, confidence."

My twinkle is naughty sometimes

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Older, grumpy occasionally men. Ideally with a sarcastic wit.

My god ,,, she means me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is key for me, a sense of fun and a big cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically? Their face and their bum... I love a good bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and face then legs

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

"Personality is key for me, a sense of fun and a big cock! "

And not necessarily in that order?

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By *ohnygodMan
over a year ago

TOKYO Japan

"Personality is key for me, a sense of fun and a big cock!

And not necessarily in that order?

If vagina can hold my horse

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Boobs.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"conversation and depth keep me interested.

Do you use a depth gauge for testing that?"

Nope, a Sky remote of course

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Face. Eyes, lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face. Eyes, cute cocks and lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GSOH, amazing eyes and nothing more sexy than when a woman takes pride in her appearance from head to toe

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