FabSwingers.com forum: Do Dick Pics Work

By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We are very new to this and would like to know what the fascination is with sending Dick pics.

Personally I find them a massive turn off.

Why do men send them and are their any couples that make their decision based on the dick pics

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not a couple, but someone I haven't established rapport with, very rarely gets a reply after sending such a picture.

I think it's lack of empathy. They like it, and they think it's what we like, so it's what they send (and they don't respond to feedback).

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some do, yes.

Lots of people say they don't like them.

A lot of the men who send them enjoy exhibitionism it isn't always solely for the benefit of the recipient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are attached to a body I don't find attractive then no.

No one would greet a person in the street by showing their cock.here is no different

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I agree, body pics can be a breaker but keeping pants on is just as good.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would never arrange to meet someone, even for a social, if I had seen no pics at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no I'm not a fan of dick pics. However Body shots with something covering the goodies is much more appealing to me. Keeps the mystery of what's behind the towel/shorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some do, yes.

Lots of people say they don't like them.

A lot of the men who send them enjoy exhibitionism it isn't always solely for the benefit of the recipient "

Exhibitionism makes sense.

I think it's also because many guys are still brainwashed into the belief that sex and attraction are all about cocks and how big they are. Like, a man is his cock and that's all the rest of us care about.

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

With you on that one. It is nice to see pics my beef is with dick pics.

We can assume that they have a penis or they wouldn't be on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send them.

Do not have them visible on profile.

If someone wants to see they will ask.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" It is nice to see pics "

So why don't you have any ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they like you, yes. If they don't, no.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Some do, yes.

Lots of people say they don't like them.

A lot of the men who send them enjoy exhibitionism it isn't always solely for the benefit of the recipient

Exhibitionism makes sense.

I was chatting to a guy once who said that he loved the idea of people looking at his cock. He had about 20 pictures of it on his profile, I don't think he sent them out randomly though, I understood the motivation behind it more then. I do agree with you though a lot of serial dick pic senders think it's what women are interested in. That's also why lots of men think all women want vwe and that foreplay is a myth.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

They certainly don't work for me.

A nice pic, tastefully done, body shot with a hint of something, yes.

But slap a floating cock pic in my inbox & it's an instant no & delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. straight delete if anyone sends a photo of their sausage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're useful as a way of knowing who made it to the end of my profile and bothered to take any notice of it

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I Don’t mind a “nice” cock in my inbox from time to time. My filters work well so I’m not inundated. I do get fed up with the owners of profiles with 2 cock pictures who message me attaching the same pictures that are on the profile.

Guaranteed ignore.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do d guys have to put them as profile pics? Also why do 30 men a day look at my profile????

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why do d guys have to put them as profile pics? Also why do 30 men a day look at my profile???? "

1. They think that's what will attract people/ they lack the imagination to take others

2. Anyone can look at anyone's profile for any reason, don't let it bother you.

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

High profile jobs. So need high level of discretion

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"High profile jobs. So need high level of discretion "

If you show literally anything other than your face or identifying features (scars or tattoos) you'll achieve the same result.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Although yes, the "I work in a professional capacity, I can't show my face, therefore the only thing I can possibly display is my penis" line does get thrown around.

I wonder how people whose bodies are nothing but face and cock survive, much less work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t work for me. Instant turn off. It’s a good filter though - I won’t meet anyone who’s only good factor is their cock

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think I'm allergic to them, they seem to make me throw up in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men appreciate dick pics much more than women. In my opinion men enjoy showing off their assets and most blokes subconsciously, or in some cases intentionally, enjoy assessing the competition.

I notice that many women have a completely different perspective when it comes to men's dick pics. They seem to prefer more subtle displays of masculinity.

When my wife and I had our joint profile we were searching for an exclusive man friend with benefits for her specific needs. We browsed profiles and dealt with an abundance of messages from interested men. My wife would instantly dismiss any profile that displayed a public naked dick pic.

Eventually we found the right bloke to meet her needs. The process certainly taught me a lot about the way women think differently, about sex and attraction, compared to men.

Our journey of discovery I wrote about when I had the previous profile, Rufus and Penelope a Cuckold Journey, which is still on the forums.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

If we're talking to a potential meet and have built up a rapport, I would like to see it eventually.

But unsolicited dick pics from randomers are an instant turn off.

Some men seem to have this idea that you're going to take one look at their cock and collapse in a sweaty heap on the floor, furiously masturbating while screaming "I've got to get me some of that!".

Little.do they realise that it's normally met with an eye-roll and an instant delete.

Women are very different when it comes to arousal.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"High profile jobs. So need high level of discretion "

If Theresa May put a pic of her boobs on Fab we wouldn't know it was her. Although a lot of people would recognise Boris Johnson's dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're talking to a potential meet and have built up a rapport, I would like to see it eventually.

But unsolicited dick pics from randomers are an instant turn off.

Some men seem to have this idea that you're going to take one look at their cock and collapse in a sweaty heap on the floor, furiously masturbating while screaming "I've got to get me some of that!".

Little.do they realise that it's normally met with an eye-roll and an instant delete.

Women are very different when it comes to arousal."

But surely they do realise. I get them from guys who have been on the site for ages. Not to mention the frequent threads on the subject.

So unless we're all fibbing and secretly love dick pics, you'd think guys would take a hint.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Dick pics are only useful if there's an object in the shot to use as a scale.

Such as a fire extinguisher or a twiglet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dick pics are only useful if there's an object in the shot to use as a scale.

Such as a fire extinguisher or a twiglet.

Hence why I like twiglets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are very new to this and would like to know what the fascination is with sending Dick pics.

Personally I find them a massive turn off.

Why do men send them and are their any couples that make their decision based on the dick pics"
It's an age old problem here some guys are impressed with their dicks so like to show them off, very few women like it but some do so they do it for them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If we're talking to a potential meet and have built up a rapport, I would like to see it eventually.

But unsolicited dick pics from randomers are an instant turn off.

Some men seem to have this idea that you're going to take one look at their cock and collapse in a sweaty heap on the floor, furiously masturbating while screaming "I've got to get me some of that!".

Little.do they realise that it's normally met with an eye-roll and an instant delete.

Women are very different when it comes to arousal.

But surely they do realise. I get them from guys who have been on the site for ages. Not to mention the frequent threads on the subject.

So unless we're all fibbing and secretly love dick pics, you'd think guys would take a hint. "

That would require some men (Not All Men Not All Men Brass Band) to take criticism and think about it rather than just dismiss it as man hating generalisations that don't apply to them (Not All Men Cheerleaders doing backflips).

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I would say they don't work. Similarly not interested in vag shots either which we occasional get from couples profiles, going to assume that the guy is running the account when that happens as never had one from a single female.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

They don't work for me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't work for me at all. "

If they don’t work then what do we show?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"They don't work for me at all.

If they don’t work then what do we show?"

Literally anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are attached to a body I don't find attractive then no.

No one would greet a person in the street by showing their cock.here is no different "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are attached to a body I don't find attractive then no.

No one would greet a person in the street by showing their cock.here is no different

Well said

Definitely agree

why would I lower my standards on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're talking to a potential meet and have built up a rapport, I would like to see it eventually.

But unsolicited dick pics from randomers are an instant turn off.

Some men seem to have this idea that you're going to take one look at their cock and collapse in a sweaty heap on the floor, furiously masturbating while screaming "I've got to get me some of that!".

Little.do they realise that it's normally met with an eye-roll and an instant delete.

Women are very different when it comes to arousal."

There's on on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are attached to a body I don't find attractive then no.

No one would greet a person in the street by showing their cock.here is no different

Well said

Definitely agree

why would I lower my standards on here? "
because the bar is set high

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Dick pics have been known to influence us!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

"They don't work for me at all.

If they don’t work then what do we show?"

Do you go up to women in bars with it hanging out of your jeans?

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

Yes and no yes if they are showing though some nice tight boxers and no if it's just the dick and an even bigger no if it's dripping with cum

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"They don't work for me at all.

If they don’t work then what do we show?"

Not a dick lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"They don't work for me at all.

If they don’t work then what do we show?

Do you go up to women in bars with it hanging out of your jeans? "

I hope not lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"They don't work for me at all.

If they don’t work then what do we show?

Do you go up to women in bars with it hanging out of your jeans?

I hope not lol"

If men approached me in public the way they do on here I'm not sure who'd be arrested first, them, or me given the way I'd react.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope does nothing for us and neither does a gaping fanny. Keep it covered guys, leave a bit to the imagination. Less is more as they say

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm with you on that.

Since we started not responding to anyone with dick pics on there profile or who send them to us we are speaking to and met some great guys.

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I have today received 2 messages from potential men both with their dick pics out.

I have started a campaign and reply telling them that dick pics are a big turn off and suggesting replace them with a body pic with pride and joy covered or if they are happy to do so a smile.

I think they would treble, if not quadruple their success rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cock shots and bum shots on display as well as other shots if offended buy then don't look but my face pics are in private but as a rule I only send face or cock pics if asked ,op do you find it offensive when a lady sends you pussy or tit pics if no then that reeks of double standards

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Sorry. I don't know I don't get sent them.

Put I am sure dick pics don't work.

I personally think you would get further without them

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"No.. straight delete if anyone sends a photo of their sausage. "

would that be Cumberland or just plain pork???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair their there for people to see they don't define me but if people can't see past my cock then they're not for me I'm an intelligent guy ,not great looking it's true but I have a nice demeanor and a dry sense of humour and above all else I'm a fond believer that manners maketh man ,so if I'm not for people it's no issue for me there's always someone who will like the whole package out there,and for the record I do ok because I'm more than a picture of my appenditure

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

A profile with a few body pics, maybe (but doesn't have to have) a face pic and one cock pick is OK.

Profiles with only cock pics are a big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile with a few body pics, maybe (but doesn't have to have) a face pic and one cock pick is OK.

Profiles with only cock pics are a big turn off."
does that include cocks in pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile with a few body pics, maybe (but doesn't have to have) a face pic and one cock pick is OK.

Profiles with only cock pics are a big turn off."
does that include cocks in pussy

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Never worked with me so a no from me.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Some people like them so I have some that I can send, but only if asked for, never unsolicited.

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Please. If I gave the impression that people who show dick pics are wrong then I apologise,

I am certain they are good people, with great hearts and a joy to spend time with.

It doesn't work for me and I was wondering if anybody else felt the same.

However, I still feel that dick pics limit the people you attract.

But this is still only my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really Don't understand why a guy thinks this approach would work. Surely a face pic is what is needed? Thats what Im wanting to see from a Lady. And as someone else mentioned leave something to the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not offended op I see your point of view but there's as many women on here and couples that have vagina close ups as well as penetration shots and cock and vagina pics on there profile but no one complains about them or women who just have their tits out or just foot pics but again it's guys cock pics that get the negative press,just state u don't want to receive messages with cock pics ,no one is forcing anyone to look at them they're there if your curiosity gets the better of u I just want to be approached as a normal person like everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course exhibitionism is OK whoever you are.. it's a site for everyone.. Nobody can tell you to stop, but by the same right... nobody should have to... Hint.. Stop sending unrequested genital pics..let them find you?

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on fab in a few different guises over the years and i have always had more success with no cock pics rather than with them when I am contacting women although couples seem more open to them. I do agree though that the main reason for having cock pics on your profile is more about showing what you have to other males as a territorial display of strength as most women couldnt care less what your cock looks like. Having said that some of the cocks on here really need to be lights off only. Mine is of course lovely looking, well proportioned and of a good size so I have no need to display it to all and sundry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest question op say I got rid of all my cock pics and like u said I was 3x more likely to succeed in getting meets would u then be interested or would the amount of verifications that such success would bring put u off meeting,now there's a quandary for u

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm not put off by verification so knock yourself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not put off by verification so knock yourself out."
u may not be but this week alone I've been told I have too many by at least 8 ladies ,what they do not see is that these are spread over 6 years and not all are sexual but all they see is the big number ,now going on the ops logic if I was as successful as she suggests with no cock pics then also the number of rejections die to the amount of verifications must surely also rise,or does that seem illogical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body pics work but just dick pics are a huge turn off. If their dick defines them then they won't be interesting to us.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Dick pics just don't do anything. What a lot of men don't understand is that the decision to have sex with them is not made when a woman sees their cock.

In most cases, the woman has already decided to have sex with you, before she has seen your cock. It's the 'full package' not just the package that gets you laid.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"We are very new to this and would like to know what the fascination is with sending Dick pics.

Personally I find them a massive turn off.

Why do men send them and are their any couples that make their decision based on the dick pics"

Send us an unsolicited dick pic = blocked

Profile nothing but dick pics = blocked

Profile mainly dick pics = blocked

We all know what a dick looks like, so why do people insist on having nothing but dick pics on their profiles?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We are very new to this and would like to know what the fascination is with sending Dick pics.

Personally I find them a massive turn off.

Why do men send them and are their any couples that make their decision based on the dick pics

Send us an unsolicited dick pic = blocked

Profile nothing but dick pics = blocked

Profile mainly dick pics = blocked

We all know what a dick looks like, so why do people insist on having nothing but dick pics on their profiles?

But some dicks are prettier than others.

Those that look like roadkill or a snail that fell in a blender are kind of off putting......but dick pics can be quite creative and artistic at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are attached to a body I don't find attractive then no.

No one would greet a person in the street by showing their cock.here is no different "

Very true that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dicks... it’s why I’m here!

However I don’t like a dick being wanged in my face when I don’t even know said blokes name...

Please reserve sticking them on your front page or attaching to a message unless it says in the profile that they are welcomed - or when the person/s have asked for it...

Mystery makes me curious

Mrs P x

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Tried it and no you need more than a cock pic sadly

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not offended op I see your point of view but there's as many women on here and couples that have vagina close ups as well as penetration shots and cock and vagina pics on there profile but no one complains about them or women who just have their tits out or just foot pics but again it's guys cock pics that get the negative press,just state u don't want to receive messages with cock pics ,no one is forcing anyone to look at them they're there if your curiosity gets the better of u I just want to be approached as a normal person like everyone else"

I talk about what bothers me. On an average day on Fab I'll see one or two gynaecology shots, ten action shots, and 50-100 cock shots in my updates feed, and similar proportions in messages. The gynaecology shots I like less than the cock shots, but I don't see many of them all told.

And, speaking only for myself, my criticisms stand given that I'm not being hypocritical. At most you get a bit of side boob on my public pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At end of the day you can't satisfy everyone but if you don't like certain pics just say but don't critique someone because they have certain pics on their profile ,no one's forcing you too look and if your too shallow to get to know the person because of their pic choices then your loss ,on other hand if you send unsolicited pics of your private parts to people then your going to get nowhere so it's upto u people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics are essential!

We all want to see them. Yes we do. A guy who is shy about sharing his cock image risks appearing insecure.

However.

One or two, soft and/or hard is plenty. Full figure dressed is much more likely to attract positive attention and for gods sake smile in your selfie guys! The last thing we want to see is some moody strop face.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I'll be honest it doesn't really bother me, I like to see who I'm meeting and i prefer to meet men who are vwe (alot of people lie about it) so I say include pictures.

This is the same if your picture swapping I like to receive pictures, it's a turn on to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We almost want to see what's on offer and we want to show what's on offer so it's only natural to flaunt your wares

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"If we're talking to a potential meet and have built up a rapport, I would like to see it eventually.

But unsolicited dick pics from randomers are an instant turn off.

Some men seem to have this idea that you're going to take one look at their cock and collapse in a sweaty heap on the floor, furiously masturbating while screaming "I've got to get me some of that!".

Little.do they realise that it's normally met with an eye-roll and an instant delete.

Women are very different when it comes to arousal.

There's on on your profile "

That's on our profile, we're not harassing your inbox with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it like this if your selling a car you put as many pics as you can on your advert to help shift it so why limit your own marketability by not including cock,bum,torso pics at the end of the day it's how you sell yourself that gets results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are very new to this and would like to know what the fascination is with sending Dick pics.

Personally I find them a massive turn off.

Why do men send them and are their any couples that make their decision based on the dick pics"

If there are a couple in between torso, or other pics it’s more than ok with us.

However when it’s 20 pics of a dick at different angles it’s a big no from us.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Is this a good time to mention it's 'Willy Wednesday'?

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By *ophie SteveCouple
over a year ago

Redruth

Cock pics are essential for our selection process as Sophie is very particular about the aesthetics of a cock. Other things matter too of course - a fab cock attached to a gargoyle or a pushy idiot would not appeal, but we definitely need to see cock pics before arranging a meeting!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Cock pics are essential for our selection process as Sophie is very particular about the aesthetics of a cock. Other things matter too of course - a fab cock attached to a gargoyle or a pushy idiot would not appeal, but we definitely need to see cock pics before arranging a meeting!"

All cocks look the same don't they (I see it stated so may times in here) ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna see whats being offered luv !

If I like the look of it & want to suck it I reply !

Give it to Tv Susan xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for us ...doesn’t stop guys sending them, even though we state we don’t want them in our profile .

If a cock is all you have to offer, there’s little chance of us meeting

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"A profile with a few body pics, maybe (but doesn't have to have) a face pic and one cock pick is OK.

Profiles with only cock pics are a big turn off.does that include cocks in pussy "

Again, one or two is fine but a profile full of nothing else then not.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"I look at it like this if your selling a car you put as many pics as you can on your advert to help shift it so why limit your own marketability by not including cock,bum,torso pics at the end of the day it's how you sell yourself that gets results"

Yes but you wouldn't put up 20 pics of the steering wheel but miss out the bodywork and the alloys would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me they dont

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've said before, but if I were a guy I'd have one or two on my profile, to cater to those who want to see, but among a variety of other pictures so it's not just a cock fest. And I'd never send without being asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but you wouldn't put up 20 pics of the steering wheel but miss out the bodywork and the alloys would you?

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not unless it was blinged up lol but those condoning cock pics usually have their bits out anyway so what's the difference

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes but you wouldn't put up 20 pics of the steering wheel but miss out the bodywork and the alloys would you?

not unless it was blinged up lol but those condoning cock pics usually have their bits out anyway so what's the difference"

I think you mean condemning.

The difference is the market. Women tend to like cock shots less. Men tend to like explicit shots more.

Would you sell Lynx to bring out your feminine side? No, because it's generally for men.

Same here. Men like to see more, women generally less. So we play to our market.

But if you want to do the equivalent of selling Lynx for its feminine qualities, then knock yourself out.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s amazing that despite the vast majority of women saying they don’t like them, most men’s profiles a full of them. Don’t men actually listen to what women want. Presumably not.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It’s amazing that despite the vast majority of women saying they don’t like them, most men’s profiles a full of them. Don’t men actually listen to what women want. Presumably not. "

Alas, they don't. (and don't even get me started on "want my balls draining" or "need to rough a chick up" or whatever else is the flavour of the month in statuses. We do read this stuff, and eww no!)

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I don't think i have ever sent any dick pic however I have got message from a few women and couples. So in a sense they work.

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

I much prefer classy, sexy pics. Hate the dick ones, gaping fanny ones, dripping spunk ones etc. Seems to be mostly single guys who use the dick ones and then wonder why they don’t get meets.....

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

And presumably people will pick who they want to meet based on personality as well as looks? I have never decided to meet a couple based onnthe female’s fanny or tits. Similarly my wife doesn’t base it on a guy’s dick.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And presumably people will pick who they want to meet based on personality as well as looks? I have never decided to meet a couple based onnthe female’s fanny or tits. Similarly my wife doesn’t base it on a guy’s dick.

Steve"
this is my basic argument u pick a meet on compatibility and personality and physical attraction not because you have seen a close up of their cock OR pussy,so what does it matter if they have them in their pics in public as long as they don't send u them unsolicited there's no issue and your not forced to look at their pics when browsing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure they do

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

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By *eddyandShy OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

With you on that one. I think some guys think that because you are on this web page just want your bits filled and 'Hello' is going to make you want to jump straight into the sack with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going with advice I've been given from a fab friend I've basically swapped all my private pics with friend only pics. Took some balls (excuse the pun) to have my face pics public but hey, I'm single and doing nothing wrong! Yet to notice any difference in whether it would make my profile more attractive but time will tell I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole I don't like them... A face pic is preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the nature of this site, surely it's only fair that we all show our full naked bodies on our profiles and take things from there. If you're not happy with that, why not just use tinder etc instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face and torso pics do it for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Given the nature of this site, surely it's only fair that we all show our full naked bodies on our profiles and take things from there. If you're not happy with that, why not just use tinder etc instead?"

Because that's not how I connect with someone, and I don't want to show my full naked body on my profile.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I do like a sneaky peak at a cock as I’ve met some lovely guys but when it’s got down to it I’ve seen what they have to offer and it’s put me off!

(female!) but that goes for face pics too! (Apologises now for being so shallow!)

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

There has been enough written, said and Utoobed for everyone to know the score.

So now the question is

Why do they continue ?

They are teenage dirtbags baby, if you tell them they can't do something then you can guarantee that's exactly what they are going to do!

Why do men flash ?

Why do women streak ?

xslutx

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

I the make half always ask for a dick pic as we don't like cock that don't have a fully retractable for skin, it a preference for us

But we don't like a cock pic sent as there has to be some attraction to the person above the cock

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Stevethis is my basic argument u pick a meet on compatibility and personality and physical attraction not because you have seen a close up of their cock OR pussy,so what does it matter if they have them in their pics in public as long as they don't send u them unsolicited there's no issue and your not forced to look at their pics when browsing"

just thinking about pussy styling, and if you turn up to a meet and he goes down and comes back up saying "you looked different in your pics can't see this working.".

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

For heaven's sake Not the dick pic debate again!

Why do so many people want to "shape Fab in their own (swingers sunny uplands) image"?

Whilst I can see the point somewhat when someone's profile consists only of dick pics (whether it is a profile containing only 1 pic or many) beyond that it seems to be fussing for fussing's sake to the point of virtue signalling.

Fab is a broad church, or so we thought, so you're going to get a lot of stuff not entirely in line with your expectations, and esp so from inexperienced players who simply don't know the score.

There is a constant stream of posts (often bringing the cliquey ones out of the woodwork) about "can't we exclude this", "can't we exclude that" "I don't like people who" "I don't think people ahould have this, that or the other in their profile" etc etc.

Who made all these people the guardians of the universe?

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Irony overload !

People use threads about "we don't like people who blah" as a way of advertising they don't blah and to find others who, not only don't blah, but also think blahing is weird. REf the Guardians of the Universe, I want to be one.

The enemy of my enemy is my fuck buddy.

xslutx

The other post was me as well but I doubt that will change its ignorability.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Irony overload !

The enemy of my enemy is my fuck buddy.

xslutx

The other post was me as well but I doubt that will change its ignorability. "

This is a great post, made me smile

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By *j26071994Man
over a year ago

Worthing

I usually send private face & body to anyone I'm intending to interact with, the rest is for others discretion ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have them in our private collection. The Mrs hates it when a guy sends just pics of his cock and a sleazy message. She’d rather receive no pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We too are sick of guys sending a cock only pic asking 'fancy meeting?' ....this despite 'Only face messages with face pics will get a reply'. Are they so dense as to think we'll say 'wow ...nice cock...let's meet him' ?

I have really tempted to say 'sod off' to these guys but resisted so far.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I usually send private face & body to anyone I'm intending to interact with, the rest is for others discretion ??

Except your profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually send private face & body to anyone I'm intending to interact with, the rest is for others discretion ??

Except your profile pic? "

That too, it’s another off putting thing. Open a message to a hardon. No thanks rather not.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

No they don't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a good time to mention it's 'Willy Wednesday'?

Haha that was very cheeky

There is demand for them, but I have never sent. Not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are very new to this and would like to know what the fascination is with sending Dick pics.

Personally I find them a massive turn off.

Why do men send them and are their any couples that make their decision based on the dick pics"

Check out this video lol:-

https://youtu.be/4KswaaSDIoc

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