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Ladies, what catches your eye?

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By *aughty Him OP   Man
over a year ago

Beds

When I was on here as part of a couple we would post pics and get a flurry of fabs and messages showing people’s appreciation.

Now when I post a pic, some of them the same I posted as a couple, there’s hardly a flicker of interest

So, my question is: what catches your eye in the pics posted by guys?

I’ve only got the body I was given to work with; it’s a pretty average dad bod (no rippling six pack) and I’d guess my cock is pretty average too, and I know that not everyone wants to be exposed to it.

Interested to know how I can improve my chances of being noticed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m immediately put off by photos with more than just the owner of the profile (on an single profile) if that’s any help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of your photos are very good..one in suit for example. Personally speaking unless I’m talking to a couple the photos with other people (especially when you can see more of them) is extremely off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread this. Always wondered what women think about guys profiles. Especially single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good thread this. Always wondered what women think about guys profiles. Especially single guys "

You have some perfect photos on yours...adore teasing ones. I have no desire to see the full package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m immediately put off by photos with more than just the owner of the profile (on an single profile) if that’s any help "

This

Personally, single profiles with other people in the pics is a straight delete for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good thread this. Always wondered what women think about guys profiles. Especially single guys

You have some perfect photos on yours...adore teasing ones. I have no desire to see the full package. "

Thank you. I like the black boots

Good to know what catches women’s eyes. Never know how far to go with it haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't mind photos with other people. But there is one particular photo in your gallery that would immediately put me off - the one where you are doing the lady doggy style and appear to be pulling her pony tail. I hate rough sex, particularly hair pulling, so that one pic is a no no for me.

There are some really nice, teasing ones there, too, but if you don't want to give people the impression you like rough sex (unless you do), I'd get rid of that pic or put it in your 'friends only' folder.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Put a nice cream cake in yoour shots Op -ladies can't resist those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see many women wanting to see guys spreading their cheeks as well

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"I personally don't mind photos with other people. But there is one particular photo in your gallery that would immediately put me off - the one where you are doing the lady doggy style and appear to be pulling her pony tail. I hate rough sex, particularly hair pulling, so that one pic is a no no for me.

There are some really nice, teasing ones there, too, but if you don't want to give people the impression you like rough sex (unless you do), I'd get rid of that pic or put it in your 'friends only' folder. "

Hair pulling done correctly is not rough sex. It's dominante (sp) sex. Just as Bdsm is not about pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't mind photos with other people. But there is one particular photo in your gallery that would immediately put me off - the one where you are doing the lady doggy style and appear to be pulling her pony tail. I hate rough sex, particularly hair pulling, so that one pic is a no no for me.

There are some really nice, teasing ones there, too, but if you don't want to give people the impression you like rough sex (unless you do), I'd get rid of that pic or put it in your 'friends only' folder.

Hair pulling done correctly is not rough sex. It's dominante (sp) sex. Just as Bdsm is not about pain. "

Still not my cup of tea, thank you very much. But whatever rocks other people's boats. If we were all the same, world would be a boring place.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I’m immediately put off by photos with more than just the owner of the profile (on an single profile) if that’s any help "

Yep there was a whole thread about this yesterday. Maybe have a look at some of the comments off that ,OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't mind photos with other people. But there is one particular photo in your gallery that would immediately put me off - the one where you are doing the lady doggy style and appear to be pulling her pony tail. I hate rough sex, particularly hair pulling, so that one pic is a no no for me.

There are some really nice, teasing ones there, too, but if you don't want to give people the impression you like rough sex (unless you do), I'd get rid of that pic or put it in your 'friends only' folder. "

I prefer that one to the ones with a lady with a spunky face . I do like rough sex though, so I guess it does depend what you're looking for OP. I do much prefer the ones of just you to the action shots though, some of them are really good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has said "a tree branch" yet?

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By *aughty Him OP   Man
over a year ago

Beds

Thanks for the comments. Will take them on board and adapt my public pics.

The pics of my with others are all from my time with my swinging girlfriend, but I get that others might not want to see that.

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By *r loveslickinMan
over a year ago

Deeside

I’m suprised sky remotes and bottles not been mentioned yet ??

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By *aughty Him OP   Man
over a year ago

Beds

Do people look for different things in Male profiles to female profiles?

Full nudity and close up of genitals seem to be more acceptable in female profiles. Is that an indication that men are drawn to different attributes in profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are more visual creatures hence some of them enjoying seeing everything on a ladies profile.

Although i don't show everything and I get compliments on keeping some things hidden so I guess it's the same as women different stuff appeals to different folk.

I can forgive a bad profile pic (as long as it's not just a cock and there is acctually a pic)!! As long as they have a good profile with something interesting written.

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