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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all, I feel like a bit of a sad prick writing this in all honesty. Obviously being a single guy in here comes with its challenges as we seem to be automatically thrown into the ‘he’s just a married guy trying to get his end away’ category. Even more frustrating is actually having had three meets but then not receiving a single verification. Am I doing something wrong and what can I do to turn things around? Obviously being on here for a while and not showing any veri’s means I’m an instant delete for most couples (that’s my target market btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion. "

Agreed cock pics tend to make you delete as a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion.

Agreed cock pics tend to make you delete as a woman."

Thanks both, I’m not the skinniest guy (that’s any chance gone lol)so not too keen on a pic of my non existent abs nor the face as a profile pic. Where do I go with it lol? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your question is longer than your profile.

Your cock may be longer than your profile but women like a bit more to go on (and not just girth).

Be yourself but sell yourself.

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By *ifuwMan
over a year ago

Hull

Agreed save the cock pic's for friends. I am sure your cock isn't your best feature. I try and veri my pictures. Try and make them stand out.

Think about what.your profile says about you. Also get yourself to the club's. That's what I do and it works well for me.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion.

Agreed cock pics tend to make you delete as a woman."

Also much hair around the cock is enough to put most people off too *Mrs

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'd message those you have met and politely ask to be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all, I feel like a bit of a sad prick writing this in all honesty. Obviously being a single guy in here comes with its challenges as we seem to be automatically thrown into the ‘he’s just a married guy trying to get his end away’ category. Even more frustrating is actually having had three meets but then not receiving a single verification. Am I doing something wrong and what can I do to turn things around? Obviously being on here for a while and not showing any veri’s means I’m an instant delete for most couples (that’s my target market btw) "
who knows it could be your age, could be your cock pic, could be youre bi, could be your messages or could be your lack of info on profile, veris mean little especially if from guys, improve your profile and pics and who knows you may get better luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion.

Agreed cock pics tend to make you delete as a woman.

Also much hair around the cock is enough to put most people off too *Mrs"

Thanks for the advice, a good old trim it is. Ironically I think I’ve messaged you guys before. Appreciate your age range though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd message those you have met and politely ask to be verified."

Tried this but no avail. Strange!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey all, I feel like a bit of a sad prick writing this in all honesty. Obviously being a single guy in here comes with its challenges as we seem to be automatically thrown into the ‘he’s just a married guy trying to get his end away’ category. Even more frustrating is actually having had three meets but then not receiving a single verification. Am I doing something wrong and what can I do to turn things around? Obviously being on here for a while and not showing any veri’s means I’m an instant delete for most couples (that’s my target market btw) who knows it could be your age, could be your cock pic, could be youre bi, could be your messages or could be your lack of info on profile, veris mean little especially if from guys, improve your profile and pics and who knows you may get better luck "

Genuinely never knew my profile said bi. Just changed it haha. I mean I love the idea of playing with a couple but guy on guy isn’t my jam xx

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

The profile pic isn’t attractive at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion. "

Agreed.

As there is no variety in your pics whatsoever as you have only one. I'd like to think you're more than a cock, but that's not what you're telling us through your pics

P x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 10/12/18 20:35:03]"

Was your message too offensive? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe change the cock pic. Just a suggestion.

Agreed.

As there is no variety in your pics whatsoever as you have only one. I'd like to think you're more than a cock, but that's not what you're telling us through your pics

P x"

Thanks for the constructive advice. Much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice all! I’m going g to spend some time rewriting the profile and taking some new pics (the thought of this terrifies me lol) I should probably stop telling everyone I’m out dogging too x

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