FabSwingers.com forum: Let downs

By *0xy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

telford

Lost count of the amount times have been chatting with someone who gives it all the talk but when you plan a meet decides to not only not show up but also not even bother to message to say sorry I’m not coming.

Sorry rant over

What rants do you have ??

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How many times has this happened to you? I have been on this site three and a half years and it has only happened to me once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens

There are fantasists on here that will never meet and also sometimes people change there mind.

It's not nice they dont let you know own but hey ho we just get on with it on the rare occasions it happens and spend time with some of our fun friends

We find the genuine ones are worth the shitte

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By *0xy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

telford

"How many times has this happened to you? I have been on this site three and a half years and it has only happened to me once."

In the last month or so at least 6 arranged meets have not turned up

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By *0xy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

telford

Wouldn’t mind if they messaged and said sorry carnt make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn’t mind if they messaged and said sorry carnt make it "

Your expecting manners from a site where alot don't have any.

It's always nice to receive a message back even a no thanks not tonight but people are self centred and feel that they dont have to.

It's sad as we always let those we have arranged something with know what's happening as sometime life gets in the way and you have to cancel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo keeps telling me not to hold people and expect them to act with my idea of manners and social expectations.

Since I started to do that things bother me less on here than it did when we first started.

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby/abora catarina PDI

Myself since joining I’ve been let down 6 times which to you wonderful couples and lasses might not be a lot but to us lads it’s a few to many especially being unverified making it harder hahah.

4 dogging meets going and no shows or twice a couple with only the man showing despite know I don’t play bi and two meets at homes where nobody answered the door. Anyway that’s my rant over hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself since joining I’ve been let down 6 times which to you wonderful couples and lasses might not be a lot but to us lads it’s a few to many especially being unverified making it harder hahah.

4 dogging meets going and no shows or twice a couple with only the man showing despite know I don’t play bi and two meets at homes where nobody answered the door. Anyway that’s my rant over hahah"

That's wrong in soany levels. A single male we have played with in the past drove 50 miles to meet a couple he had been talking to for weeks. He got there knocked on the door and no answer.

He went to message them and he had been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn’t mind if they messaged and said sorry carnt make it "
your veris are from young guys were the fail to turn ups young guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times has this happened to you? I have been on this site three and a half years and it has only happened to me once.

In the last month or so at least 6 arranged meets have not turned up"

Shame I’m 1 year out!

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby/abora catarina PDI

It is a Micky take, thing I thinks under appreciated for a lad such as myself going for dogging meets is quite nerve wracking and for nobody to show or just a man it really is quite scary. Travel itself also costs a fortune which is what is really annoying as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the ones that harass you to meet you then harass you to send you a photo of 'you right now' despite previous sending a face pic, constantly messaging you saying 'I don't think you're going to turn up', messaging you 20 minutes after meeting time with the 'I'm running late as I didn't think you'd turn up', and then radio silence.

I waited an hour but only coz I could get free refills on my cup of tea - had to get my money's worth.

And then some pathetic excuse as to why he didn't 'turn up' and harassing to meet again.

Reckon some turn up see you at a distance and fuck off, puts me off wanting to meet other guys

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By *0xy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

telford

"Wouldn’t mind if they messaged and said sorry carnt make it your veris are from young guys were the fail to turn ups young guys?"

Both young and old all with verifications

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Well if they dont turn up its there loss.

As they will never know what they have missed or going to be missing.

Thats tough luck on there behalf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens.

Human nature I'm afraid.

Don't take it personally and I know sometimes it's easier said than done ,but you just have to put them out of mind and move on.

Good luck with future plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lost count of the amount times have been chatting with someone who gives it all the talk but when you plan a meet decides to not only not show up but also not even bother to message to say sorry I’m not coming.

Sorry rant over

What rants do you have ??"
it is a constant frustration

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