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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh" Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol!  | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. " You make a very good point my friend. I mean, it must be horrible being blocked for "chatting" ... What a difficult situation to be in ? It's a hard life lol | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. " It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....  | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working.... "If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Lmao Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol! " | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh" Happens invariably to me
Too busy/not in the mood = messages all day from horny guys.
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. " Well said. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it."This is very true. If your husband is present it should be changed to a COUPLES profile. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh" Your area must be rife with cheaters if the only one's you like are suddenly busy on family weekends. | |||
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"I dint think all the women are watching match of the day so where do they go on Saturday night? Or maybe they are because they are fake profiles ha " I'm not free on a Saturday, does that make be fake? | |||
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"I got stood up last night " Not everyone can handle so much booty, it's an acquired skill! | |||
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"I got stood up last night Not everyone can handle so much booty, it's an acquired skill!" Haha I see. Well I could have helped him acquire it lol | |||
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"Not many “single guys” are free in the evening or weekend due to them being married. I think being honest on your profile stating that you are married is always best and prevents any confusion." Lol, but very true and honesty is the best way to be! | |||
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"I dunno. Some people come on here thinking it’s Instashag and expecting wall to wall cock...... "This is not instashag | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh" I'm free Saturday nights Genuinely single and live alone | |||
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"Not many “single guys” are free in the evening or weekend due to them being married. I think being honest on your profile stating that you are married is always best and prevents any confusion. Lol, but very true and honesty is the best way to be!" Absolutely agree.. | |||
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... " But you ate stating that hubby may be present, therefore it should be a couples profile not a single female. Are you not a couple when he is present at your meets? | |||
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... " Yes, but you never meet on your own. Therefore hubby could be either participating fully, merely sat rubbing the rhubarb or even whistling away whilst he knocks up a set of shelves in the corner, you'd still be meeting as a couple? | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. " Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples." People on sub benches know their on a sub bench. Wishing randomers who you liked but didn't respond to, to mind read when they should send another message which most will find a pester and block is not simples. | |||
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... Yes, but you never meet on your own. Therefore hubby could be either participating fully, merely sat rubbing the rhubarb or even whistling away whilst he knocks up a set of shelves in the corner, you'd still be meeting as a couple?" Thanks this was my point exactly. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol! "Yawn..
just as likely singles are out with their mates having a social life you know as is often said to guys this is an extension to the real world... Just as likely they've their kids staying over just as couple's and single ladies would have.. any reason that can be said for a lady or couple not being free is just as applicable for a single guy.
Op.. Clicking your fingers when you're free only works if you say the magic words as well.
Last minute . Con is a different type of website.
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... " Modern swinging takes all sorts as weird as this seems maybe there not into the cuckold thing. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples." No chance. Got too much self-respect to be treated like that. | |||
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... Yes, but you never meet on your own. Therefore hubby could be either participating fully, merely sat rubbing the rhubarb or even whistling away whilst he knocks up a set of shelves in the corner, you'd still be meeting as a couple?" Husband of said couple here. So let's get this straight. What you are saying is, Mrs is chatting with a guy on her profile and he asks if she is free she says yes, has a offline chat with me I am happy to meet. But as she had been chatting with him on her HOTWIFE profile ( not single female) she is then supposed to go back and ask to carry on conversation on this profile? Or your saying that her profile shouldn't exist? Tbh it's all nonsense,we like you can do with our profiles as we choose within the rule's of the site. We simply like to keep couples profile for meeting couples and socials/ parties. She meets guy's alone and has great fun in most cases tho we ask for the first time that I be present for the sake of safety is that so bad? If I choose to participate or not is no one's business. As hotwife profile is a very different thing from a truly single female profile. Essentially it's a couples profile with a silent partner but as she said there is no option for this. We don't hide what we do, there is no pretence or deception involved. The whole point of her post was based on frustration. During the week we have limited availability and the amount of messages she receives from guy's wanting to meet who say anytime, anywhere suddenly all the guy's vanish when she says she is free. Of course we don't expect people to jump just because we are suddenly free we are not that arrogant. As for the comments regarding her profile text she never asked for feedback thank you very much. Happy swinging xx | |||
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"Saturday night? Most guys are out with their mates trying their luck with women in person. Beats staying in getting ignored by Women online. " Good post x | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol!
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just as likely singles are out with their mates having a social life you know as is often said to guys this is an extension to the real world... Just as likely they've their kids staying over just as couple's and single ladies would have.. any reason that can be said for a lady or couple not being free is just as applicable for a single guy.
Op.. Clicking your fingers when you're free only works if you say the magic words as well.
Last minute . Con is a different type of website.
"Not finger clicking was done meet request was put up day before and status update. Oh how people love to read between the lines on here for the sake of an argument. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol!
Yawn..
just as likely singles are out with their mates having a social life you know as is often said to guys this is an extension to the real world... Just as likely they've their kids staying over just as couple's and single ladies would have.. any reason that can be said for a lady or couple not being free is just as applicable for a single guy.
Op.. Clicking your fingers when you're free only works if you say the magic words as well.
Last minute . Con is a different type of website.
Not finger clicking was done meet request was put up day before and status update.
Oh how people love to read between the lines on here for the sake of an argument."I read the op, I quoted the op, it gave little indication other than 'suddenly'. 'Saturday night' late notice meets, my suggestion lower your expectations no frustration then. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol!
Yawn..
just as likely singles are out with their mates having a social life you know as is often said to guys this is an extension to the real world... Just as likely they've their kids staying over just as couple's and single ladies would have.. any reason that can be said for a lady or couple not being free is just as applicable for a single guy.
Op.. Clicking your fingers when you're free only works if you say the magic words as well.
Last minute . Con is a different type of website.
Not finger clicking was done meet request was put up day before and status update.
Oh how people love to read between the lines on here for the sake of an argument.
I read the op, I quoted the op, it gave little indication other than 'suddenly'. 'Saturday night'
late notice meets, my suggestion lower your expectations no frustration then."Still no finger clicking tho. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Yes, Saturday night is "family" night, all the "single" guys are busy with their wives lol! "How very true that is, we are | |||
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"Hot guys are watching strictly ......with their wife " This haha x | |||
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"Hot guys are watching strictly ......with their wife "Hay I watch strictly,and no I'm not married. As us single guys get told all the time people have their preference so accept it and move on | |||
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... Yes, but you never meet on your own. Therefore hubby could be either participating fully, merely sat rubbing the rhubarb or even whistling away whilst he knocks up a set of shelves in the corner, you'd still be meeting as a couple? Husband of said couple here. So let's get this straight. What you are saying is, Mrs is chatting with a guy on her profile and he asks if she is free she says yes, has a offline chat with me I am happy to meet. But as she had been chatting with him on her HOTWIFE profile ( not single female) she is then supposed to go back and ask to carry on conversation on this profile? Or your saying that her profile shouldn't exist? Tbh it's all nonsense,we like you can do with our profiles as we choose within the rule's of the site. We simply like to keep couples profile for meeting couples and socials/ parties. She meets guy's alone and has great fun in most cases tho we ask for the first time that I be present for the sake of safety is that so bad? If I choose to participate or not is no one's business. As hotwife profile is a very different thing from a truly single female profile. Essentially it's a couples profile with a silent partner but as she said there is no option for this. We don't hide what we do, there is no pretence or deception involved. The whole point of her post was based on frustration. During the week we have limited availability and the amount of messages she receives from guy's wanting to meet who say anytime, anywhere suddenly all the guy's vanish when she says she is free. Of course we don't expect people to jump just because we are suddenly free we are not that arrogant. As for the comments regarding her profile text she never asked for feedback thank you very much. Happy swinging xx " "But as she had been chatting with him on her HOTWIFE profile ( not single female)" then change it to a couples profile if you are going to be present at all. You can still use the other one for socials etc. Single females meet alone. Not with husbands partners fwb or FB. This is why guys are bailing out. False advertising. | |||
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"I wasn't actually trying to put single guys down-believe it or not. 99.9% of our meets are with single guys. I just find it frustrating that mon-fri I get messages wanting meets when I'm working and suddenly at the weekends everyone disappears, and it's not just single guys. I suppose everyone has their lives just like us. As for the single profile..... It's a hotwife profile. They don't really give the option for this. The clue is in the name... Yes, but you never meet on your own. Therefore hubby could be either participating fully, merely sat rubbing the rhubarb or even whistling away whilst he knocks up a set of shelves in the corner, you'd still be meeting as a couple? Husband of said couple here. So let's get this straight. What you are saying is, Mrs is chatting with a guy on her profile and he asks if she is free she says yes, has a offline chat with me I am happy to meet. But as she had been chatting with him on her HOTWIFE profile ( not single female) she is then supposed to go back and ask to carry on conversation on this profile? Or your saying that her profile shouldn't exist? Tbh it's all nonsense,we like you can do with our profiles as we choose within the rule's of the site. We simply like to keep couples profile for meeting couples and socials/ parties. She meets guy's alone and has great fun in most cases tho we ask for the first time that I be present for the sake of safety is that so bad? If I choose to participate or not is no one's business. As hotwife profile is a very different thing from a truly single female profile. Essentially it's a couples profile with a silent partner but as she said there is no option for this. We don't hide what we do, there is no pretence or deception involved. The whole point of her post was based on frustration. During the week we have limited availability and the amount of messages she receives from guy's wanting to meet who say anytime, anywhere suddenly all the guy's vanish when she says she is free. Of course we don't expect people to jump just because we are suddenly free we are not that arrogant. As for the comments regarding her profile text she never asked for feedback thank you very much. Happy swinging xx "But as she had been chatting with him on her HOTWIFE profile ( not single female)" then change it to a couples profile if you are going to be present at all. You can still use the other one for socials etc. Single females meet alone. Not with husbands partners fwb or FB. This is why guys are bailing out. False advertising. " And its certainly the business of your meet if you choose to participate or not as the case may be?!  | |||
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"Why all the negativity to her post? It was obvious she was just venting frustration. It didn’t come across as putting anyone down for not being available. It’s like being annoyed if the weather is great for months, and then it rains when we plan a trip to the beach; we may moan, but we’re not “annoyed” at the weather. And as to whether it should be a couples profile - maybe, maybe not. But there are no clear rules. " That's the nature of the forum. Thank you all for your constructive feedback..... Well some it. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples." Crock of sh/t | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. People on sub benches know their on a sub bench. Wishing randomers who you liked but didn't respond to, to mind read when they should send another message which most will find a pester and block is not simples. " Im not talking about the messaging, im saying if youve been on a couples sub bench and they ask you to meet, you need to be willing to drop everything and meet. Its not fair, its just how it is because of the nature of couples and the men/women ratio on fab. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh" Aww, I'm with you there. A few weeks back I put up a meet, Saturday evening & yup.. Quiet! | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. Crock of sh/t "You really do sound like a delightful person from your profile! | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples." If you genuinely treat people like that then you’re reducing them to a commodity that’s at your beck and call. I hope single men have e got more self respect. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. No chance. Got too much self-respect to be treated like that. Which is absolutely your prerogative but you wont meet many couples on here with that attitude. Have you any idea how many men compared to women there are on here?" How dare he have self respect! | |||
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". people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples." I am glad i found this post... because i am in two minds on how to deal with it..... part of me really wants to give it the contempt it deserves... other other part of me wants to explain why you are wrong on so many levels..... maybe i'll go with a bit of both!!!! see.. the popular guys out there are like the popular women and couples... they are out there networking, clubs, parties, impressing people! doing what they do to stand out.... they also have lives like you.....which mean they have real lives, which means that they may not be at someones beckon call... which means they have to plan!!! sound familiar??? i would hope that men treat you with more respect than you seem to have for them, I would hope that men have more self respect that to jump thru hoops to get a meet..... but i am also a realist in that some men think with their cocks more than they do their brains.... but i would say they are not the successful ones in the long term, they just take advantage every so often of an oppotunistic situation getting meets are two fold in that i would like to think that you have to impress me as much as i would seem to have to impress you! i aint taking on for "your team" and you as a "couple" aren't better than me... so don't you dare look down on me!!! subtle enough......  | |||
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You really do sound like a delightful person from your profile! "Thank you! Those who have actually met me, will confirm this | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. If you genuinely treat people like that then you’re reducing them to a commodity that’s at your beck and call. I hope single men have e got more self respect. " Yep, can’t beat a good filter thread | |||
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". people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. I am glad i found this post... because i am in two minds on how to deal with it..... part of me really wants to give it the contempt it deserves... other other part of me wants to explain why you are wrong on so many levels..... maybe i'll go with a bit of both!!!! see.. the popular guys out there are like the popular women and couples... they are out there networking, clubs, parties, impressing people! doing what they do to stand out.... they also have lives like you.....which mean they have real lives, which means that they may not be at someones beckon call... which means they have to plan!!! sound familiar??? i would hope that men treat you with more respect than you seem to have for them, I would hope that men have more self respect that to jump thru hoops to get a meet..... but i am also a realist in that some men think with their cocks more than they do their brains.... but i would say they are not the successful ones in the long term, they just take advantage every so often of an oppotunistic situation getting meets are two fold in that i would like to think that you have to impress me as much as i would seem to have to impress you! i aint taking on for "your team" and you as a "couple" aren't better than me... so don't you dare look down on me!!! subtle enough...... "Eloquently put, you're a man of principle. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. Crock of sh/t
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"I got stood up last night " Yep - I got stood up as well.
I never normally meet on a Saturday night - weekends are for my other half and I and most people on here seem to work on the same pattern. I feel your pain OP. Hundreds of messages through the week begging me to meet right away but as soon as I have a spare evening at a loose end...it went silent!
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I never normally meet on a Saturday night - weekends are for my other half and I and most people on here seem to work on the same pattern. I feel your pain OP. Hundreds of messages through the week begging me to meet right away but as soon as I have a spare evening at a loose end...it went silent!
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I never normally meet on a Saturday night - weekends are for my other half and I and most people on here seem to work on the same pattern. I feel your pain OP. Hundreds of messages through the week begging me to meet right away but as soon as I have a spare evening at a loose end...it went silent!
Had a great night anyway "I'm sorry to hear you got stood up. I hope you still had evening regardless. | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it."Agreed, you are baiting guys in by putting up meets on your single profile when your husband will be coming too, that’s pretty pathetic and totally understandable why guys would go quite on you, why not be honest and advertise via your couples profile next time? | |||
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it.
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it.
Agreed, you are baiting guys in by putting up meets on your single profile when your husband will be coming too, that’s pretty pathetic and totally understandable why guys would go quite on you, why not be honest and advertise via your couples profile next time? spot on. "Wow you really do have an axe to grind with my Mrs! You guys obviously have a separate agenda here despite the fact that there are loads of women on here with single profiles who are also in a couple. I'd love to see where she says she's baiting anyone on her profile and as for saying it's pathetic. Well likewise if you chose to actually read what we have said previously and what it says on profile. If you think me taking her safety seriously is pathetic then frankly so are you. If you really want to get into the fine details of things the guy's we are talking about had said in previous messages that me being present for the first meet wasn't a problem. Then when it actually comes down to it they bottle it. And guys we are only talking about a social here! You lot are really getting your panties in a twist aren't you. Who says people aren't judgemental on here eh. Rolls eyes | |||
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"This is a forum. It's natural that we're not all going to agree. I've said it once already, I'll say it again... I don't pretend to be a single female. Everything is in black and white on my profile. I wasn't actually asking for advice merely venting frustration (as someone kindly noted earlier in the thread). Some of the advice has been helpful.... Others not quite so. Can't please all of the people all of the time. Thank you and goodnight! " all the above nitpicking aside...it's 6:41am... just saying | |||
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". people want to play. Jumping up and dropping everything when theyve been kept on the subs bench for months is exactly what single guys need to do, if they want to be successful with couples on here. Couples usually want last minute guys. If all the guys who moan they cant get meets do this they will be very successful single fabbers. Simples. I am glad i found this post... because i am in two minds on how to deal with it..... part of me really wants to give it the contempt it deserves... other other part of me wants to explain why you are wrong on so many levels..... maybe i'll go with a bit of both!!!! see.. the popular guys out there are like the popular women and couples... they are out there networking, clubs, parties, impressing people! doing what they do to stand out.... they also have lives like you.....which mean they have real lives, which means that they may not be at someones beckon call... which means they have to plan!!! sound familiar??? i would hope that men treat you with more respect than you seem to have for them, I would hope that men have more self respect that to jump thru hoops to get a meet..... but i am also a realist in that some men think with their cocks more than they do their brains.... but i would say they are not the successful ones in the long term, they just take advantage every so often of an oppotunistic situation getting meets are two fold in that i would like to think that you have to impress me as much as i would seem to have to impress you! i aint taking on for "your team" and you as a "couple" aren't better than me... so don't you dare look down on me!!! subtle enough...... " | |||
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"I'll play devils advocate here.. If I ever meet someone with a profile that indicates being married, most of the time I'll assume the partner will be involved, particularly if it's a hotwife scenario...I'm really not that interested in the hotwife thing to be honest.. Though in the case of being wanted on the day for a meet, is something I'd rather have organised way before that..my plans change and more often than not, if I dont get a date/time arranged for a meet, I'll shag someone else..or do something unfabby. It can be really annoying having to wait till the end of the week for a decision...then come the weekend, your left high n dry...the meet doesnt go ahead, and you just spend the weekend having a wank." I'm the same if I don't hear at least a couple of days before, I make other plans. I'm not wasting my time off. | |||
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"I'll play devils advocate here.. If I ever meet someone with a profile that indicates being married, most of the time I'll assume the partner will be involved, particularly if it's a hotwife scenario...I'm really not that interested in the hotwife thing to be honest.. Though in the case of being wanted on the day for a meet, is something I'd rather have organised way before that..my plans change and more often than not, if I dont get a date/time arranged for a meet, I'll shag someone else..or do something unfabby. It can be really annoying having to wait till the end of the week for a decision...then come the weekend, your left high n dry...the meet doesnt go ahead, and you just spend the weekend having a wank. I'm the same if I don't hear at least a couple of days before, I make other plans. I'm not wasting my time off. " too right, work all week and get to the weekend and sit twiddling your thumbs or whatever...to get fuck all? no thanks...for me, it might come across as a slutty attitude or make someone think they weren't worth waiting for...all I've asked is to make a commitment to meet, rather than awaiting selection. | |||
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"Ok, so I'm having a bit of a rant. It frustrates the hell out of us that we get bombarded day in, day out for meets. But then when we're free, suddenly everyone disappears off the face of the earth! Is it because it's a Saturday night? Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh Happens invariably to me
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it.
Agreed, you are baiting guys in by putting up meets on your single profile when your husband will be coming too, that’s pretty pathetic and totally understandable why guys would go quite on you, why not be honest and advertise via your couples profile next time? spot on.
Wow you really do have an axe to grind with my Mrs!
You guys obviously have a separate agenda here despite the fact that there are loads of women on here with single profiles who are also in a couple.
I'd love to see where she says she's baiting anyone on her profile and as for saying it's pathetic.
Well likewise if you chose to actually read what we have said previously and what it says on profile.
If you think me taking her safety seriously is pathetic then frankly so are you.
If you really want to get into the fine details of things the guy's we are talking about had said in previous messages that me being present for the first meet wasn't a problem.
Then when it actually comes down to it they bottle it.
And guys we are only talking about a social here!
You lot are really getting your panties in a twist aren't you.
Who says people aren't judgemental on here eh.
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"jools. your profile says you are extremely busy and it may take you weeks or months to respond. also that you block for continous harassment and bombardment. ok fine. but you cannot expect people to wait months for you to decide to meet as others will make a decision for you and meet someone else. and they may not get back in touch with you because you have made it clear your extremely busy and harassment or bombardment will result in a block. jools im sure your a very nice woman and we all have very busy lives but you cannot expect people to suddenly jump up and drop everything when youve kept them on the subs bench for months. people want to play. It's half a dozen of and six of another.... I always explain to anyone who wants to meet me that my family will always come first. Sometimes I plan a meet weeks ahead and other times I get an unexpected free day which I also explain. I had a message from a guy yesterday asking to meet today as soon as I said it would be both myself and hubby suddenly he had plans.... I think at least 3 guys have said they were free today but as soon as I mentioned it would be both of us... They went quiet on me or said they'd made other plans. It clearly states on my profile that I am married..... I'm sure they'll be back on monday morning asking for a meet whilst I'm working....
If he contacted you on this single profile you shouldn't be bringing your husband into it.
Agreed, you are baiting guys in by putting up meets on your single profile when your husband will be coming too, that’s pretty pathetic and totally understandable why guys would go quite on you, why not be honest and advertise via your couples profile next time? spot on.
Wow you really do have an axe to grind with my Mrs!
You guys obviously have a separate agenda here despite the fact that there are loads of women on here with single profiles who are also in a couple.
I'd love to see where she says she's baiting anyone on her profile and as for saying it's pathetic.
Well likewise if you chose to actually read what we have said previously and what it says on profile.
If you think me taking her safety seriously is pathetic then frankly so are you.
If you really want to get into the fine details of things the guy's we are talking about had said in previous messages that me being present for the first meet wasn't a problem.
Then when it actually comes down to it they bottle it.
And guys we are only talking about a social here!
You lot are really getting your panties in a twist aren't you.
Who says people aren't judgemental on here eh.
Rolls eyes to be fair to op if u do read the epic of a profile it does mention hubby might attend meets or might just let her get on with it but I can see why single guys would get cold feet as they're expecting to meet a sexy single lady and not her hubby as well,it can be a bit daunting "I agree, if I was planning to meet a single female, I wouldn't expect her partner to be there as well. I would definitely cancel. | |||
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