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"So much stranger than that. So, so much stranger. " I never said it was the strangest thing ever haha, just said it was strange. After all it is there prerogative, hey ho. | |||
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"We find it strange when we have arranged a meet that people delete their picture straight away. If we are meeting them in a pub we like to be able to refresh our minds who we are looking out for. Even sometimes go to show partner the pic as we may not have been together when message was read only to discover no picture. It is sometimes a reason we won't meet. We like laid back chilled folk not people who are over thinking and feel uncomfortable with their lifestyle choices if that makes sense" I understand that, but I sent it 3 times, it wasn’t like I sent it then deleted it seconds later. But each to their own. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited." I understand and appreciate all of that, but just because I am a guy it doesn’t mean I deserve to have my time wasted, as I wouldn’t waste their time. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited." Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? | |||
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"So much stranger than that. So, so much stranger. " Me for example. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones?" Totally agree. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. I understand and appreciate all of that, but just because I am a guy it doesn’t mean I deserve to have my time wasted, as I wouldn’t waste their time. " It was a strange excuse I think. I also don't think you should feel privileged, the arrangement should be mutually agreed and on equal terms as far as we're concerned. I have to say though that there are small signs that a guy(or couple for that matter) are going to be hard work. Deleting their face picture isn't one of them for us but there are others that might be considered odd. Hope your next meet happens | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. " Lots of people on here are strange in one way or another, not just couples . | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones?" Agreed. I don't want a guy to feel I'm doing him a favour. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones?" Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose " We don't let anyone into our relationship. We only let them into our sex life. Any damage incurred would be down to us | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose " So we singles are supposed to feel privileged if a couple deigns to invite us to meet? It doesn’t work like that. If they aren’t sure about wanting to include a single they should sort that out amongst themselves before inviting the third person. | |||
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"Always delete our face photos. Once you have had your profile copied you see fab differently." I worry people screen shot your pics if they somehow know you. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose So we singles are supposed to feel privileged if a couple deigns to invite us to meet? It doesn’t work like that. If they aren’t sure about wanting to include a single they should sort that out amongst themselves before inviting the third person. " | |||
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"I'm reading that as you've arranged the meet then sent a face pic so did you arrange it before knowing what each other looked like?? " No, meet was arranged after face pic sent. | |||
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"We would want to keep the pic so we could show the police, single men are just phsyco stalkers." I wonder which part of the couple wrote that. | |||
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"We would want to keep the pic so we could show the police, single men are just phsyco stalkers." Maybe that’s just ones you meet... Don’t tar us all with the same brush. | |||
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"We would want to keep the pic so we could show the police, single men are just phsyco stalkers. Maybe that’s just ones you meet... Don’t tar us all with the same brush. " They don't meet them by the looks of it but they judge them. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited." Privileged? really? | |||
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"We would want to keep the pic so we could show the police, single men are just phsyco stalkers. Maybe that’s just ones you meet... Don’t tar us all with the same brush. " Meant in jest as a jab at one of the many misconceptions on fab, we play with single men, the 3 who joined us in the club last night certainly weren't complaining. | |||
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"We're definitely a strange couple" " Do we qualify for the strange couple group?????? | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. " We feel your pain. We’ve come across some strange couples too. If we send private pics we always auto delete or remove pics if we’ve forgotten to click the auto remove so that’s just the normal and the normal reaction is asking you to resend the pic, not to cancel (unless you’re just pig ugly and they used that as an excuse lol) sounds like you had a lucky escape, no one needs drama! Lol | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. " You are allowed to remove your face pics, obviously you did it for security reasons! Some people on here are very entitled! | |||
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"Always delete our face photos. Once you have had your profile copied you see fab differently." Yep my single profile was copied and they messaged everyone on my friends list, which is why I don’t show our friends now! Lol. It’s an odd feeling when people feel the need to do this | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose " This is why I don’t meet couples. It shouldn’t be a privilege to do so. You may think singles have nothing to lose, but self respect is easily lost and takes time to get back | |||
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"People are strange when your a stranger " Earworm...... | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited." If anyone said it was a privilege to meet them, before a meet, that meet wouldn't take place. | |||
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"People are strange when your a stranger " Said Horton who heard a who | |||
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"There's nowt as queer as folk " except builders, welders, police men,... Erm cowboys and Indians | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose " Your wife/girlfriend loves you.... I’m just there for sex... there is nothing I can do sexually to make your wife love me... Please remember this when meeting singles... Love and sex are not mutually exclusive.... | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose Your wife/girlfriend loves you.... I’m just there for sex... there is nothing I can do sexually to make your wife love me... Please remember this when meeting singles... Love and sex are not mutually exclusive...." You underestimate yourself. | |||
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"There's nowt as queer as folk except builders, welders, police men,... Erm cowboys and Indians" My hubby is a welder I guess he's a little weird, but the best ones usually are | |||
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"There's nowt as queer as folk except builders, welders, police men,... Erm cowboys and Indians My hubby is a welder I guess he's a little weird, but the best ones usually are " We are not weird, we are quirky | |||
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"There's nowt as queer as folk except builders, welders, police men,... Erm cowboys and Indians My hubby is a welder I guess he's a little weird, but the best ones usually are We are not weird, we are quirky " Quirky is the way forward... and one of my favourite adjectives | |||
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"We find it strange when we have arranged a meet that people delete their picture straight away. If we are meeting them in a pub we like to be able to refresh our minds who we are looking out for. Even sometimes go to show partner the pic as we may not have been together when message was read only to discover no picture. It is sometimes a reason we won't meet. We like laid back chilled folk not people who are over thinking and feel uncomfortable with their lifestyle choices if that makes sense" this | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited." Goodness me.... OP, you can delete your pic if you like. I do, when I've seen the message has been read. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Goodness me.... OP, you can delete your pic if you like. I do, when I've seen the message has been read. " Well isn’t that why the function is there | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. " So, in fact, you are a pissed off guy because a couple rejected you. Not only that, but because they rejected you it makes them strange? You managed to contradict yourself and your state of mind in two completely opposing paragraphs. Now that's strange... | |||
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"Absolutely don't get the deleting of Sent pics. Would 100% put us off. If they were going to do anything dodgy with it then they would copy and screen shot it on first look, so what would deleting achieve? " It baffles us too. Like you say if you sent the pic and they were gonna be weird they would donit as soon as they received the pic. We often screen shot face pics and send them to each other over texts and pretty sure a lot of couples do this. | |||
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"Don't think that's strange , they probably just realised you weren't really for them. Remember they are inviting a single guy into there relationship ,your the the privileged one as a single guy IF invited. Shouldn’t everyone be seen as a equal? Why isn’t the couple the privileged ones? Because they are letting YOU into their relationship, if things go wrong it can damage their marriage/relationship for good. you as a single have nothing to loose " | |||
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"We always delete ours after the message has been read. If someone feels they need to see our face pics again nearer the time of the meet all they have to do is ask." This is what we do! Will always send again if asked, it's a big thing trusting someone you've never met not to screen shot! | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. " He’s pissed off | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. He’s pissed off" ‘He’ isn’t. | |||
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"If there was a friend's only pic, that may have been the answer. Did they provide face pics?" They never provided any | |||
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"Strange and proud ! We use the auto delete ..if people want to see them again, we send them again " Not all couples are strange, I know that. That’s exactly what I did, I sent it 3 times. | |||
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"I’ve lost interest in meeting couples from here. I’ve not found them strange (though there have been a few), just demanding. A lot of couples that have approached me (note, not me approaching them) have tended to be borderline arrogant... I’ve been told all kinds of thinge - I must bring them cocaine, alcohol, underwear for the Mrs, if I agree to meet I have to agree to photos, I have to agree to letting the husband be in charge of me etc etc. Thats happened a lot and really put me off. Would be cool to meet a laid back couple eventually " It’s the nature of the beast lately...... this is a internet phenomenon lately.... Single guys must jump through hoops to fuck a wife.... I always wonder about the guys that complies with these demands... If guys had a backbone, some of these couples wouldn’t have the cheek to behave this way..... | |||
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"I’ve lost interest in meeting couples from here. I’ve not found them strange (though there have been a few), just demanding. A lot of couples that have approached me (note, not me approaching them) have tended to be borderline arrogant... I’ve been told all kinds of thinge - I must bring them cocaine, alcohol, underwear for the Mrs, if I agree to meet I have to agree to photos, I have to agree to letting the husband be in charge of me etc etc. Thats happened a lot and really put me off. Would be cool to meet a laid back couple eventually " Wow shocked at that!!! | |||
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"There's nowt as queer as folk except builders, welders, police men,... Erm cowboys and Indians My hubby is a welder I guess he's a little weird, but the best ones usually are " mine too actually lol... Though you have probably seen the strap on pictures | |||
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"I’ve lost interest in meeting couples from here. I’ve not found them strange (though there have been a few), just demanding. A lot of couples that have approached me (note, not me approaching them) have tended to be borderline arrogant... I’ve been told all kinds of thinge - I must bring them cocaine, alcohol, underwear for the Mrs, if I agree to meet I have to agree to photos, I have to agree to letting the husband be in charge of me etc etc. Thats happened a lot and really put me off. Would be cool to meet a laid back couple eventually Wow shocked at that!!! " Shocked us too. Keep reading this feed. Thought we were having problems meeting single (and couples) but seems there’s a lot of oddness about that others have found too! Fab never used to be this difficult three years ago when I was single! Finding it a nightmare now! Lol | |||
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"I had a couple who wanted to meet me but wouldn't give me a face pic." That’s funny. Like anyone would meet someone without knowing what they are getting themself into! Lol | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. He’s pissed off ‘He’ isn’t. " It's pantomime season OH YES HE IS | |||
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"There's nowt as queer as folk except builders, welders, police men,... Erm cowboys and Indians My hubby is a welder I guess he's a little weird, but the best ones usually are mine too actually lol... Though you have probably seen the strap on pictures " I actually hadn't..... soooooo, guess what I'm about to do | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. He’s pissed off ‘He’ isn’t. It's pantomime season OH YES HE IS" He’s behinnnnnnddd you | |||
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"I tell you what, guys have a bad reputation on here but some couples, who are genuine with veris might I add are strange (before anyone says it I’m not a pissed off guy because a couple rejected me). Meet arranged face pic given from my side and friend invites accepted. Then all of a sudden meeting is off and they are looking for another guy because I removed my face pic from the mails. Anyway rant over, happy fabbing guys. He’s pissed off ‘He’ isn’t. It's pantomime season OH YES HE IS He’s behinnnnnnddd you" How do you know its him behind me? He deleted his face pic | |||
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