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"I think it’s been discussed before, but how do men/couples/women who won’t provide face photos expect to get meets? Some blurry pic of a dark smudge who could be ANYBODY, literally I couldn’t tell hair or skin colour, and a crap excuse about not having any others on the phone, or a side pic of a minor celebrity and a claim that yes, he really does look like X, but no, strangely, we have no other photos just won’t cut it. Do these people have sex with a hood on? " No a gimp mask | |||
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"I love living dangerously I met one girl without seeing her face first but it was actuallt a guy who wanted to suck my cock. I refused but managed to get a drink for free " The day was not lost then. | |||
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"Mmmm sex with a hood on " It wouldn't be the first time for some of us | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first." I go for personality, but I need SOME idea of what people look like. Also, if basics like what they look like are hard, then it seems likely other things will be as well. Meet terms can’t be dictated by one side only. Only the Kardashians can get away with that stuff. And I’m pretty sure they’re not on Fab. | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first." It's not about looks though for me. I'm attracted to minds not bodies but I still wouldn't meet without seeing a clear photo or several first. For me it's about mutual openness, trust etc. Somebody wanting to meet without showing their face here first, that just comes across as somewhat weird and creepy to me. | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first. It's not about looks though for me. I'm attracted to minds not bodies but I still wouldn't meet without seeing a clear photo or several first. For me it's about mutual openness, trust etc. Somebody wanting to meet without showing their face here first, that just comes across as somewhat weird and creepy to me." But you would see their face when you did meet them. | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first. I go for personality, but I need SOME idea of what people look like. Also, if basics like what they look like are hard, then it seems likely other things will be as well. Meet terms can’t be dictated by one side only. Only the Kardashians can get away with that stuff. And I’m pretty sure they’re not on Fab." They could describe their looks. If you trust that their on line personality is their true self you can trust their on line description of their looks. | |||
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"I think it’s been discussed before, but how do men/couples/women who won’t provide face photos expect to get meets? Some blurry pic of a dark smudge who could be ANYBODY, literally I couldn’t tell hair or skin colour, and a crap excuse about not having any others on the phone, or a side pic of a minor celebrity and a claim that yes, he really does look like X, but no, strangely, we have no other photos just won’t cut it. Do these people have sex with a hood on? " I don't send facepics. Fab Admin asked me not to. Too many people going unlos after opening..... It was affecting the balance sheet. | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' " A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first. I go for personality, but I need SOME idea of what people look like. Also, if basics like what they look like are hard, then it seems likely other things will be as well. Meet terms can’t be dictated by one side only. Only the Kardashians can get away with that stuff. And I’m pretty sure they’re not on Fab. They could describe their looks. If you trust that their on line personality is their true self you can trust their on line description of their looks." Good point. That would make an interesting thread topic. | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first. It's not about looks though for me. I'm attracted to minds not bodies but I still wouldn't meet without seeing a clear photo or several first. For me it's about mutual openness, trust etc. Somebody wanting to meet without showing their face here first, that just comes across as somewhat weird and creepy to me. But you would see their face when you did meet them. " That's not it though. I just wouldn't feel comfortable going somewhere to meet someone, without knowing that I would recognise them on arrival. It would feel too ... stalkery. Also the whole secrecy and "discretion" thing, if somebody is so concerned with it that they won't even share a photo here, then they really probably aren't my type. A while ago somebody messaged me here with "I see you around at (my workplace)" but refused to say who they were or show their face. And they appeared surprised when I said that I found that downright creepy. Of course there's always the chance of an exception, if somebody ticks so many boxes that I can't resist the temptation. It's not happened yet though : ) | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' " I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition | |||
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"I recently contributed to a thread where the majority of posters said they found personality more important than looks. I disagreed for casual sex meets but I imagine that people who don't supply face pictures are meeting the ones who put personality first. It's not about looks though for me. I'm attracted to minds not bodies but I still wouldn't meet without seeing a clear photo or several first. For me it's about mutual openness, trust etc. Somebody wanting to meet without showing their face here first, that just comes across as somewhat weird and creepy to me. But you would see their face when you did meet them. That's not it though. I just wouldn't feel comfortable going somewhere to meet someone, without knowing that I would recognise them on arrival. It would feel too ... stalkery. Also the whole secrecy and "discretion" thing, if somebody is so concerned with it that they won't even share a photo here, then they really probably aren't my type. A while ago somebody messaged me here with "I see you around at (my workplace)" but refused to say who they were or show their face. And they appeared surprised when I said that I found that downright creepy. Of course there's always the chance of an exception, if somebody ticks so many boxes that I can't resist the temptation. It's not happened yet though : )" | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us." Had you seen his face? And would you have done that as a single woman? | |||
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"I’ve actually had a blind meet before - plenty of chat though beforehand and I felt reasonably safe. Still no idea what he looks like. Personality all the way for me " But was the point of the meet for you not to see his face? And did you meet alone or with company? | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. Had you seen his face? And would you have done that as a single woman?" Yes we had seen his face and no I wouldn't do that as a single woman. I absolutely want to see people's face before we meet them. Looks are important to me and when it comes to fab . | |||
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"I’ve actually had a blind meet before - plenty of chat though beforehand and I felt reasonably safe. Still no idea what he looks like. Personality all the way for me But was the point of the meet for you not to see his face? And did you meet alone or with company? " Sort of...I knew going in that I wouldn’t see him but did think I would get to take the blindfold off at some point. Met alone. I temd to go with my gut instinct as it’s pretty fine tuned and I wasn’t fetting creepy vibes off him. Turned out my gut was right (and he was *very* good in bed ) | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. Had you seen his face? And would you have done that as a single woman? Yes we had seen his face and no I wouldn't do that as a single woman. I absolutely want to see people's face before we meet them. Looks are important to me and when it comes to fab ." To be honest I wouldn't meet as a single woman, I just couldn't get past the possible safety concerns. | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. Had you seen his face? And would you have done that as a single woman? Yes we had seen his face and no I wouldn't do that as a single woman. I absolutely want to see people's face before we meet them. Looks are important to me and when it comes to fab ." To the majority I'd say looks are important myself included, if the attraction ain't there I'll likely not find out about their personality that's on here and in the real world. | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us." What on earth were you wearing? | |||
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"I think it’s been discussed before, but how do men/couples/women who won’t provide face photos expect to get meets? Some blurry pic of a dark smudge who could be ANYBODY, literally I couldn’t tell hair or skin colour, and a crap excuse about not having any others on the phone, or a side pic of a minor celebrity and a claim that yes, he really does look like X, but no, strangely, we have no other photos just won’t cut it. Do these people have sex with a hood on? No a gimp mask " Same thing - and yes I have! | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. Had you seen his face? And would you have done that as a single woman? Yes we had seen his face and no I wouldn't do that as a single woman. I absolutely want to see people's face before we meet them. Looks are important to me and when it comes to fab . To the majority I'd say looks are important myself included, if the attraction ain't there I'll likely not find out about their personality that's on here and in the real world." I'm the opposite. If I don't get some kind of spark from their personality then I won't be interested enough to care what they look like. | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. What on earth were you wearing? " A selection of stylishly wrapped pashminas... | |||
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"I won't chat without seeing a face pic let alone have sex with them!" Well I imagine you'd most likely see their real face before having sex with them either way | |||
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"I was on a dating site some years ago where she sent me a photo so i set off to meet her which was down south when i got there she had put a photo of her sister on so you carnt always go of photos " Yes, we were sent a face pic of a guy with glossy black hair. When he turned up (an hour late but that's another story) he was completely grey. How old his picture was is anybody's guess. | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. What on earth were you wearing? A selection of stylishly wrapped pashminas..." He knew what a pashmina was, he didn't think it was a scarf? I'm sure you made a great impression...... | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. What on earth were you wearing? A selection of stylishly wrapped pashminas... He knew what a pashmina was, he didn't think it was a scarf? I'm sure you made a great impression......" Yeah I started with Tommy Cooper, followed with Frank Spencer and finished with Margaret Thatcher went down a storm | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' A man met us without seeing our faces. He just never asked and we only realised on the day that we hadn't sent them. I just told him what I was wearing and he found us. What on earth were you wearing? A selection of stylishly wrapped pashminas... He knew what a pashmina was, he didn't think it was a scarf? I'm sure you made a great impression...... Yeah I started with Tommy Cooper, followed with Frank Spencer and finished with Margaret Thatcher went down a storm " Baddum tshhhhh. Here all week...... | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition " People who want to meet me are more likely to be carrying the Beano under their arm | |||
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"I think it’s been discussed before, but how do men/couples/women who won’t provide face photos expect to get meets? Some blurry pic of a dark smudge who could be ANYBODY, literally I couldn’t tell hair or skin colour, and a crap excuse about not having any others on the phone, or a side pic of a minor celebrity and a claim that yes, he really does look like X, but no, strangely, we have no other photos just won’t cut it. Do these people have sex with a hood on? " agree if i dont get a daylight clear full face pic then we aint meeting and if its a pic that is 10 years old and you look nothing like when you get to meet me then its a waste of a journey too | |||
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"No face pic and I won't even chat as physical attraction is crucial for me. Saying that I think I've met a few guys who haven't exactly sent me an up to date pic Shocks me that a vast majority of men don't ask for a face pic and some are even happy to arrange hotel rooms before seeing my face " Yes that is very true! | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition People who want to meet me are more likely to be carrying the Beano under their arm " That sounds dandy | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition People who want to meet me are more likely to be carrying the Beano under their arm " Don't diss the Beano!! I'll set Gnipper on you. | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition People who want to meet me are more likely to be carrying the Beano under their arm Don't diss the Beano!! I'll set Gnipper on you." Gnipper? What happened to Gnasher? | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition People who want to meet me are more likely to be carrying the Beano under their arm Don't diss the Beano!! I'll set Gnipper on you. Gnipper? What happened to Gnasher?" Never fear, Gnasher is still alive and well. Gnipper is his son... | |||
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"How the hell do you even meet someone if you don't know what they look like? Do you have to go around the chosen meeting place asking 'Excuse me. Did we potentially arrange a shag?' I think a Carnation in the buttonhole and Financial Times under one arm is the approved means of recognition People who want to meet me are more likely to be carrying the Beano under their arm Don't diss the Beano!! I'll set Gnipper on you. Gnipper? What happened to Gnasher? Never fear, Gnasher is still alive and well. Gnipper is his son..." Thank goodness! | |||
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