FabSwingers.com forum: Advice needed.......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me if theres anything i can do about stopping a guy mailing me

He first mailed me about 3 months a go and got really nasty because i didnt want to meet him, so i blocked and reported him, nothing seemed to have been done about it by admin as i never heard back and his profile was never even so much as suspended by them, anyway the messages stopped for a while as he was blocked but then he just re joined on another user name and started sending me nasty messages on thed new user name, i blocked him again and within half a hour he had open another account and mailed me, so i blacked him again and stopped messages fron single guy and he just opened a couples account and mailed me, this has gone on now thro 6 user names and to be quite honest im getting pissed off by it as i cant seem to be able to find anything to stop him, reporting him didnt work, blocking his hasnt worked, blocking single guys didnt work, there really isnt any i can do to stop him is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry your dealing with a psycho,, we had a couple on another non swinging site and there wasn't anything we could do we eventually left that site. but i think the admin on this site could do something more like perhaps block his IP or something from the site.. do you have copies of the mails he has sent you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest no, we had a guy keep doing that to us either just ignore and delete the emails if you think they are from him and block his profile each time you suspect its him.

We used to show off a lot more pics but I don't want him looking at them he makes me feel sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats harrassment, which the law can deal with. If you dont want to go down that route, mention it to admin and they can try to track/block his IP address

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes ive saved a few

Thing is if i report him again and they do ban him this time, theres nothing to stop him rejoining is there and them hes just going to be even ruder if he knows ive had him banned

And i know its only a pc and words cant harm you but im just getting fed up with it now

If you delete a mail without reading it does it show the other person the message has not been read or does it just show as being deleted does anyone know? i thought if he could see i wasnt even reading his mail it may stop him sending them....just a thought

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"yes ive saved a few

Thing is if i report him again and they do ban him this time, theres nothing to stop him rejoining is there and them hes just going to be even ruder if he knows ive had him banned

And i know its only a pc and words cant harm you but im just getting fed up with it now

Just shows as deleted x

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By *ustJeffWalesMan
over a year ago

V of G and Merthyr Tydfil

It's not an ideal answer but you can go to your message filters page and block all newbies from contacting you so if he does create a new account he will not be able to contact you for a few days at least. You could take this further and block all unverified accounts too, hope this helps a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if the IP address can be blocked.

Even if it can, he can easily use another PC/laptop to gain access to FAB and open another account.

I hope something can be done for you and soon.

Hugs.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I will paste what Admin have said they do with reports....please report again , if it is multiple report all profiles.

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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