FabSwingers.com forum: rough sex vs. assault

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

https://thelincolnite.co.uk/2018/12/man-spared-jail-over-assault-during-rough-sex

This came through on my local news feed...not wanting to cause any arguments but wanted to gauge people's thoughts...is this something we need to be more conscious about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope this is allowed as it's an important topic

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"https://thelincolnite.co.uk/2018/12/man-spared-jail-over-assault-during-rough-sex

This came through on my local news feed...not wanting to cause any arguments but wanted to gauge people's thoughts...is this something we need to be more conscious about? "

Speed-read it - everything seemed to be sane and consensual until drugs were introduced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly always a risk when drugs or alcohol are involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why you don't mix drugs and sex with people you don't know particularly well.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"This is why you don't mix drugs and sex with people you don't know particularly well."

you don't know how far a stranger will take things.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We enjoy rough sex between ourselves, but when in s club we avoid the drinkers and anyone with bulging eyes or sniffles

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Was in a club in London on Friday night.

Couple she was clearly out if it and he was encouraging people to touch.

Walked out of the steam room straight off. Cant be dealing with that sort of thing!.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Wow that's a really tough one.

If she didn't safeword after having agreed it then is it non-consentual assault?

I must admit to have pulled hair from her scalp does seem very much a step further even for committed bdsm players.

On the otherhand a responsible Top/Dom should be asking their play partner if they want to safeword whenever they step it up a level anyway but if none is given then that would be deemed as consent. Id have stopped anyway when it started to go further than before, debriefed for next time see who's happy Who's not and go from there.

Definitely something anyone who plays hard needs to be aware of.

One reason why we don't mix rough play with swing play too. A whole other level of trust.

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