FabSwingers.com forum: Are fMf easy?

By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If you are looking after the ladies needs before yourself, is there a certain pressure on you?

Equally, does just let fun evolve feel better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are looking after the ladies needs before yourself, is there a certain pressure on you?

Equally, does just let fun evolve feel better?"

Is this the fella or lady asking or both?!? X

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"If you are looking after the ladies needs before yourself, is there a certain pressure on you?

Equally, does just let fun evolve feel better?

Is this the fella or lady asking or both?!? X"
male, we have a scenario tomorrow.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you are looking after the ladies needs before yourself, is there a certain pressure on you?

Equally, does just let fun evolve feel better?

Is this the fella or lady asking or both?!? Xmale, we have a scenario tomorrow."

I used to just let the ladies decide what they wanted to do .

When we began swinging eight years ago we had mfm fun most weeks for over a year , as we frequented clubs a couple of times a week . Sometimes they would be all over me and I would feel under huge pressure , others it would be more me watching and dipping in and out at my own speed .

Best bet is to find out what your good lady is happy with and let her take the lead . She will be better able to suss out what will work best for the other lady too .

And most of all , enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience was that the ladies were already a couple and I was just their plaything, although I occasionally took the lead, which worked out well for everyone!

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not sure about this, feels demanding.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Not sure about this, feels demanding."

It’s not all that to be honest , and I was glad to give them up after we got married six years ago .

Done it a few times since , but can certainly take or leave them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BF said let the girls start things off and let them introduce you into it. After your involved your be more comfortable. Don’t put to much pressure on yourself x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Just let things develop, you know what works for your partner so that takes some of the pressure off you. If you feel pressured and stressed then you will probably struggle to perform and not enjoy in.

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The thing is...I’m a man...

The ladies watch so much porn!

They demanded so much, there could be 3-4 ladies.

Not comfortable with this.

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

Male here - Done serveral mff both with the mrs and not.

Never found any real pressure, can only do what you can do afterall

Last one I had was pretty laid back, just take it easy and be where there girls want you.. Any part of you heh

And though I am generally anti drug of any kind, I did take some Kamagra and I can safely say - It certainly helped in that dept and because of that I felt alot better too

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