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By *d4jane OP   Couple
over a year ago

HOVE

I love wearing stockings but have such problems with them. If I wear hold ups then they fall down, I look like Norah Batty and end up fishing around under my dress trying to hoik them up again which is not a good look!!

If I wear a suspender belt then I feel like I'm trussed up like a chicken and need to do that whole fumbling around thing in the middle of our sexy fun to get them off!!

I prefer hold ups but not at the expense of looking bedraggled - lol!!!

Does anyone have any pearls of wisdom???

Thanks xxx

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By *AUCY SUEWoman
over a year ago

portsmouth

try suspender tights, or crotchless tights, nora batty look not a good one i agree lol,

x sue x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Find a better fitting suspender belt. I never have this problem and I wear them all the time during fun.

Try slightly larger stockings with the suspender belt so that it's not getting pulled down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the risk of offending perhaps you might try some slightly more expensive hold ups that have "stickier" tops, My ex had a pair that were quite expensive and they stuck like glue to her slim thighs

Just a thought hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you need to take them off? They're so sexy on.

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By *d4jane OP   Couple
over a year ago

HOVE


"at the risk of offending perhaps you might try some slightly more expensive hold ups that have "stickier" tops, My ex had a pair that were quite expensive and they stuck like glue to her slim thighs

Just a thought hope it helps "

No offence taken at all, thanks for the advice!! Think I will def be checking out those stickier tops, thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want your hold ups to erm hold up, do not moisturise your legs beforehand, or put them on with ahnds that have just been moisturised.

I find crotchless stockings better for meets as holdups tend to roll down when you get all hot and sweaty.

Lovehoneysell them and if you want to reuse them, get ones like fishnets, they seem to last longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at the risk of offending perhaps you might try some slightly more expensive hold ups that have "stickier" tops, My ex had a pair that were quite expensive and they stuck like glue to her slim thighs

Just a thought hope it helps

No offence taken at all, thanks for the advice!! Think I will def be checking out those stickier tops, thanks!! "

Yeah i was gonna say the same, i get my hold ups from M&S and they have real good sticky tops and never fall down...Only pair ive had that have maanged to stay up and not roll down and i have quite large thighs so its even harder getting them to stay up or not cut into my thighs but those fit just perfect. Defo worth a try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't stay up on my chubby legs lol but try sticking them in the freezer before use or try extra firm hair spray, Spray on the sticky bit for extra hold lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wear hold ups with suspenders

i prefer hold ups but some outfits have suspenders so i wear holds up with them as its just comfier than stockings, i dont like the dips you get in stockings between the suspender clips i like the stocking tops to be straight which is where holds ups come into play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love wearing stockings but have such problems with them. If I wear hold ups then they fall down, I look like Norah Batty and end up fishing around under my dress trying to hoik them up again which is not a good look!!

If I wear a suspender belt then I feel like I'm trussed up like a chicken and need to do that whole fumbling around thing in the middle of our sexy fun to get them off!!

I prefer hold ups but not at the expense of looking bedraggled - lol!!!

Does anyone have any pearls of wisdom???

Thanks xxx"

Always tear a couple of holes for your eyes........makes robbing banks so much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i buy expensive hold ups and they still drop down too so not ust you! i just bought a spender belt that had 6 belts to hold up the stocking so it keeps them up more so and feels beter one to.if u want more info email me

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle


" i buy expensive hold ups and they still drop down too so not ust you! i just bought a spender belt that had 6 belts to hold up the stocking so it keeps them up more so and feels beter one to.if u want more info email me "

six strap good advice, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the best holds ups i have found to stay in place are ann summers and they only £7 a pair, dont really like ann summers as a rule but i do buy their stockings and the fish nets last ages i get get about 7 or 8 wears out of them before they have had it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently bought a suspender belt in Evans as am a 28! They don't sell stockings in store! I have some hold ups from m&s but they don't seem to want to attach to the belt! Going to get some stockings from m&s and try again!

It's so hard finding things to fit the bigger person!

Oh and my hold ups always roll down! One leg worse than the other! Go figure! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the best holds ups i have found to stay in place are ann summers and they only £7 a pair, dont really like ann summers as a rule but i do buy their stockings and the fish nets last ages i get get about 7 or 8 wears out of them before they have had it"

My mind was so racing when I got to the 7 or 8 bit then I read "wears" lol teach me for having such a filthy mind pmsl xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"i wear hold ups with suspenders

i prefer hold ups but some outfits have suspenders so i wear holds up with them as its just comfier than stockings, i dont like the dips you get in stockings between the suspender clips i like the stocking tops to be straight which is where holds ups come into play"

Im exactly the same and have to hold myself from going up to some women and straightening their stockings if they're not straight

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I love wearing stockings but have such problems with them. If I wear hold ups then they fall down, I look like Norah Batty and end up fishing around under my dress trying to hoik them up again which is not a good look!!

If I wear a suspender belt then I feel like I'm trussed up like a chicken and need to do that whole fumbling around thing in the middle of our sexy fun to get them off!!

I prefer hold ups but not at the expense of looking bedraggled - lol!!!

Does anyone have any pearls of wisdom???

Thanks xxx"

corsets with six straps...exy and keeps the stockings up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wear hold ups with suspenders

i prefer hold ups but some outfits have suspenders so i wear holds up with them as its just comfier than stockings, i dont like the dips you get in stockings between the suspender clips i like the stocking tops to be straight which is where holds ups come into play

Im exactly the same and have to hold myself from going up to some women and straightening their stockings if they're not straight "

i know what you mean, drives me nuts when you see them and the inside of the thigh is 6 inches lower than the outside

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By *uriousc88Woman
over a year ago

Reading

False Eyelash glue around the sticky bits....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

search for a site called stockings direct dot co dot uk (no gaps and add the www bit. they have a fantastic selection

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Buy the wider tops for hold ups the narrow band ones dont hold and just roll down. I have used M&s ones and they have stayed well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the more fuller figured lady....and have fo say either debenhams or primark best hold ups....wore them over christmas period never once moved....think its trial n error...good luck x

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

easy tip for hold ups,wet the rubber bit at the top,they dont move at all then xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at one of your picture, the suspender strap seems to be quite long, have you though of getting the stockings in a longer size, or for a taller person. That should result in a shorter strap and less to sag and get caught.

Let us know what you did

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Hairspray on the hold-up top works if you have thinner legs but as most have found out they are not designed for those of us with larger thighs.

6 or 8 strap suspender belts work well with conventional stockings, but you need a bit of imagination to have fun with them still on ( more for the lovely look and practicality of wearing stockings than for the fun to be had )

To be fair, one of lifes pleasures is seeing a stocking being re-adjusted in public.......x

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

hold ups all the way for me,not me but a lady lol

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As a lap dancer we all wear hold up's or knee high but the best i have found are from M&S and John Lewis weirdly. Super sticky and never fall down when im dancing which is a massive bonus. Also seem to be able to wear them over and over without any issue. Only reason's i had to throw away was because there was a massive ladder.

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By *d4jane OP   Couple
over a year ago

HOVE

Thanks guys and gals, for all the help and advice. I will defo be trying out M&S, Primark and Ann Summers and see which ones work the best for me.

I'll also be trying the hairspray tactic and eyelash glue. I'll keep you posted!!

Hopefully there will be no requirement for my hubby's advice - cable tie them to your knickers!! lol!!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I have an 8 strap suspender belt from stockingshq and it is always appreciated. If anything they're seen as being kinkier and the guys love putting their fingers through the straps at times. Keep the stockings more even looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an 8 strap suspender belt from stockingshq and it is always appreciated. If anything they're seen as being kinkier and the guys love putting their fingers through the straps at times. Keep the stockings more even looking.

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I too get my suspenders with metal clasps from the same site and you're right ..... the guys love them, so much so one guy still has a suspender belt of mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i recently had that happen to me too...i think they look like a little spider with 8 legs! but they do me in place and dont move.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Looking at one of your picture, the suspender strap seems to be quite long, have you though of getting the stockings in a longer size, or for a taller person. That should result in a shorter strap and less to sag and get caught.

Let us know what you did "

on cheap suspender belts the adjustable bit often slips so the stocking gradually droop. this can be fixed by a couple of judicious stitches to hold it where you want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear Jasper Conran stockings or hold ups from Debenhams and they never fall down. I do find that if you fork out for a more expensive pair they will last ages. Its false economy to buy lots of pairs of cheap ones. I always make the most of the sales too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used "tit tape" to old them up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive just ordered some from a site ive not used before, will let you know when they arrive how they compare

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By *d4jane OP   Couple
over a year ago

HOVE


"I always wear Jasper Conran stockings or hold ups from Debenhams and they never fall down. I do find that if you fork out for a more expensive pair they will last ages. Its false economy to buy lots of pairs of cheap ones. I always make the most of the sales too "

Thanks, am beginning to think that you do get what you pay for.....I'm loving the thought of an 8 legged spider suspender belt (thanks for the suggestions guys) - sounds a bit burlesque to me, which I love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love wearing stockings but have such problems with them. If I wear hold ups then they fall down, I look like Norah Batty and end up fishing around under my dress trying to hoik them up again which is not a good look!!

If I wear a suspender belt then I feel like I'm trussed up like a chicken and need to do that whole fumbling around thing in the middle of our sexy fun to get them off!!

I prefer hold ups but not at the expense of looking bedraggled - lol!!!

Does anyone have any pearls of wisdom???

Thanks xxx"

Keep the belt on, they're pretty sexy, too!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I said id update when my stockings arrived. I used a site called uktights. I ordered three pairs all different and although only tried them on they seem to hold up really well. I ordered large, my fattest thigh part is 20" but i may have got a medium ok. I do like them to come high up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have to take a look at that site! I got some m&s ones on the weekend but they r very short!

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I always wear Jasper Conran stockings or hold ups from Debenhams and they never fall down. I do find that if you fork out for a more expensive pair they will last ages. Its false economy to buy lots of pairs of cheap ones. I always make the most of the sales too

Thanks, am beginning to think that you do get what you pay for.....I'm loving the thought of an 8 legged spider suspender belt (thanks for the suggestions guys) - sounds a bit burlesque to me, which I love! "

Im liking the idea of a 8 legged spider suspender belt, think i might have a look for one. Another burlesque lover here too

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

sells hosiery, funny old world innit!!!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I love wearing stockings but have such problems with them. If I wear hold ups then they fall down, I look like Norah Batty and end up fishing around under my dress trying to hoik them up again which is not a good look!!

Does anyone have any pearls of wisdom???

Thanks xxx"

If none of the suggestions work I will stand behind you and keep them up. And if you move suddenly I'll be the one to fish around under your dress. I'm all heart.

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By *rixie-51TV/TS
over a year ago

lancaster

Girls, if you're looking for good qualty stockings at reasonable prices try Stockings HQ. http://www.stockingshq.com I buy most of mine from there. Trixie

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

wife finds the only hold ups that work for her are M&S ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rub some soap on the rubber part of the hold ups they stick well then

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I always wear Jasper Conran stockings or hold ups from Debenhams and they never fall down. I do find that if you fork out for a more expensive pair they will last ages. Its false economy to buy lots of pairs of cheap ones. I always make the most of the sales too

Thanks, am beginning to think that you do get what you pay for.....I'm loving the thought of an 8 legged spider suspender belt (thanks for the suggestions guys) - sounds a bit burlesque to me, which I love!

Im liking the idea of a 8 legged spider suspender belt, think i might have a look for one. Another burlesque lover here too "

8 and more suspender belts on here

http://www.stockingshq.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love a girl in sexy holdups or stockings such a turn on mmm

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By *ailrulezCouple
over a year ago

stourbridge

we bought some Falke deep French lace hold-ups from stockings hq, not cheap but look sexy, stay up no matter what you do in them and last ages...misses has larger thighs and they fit great too

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'm sure that you could get them tattoed on.

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

being a lady with larger thighs I find the wider lacy top hold ups good.. look for ones with two sticky strips... for playing I use either Peacocks or Ethel Austins, not expensive but look so sexy.

I also attach suspenders to them for added effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love seeing ladies in hold-ups or stockings & suspenders but not so keen on the octopus versions, they look over-engineered - 8 one-inch wide pieces of elastic to hold up a bit of nylon is OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely love seeing ladies in hold-ups or stockings & suspenders but not so keen on the octopus versions, they look over-engineered - 8 one-inch wide pieces of elastic to hold up a bit of nylon is OTT."

Those over engineered ones do serve a purpose with real nylons. The clasps have to be metal as nylons slip through the plastic fasteners on other suspenders, and six or eight straps help keep the stockings up evenly, there is no or very little give in a nylon stocking. I hate to have baggy knees and wrinkled ankles so use them myself when wearing ff nylons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely love seeing ladies in hold-ups or stockings & suspenders but not so keen on the octopus versions, they look over-engineered - 8 one-inch wide pieces of elastic to hold up a bit of nylon is OTT.

Those over engineered ones do serve a purpose with real nylons. The clasps have to be metal as nylons slip through the plastic fasteners on other suspenders, and six or eight straps help keep the stockings up evenly, there is no or very little give in a nylon stocking. I hate to have baggy knees and wrinkled ankles so use them myself when wearing ff nylons. "

I can't contact you privately due to filters but wanted to say that I liked your new colourful avatar Laine, then had a peek at your profile and realised it was a onesie lol xx

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

Hi all i use tit tape to add hold to mine get it from fleabay 3 quid for 9 meter rolls extra sticky (its a bitch getting it off my hairy legs lol)

and they have 12 strap suspender belts keeps em where you want em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely love seeing ladies in hold-ups or stockings & suspenders but not so keen on the octopus versions, they look over-engineered - 8 one-inch wide pieces of elastic to hold up a bit of nylon is OTT.

Those over engineered ones do serve a purpose with real nylons. The clasps have to be metal as nylons slip through the plastic fasteners on other suspenders, and six or eight straps help keep the stockings up evenly, there is no or very little give in a nylon stocking. I hate to have baggy knees and wrinkled ankles so use them myself when wearing ff nylons.

I can't contact you privately due to filters but wanted to say that I liked your new colourful avatar Laine, then had a peek at your profile and realised it was a onesie lol xx"

Thank you, the onesie pic started as a laugh in the forums last night off another thread and carried over into the chatroom. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely love seeing ladies in hold-ups or stockings & suspenders but not so keen on the octopus versions, they look over-engineered - 8 one-inch wide pieces of elastic to hold up a bit of nylon is OTT.

Those over engineered ones do serve a purpose with real nylons. The clasps have to be metal as nylons slip through the plastic fasteners on other suspenders, and six or eight straps help keep the stockings up evenly, there is no or very little give in a nylon stocking. I hate to have baggy knees and wrinkled ankles so use them myself when wearing ff nylons. "

Yes, being a designer myself I appreciate the reason for them but from aesthetic point of view they are not nearly as sexy (my personal opinion of course).

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By *ed and BlackCouple
over a year ago

LONDON

I would try & six strap suspender belt or girdle from stockings HQ, the straps are small & will keep your stockings up, the problem with most suspenders belts is that the suspenders are very long & you only get four, so they won;t keep your stockings up!

Turning to hold-ups, M&S are good & stay up all night, but if you want to push the boat out get some wolford hold-ups, with them you will never have any problems, they will stay in the same place all night.

nats xxx

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Hey girls, thanks for letting me know about stockings hq Just spent a blooming fortune there Only money I suppose Regarding holdups, I find Matalans to be pretty good and only £2 a pair....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Hey girls, thanks for letting me know about stockings hq Just spent a blooming fortune there"

they have made some good money from us tonight - Ive just spent a fortune on there too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Jasper Conran hold ups and stockings, they're fab! Love the big lacy tops on the hold ups as well! But I discovered a seller on ebay recently and bought 3 pairs of great hold ups for a fiver!! Absolute bargain and they stay up amazingly and will be worn again and again! Not sure if I can give the seller's ID on here but happy to reply to PMs. I've been back and bought several more pairs now including suspender tights and seemed hold ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently bought a suspender belt in Evans as am a 28! They don't sell stockings in store! I have some hold ups from m&s but they don't seem to want to attach to the belt! Going to get some stockings from m&s and try again!

It's so hard finding things to fit the bigger person!

Oh and my hold ups always roll down! One leg worse than the other! Go figure! Lol"

Try Asda. They do really nice hold ups £4 for 2 pairs, in XL and they are perfect. Evans bahhhhhhhh...bloody rubbish they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the property for photos like this in Westyorks see badcock69 now

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