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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who pissed in your cornflakes this morning?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The thing about fab is that people can ask for anything they want. They don't necessarily need to fit that specification themselves.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Haven't you realised that a woman saying she doesn't want dick pics but blocks you and fucks guys with dick pics is trying to politely say it's you she doesn't like ?

It's nothing to do with double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

This is why we should avoid messaging people

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something. "

Oh they do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh when in a couples profile,(and am saying some not all)the woman can meet men and play with them with or without hubby there. Hubby not allowed to have hes fun with other women because wife dont like it.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The world is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be more gratitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, there's more men than women so they can be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should believe the world is fair after the age 18....

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"Makes me laugh when in a couples profile,(and am saying some not all)the woman can meet men and play with them with or without hubby there. Hubby not allowed to have hes fun with other women because wife dont like it. "

Why? If that's the boundaries they've set or that's what their fantasy is, he gets off on watching her or hearing about, what's funny about it? Different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Diddums

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

In the words of Annie, it's a hard knock life....

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Not had this problem and I don’t have pics up either. I send them with the message.

Work on your approach you come across as a little entitled dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 hours

16 minutes for me when I put a shift in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice moobs

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Isn’t life just a shithouse?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

'Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place'.

Oh dear.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"'Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place'.

Oh dear."

I think Charm School may have been closed the day he went.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Cor blimey, who’s bed did you get out of the wrong side?

WOW

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"At the end of the day, there's more men than women so they can be picky"

Picky ain't exclusive to ladies..

Everyone has the same choices.. yes please or no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree in a way, a lot of stuck up woman who post fanny pics but don’t reply and too quick to block without giving people a chance

But they do get hundreds of messages

just got to filter out so it’s what u looking for, there is a few nice people on here who nice to talk to just takes some finding

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm sure all the hypocritical, ungrateful women referred to in your diatribe will mend their ways now you've set them straight in such a non entitled fashion. Well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on girls, he's paid his fiver so you obviously owe him at least a hand job!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."

Fair point, men do get a hard deal on here...

Block is over used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
Ha yes some of this rings true but the way to stay focused on this site is to know women rule and that they can be hypocrites and theirs absolutely nothing you can do about it,for them theirs always someone else to move onto and they will do it at a drop of a hat, until you meet youre a stranger and you mean very little you're just words on a screen, so make an effort always or disappear into cyber oblivion.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"nice moobs "

Ouch

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Why do people scream about double standard, understand the logic behind it. You don't catch a cat by chasing it and not everybody is for you also you are not for everybody.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sure that the women you're expecting gratitude from will be utterly delighted by the scraps you're offering them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something.

Oh they do... "

Course we do

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."

Perhaps FAB isn't the place for you then. You're obviously not Happy when women don't do exactly what you want.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Cheers for reminding me I need to put shaving foam on the shopping list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."
look all people are equal but women are more equal than men and gratitude these days is a hard commodity to acquire, you're going to have to reevaluate your experience here otherwise you will always be frustrated with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I’ve felt like this sometimes but then people message me that I’m not attracted to and act the same way. Essentially it comes down to wether they fancy you or not. Simple really. It’s a hard lesson to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nice moobs "

Nice classy post.... body shaming at it’s finest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a huge double standard on here.

The things women can get away with that a guy can't is crazy!

I'm not really complaining, it's just the way it is.

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"nice moobs "

What!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Yes fab is tough for men.

Yes some people exhibit double standards.

Yes swinging only exists because the women want it and they control it.

and No there is absolutely nothing you can do about it except act with this knowledge or resolve to come back as a woman in the next life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like fab.

Any woman that isn't worth the work isn't worth fucking.

Keep them standards high ladies, I love a challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."

Bloody women with their own minds and agendas

I wouldn't contact them if I was you .

That'll teach them

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"nice moobs "

Pleasant

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"There's a huge double standard on here.

The things women can get away with that a guy can't is crazy!

I'm not really complaining, it's just the way it is."

That is life. Men look after women especially when it comes to safety not saying women can't look after themselves.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you. Site is rife with it mate. It's like the women have all the control or something.

Oh they do...

Course we do "
Just lead into a false sense of security

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I like dick pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's always handy seeing which ones you'd like both to suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like dick pics! "

I think your mailbox is now going to fill up ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are prettier than others

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I like dick pics!

I think your mailbox is now going to fill up ??"

Ooooops....

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are prettier than others"

I know that mines the prettiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start. "

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first....."

But there are women who aren't on Fab on there too because they're not into couples or other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....

But there are women who aren't on Fab on there too because they're not into couples or other women. "

Let’s agree to disagree

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Oh lala. And breathe.

I don't think anyone needs to show gratitude for being contacted..apart from normal respectful message. Just because one doesn't look like a model should they be extra grateful for being messaged?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."

Look at it another way the reason why they contradict themselves with their verification and then moaning about not getting the right people contact them is because the type of guy or couple they actually want is put off by the demands and doesn't want to meet them.

Concentrate on finding those who do want to meet you and ignore those with unrealistic demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to laugh sometimes at how bad the double standards are on fab, gotta love women that say they don't want dick pics and no profile pics = block.

Yet when you check their profile they have no pics or just plain pussy pics and the only people to fuck them on verifications only have dick pics or no pics...

Then you get the ones that complain about saying something more than "hey" then you end up writing an essay or a few paragraphs and all they can reply with is one worded answers or short talk... Come on! You were just bitching about saying something more than "hey" I put some effort into at least you could do the same....

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

Then you get the girls begging for attention "someone talk to me" then they ignore or block you."

Lol.

The best ones mentioned in the veris, glorifying how big the cock was.

Well said mate

You are going to burst some Fab egos here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes fab is tough for men.

Yes some people exhibit double standards.

Yes swinging only exists because the women want it and they control it.

and No there is absolutely nothing you can do about it except act with this knowledge or resolve to come back as a woman in the next life. "

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....

But there are women who aren't on Fab on there too because they're not into couples or other women.

Let’s agree to disagree "

I’m not on any of those sites. Just Fab. There’ll be others like me who like their niche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cor blimey, who’s bed did you get out of the wrong side?

WOW "

His own!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Talking about double standards... What about those men who will be disrespectful to a woman because she is on this site, while being on this site themselves? Who do they think they are disrespecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking about double standards... What about those men who will be disrespectful to a woman because she is on this site, while being on this site themselves? Who do they think they are disrespecting?"

Yeah but sex is for men

Everyone knows that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place."

What the actual fuck

Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?

You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

What the actual fuck

Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?

You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?

"

Nobody's shown any interest, that's why he's complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first....."

I am not on tinder, match nor pof....

I often have my face picture displayed on this site and I buy my own meals....

Any other incorrect assumptions you would care to make!

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....

I am not on tinder, match nor pof....

I often have my face picture displayed on this site and I buy my own meals....

Any other incorrect assumptions you would care to make!"

Same here, I want a Funtime not a date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cor blimey, who’s bed did you get out of the wrong side?

WOW

His own! "

With his attitude that fat women should show some gratitude for any man showing some interest in them I can't see him getting out of anyone else's bed anytime soon.

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"Cor blimey, who’s bed did you get out of the wrong side?

WOW "

I’m guessing his own hence that outburst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't you realised that a woman saying she doesn't want dick pics but blocks you and fucks guys with dick pics is trying to politely say it's you she doesn't like ?

It's nothing to do with double standards."

How do you know those guys had a dick pic at the time the woman fucked the guy. People do change their profile pics and the veri will always display the current profile pic of the person and not the pic they had at the time they left the veri or at the time of the meet.

....and most women do not necessarily complain about dick pics on profiles they complain about being contacted with dick pics attached to the message instead of a face pic. Completely different thing all together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fab I don't think it says anyway about being fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hole ... Digging ... Stop ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry....but fat girls should be grateful someone showed an interest in them?

Aren't you going to be fending the ladies off with a bat now.

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

fml im dying

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first....."
Yeah kind of awkward messaging a woman on here who you rejected on Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

What the actual fuck

Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?

You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?

"

Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.

It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...

I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Then you get the...

People who have preferences and assert their rights to live as they wish to - how dare they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

What the actual fuck

Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?

You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?

Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.

It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...

I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes."

Please save your breath..... all these women want gym fit men and some have never been to the gym....

The secret to being successful on Fab is offering cake.... every woman in the forums loves cake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first.....

I am not on tinder, match nor pof....

I often have my face picture displayed on this site and I buy my own meals....

Any other incorrect assumptions you would care to make!"

Here have a snickers....

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over a year ago

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first..... Yeah kind of awkward messaging a woman on here who you rejected on Tinder. "

In case the "how to clean up on Fab" instructional at the top of the thread didn't help you don't worry I've got the perfect message for your situation taken straight from the op's playbook.

Hi

It's your lucky day! I've decided to message you. We spoke on tinder but it didn't work out because you didn't look as attractive in face pics. You'll be pleased to know I've reconsidered and will allow you to hop aboard this hunk train and show your gratitude for the message.

You're welcome

insert name

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I don't get Fab sometimes, there are so many blokes moaning they don't get anywhere when it seems they're mainly aiming for single women, is that even swinging?

If I were a single guy and wanted casual encounters with single women I'd be on tinder, yes it's still a sausage fest but it's probably a much better male/female split and there has to be some kind of attraction before you waste any time writing a message. If you'd still like the opportunity to play with couples stay on Fab too but it just seems to me that unless you're a 6pack clad adonis you're stacking the odds against yourself before you even start.

The same women on Fab are on tinder , match , pof.....

The only difference is on other websites you can see their face pics on their profiles and you have to buy them a meal first..... Yeah kind of awkward messaging a woman on here who you rejected on Tinder.

In case the "how to clean up on Fab" instructional at the top of the thread didn't help you don't worry I've got the perfect message for your situation taken straight from the op's playbook.

Hi

It's your lucky day! I've decided to message you. We spoke on tinder but it didn't work out because you didn't look as attractive in face pics. You'll be pleased to know I've reconsidered and will allow you to hop aboard this hunk train and show your gratitude for the message.

You're welcome

insert name"
Thanks, I appreciate it

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yep. Double standards again. Doesn't effect me. No woman to keep me in check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

What the actual fuck

Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?

You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?

Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.

It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...

I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes.

Please save your breath..... all these women want gym fit men and some have never been to the gym....

The secret to being successful on Fab is offering cake.... every woman in the forums loves cake..."

Cock... It's spelt, cock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then you get the girls that complain they're too big or fat and no one shows any interest in them, yet when a stocky white bloke talks to them showing some interest ... "Sorry you're to fat not interested" ...... Again! They contradict themselves ... Those girls should show some gratitude that someone showed an interest in them in the first place.

What the actual fuck

Do you show any gratitude when a woman shows interest in you?

You're hardly slim so you should show some gratitude would you not agree?

Of course I show gratitude when I get a message off a woman I tend to thank them for showing interest and if we talk a bit I give her the utmost respect because I'm honest and genuine. If things don't go well and we don't have a interest anymore I apologise and say thank you for your time.

It's just a shame honesty gets you nowhere these days. . And those women that have body shamed on here... Ok fair enough I'm a big lad I've heard it all my life but I'm doing something about It ... I've went from 23 stone to 16 ...

I don't body shame others because I know first hand how it feels.. so Act your ages and not your shoe sizes.

Please save your breath..... all these women want gym fit men and some have never been to the gym....

The secret to being successful on Fab is offering cake.... every woman in the forums loves cake...

Cock... It's spelt, cock!! "

No way , I heard women hate cock pics....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cor blimey, who’s bed did you get out of the wrong side?

WOW "

Nobody's is my guess!

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

If you haven't already figured out this site yet, it's all full of double standards and LIES!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait til your second week on here OP.... it gets better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wait til your second week on here OP.... it gets better! "

How come then? I've been on and off here for 6 months it hasn't got better one bit .... I do have to say that fab forums have been more enjoyable in terms of conversation...Being able to talk to others on here it's gave me a little more hope.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Theres lots of time wasters and strange folk on this site, just like in real life ha ha !!!!!!

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