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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This isn't a moan or a rant it's a question.

Many people on there profiles ask you to send a face picture and make sure you put effort into your message.

Then you read there profile no pictures, and literally saying I'll fill this is later.

Is this fair. Surely like for like I only put effort into messages where people have bothered them selves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to contact them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and put effort in. All tho sometimes it's just hey fancy a chat

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I know right. It makes me laugh howmnay dictate but then out no effort in themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to contact them..."

Yes I'm not moaning I'm asking people opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think fairness comes into it.

Nobody is obliged to respond to you or vice versa, make your own rules by all means but don't expect everyone else to conform to them.

The demographics on this site are not in your favour. You might have to put some effort into standing our from the crowd, equally you're free to set your own standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think fairness comes into it.

Nobody is obliged to respond to you or vice versa, make your own rules by all means but don't expect everyone else to conform to them.

The demographics on this site are not in your favour. You might have to put some effort into standing our from the crowd, equally you're free to set your own standards. "

I'm not on about people responding .

Im on about people literally putting rules on there profile and not abiding by them them selves

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Its horses for courses. I have turned down meets with women because they havent wanted to send a picture. Exchange of messages was OK and no issues, but I dont do blind date I at least know I like the look of them in a picture before I make the effort to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its horses for courses. I have turned down meets with women because they havent wanted to send a picture. Exchange of messages was OK and no issues, but I dont do blind date I at least know I like the look of them in a picture before I make the effort to meet them."

Yes I know right I've had the same . They like I have a 20 veris and I'm like yes but it don't tell me what your like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think fairness comes into it.

Nobody is obliged to respond to you or vice versa, make your own rules by all means but don't expect everyone else to conform to them.

The demographics on this site are not in your favour. You might have to put some effort into standing our from the crowd, equally you're free to set your own standards.

I'm not on about people responding .

Im on about people literally putting rules on there profile and not abiding by them them selves "

The principle's the same.

People are free set their own rules and change them whenever they feel like it, however hypocritical that might seem to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think fairness comes into it.

Nobody is obliged to respond to you or vice versa, make your own rules by all means but don't expect everyone else to conform to them.

The demographics on this site are not in your favour. You might have to put some effort into standing our from the crowd, equally you're free to set your own standards.

I'm not on about people responding .

Im on about people literally putting rules on there profile and not abiding by them them selves

The principle's the same.

People are free set their own rules and change them whenever they feel like it, however hypocritical that might seem to you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I've just posted something similar to this.. i just hate the double standards on here.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Its horses for courses. I have turned down meets with women because they havent wanted to send a picture. Exchange of messages was OK and no issues, but I dont do blind date I at least know I like the look of them in a picture before I make the effort to meet them."

I had this yesterday - they'd viewed my profile and pics, we exchanged a few messages, then she said sorry, no photos...

....when I said I don't usually meet without seeing a pic first, but asked for a description, just got a 'Bye'...

Theirs was a long-standing but unverified profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its horses for courses. I have turned down meets with women because they havent wanted to send a picture. Exchange of messages was OK and no issues, but I dont do blind date I at least know I like the look of them in a picture before I make the effort to meet them.

I had this yesterday - they'd viewed my profile and pics, we exchanged a few messages, then she said sorry, no photos...

....when I said I don't usually meet without seeing a pic first, but asked for a description, just got a 'Bye'...

Theirs was a long-standing but unverified profile..."

Probably a guy

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"This isn't a moan or a rant it's a question.

Many people on there profiles ask you to send a face picture and make sure you put effort into your message.

Then you read there profile no pictures, and literally saying I'll fill this is later.

Is this fair. Surely like for like I only put effort into messages where people have bothered them selves "

Why worry if you don't like someone's profile just don't mail them that seems fair to me.

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By *rHitTheSpotMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Like

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