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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() Sadly, people don't find 'old' people attractive - and that includes old people | |||
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"Yes its difficult as my age want much younger and younger dont want my age, Sa really as they choose younger and have the none turn up members" Members who don’t turn up to meets are of all ages. Both of my no shows were older men. | |||
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"Age is just a number" Completely agree, some people act older than they are and some act younger it’s all how you feel | |||
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"The age thing is a fine line, how young is too young (do we want to meet somebody who is same age as our kids for example, would we have anything in common) equally don't want to meet anybody who is around my parents age. Could leave it at the default 18-99 but that smacks of desperation. At the end of the day we put the age range on as a guide line." The problem with that is that it also stops anyone even slightly outside the range from messaging you. | |||
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"The age thing is a fine line, how young is too young (do we want to meet somebody who is same age as our kids for example, would we have anything in common) equally don't want to meet anybody who is around my parents age. Could leave it at the default 18-99 but that smacks of desperation. At the end of the day we put the age range on as a guide line. The problem with that is that it also stops anyone even slightly outside the range from messaging you." So? If they are interested in you, they will contact you. If they aren’t, they won’t. Too many people are worried about the preferences and restrictions of people who aren’t interested in them, focus on the ones who are. ![]() | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() Ha Ha when you get to my age all the women are younger ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() Exactly lol! ![]() | |||
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"I find it ironic that someone who is 40 will meet anyone 18 to 45 and expect someone who is 18 to meet someone (specifically them) who is 22 years older. Blah Blah preferences...." Yes exactly. One we saw the guy was 46 and partner 36. Age range was 18-45. So in theory guy could be meeting someone 28 years younger but wouldn’t entertain someone his own age. | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() At 35 I’d probably go ten years either side of my own age (although that’s not set in stone). My preference would be for my age, or younger. Relatively few 20 somethings on Fab, however. | |||
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"Try a bit older for a change..we won't bite.. most of us haven't got any teeth left" Hahahaha! | |||
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"Try a bit older for a change..we won't bite.. most of us haven't got any teeth left Hahahaha!" I wonder what it’s like getting a BJ from someone with no teeth... ![]() | |||
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"Try a bit older for a change..we won't bite.. most of us haven't got any teeth left Hahahaha! I wonder what it’s like getting a BJ from someone with no teeth... ![]() Itsh vewy vewy shloppy | |||
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"Not me! ![]() ![]() Glad to see I make the grade (in age terms at least ![]() | |||
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"Younger guys tend to be so fit it intimidates me. I love nothing more than a Dad bod!! I have met younger but I tend to find they are fuck and gos or they want more. No in between. Older guys tend to know what they want and they tend to like regular meets and treat nice and respectfully. Ofcourse I am generalizing but that's just from experiences since I have been on and off fab. " Always good to hear ![]() | |||
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"Younger guys tend to be so fit it intimidates me. I love nothing more than a Dad bod!! I have met younger but I tend to find they are fuck and gos or they want more. No in between. Older guys tend to know what they want and they tend to like regular meets and treat nice and respectfully. Ofcourse I am generalizing but that's just from experiences since I have been on and off fab. " I love hearing about others experiences and how different they can be! I don’t rule out guys my own age when it comes to dating, but on here I’m not dating and want something different, although I still do have a preference for older men! I’ve had the fuck and go type, but they’ve been older men, and I’ve had the not so respectful older men also but it doesn’t put me off. They have all been on other sites as I haven’t successfully met from Fab yet. Just goes to show no one experience will be the same! | |||
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"Younger guys tend to be so fit it intimidates me. I love nothing more than a Dad bod!! I have met younger but I tend to find they are fuck and gos or they want more. No in between. Older guys tend to know what they want and they tend to like regular meets and treat nice and respectfully. Ofcourse I am generalizing but that's just from experiences since I have been on and off fab. I love hearing about others experiences and how different they can be! I don’t rule out guys my own age when it comes to dating, but on here I’m not dating and want something different, although I still do have a preference for older men! I’ve had the fuck and go type, but they’ve been older men, and I’ve had the not so respectful older men also but it doesn’t put me off. They have all been on other sites as I haven’t successfully met from Fab yet. Just goes to show no one experience will be the same! " Bring on the Xmas trip to London then... ![]() | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() With age difference we have already its not much we can go either side ![]() | |||
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" Sadly, people don't find 'old' people attractive - and that includes old people " . Depends upon ones' conception of "old" really | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() ![]() I'd love to meet someone exactly your age Mrs iow......infact I'd love to meet you ![]() | |||
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"We have more issues with people over her young age to be honest" How young is she?! | |||
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"It's very very rare I meet younger than me. I always prefer older. ![]() . Me too... but most older than me are already dead lol | |||
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"I have already taken into account the men who have knocked a couple of years off and worded my preferred age range accordingly, alas my true age is 44 lol" That’s not fair on those of us who give our real ages lol xxx | |||
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"Try being a young looking 42 year old (real age) man on here. ![]() I’m real age and profile age 45. It never even occurred to me when I set up my profile to lie. As of next year, I’ll go beyond the 45 mark and therefore be excluded from some people’s search criteria. I was in a club last month and a couple were shocked that I was 45. She guessed mid thirties and he reckoned I looked early thirties. Yes of course I’m person people try to be kind with their guesses but the majority of people I meet compliment my genes. | |||
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"when I was in my late teens and early twenties, and the internet was still in its infancy, I missed out on all this online swinging/dogging stuff Now I’m in my early 40s it turns out no ones interested hahahahahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Try being 65 hahaha | |||
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"Try being a young looking 42 year old (real age) man on here. ![]() ![]() You have an age limit of 60. A woman aged 62 could look much younger and basically say similar about your profile as she wouldn’t be able to message you. It’s just preferences. Everyone has them. It may not be to do with “looking” a certain age, and could just be they don’t want to meet anyone over a certain limit, or maybe their parents are near that age so won’t want to meet someone of their parents age. | |||
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"Try being a young looking 42 year old (real age) man on here. ![]() A lot of people say they look younger than their age. Whether they do or not is a different story. One person may think you look younger, another may thing you look your age, another may think you look older. None are essentially 100% correct as everyone has a different opinion. There’s plenty of men who have a lower age limit of 30, some flexible some not, for a multitude of reasons, could be children. Could be that they don’t think us under 30s are mature enough. I don’t tend to worry about those who aren’t interested in me if I’m out of their age range. Surely it’s better to focus on who you can message. | |||
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"I've missed out on contacting so many people as I'm too old. Wish there was a introduction email that gives the receiver a look and delete option. It's not like my mail box has anything in it ever" But if you’re too old for them, you’re too old for them. Why would you want to contact someone who isn’t interested in you? For example if I was interested in you I wouldn’t be able to contact you as I’m too young, no problem, I’d move on. So it works both ways really. A lot on here’s have age filters themselves, some strict some not, yet don’t respect the fact others have them too. We like what we like at the end of the day. ![]() | |||
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"I've missed out on contacting so many people as I'm too old. Wish there was a introduction email that gives the receiver a look and delete option. It's not like my mail box has anything in it ever" You haven’t ‘missed out’, you’re too old for them so even if they had their filters off, there’s a very good chance it wouldn’t matter, and you’d still be too old for them? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Anyone else noticed that generally people will go a fair bit younger, us included, but not much older? Just saw one couple where the oldest partner was 46 (so assume 49) but wouldn’t meet anyone over 45. Obviously it’s a preference but gives us a laugh that some of us are delusional enough to think people 15 years younger would be interested in us yet we wouldn’t be interested in anyone over 5 years older. It seems very common and yes we’re delusional too. Suppose we all think we look good for our age ![]() ![]() ![]() Get on the ferry then ![]() | |||
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"You may think it's delusional but men 15 and more years younger than me are interested in me. My current regular partners are 32 and 36- the first I've been seeing for almost two years, the second for over 8 years. Every man I've met from here has been younger than me, and some were much younger than me. It's not delusional at all." It’s probably more delusional for men and couples. Women on Fab are in huge demand from all ages. Some 25 year old guys will happily have sex with a 60 year old woman because hey it’s sex and if the woman is available they’re up for it. We could easily meet 21 to 70 year old guys for MFM as a couple because L is female and can pull guys on here, like all females. We would however struggle to get a meet with a 35 or even 40 year old couple. We could never meet a female. | |||
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"You may think it's delusional but men 15 and more years younger than me are interested in me. My current regular partners are 32 and 36- the first I've been seeing for almost two years, the second for over 8 years. Every man I've met from here has been younger than me, and some were much younger than me. It's not delusional at all. It’s probably more delusional for men and couples. Women on Fab are in huge demand from all ages. Some 25 year old guys will happily have sex with a 60 year old woman because hey it’s sex and if the woman is available they’re up for it. We could easily meet 21 to 70 year old guys for MFM as a couple because L is female and can pull guys on here, like all females. We would however struggle to get a meet with a 35 or even 40 year old couple. We could never meet a female. " I find it somewhat difficult to imagine that any vaguely normal 25yo man would have sex with a 60yo woman. I’m 35, and I certainly can’t imagine having sex with someone aged 60 (my mum’s age.... ![]() | |||
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"You may think it's delusional but men 15 and more years younger than me are interested in me. My current regular partners are 32 and 36- the first I've been seeing for almost two years, the second for over 8 years. Every man I've met from here has been younger than me, and some were much younger than me. It's not delusional at all. It’s probably more delusional for men and couples. Women on Fab are in huge demand from all ages. Some 25 year old guys will happily have sex with a 60 year old woman because hey it’s sex and if the woman is available they’re up for it. We could easily meet 21 to 70 year old guys for MFM as a couple because L is female and can pull guys on here, like all females. We would however struggle to get a meet with a 35 or even 40 year old couple. We could never meet a female. I find it somewhat difficult to imagine that any vaguely normal 25yo man would have sex with a 60yo woman. I’m 35, and I certainly can’t imagine having sex with someone aged 60 (my mum’s age.... ![]() We didn’t mean a normal guy. We meant a single guy from Fab ![]() | |||
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