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19 ? is it too young ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hello there everyone, ive come on here looking for an older woman for some fun, im a very very horny lad, but is 19 just too young for everyone on here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19's old for a pair of socks, but a bit young for a wannabe stud.

No doubt you'll appeal to some though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how mature ya are really

I started on the swinging scene when I was 17 and it's been pretty good to me

Good luck your age won't be for everyone though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its to young for me, but then im only one woman so on the grand scale of things my opinion counts for sod all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, depends how old you act. I have met some pretty imature 50 year olds.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"hello there everyone, ive come on here looking for an older woman for some fun, im a very very horny lad, but is 19 just too young for everyone on here xxx"

let me point out something to you....

no. of words in this "whinge"..... 32

no. of words in your profile ..... 26

hear is my rule of thumb when it comes to help......

if you spend more words on "whinge" than you are on "profile" (which is suppose to be your shop window to the world), you are not doing a great job to help yourself.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people. As long as you have the right attitude and you use the site as best as you can...good profile, pics etc then theres no reason why you should struggle, you may be someones cup of tea but not someone elses. Nobody can appeal to everybody though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people. "

and because you're female not male

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont take this the wrong way, but in my opinion your username sounds a bit iffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hello there everyone, ive come on here looking for an older woman for some fun, im a very very horny lad, but is 19 just too young for everyone on here xxx

let me point out something to you....

no. of words in this "whinge"..... 32

no. of words in your profile ..... 26

hear is my rule of thumb when it comes to help......

if you spend more words on "whinge" than you are on "profile" (which is suppose to be your shop window to the world), you are not doing a great job to help yourself..... "

Dont really see his post as a whinge Fabio, more a question. He didnt say "I want" "I cant get". He said "is 19 just too young for everyone on here", a question.....

I do get concerned that new forum posters can be put off rapidly by being rather judgemental and I think we are all guilty of that at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people.

and because you're female not male "

Yes and that, but that still doesnt mean he cant do well on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people.

and because you're female not male

Yes and that, but that still doesnt mean he cant do well on here."

indeed he could

if he prizes himself away from cam wanking and meets some people in 'real life'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people.

and because you're female not male

Yes and that, but that still doesnt mean he cant do well on here.

indeed he could

if he prizes himself away from cam wanking and meets some people in 'real life' "

Ha! Yep! We can only give him our opinions.....Its up to him what he wants to do on here at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people.

and because you're female not male

Yes and that, but that still doesnt mean he cant do well on here.

indeed he could

if he prizes himself away from cam wanking and meets some people in 'real life' "

This guy is 19, a young man, and he is asking a question in the forums, because he is "new" to the scene which to be honest, is quite a brave thing to do. So he Cam wanks, an awful lot of people do (must get me a webcam ) and some ladies get off on that, just because they dont use the forums, and tell everyone how much they love it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist.

Starting to feel sorry for the guy, he asked a question, quite a simple question, and there has been some good advice, extending his profile etc, but calling him a "cam wanker" and a "whinger" when all he did was ask a question as to whether a 19 year is too young for the site, is a bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 100 people respond, you'll get 100 differing points of _iew.

Personally, you are younger than all my kids and I can't help feeling a little sad when I see the very young here seeking people probably older than their parents.

So for me, yes, 19 would be too young, but there are a lot of ladies that like younger men, so just make sure you are contacting those that are looking for you.

If you really want to stand out, add a body shot, pad out your profile with some information about what you're looking for as at the moment you wont stand a cat in hells chance of attracting anyone with a blank profile.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people.

and because you're female not male

Yes and that, but that still doesnt mean he cant do well on here.

indeed he could

if he prizes himself away from cam wanking and meets some people in 'real life'

This guy is 19, a young man, and he is asking a question in the forums, because he is "new" to the scene which to be honest, is quite a brave thing to do. So he Cam wanks, an awful lot of people do (must get me a webcam ) and some ladies get off on that, just because they dont use the forums, and tell everyone how much they love it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist.

Starting to feel sorry for the guy, he asked a question, quite a simple question, and there has been some good advice, extending his profile etc, but calling him a "cam wanker" and a "whinger" when all he did was ask a question as to whether a 19 year is too young for the site, is a bit much"

i'm not calling him for anything

his profile states that he is into camming and both his veri's suggest that is an 'interest' of his

by asking the question he did, he obviously has some doubts as to whether people will consider him too young.

as many have said, for some he willbe, for others he won't

but if it's meets he wants, then use the cam to veri by all means but then follow it through with a meet.

it's easy to sit in an anonymous room and titilate, it's something else to get up, get prepared and go to meet someone.

for anyone 'unseasoned' to this scene that takes some guts, so for a 19 year old to do it, for me, would demonstrate some maturity and intention in his actions - which is what the lady before me had suggested was the position in her case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site when i was 18 and had no problem getting along and meeting people but thats probably because im seen as being mature for my age by most people.

and because you're female not male

Yes and that, but that still doesnt mean he cant do well on here.

indeed he could

if he prizes himself away from cam wanking and meets some people in 'real life'

This guy is 19, a young man, and he is asking a question in the forums, because he is "new" to the scene which to be honest, is quite a brave thing to do. So he Cam wanks, an awful lot of people do (must get me a webcam ) and some ladies get off on that, just because they dont use the forums, and tell everyone how much they love it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist.

Starting to feel sorry for the guy, he asked a question, quite a simple question, and there has been some good advice, extending his profile etc, but calling him a "cam wanker" and a "whinger" when all he did was ask a question as to whether a 19 year is too young for the site, is a bit much

i'm not calling him for anything

his profile states that he is into camming and both his veri's suggest that is an 'interest' of his

by asking the question he did, he obviously has some doubts as to whether people will consider him too young.

as many have said, for some he willbe, for others he won't

but if it's meets he wants, then use the cam to veri by all means but then follow it through with a meet.

it's easy to sit in an anonymous room and titilate, it's something else to get up, get prepared and go to meet someone.

for anyone 'unseasoned' to this scene that takes some guts, so for a 19 year old to do it, for me, would demonstrate some maturity and intention in his actions - which is what the lady before me had suggested was the position in her case "

My mistake then, i read your post

"if he prizes himself away from cam wanking and meets some people in 'real life'"

As somewhat derogatory the terms "prises (z)" and 'real life' led me to that conclusion, I was mistaken.

Camming is many peoples introduction to the scene in the 21st century and initially will be one of the only ways that people can earn a verification (which some site users set a lot of store by). Also chatrooms (and therefore camming) allow a conversation that expands upon their profile, and perhaps allow for further editing of said profile as conversations in a chat room "teach" newbies the ways of the scene.

I know of a number of people that have arranged meets through chat rooms and I am sure they have "cam wanked" to some extent, however I am not questioning the OPs behaviour or profile, merely taking his question on merit.

Like Soapy, I started young in this "scene", and back in those grey and misted days (of booklet sized contact magazines), getting positive advice from the people I met, or spoke to on the phone, really helped me moderate my profile, and behaviour. Never cured me of posting a cock pic though, although I now do it ironically....

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"hello there everyone, ive come on here looking for an older woman for some fun, im a very very horny lad, but is 19 just too young for everyone on here xxx"
yes

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Fabio, more a question. He didnt say "I want" "I cant get". He said "is 19 just too young for everyone on here", a question.....

I do get concerned that new forum posters can be put off rapidly by being rather judgemental and I think we are all guilty of that at times"

that may be the case, i think the point still stands..... age is still too "easy" an excuse to lean on.. is he really doing all he can really do to help himself?

a million people are going to give him a million different answers... but first of all he has to try and help himself the best that he can.... is he doing that at the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabio, more a question. He didnt say "I want" "I cant get". He said "is 19 just too young for everyone on here", a question.....

I do get concerned that new forum posters can be put off rapidly by being rather judgemental and I think we are all guilty of that at times

that may be the case, i think the point still stands..... age is still too "easy" an excuse to lean on.. is he really doing all he can really do to help himself?

a million people are going to give him a million different answers... but first of all he has to try and help himself the best that he can.... is he doing that at the moment? "

Well he is asking a question "Is 19 to young", so yes, I think he is. Partly because he is trying to get information from "experienced" people, regarding whether they feel he is too young or not. Perhaps once he has a concensus on this question he may ask "so what can I do to make my chances better", in which case people would/could comment on his profile or approach.

As I say, he is a young guy, maybe this is his first time on a swinging site, and before he "wastes" (for a given value, yes I know there are no gurantees etc.)a lot of time, building a profile and introducing himself to the community, he is seeing whether the community "wants" him. I actually find his question quite mature, and thoughtful. Do I think he is too young? I dont know, it depends on his circumstances, where he lives, and what he wants from this. But the least we can do as an "experienced" community is answer his question (or ignore his post if we dont have an opinion on his question).

And I dont think he was making an excuses, but maybe you read more into his post than I do? For me it was a simple question, posted by someone new to the scene, trying to garner information that will dictate whether he continues in the scene or goes back to more "traditional" methods of pursuing sexual encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never cured me of posting a cock pic though, although I now do it ironically...."

you only did that to make me look didn't ya ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never cured me of posting a cock pic though, although I now do it ironically....

you only did that to make me look didn't ya ? "

Works every time

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I never understand what drives a teen (cus thats what he is) to join this site.

To swing, IMHO, you need:

A very thick skin

The ability to disassociate real life and swinging

The ability to keep emotion out of meets

Life experience

Sexual experience

The ability to interact with all walks of life and all ages

The ability to talk crap at socials and with meets

The ability to be witty/charming/sexy and interesting all at the same time

The ability to perform on demand

(Ok this is a bit tongue in cheek but no less true)

I personally think that 18-25 year olds should be out, going to uni, getting d*unk, hanging about with their mates, swilling beer and eating pizza, leaving their clothes on their bedroom floors and making their mothers roll their eyes and making their fathers tut tut at every second sentence.

I do that with my teenager........ and I would be so disappointed if he wanted to come onto a swinging site thinking it was an easy way to get an older woman to shag him, in fact, I'd box his bloody ears.

But, my opinion aside, and getting back to the original question:

Do I think 19 is too young to be on a swinging site........

Hell YES

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

my mate said his rule of thumb for swingers was and it dont matter if they are male or female is you sit them on a toilet and if there legs dangle then they are too young lol

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding


"I never understand what drives a teen (cus thats what he is) to join this site.

To swing, IMHO, you need:

A very thick skin

The ability to disassociate real life and swinging

The ability to keep emotion out of meets

Life experience

Sexual experience

The ability to interact with all walks of life and all ages

The ability to talk crap at socials and with meets

The ability to be witty/charming/sexy and interesting all at the same time

The ability to perform on demand

(Ok this is a bit tongue in cheek but no less true)

I personally think that 18-25 year olds should be out, going to uni, getting d*unk, hanging about with their mates, swilling beer and eating pizza, leaving their clothes on their bedroom floors and making their mothers roll their eyes and making their fathers tut tut at every second sentence.

I do that with my teenager........ and I would be so disappointed if he wanted to come onto a swinging site thinking it was an easy way to get an older woman to shag him, in fact, I'd box his bloody ears.

But, my opinion aside, and getting back to the original question:

Do I think 19 is too young to be on a swinging site........

Hell YES

"

plus 2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough this is your opinion and i completely respect that. Im 19 and i still go out with my mates, get d*unk and just act like a typical teenager but that doesnt mean i cant have my own fun on a swinging site. I dont allow myself to get swallowed up in the whole swinging scene its just something i do often as its something that really interests me and i enjoy doing. Who's to say because im only 19 i cant be thick skinned and keep my emotions out of meets etc because in my opinion the things you listed are things i have managed to do. I dont want this to come across as im jumping down anyones throat as your all entitled to your opinion and im here giving mine that people my age can manage just fine in the swinging scene whilst still being a normal teenager and going out with friends and having a laugh.

Obviously the OP is after different things to me on this site and may not be able to hack it on here for a while who knows but thats not to say all teens should be tarnished with the same brush.

*sits and waits for the backlash* lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough this is your opinion and i completely respect that. Im 19 and i still go out with my mates, get d*unk and just act like a typical teenager but that doesnt mean i cant have my own fun on a swinging site. I dont allow myself to get swallowed up in the whole swinging scene its just something i do often as its something that really interests me and i enjoy doing. Who's to say because im only 19 i cant be thick skinned and keep my emotions out of meets etc because in my opinion the things you listed are things i have managed to do. I dont want this to come across as im jumping down anyones throat as your all entitled to your opinion and im here giving mine that people my age can manage just fine in the swinging scene whilst still being a normal teenager and going out with friends and having a laugh.

Obviously the OP is after different things to me on this site and may not be able to hack it on here for a while who knows but thats not to say all teens should be tarnished with the same brush.

*sits and waits for the backlash* lol!"

no backlash from me - just a thank you

having just looked at some of the men on your veri list, i now have my wanks sorted for the evening

it's a good job i'm not 19 and female - i'd need a mattress strappin to me back i think !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said juicyass im 24 from walsall iv been swinging for 5 years its a great scene good to see young people on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough this is your opinion and i completely respect that. Im 19 and i still go out with my mates, get d*unk and just act like a typical teenager but that doesnt mean i cant have my own fun on a swinging site. I dont allow myself to get swallowed up in the whole swinging scene its just something i do often as its something that really interests me and i enjoy doing. Who's to say because im only 19 i cant be thick skinned and keep my emotions out of meets etc because in my opinion the things you listed are things i have managed to do. I dont want this to come across as im jumping down anyones throat as your all entitled to your opinion and im here giving mine that people my age can manage just fine in the swinging scene whilst still being a normal teenager and going out with friends and having a laugh.

Obviously the OP is after different things to me on this site and may not be able to hack it on here for a while who knows but thats not to say all teens should be tarnished with the same brush.

*sits and waits for the backlash* lol!

no backlash from me - just a thank you

having just looked at some of the men on your veri list, i now have my wanks sorted for the evening

it's a good job i'm not 19 and female - i'd need a mattress strappin to me back i think !"

hahaha! your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was new year juicyass ? What you upto ? X

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No... enjoy what the site brings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough this is your opinion and i completely respect that. Im 19 and i still go out with my mates, get d*unk and just act like a typical teenager but that doesnt mean i cant have my own fun on a swinging site. I dont allow myself to get swallowed up in the whole swinging scene its just something i do often as its something that really interests me and i enjoy doing. Who's to say because im only 19 i cant be thick skinned and keep my emotions out of meets etc because in my opinion the things you listed are things i have managed to do. I dont want this to come across as im jumping down anyones throat as your all entitled to your opinion and im here giving mine that people my age can manage just fine in the swinging scene whilst still being a normal teenager and going out with friends and having a laugh.

Obviously the OP is after different things to me on this site and may not be able to hack it on here for a while who knows but thats not to say all teens should be tarnished with the same brush.

*sits and waits for the backlash* lol!"

Well said.

Find any thread on this subject and you will probably find MadChick stating how she thinks teens should behave (not sure what happens if they think clubbing and boozing isn't for them) and why they are not suited to the swinging scene. I can fully understand her personal preference although I do find her near vitriolic youngsters have no place in swinging stance a little extreme...

Many teens could not hack it here, many misguidedly think it;s a place for an easy shag. Neither of those qualities are by any stretch of the imagintaion exclusive to youngsters though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough this is your opinion and i completely respect that. Im 19 and i still go out with my mates, get d*unk and just act like a typical teenager but that doesnt mean i cant have my own fun on a swinging site. I dont allow myself to get swallowed up in the whole swinging scene its just something i do often as its something that really interests me and i enjoy doing. Who's to say because im only 19 i cant be thick skinned and keep my emotions out of meets etc because in my opinion the things you listed are things i have managed to do. I dont want this to come across as im jumping down anyones throat as your all entitled to your opinion and im here giving mine that people my age can manage just fine in the swinging scene whilst still being a normal teenager and going out with friends and having a laugh.

Obviously the OP is after different things to me on this site and may not be able to hack it on here for a while who knows but thats not to say all teens should be tarnished with the same brush.

*sits and waits for the backlash* lol!

no backlash from me - just a thank you

having just looked at some of the men on your veri list, i now have my wanks sorted for the evening

it's a good job i'm not 19 and female - i'd need a mattress strappin to me back i think !"

No backlash here either, but perhaps some of you younger guys could PM him some advice? Personal opinion, I started "swinging" at 17, had a break for a marriage and then carried on, maturity doesnt come with age, anyone that thinks that is....immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Many teens could not hack it here, many misguidedly think it;s a place for an easy shag. Neither of those qualities are by any stretch of the imagintaion exclusive to youngsters though."

I tend to agree with you there. On another site a 68 year old man was complaining, he was on the site for three days and couldn't believe he hadn't emptied his sacs!

Don't think he'll last long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Many teens could not hack it here, many misguidedly think it;s a place for an easy shag. Neither of those qualities are by any stretch of the imagintaion exclusive to youngsters though.

I tend to agree with you there. On another site a 68 year old man was complaining, he was on the site for three days and couldn't believe he hadn't emptied his sacs!

Don't think he'll last long! "

Haha bless him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get shy lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

Find any thread on this subject and you will probably find MadChick stating how she thinks teens should behave (not sure what happens if they think clubbing and boozing isn't for them) and why they are not suited to the swinging scene. I can fully understand her personal preference although I do find her near vitriolic youngsters have no place in swinging stance a little extreme...

"

My post was MY opinion, as stated.

Gosh, horror, we are allowed opinions on this site and especially in open forum.

I accept others personal preference, as they accept mine.

If someone can't accept the fact that posters have differing opinions, then maybe they are not mature enough to be swingers, because, as we all know, swingers have differing preferences, different choices, and differing morals and ethics where swinging is concerned.

As someone previously stated, the young lady who swings is just that...... female and it's a dam sight easier for females on here (on any site) than for any male, regardless of his age.

But do I personally think that a 19 year old should swing...... No, I don't.

But...... if anyone reads my previous post, I actually did say that I do wonder why teens join.

Because, I don't understand what drives them to join!

Each to their own....... But the main reason I don't and won't swing with youngsters is because my oldest is 25... I couldn't swing with anyone my childrens age or younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand what drives a teen (cus thats what he is) to join this site.

To swing, IMHO, you need:

A very thick skin

The ability to disassociate real life and swinging

The ability to keep emotion out of meets

Life experience

Sexual experience

The ability to interact with all walks of life and all ages

The ability to talk crap at socials and with meets

The ability to be witty/charming/sexy and interesting all at the same time

The ability to perform on demand

(Ok this is a bit tongue in cheek but no less true)

I personally think that 18-25 year olds should be out, going to uni, getting d*unk, hanging about with their mates, swilling beer and eating pizza, leaving their clothes on their bedroom floors and making their mothers roll their eyes and making their fathers tut tut at every second sentence.

You meen i've got another 3 years of doing this?

I do that with my teenager........ and I would be so disappointed if he wanted to come onto a swinging site thinking it was an easy way to get an older woman to shag him, in fact, I'd box his bloody ears.

But, my opinion aside, and getting back to the original question:

Do I think 19 is too young to be on a swinging site........

Hell YES

"

+1 funny how you can spot us mums with the older kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hello there everyone, ive come on here looking for an older woman for some fun, im a very very horny lad, but is 19 just too young for everyone on here xxx

let me point out something to you....

no. of words in this "whinge"..... 32

no. of words in your profile ..... 26

hear is my rule of thumb when it comes to help......

if you spend more words on "whinge" than you are on "profile" (which is suppose to be your shop window to the world), you are not doing a great job to help yourself..... "

You counted?!

You have WAAAAAAAYY too much time on your hands!

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"

Find any thread on this subject and you will probably find MadChick stating how she thinks teens should behave (not sure what happens if they think clubbing and boozing isn't for them) and why they are not suited to the swinging scene. I can fully understand her personal preference although I do find her near vitriolic youngsters have no place in swinging stance a little extreme...

My post was MY opinion, as stated.

Gosh, horror, we are allowed opinions on this site and especially in open forum.

I accept others personal preference, as they accept mine.

If someone can't accept the fact that posters have differing opinions, then maybe they are not mature enough to be swingers, because, as we all know, swingers have differing preferences, different choices, and differing morals and ethics where swinging is concerned.

As someone previously stated, the young lady who swings is just that...... female and it's a dam sight easier for females on here (on any site) than for any male, regardless of his age.

But do I personally think that a 19 year old should swing...... No, I don't.

But...... if anyone reads my previous post, I actually did say that I do wonder why teens join.

Because, I don't understand what drives them to join!

Each to their own....... But the main reason I don't and won't swing with youngsters is because my oldest is 25... I couldn't swing with anyone my childrens age or younger."

Help me out here.

I left home at sixteen, and moved a long way away to the big city.

I merrily shagged anything with a pulse that came my way. I didn't give a toss for marital status or whether other partners knew or not. Like somebody up the thread I discovered contact mags, and discovered that some couples were keen on the younger man thing.

Somewhere along the way (I think from a mate in a band with me) I discovered that some of those people who didn't mind if I made smiles with the female half on a Tuesday night when the kids were at youth club (honestly...) might be swingers.

I'm not sure if I was a swinger. I don't know if they were. I'm not sure it was relevant. I was just being a randy, hormonal male who adored the fact that people fancied me and were willing to let me into their bedrooms or back seats (or the ladies toilet of a bar in Covent Garden or.....)

The Op is on here. There's nowhere near enough info to figure out if he'll survive the experience or get what he wants. I don't think there can be a hard and fast rule about when you're ready...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Are we posting when we got into swinging....18 here

Are we discussing whether an internet site is going to be much use to a 19 year old...

See i agree with part of what maddie says,but for different reasons...at 19 i think the OP is better off swinging out there...sites like this have an older age range...my personal opinion is its because us old farts cant do the pulling in clubs anymore...not because of looks,but inclination.

If you have the babysitter sorted and a free night you want something more guaranteed than the hit and miss pulling we were doing 20 years ago.

But that was part of learning about life,sex what worked,what didnt...experience the OP cant get online.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Call me old and cynical if you wish but knowing it is easier to pull a 'bird' down the local on a Friday night and get a shag than getting a shag on a swinging site, it does make me wonder how many 'youngsters' join with specific fantasies, ie, the older woman, couples etc..... thinking it's a sure fire, easy way to get laid.

It's hard not to tar all with the same brush, but maybe I come from the hard core, old school of swinging where it's a lifestyle. After all, 99% of my friends are swingers, we go to clubs, parties, we have set rules, morals, ethics and choices. We won't play with cheaters and we have specific fantasies that are currently being ticked off..... but for US, this is not a once in a blue moon, we fancy a bit of action, type of goal........ it's our lifestyle.

We are swingers.

Not hardened by any means..... but swingers through and through.

To ME, a massive percentage of the youngsters join, not because they are swingers but because they are looking for an easy way.

Mind you...... that can be said for alot of single men.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Call me old and cynical if you wish but knowing it is easier to pull a 'bird' down the local on a Friday night and get a shag than getting a shag on a swinging site, it does make me wonder how many 'youngsters' join with specific fantasies, ie, the older woman, couples etc..... thinking it's a sure fire, easy way to get laid.

It's hard not to tar all with the same brush, but maybe I come from the hard core, old school of swinging where it's a lifestyle. After all, 99% of my friends are swingers, we go to clubs, parties, we have set rules, morals, ethics and choices. We won't play with cheaters and we have specific fantasies that are currently being ticked off..... but for US, this is not a once in a blue moon, we fancy a bit of action, type of goal........ it's our lifestyle.

We are swingers.

Not hardened by any means..... but swingers through and through.

To ME, a massive percentage of the youngsters join, not because they are swingers but because they are looking for an easy way.

Mind you...... that can be said for alot of single men.

"

You dont need to be 19 not to be using the site for reasons that disagree with your definition of swinging.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

You dont need to be 19 not to be using the site for reasons that disagree with your definition of swinging."

I couldn't agree more, but I personally wonder if that is why the majority of youngsters join.

Also, I can't do the younger than my kids scenario.

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Call me old and cynical if you wish but knowing it is easier to pull a 'bird' down the local on a Friday night and get a shag than getting a shag on a swinging site"

I actually disagree with that. I think it's easier to go down to your local cheesy nightclub and get a snog off a random girl, but in my experience, it's actually quite difficult to pull a random, go back home and have mind-blowing sex.

However, it's something that I've had great fun doing on swinging sites.

As to the original question from the OP. Is 19 too young? No I don't think it is. However, your options will be limited to girls your own age and/or older women who are specifically after what you're looking for.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Call me old and cynical if you wish but knowing it is easier to pull a 'bird' down the local on a Friday night and get a shag than getting a shag on a swinging site, it does make me wonder how many 'youngsters' join with specific fantasies, ie, the older woman, couples etc..... thinking it's a sure fire, easy way to get laid.

It's hard not to tar all with the same brush, but maybe I come from the hard core, old school of swinging where it's a lifestyle.

"

You are assuming the lad thinks it will be an easy lay on here and also assume that he doesn't want the same lifestyle.

To the OP...your age will suit some, and not others.

I think if you have the right attitude and know what swinging entails then I am sure you will find some fun, whatever your age.

Good luck.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I started in the scene when I was 23....I am now 30.

Personally I would say I met more people in my 20s that were looking for the young guy fantasy than I have in last 2 years.

19 I agree could be a bit young but there are still people that might play if they like you. So keep your head up and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can join this site as long as your 18 or over, so no I don't think 19 is too young. There are woman that like young guys, its just a question of finding them and hoping your their type.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just take it as you find it... hold onto to your integrity, never compromise and stand firm.

some would treat a single guy like a performing seal, never allow that..... a wank is better..

good luck

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