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By *sagent OP   Man
over a year ago

In the ether

I ha e a lady friend that would like to attend a club but wants to explore before we think of playing. What can we expect if it is our first visit please? Don't wish to scare her off going as we think we'd love the scene once we get into it. Could end up a couples profile

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Unlike the common conception that clubs are wall to wall orgy as soon as you walk through the door they're actually nothing like that at all.

Most clubs will have a social area that is no different from a bar or pub on a Friday/Saturday night, although with possibly better dress standards.

There is absolutely no expectation or pressure to play if you don't want to and although some clubs do have a dress down policy after a certain time, there are many where you're not expected to get undressed unless in the play areas.

Any club worth it's salt will happily give you a tour on arrival and advise you on etiquette etc.

My advice to you would be, go along with an open mind, feel free to say a polite no if you aren't interested in playing with people you chat to, and equally to accept a polite no graciously if you get turned down.

Most of all though have fun

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By *sagent OP   Man
over a year ago

In the ether

Many thanks. Think she is worried that it would be an orgy of body beautiful women and she would be inadequate. Told her how gorgeous she is and I would look after her but it is that first step

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Many thanks. Think she is worried that it would be an orgy of body beautiful women and she would be inadequate. Told her how gorgeous she is and I would look after her but it is that first step "

Another common misconception, you get people of all ages, shapes, sizes, backgrounds attending clubs.

It IS a big step, and that first time is daunting, but in my experience clubs are friendly and welcoming and can be a lot of fun

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It depends if your lady friend is a TV or not (just reading your verifications), some clubs have special Ts/Tv nights you might prefer.

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By *sagent OP   Man
over a year ago

In the ether

No all lady

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Go too Cupid’s on a wed night it couples only no pressure from single men

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"I ha e a lady friend that would like to attend a club but wants to explore before we think of playing. What can we expect if it is our first visit please? Don't wish to scare her off going as we think we'd love the scene once we get into it. Could end up a couples profile"

Checkout the reviews on here for AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent.

Think chilled nightclub atmosphere downstairs with play area upstairs when you feel ready. All new members get a tour round and there is no pressure to do anything except have a good night out.

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