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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same?" For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key"." Or a skeleton | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same?" Yes they should but they're not. Even in swinging this attitude exists. It'll take centuries to change, if it ever does. There are people who can think independently and see past this but not many. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key"." A man just needs to fuck lots of women. My brother in law's nickname was stud because he fucked any woman he could get his hands on. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key"." Very true. I'd suggest a stud at a club or party night would be able to perform multiple times, be physically attractive and capable of multiple ejaculations. Whereas if a woman wanted to be a slut in the same situations, all she'd have to do is not stand up, or close her legs. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? Yes they should but they're not. Even in swinging this attitude exists. It'll take centuries to change, if it ever does. There are people who can think independently and see past this but not many." Can't say I've ever encountered this attitude in swinging. My default assumption would be that the female of the couple had roughly as many partners as the male half of the couple... It would be rather strange to look for a couple where the woman was less experienced and the man was more so! | |||
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"What the hell does it make me????? A slud? Stut? No way any woman should be called a slut because she likes sex. " I don't know what a slud is either. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key"." I agree with this except there's another side to it. There was a study that found most online 'slut shaming' is done by other women. In my opinion, the reason is that sluts are a threat to whores. Whereas the average man would love a slut and resent a whore. | |||
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"Controversial opinion but - I guess being a stud is more of an achievement because it’s 1628262939373728 times harder for a man to pull a woman, than it is vice versa " Also true! Lol  | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? Yes they should but they're not. Even in swinging this attitude exists. It'll take centuries to change, if it ever does. There are people who can think independently and see past this but not many. Can't say I've ever encountered this attitude in swinging. My default assumption would be that the female of the couple had roughly as many partners as the male half of the couple... It would be rather strange to look for a couple where the woman was less experienced and the man was more so! " Swingers still make assumptions about women that they don't make about men in our experience. I think I might lag behind Mr N in number of partners but neither of us can actually recall exactly how many we've both had. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". Very true. I'd suggest a stud at a club or party night would be able to perform multiple times, be physically attractive and capable of multiple ejaculations. Whereas if a woman wanted to be a slut in the same situations, all she'd have to do is not stand up, or close her legs. " Yeah it's like you just read all mtly verifications  | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key"." Wow. This entire thread. This reply. Eye opener and block list additions  | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same?" Google ‘Jim Jefferies sluts and studs’. You’ll get the perfect explanation  | |||
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"Nothing wrong with being a slut "Correct but how can we get more of them in our society? | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". Wow. This entire thread. This reply. Eye opener and block list additions "Did he live near Glasgow then? | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key"." And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word." It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word." Yay, I was reading the responses wondering why no one had made this point. Some women might find studs attractive, I think sluts are amazing! | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! " True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. " Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. Yay, I was reading the responses wondering why no one had made this point. Some women might find studs attractive, I think sluts are amazing!" I find men who think they are studs are often extremely underwhelming. Slut, for me has submissive connotations and therefore doesn't apply to me,regardless of how many men I may or may not have fucked. Plus a guy that sleeps with alot of women, whether he is any good or not, is considered a stud. A woman, especially if she is a good fuck, need only sleep with a very small number of men, but is called a slut because she likes it and it shows. Or even just because she doesn't want to fuck you! | |||
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said humourously.Although remember it is also a word used by people who have been cheated on by others outside the immediate relationship.So it has a few connotations. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though. "I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap! 
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. " I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners. "Slut is in the same category as "wanker" for me. I often wonder what people think is insulting or offensive about being a wanker. Not sure that whore could be so daily reclaimed though. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners. "I have actually had more slut shaming from women on here than anyone else, anywhere else. I was quite shocked by that... in the beginning  | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. "You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners.
I have actually had more slut shaming from women on here than anyone else, anywhere else. I was quite shocked by that... in the beginning "They are probably whores | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners.
Slut is in the same category as "wanker" for me. I often wonder what people think is insulting or offensive about being a wanker. Not sure that whore could be so daily reclaimed though. "I like the word wanker to be honest! Not a bad word. Although it is used by drivers insulting other drivers all the time! | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic. "Yes I do. Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said. I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners.
Slut is in the same category as "wanker" for me. I often wonder what people think is insulting or offensive about being a wanker. Not sure that whore could be so daily reclaimed though.
I like the word wanker to be honest!
Not a bad word.
Although it is used by drivers insulting other drivers all the time! "And people who carry briefcases | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! True, but what's your opinion on 'reclaiming' words? The actual definition of slut is inherently neutral. The negativity comes from the intent of how it is used. I’m all for reclaiming words! I personally don’t see “slut” or “whore” as an insult, sadly plenty do, as it’s used regularly to insult women, even other women use it! There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners.
I have actually had more slut shaming from women on here than anyone else, anywhere else. I was quite shocked by that... in the beginning "I’ve had a bit from women too, like you, I was shocked in the beginning! Not anymore! | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! " Yes "Fat stud", "Dirty stud", "black stud", "fucking stud" dont have as many negative connotations in a lot of people's minds. I quite like talking dirty but generally try and stay away from terms like slut, as oftentimes someone will have a specific word or two that they really don't like and I might not know. I try to see slut as a celebratory word, and I'm happier to call myself a slut than a stud for sleeping with a lot of people. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! Yes "Fat stud", "Dirty stud", "black stud", "fucking stud" dont have as many negative connotations in a lot of people's minds. I quite like talking dirty but generally try and stay away from terms like slut, as oftentimes someone will have a specific word or two that they really don't like and I might not know. I try to see slut as a celebratory word, and I'm happier to call myself a slut than a stud for sleeping with a lot of people. " True! Not many people would insult someone with the words “Fat stud”, if any! Fat slut on the other hand would be popular. Slut is so much better than stud! So you go ahead and call yourself a slut! | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. "Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect. | |||
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" True! Not many people would insult someone with the words “Fat stud”, if any! Fat slut on the other hand would be popular. Slut is so much better than stud! So you go ahead and call yourself a slut! "Sounds like the inspiration I need to update my profile. I once said, at a poly relationship group meeting I went to with a friend, that I'm more of a slut than poly. Didn't go down to well, although it got a chuckle. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! Yes "Fat stud", "Dirty stud", "black stud", "fucking stud" dont have as many negative connotations in a lot of people's minds. I quite like talking dirty but generally try and stay away from terms like slut, as oftentimes someone will have a specific word or two that they really don't like and I might not know. I try to see slut as a celebratory word, and I'm happier to call myself a slut than a stud for sleeping with a lot of people. True! Not many people would insult someone with the words “Fat stud”, if any! Fat slut on the other hand would be popular. Slut is so much better than stud! So you go ahead and call yourself a slut! "You could be a beautiful slut and have a horrid inside and a fat slut on the outside but a nice person on the inner but every is attracted to different people and it’s back to the old chestnut with fab that they would fuck them but not date them. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect."Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity. There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! Yes "Fat stud", "Dirty stud", "black stud", "fucking stud" dont have as many negative connotations in a lot of people's minds. I quite like talking dirty but generally try and stay away from terms like slut, as oftentimes someone will have a specific word or two that they really don't like and I might not know. I try to see slut as a celebratory word, and I'm happier to call myself a slut than a stud for sleeping with a lot of people. True! Not many people would insult someone with the words “Fat stud”, if any! Fat slut on the other hand would be popular. Slut is so much better than stud! So you go ahead and call yourself a slut! You could be a beautiful slut and have a horrid inside and a fat slut on the outside but a nice person on the inner but every is attracted to different people and it’s back to the old chestnut with fab that they would fuck them but not date them."Yes you could be. But again, slut is used both positively and negatively. When is the word stud used negatively? I’ve had enough abusive messages from men on here to know that plenty of them use the word “slut” as a derogatory term to describe a promiscuous woman, which is ironic when previously they’re asking to fuck. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect.
Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity.
There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female.
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect.
Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity.
There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female.
That analogy is a real world analogy. Yeah on here obviously it is embraced and celebrated but that is not the case in reality. I just prefer to give more honest answers than sugarcoating them."It’s a real world analogy used by men to praise their promiscuity whilst judging women for being promiscuous. I can’t understand why someone would be in a site like this, whilst agreeing with an analogy like that. The times I’ve seen that analogy being used are by men on comments towards women talking about being sexual and being judged for it. Being sexual both male & female is being praised more and more, but there will always be people who think women should be virgins until married and whilst they have multiple sexual partners women shouldn’t. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect.
Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity.
There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female.
That analogy is a real world analogy. Yeah on here obviously it is embraced and celebrated but that is not the case in reality. I just prefer to give more honest answers than sugarcoating them.
It’s a real world analogy used by men to praise their promiscuity whilst judging women for being promiscuous.
I can’t understand why someone would be in a site like this, whilst agreeing with an analogy like that.
The times I’ve seen that analogy being used are by men on comments towards women talking about being sexual and being judged for it.
Being sexual both male & female is being praised more and more, but there will always be people who think women should be virgins until married and whilst they have multiple sexual partners women shouldn’t. "Ok, next time I say something tongue in cheek, I'm gonna put brackets after it to let you know. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect.
Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity.
There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female.
That analogy is a real world analogy. Yeah on here obviously it is embraced and celebrated but that is not the case in reality. I just prefer to give more honest answers than sugarcoating them.
It’s a real world analogy used by men to praise their promiscuity whilst judging women for being promiscuous.
I can’t understand why someone would be in a site like this, whilst agreeing with an analogy like that.
The times I’ve seen that analogy being used are by men on comments towards women talking about being sexual and being judged for it.
Being sexual both male & female is being praised more and more, but there will always be people who think women should be virgins until married and whilst they have multiple sexual partners women shouldn’t. Ok, next time I say something tongue in cheek, I'm gonna put brackets after it to let you know. "Don’t try & backtrack now! You know you meant it really. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect.
Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity.
There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female.
That analogy is a real world analogy. Yeah on here obviously it is embraced and celebrated but that is not the case in reality. I just prefer to give more honest answers than sugarcoating them.
It’s a real world analogy used by men to praise their promiscuity whilst judging women for being promiscuous.
I can’t understand why someone would be in a site like this, whilst agreeing with an analogy like that.
The times I’ve seen that analogy being used are by men on comments towards women talking about being sexual and being judged for it.
Being sexual both male & female is being praised more and more, but there will always be people who think women should be virgins until married and whilst they have multiple sexual partners women shouldn’t. Ok, next time I say something tongue in cheek, I'm gonna put brackets after it to let you know.
Don’t try & backtrack now!
You know you meant it really. "As discussed on another thread, things fly over your head like planes. | |||
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"Why is it is you're female and enjoy lots of sex you are classified as a slut but if your male you are a stud? Shouldn't both males and females be the same? For a man to be a stud it requires a lot of attributes. A woman just needs to be a woman really, if they are reasonably attractive it is easy for them. There is a saying that goes "A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock, but a key that can open many locks is a master key". And there’s another saying that goes right after that one... “A pencil sharpener that has sharpened many pencils is a fantastic sharpener, a pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes useless & needs to be thrown away.” Using shitty analogy’s to essentially praise a mans promiscuity and put down a woman’s is a bit childish in my opinion. Well hello my number 1 fan that doesn't have the same ring to it. It's like comparing getting a job as a Doctor to a checkout girl though.
I like to challenge those who talk a lot of crap, so you’ll find me quoting you a bit, since you do talk a good amount of crap!
It doesn’t have the same ring to it because it negatively refers to a mans promiscuity & I’m guessing you don’t like that.
Negatively referring to a woman’s promiscuity is like a beautiful song to your ears though isn’t it. You think I'd be on a swinging site if I was misogynistic.
Yes I do.
Since I have come across many on here who could be considered mysoginstic by things they’ve said.
I doubt there are many misogynists who are celibate. Well you couldn't be more wrong! I don't like the word slut or whore and avoid couples that like degrading the lady. I treat all women I meet with the utmost respect.
Yet you use an analogy that is negative towards a woman’s promiscuity & basically praises a males promiscuity.
There is nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners, male or female.
That analogy is a real world analogy. Yeah on here obviously it is embraced and celebrated but that is not the case in reality. I just prefer to give more honest answers than sugarcoating them.
It’s a real world analogy used by men to praise their promiscuity whilst judging women for being promiscuous.
I can’t understand why someone would be in a site like this, whilst agreeing with an analogy like that.
The times I’ve seen that analogy being used are by men on comments towards women talking about being sexual and being judged for it.
Being sexual both male & female is being praised more and more, but there will always be people who think women should be virgins until married and whilst they have multiple sexual partners women shouldn’t. Ok, next time I say something tongue in cheek, I'm gonna put brackets after it to let you know.
Don’t try & backtrack now!
You know you meant it really. As discussed on another thread, things fly over your head like planes. "That lines getting old now, you need to think of a creative new one. | |||
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"Does ‘slut’ still have negative connotations? We see it as a celebratory word. It does. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been called “fat slut” “dirty slut” “black slut” “fucking slut” after politely rejecting someone on here. I doubt many women would use the word “stud” in an offensive manner towards men! Yes "Fat stud", "Dirty stud", "black stud", "fucking stud" dont have as many negative connotations in a lot of people's minds. I quite like talking dirty but generally try and stay away from terms like slut, as oftentimes someone will have a specific word or two that they really don't like and I might not know. I try to see slut as a celebratory word, and I'm happier to call myself a slut than a stud for sleeping with a lot of people. True! Not many people would insult someone with the words “Fat stud”, if any! Fat slut on the other hand would be popular. Slut is so much better than stud! So you go ahead and call yourself a slut! You could be a beautiful slut and have a horrid inside and a fat slut on the outside but a nice person on the inner but every is attracted to different people and it’s back to the old chestnut with fab that they would fuck them but not date them.
Yes you could be.
But again, slut is used both positively and negatively.
When is the word stud used negatively? I’ve had enough abusive messages from men on here to know that plenty of them use the word “slut” as a derogatory term to describe a promiscuous woman, which is ironic when previously they’re asking to fuck.
"Me personally I don’t use the slut word I have others  I know some men and women like it and use it and some hate it, stud? To me it seems like a cheesy name for a guy who’s popular with the ladies. | |||
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