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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

"

Sorry, your not wrong but your not right either.

Some ladies have a single profile but may still be married or have a partner so you really need to check the facts of WHAT SHE WANTS before you assume she wants a one on one standalone meet.

Complicated I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she's in the wrong for insulting you. Makes you wonder if you said yes, hubby would turn up with an excuse why his wife wernt there

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Does she/they have verifications that say they are a couple? Does she have any verifications at all?

It's not your fault whatsoever but you have to do your homework on people and not let your cock rule your head. Sometimes when you take a step back and focus on a profile the tell tale signed all of a sudden jump out.

Block and move on my friend.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

"
No, at least you would of known it was gonna be a Straight MFM though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

"

No you're not. Report them for choosing the wrong sex. They're not a single female. They're being dishonest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"I think she's in the wrong for insulting you. Makes you wonder if you said yes, hubby would turn up with an excuse why his wife wernt there "

This. More than likely just a guy in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

Sorry, your not wrong but your not right either.

Some ladies have a single profile but may still be married or have a partner so you really need to check the facts of WHAT SHE WANTS before you assume she wants a one on one standalone meet.

Complicated I know. "

Sorry, but single people are not allowed to advertise to meet as a couple. A single profile should be meeting on their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

"

but your status just made me lose all sympathy with you...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You're a bloke.....

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

No you're not. Report them for choosing the wrong sex. They're not a single female. They're being dishonest."

This

Advertising a meet as a single fem then changing the goal posts is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she/they have verifications that say they are a couple? Does she have any verifications at all?

It's not your fault whatsoever but you have to do your homework on people and not let your cock rule your head. Sometimes when you take a step back and focus on a profile the tell tale signed all of a sudden jump out.

Block and move on my friend. "

We don't have to do homework to ascertain whether someone has chosen a single profile for couple's meets.

I have never asked a man if he meets with his wife or girlfriend as he shouldn't be, if he's contacting me on a single male profile.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

Sorry, your not wrong but your not right either.

Some ladies have a single profile but may still be married or have a partner so you really need to check the facts of WHAT SHE WANTS before you assume she wants a one on one standalone meet.

Complicated I know.

Sorry, but single people are not allowed to advertise to meet as a couple. A single profile should be meeting on their own. "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So...I just messaged a woman (single profile) who's looking for a meet tonight, she then said her and her husband would be free at 11??

I said "oh, sorry, no thanks, thought I'd be just meeting you"

I then got called a fag???

And it was my fault apparently because I've got couples on my profile?

But surely if I message someone I think I'm meeting as a single female???

It's not me in the wrong is it???

Sorry, your not wrong but your not right either.

Some ladies have a single profile but may still be married or have a partner so you really need to check the facts of WHAT SHE WANTS before you assume she wants a one on one standalone meet.

Complicated I know. "

Sorry but unless she says specifically on her profile that hylubby goes to then the OP was in the right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not. But you ARE in the wrong for naming and shaming on your profile OP. Big no no and a red flag for a lot of Fabbers

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street


"Maybe not. But you ARE in the wrong for naming and shaming on your profile OP. Big no no and a red flag for a lot of Fabbers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no threat..

he spelled elizabeth wrong

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Account suspended .... lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street


"And surprise surprise......blocked by the OP "

Snap x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Maybe not. But you ARE in the wrong for naming and shaming on your profile OP. Big no no and a red flag for a lot of Fabbers"

Bingo.

I do sometimes (rarely) meet someone with my FWB, but I'm clear about that from the outset, and it's very much the exception not the rule (and where it happens I or he will usually be approaching, not the other way around, and it's clear from message one). Barring that, if I've agreed to meet you, you'll be meeting me, as I'm not a couple.

But yes, naming and shaming is trashy and against the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And surprise surprise......blocked by the OP

Snap x "

I’ve just removed my post as it’s been suggested his profile may have been suspended. Hopefully so. Totally out of order.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe not. But you ARE in the wrong for naming and shaming on your profile OP. Big no no and a red flag for a lot of Fabbers

Bingo.

I do sometimes (rarely) meet someone with my FWB, but I'm clear about that from the outset, and it's very much the exception not the rule (and where it happens I or he will usually be approaching, not the other way around, and it's clear from message one). Barring that, if I've agreed to meet you, you'll be meeting me, as I'm not a couple.

But yes, naming and shaming is trashy and against the rules. "

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Does she/they have verifications that say they are a couple? Does she have any verifications at all?

It's not your fault whatsoever but you have to do your homework on people and not let your cock rule your head. Sometimes when you take a step back and focus on a profile the tell tale signed all of a sudden jump out.

Block and move on my friend.

We don't have to do homework to ascertain whether someone has chosen a single profile for couple's meets.

I have never asked a man if he meets with his wife or girlfriend as he shouldn't be, if he's contacting me on a single male profile. "

Not really sure why you have reply & quoted what I have have said? You either didn't read my post correctly or the OP's post correctly. I don't really understand what you are saying tbh.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"Does she/they have verifications that say they are a couple? Does she have any verifications at all?

It's not your fault whatsoever but you have to do your homework on people and not let your cock rule your head. Sometimes when you take a step back and focus on a profile the tell tale signed all of a sudden jump out.

Block and move on my friend.

"
Very sound advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And surprise surprise......blocked by the OP

Snap x "

I think his accounts been suspended

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I think she's in the wrong for insulting you. Makes you wonder if you said yes, hubby would turn up with an excuse why his wife wernt there

This. More than likely just a guy in the first place. "
m

Something not ringing true. A single woman calling you a Fag?? Sounds like a guy doing the messaging to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right or wrong it doesn't realy matter, but there is no need to be rude or abusive, especially over something so silly ??

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You are not in the wrong as whilst you messaged about meeting, you have the right to refuse it the meet criteria are not to your liking.

There was no reason for insults from her and I hope you did lower yourself to her standards.

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